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How to Get Over Fear of Rejection in the Bedroom
You love them, you're attracted to them, but the fear of hearing "not tonight" stops you from taking action or initiating intimacy. So you wait for them to make the first move. And then they feel undesired. Suddenly two people who love each other are trapped in a standoff, both feeling rejected, neither feeling seen.
In this Language of Love Session, I respond to Theo, who feels anxious initiating because of his fear of rejection. So he waits. It feels safer to avoid the risk. But over time, distance builds as his partner feels undesired. He feels on edge. And intimacy begins to feel heavy…
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