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Language of Love with Dr. Laura Berman
Language of Love is a podcast about love and intimacy in all its forms and the relationships that shape our lives. Hosted by renowned relationship therapist and bestselling author Dr. Laura Berman, the show explores romantic partnership, family, friendship, desire, healing, grief, and self-connection through a mind, body, and spiritual lens. Featuring expert conversations, listener Q&A, and real-life coaching moments, Language of love offers, honest insight, and practical wisdom for navigating…
Episodes
Language of Love with Dr. Laura BermanTrapped by Love: Inside the Psychology of a Trauma Bond with Dr. Nadine Macaluso
There’s a kind of relationship that makes you question your own sanity. From the outside, everything looks perfect. The grand gestures. The relentless pursuit…
Language of Love with Dr. Laura BermanCrying Out Loud: What Losing My Son Taught Me About Grief, Healing, and Choosing Life
I've spent more than 30 years as a therapist helping people navigate grief, trauma, and some of the hardest experiences of their lives. But when my 16-year-old…
Language of Love with Dr. Laura BermanWhy Am I Like This? Breaking the Patterns That Sabotage Your Love Life with Sabrina Zohar
Have you ever looked back at a relationship and thought, How did I end up here AGAIN? Maybe you keep falling for emotionally unavailable people. Maybe one…
Language of Love with Dr. Laura BermanADHD in Women: The Symptoms No One Talks About with Dr. Jolene Brighten
What if some of the things you've spent your whole life beating yourself up about, like being disorganized, procrastinating, forgetting things, or feeling…
Language of Love with Dr. Laura BermanLet’s Fcking Date: Serena Kerrigan on What She Got Wrong About Confidence
Serena Kerrigan built a brand around confidence. She became known as the Queen of Confidence, turned her dating life into a live show during COVID, went on 50…
Language of Love with Dr. Laura BermanWhy You Chase People Who Don’t Want You with Laura Berman
You meet someone kind to you. They’re consistent. They call when they say they will. They make it clear they like you. They actually show up. And somehow…
Language of Love with Dr. Laura BermanI Love My Partner… So Why Does Something Feel Missing? Laura Berman
Your relationship is going well. The bills are paid. Good sex is there. The laughter comes easily. You love your partner. You’re building a life together that…
Language of Love with Dr. Laura BermanWhat We're Getting Wrong About Raising Boys and Girls with Dr. Shefali Tsabary
Something is happening to our children, and most of us are not paying close enough attention. The algorithm is reaching them. Predators are reaching them…
Language of Love with Dr. Laura BermanIs it Intuition or Anxiety? Here’s How to Tell with Laura Berman
You know that feeling when something inside you says, Don’t do this. Get out. Something’s wrong. Sometimes that feeling is your intuition picking up on…
Language of Love with Dr. Laura BermanButterflies or Red Flags: How to Tell the Difference with Laura Berman
Butterflies or Red Flags: How to Tell the Difference with Laura Berman You meet someone and the chemistry is immediate. You can’t stop thinking about them…
Language of Love with Dr. Laura BermanYou Have Everything You Wanted. So Why Don’t You Feel Okay? With Koya Webb
What happens when you finally have the life you worked so hard for and you realize you’re not okay? My guest Koya Webb knows this contradiction intimately…
Language of Love with Dr. Laura BermanHow Long Do You Keep Trying When Your Partner Won’t Change? Laura Berman
What do you do when your partner keeps telling you they love you and want the relationship to work… but you’re the only one actually doing anything to make it…
Language of Love with Dr. Laura BermanAre You Choosing Them… or Waiting to Be Chosen? Laura Berman
There’s a subtle moment in dating when everything can start to change. At first, you’re paying attention to them. Do I like this person? Do I feel good around…
Language of Love with Dr. Laura BermanWhat Women Were Never Told About Sex, Hormones & Menopause with Maria Sophocles
What if some of what you’ve been told about your sexual body, especially as you get older, is wrong? For decades, women have gone to doctors with questions…
Language of Love with Dr. Laura BermanWhy your partner's porn use hurts so much with Laura Berman
Few discoveries can shake your confidence quite like finding out your partner watches pornography. Suddenly, it's easy to wonder if you're enough. You start…
