Let’s Fcking Date: Serena Kerrigan on What She Got Wrong About Confidence

Language of Love with Dr. Laura Berman · Oct 7, 2026 · 41m

Serena Kerrigan built a brand around confidence. She became known as the Queen of Confidence, turned her dating life into a live show during COVID, went on 50 virtual blind dates in front of a live audience.

Serena is now the author of Let’s F*cking Date: Become the Prize, Enjoy the Ride, and Never Settle Again, and this book comes from someone who has spent years dating very publicly while also having to take a pretty hard look at her own patterns.

At one point, she asked herself a question that became a turning point: Would I actually want to date me?

She was tired of attracting emotionally…