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Uneven Desire and What to Do About It
The most common issue I see in relationships is uneven desire: One of you wants more sex, the other wants less.
And suddenly what used to feel simple starts to feel like a negotiation neither of you asked for.
Because now every “not tonight” carries meaning. And every initiation carries pressure.
But what if the real issue is not incompatibility…What if it is the way meaning gets assigned to desire differences that turns connection into tension?
In this Language of Love Session, I respond to Marcus, who is trying to navigate uneven desire in a loving relationship without creating pressure…
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