Language of Love with Dr. Laura BermanWhy Trying Harder Makes Erections Harder (to Achieve) with Laura Berman
You're with someone you're attracted to. Things are going well. You want to have sex. And then your body doesn't respond the way you expected. Within seconds…
Language of Love with Dr. Laura BermanWhat the Kink Community Knows About Intimacy That Most Couples Don’t with Amanda Dames
What if some of the people we think of as having the most unconventional sex lives are actually having some of the clearest conversations about intimacy?…
Language of Love with Dr. Laura BermanWhen Your Marriage Starts Feeling Like a Partnership Instead of a Love Story with Laura Berman
One day you look up and realize you're running a great household together... but you don't really feel like a couple anymore. You're getting the kids where…
Language of Love with Dr. Laura BermanThe Secret to Turning Her On (It's Not What You Think) with Laura Berman
For generations, we've been told that women simply have lower desire than men. It's one of the most common assumptions about relationships, and it's one of the…
Language of Love with Dr. Laura BermanThe Love Blocks Keeping You Stuck in the Same painful Relationship Patterns with Sanaiyah Gurnamal
Why do so many of us keep ending up in the same relationship with a different person? You tell yourself this time will be different. You've grown. You've…
Language of Love with Dr. Laura BermanIs Your Partner's Phone Coming Between You with Laura Berman
Technology has made it easier than ever to stay connected to everyone else. Ironically, it's also making it easier to disconnect from the person sitting right…
Language of Love with Dr. Laura BermanThe Real Reason Men Don’t Last Longer in Bed (And How to Fix It) with Laura Berman
Are you worried about lasting longer in bed? Or do you love someone who feels pressure to perform? Most men think lasting longer is about willpower. It's not…
Language of Love with Dr. Laura BermanWhat If Everything You Believe About Lasting Love Is Wrong? I Dr Sara Nasserzadeh
We've been taught to believe that love is something you fall into. That when you meet the right person, you'll just know. The chemistry will be undeniable. The…
Language of Love with Dr. Laura BermanWhy Being "Low-Maintenance" May Be Ruining Your Relationship with Laura Berman
Are you the "chill one"? The one who says yes to keep the peace? The one who goes along to get along... until you can't anymore? You pride yourself on being…
Language of Love with Dr. Laura BermanHow to Tell Your Partner What You Want in Bed (Without Killing the Mood) with Laura Berman
Most people would rather fake it than ask for what they actually want in bed. Not because they don't trust their partner, but because they don't trust their…
Language of Love with Dr. Laura BermanWhen the Life You Built No Longer Fits with Stacey Lindsay
One day you wake up and realize you've spent years building a life that everyone else applauds... and you're the only one wondering whether it still feels like…
Language of Love with Dr. Laura BermanUneven Desire and What to Do About It
The most common issue I see in relationships is uneven desire: One of you wants more sex, the other wants less. And suddenly what used to feel simple starts to…
Language of Love with Dr. Laura BermanWhen Intensity Isn't Intimacy: How to Spot Emotional Manipulation Early
Is it love or early manipulation? At the beginning of a relationship, everything can feel intoxicating. The attention. The intensity. The sense of being…
Language of Love with Dr. Laura BermanWhen the Life You Built Starts Speaking Back
There comes a point in life when the roles you've spent years perfecting no longer fit the way they once did. You’ve changed in a way that what once felt…
Language of Love with Dr. Laura BermanHow to Get Out of Your Head During Sex
Do you ever feel like you're observing yourself during sex instead of actually experiencing it? Maybe you're wondering how you look. Whether you're pleasing…
Language of Love with Dr. Laura BermanThe Missing Step in Healing Your Attachment Style
Have you ever found yourself reacting in a relationship and thinking, Why am I doing this again? Maybe you've read the books. Taken the attachment style…
Language of Love with Dr. Laura BermanRewilding: The Courage to Become Yourself Again
For years, Jane Green looked like she had it all. She was a bestselling author, a wife, a mother, and a woman who had built the kind of life many people spend…
Language of Love with Dr. Laura BermanIs it cheating... or not?
Late-night texting. Deep emotional conversations. A level of intimacy your partner shares with someone else that they no longer share with you. Nothing…
Language of Love with Dr. Laura BermanWhy Your Desire Disappeared (And How to Get It Back)
What if low libido is not a problem to fix, but a message your body is trying to send you? Most people assume desire disappearing means something is wrong…
Language of Love with Dr. Laura BermanThe Chemistry You’re Chasing Might Be the Problem
What if the electric spark you feel on a first date is not destiny, but your nervous system recognizing something familiar, and not necessarily healthy? That…
Language of Love with Dr. Laura BermanShe’s Not Pulling Away, She’s in Perimenooause
What if the distance growing in your relationship is not about love fading… but about a transition neither of you fully understands yet? Perimenopause is the…
Language of Love with Dr. Laura BermanWhat Most Women Wish Men Understood About Desire
What if the real secret to female arousal has nothing to do with technique… and everything to do with emotional attunement? Most people approach intimacy from…
Language of Love with Dr. Laura BermanYou Built the Life… But You Can’t Outrun Your Past
You can do everything “right.” Build the career. Earn the recognition. Create a life that looks successful from the outside. And still feel like something…
Language of Love with Dr. Laura BermanYou’re Allowed to Love Again After Loss
What happens when your heart begins to open again after loss… but guilt rushes in before desire even has a chance? For so many people, the idea of loving again…
Language of Love with Dr. Laura BermanWhy Desire Fades in Relationships (And How to Bring it Back)
If your sex life has slowed down… or feels like it disappeared altogether… it doesn’t mean the love is gone. What it usually means is something far more…
Language of Love with Dr. Laura BermanComing Home to Yourself After Trauma (Without Losing Who You Are)
What if healing isn’t about becoming someone new, but remembering who you were before you learned to silence parts of yourself just to feel safe, loved, or…
Language of Love with Dr. Laura BermanWhen One of You Shuts Down and the Other Feels Rejected
You’re trying to talk something through…and suddenly, one of you is gone. One of you can’t find the words.Shuts down. Goes quiet. And the other feels it…
Language of Love with Dr. Laura BermanYour Sexual Energy Isn’t Just for Sex
Your sexual energy isn’t just about sex.It’s the most powerful creative force you have. It fuels your focus.Your confidence.Your ability to take action and…
Language of Love with Dr. Laura BermanWhat To Do When You Know Something Needs to Change (But Don’t Exactly Know What or How)
What if the life you’re living… isn’t actually the life you want? Not because anything is “wrong.”But because something inside you is ready for more… and you…
Language of Love with Dr. Laura BermanHow to Get Over Fear of Rejection in the Bedroom
You love them, you're attracted to them, but the fear of hearing "not tonight" stops you from taking action or initiating intimacy. So you wait for them to…
Language of Love with Dr. Laura BermanThe Truth About Performance Anxiety (And What’s Really Happening)
Sex is one of the most vulnerable experiences you can have. You are naked, literally and emotionally. So how do you build sexual confidence? Most people think…
Language of Love with Dr. Laura BermanWhy Feeling Lost Might Mean You’re Becoming with Krista Williams and Lindsey Simcik
What if the confusion you’re feeling right now isn’t a sign that you’re lost… but a sign that you’re evolving? What if the “in-between” isn’t something to…
Language of Love with Dr. Laura BermanWhen You Want to Want Sex… But Don’t
What if mentally you want sex, you love your partner, you are attracted to them, but your body just will not respond? Arousal takes forever or does not happen…
Language of Love with Dr. Laura BermanThe Real Reason Why Women Fake It in Bed
How do you really know if a woman is faking it in bed, and what can you do about it? Most women will admit they’ve faked an orgasm at some point. And the truth…
Language of Love with Dr. Laura BermanAncient Traditions That Change How We Think About Sex with Nana Darkoa Sekyiamah
What if sexual freedom isn’t something we need to fight for, but something we’re being invited to remember? In this episode of The Language of Love…
Language of Love with Dr. Laura BermanWhat to Do When Keeping the Peace Costs You Yours
Have you ever kept quiet just to avoid ruining a good moment? Sometimes keeping the peace actually costs you your own peace. You stay silent to keep things…
Language of Love with Dr. Laura BermanThe Art of Being an Unforgettable Lover
How do you become the kind of lover she brags about to her best friend? What actually makes someone unforgettable in bed? If you want to drive a woman wild (or…
Language of Love with Dr. Laura BermanThe Key to Healing Anxiety (Hint: It’s Not in Your Mind) with Dr. Russell Kennedy
In this powerful Language of Love conversation, I sit down with Dr. Russell Kennedy, The Anxiety MD, to completely rethink how we deal with anxiety. Russell is…
Language of Love with Dr. Laura BermanWhen You Keep Fighting About The Same Thing
What happens when despite apologies given for something done wrong or after an argument, the same conflict keeps resurfacing again and again? The words are…
Language of Love with Dr. Laura BermanWhy the 5 Minutes After Intimacy Can Make or Break Your Relationship
Even when the sex itself is good, what you do in the five minutes after sex matters far more than most men realize and it can be the difference between a woman…
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Grief as Sacred Medicine with Bobbi Vogel
What if grief is not something to get over, but something meant to open us? What if the pain you are carrying is not a sign of weakness, but a doorway into…
Language of Love with Dr. Laura BermanWhen You’re Lonely in a “Good” Relationship
What happens when your partner is kind, loyal, and on paper seems like everything you should want, yet deep down, you feel unseen? In this Language of Love…
Language of Love with Dr. Laura BermanWhat Women really Need to Feel Turned On
Do you know the brain is a woman’s main sexual organ? So how do you unlock her mind before you try to turn on her body? Because even when everything seems…
Language of Love with Dr. Laura BermanLiving as an Empath in an Overwhelming World with Dr. Judith Orloff
Do you leave social gatherings feeling utterly drained, as if you've absorbed everyone else's stress, sadness, or tension? Do you find yourself constantly…
Language of Love with Dr. Laura BermanWhen You’re Not Fighting, But You’re Drifting Apart
Sometimes relationships don’t fall apart, they just grow quiet. You’re still together, still functioning, still sharing a life, but something feels off. The…