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When You Keep Fighting About The Same Thing
What happens when despite apologies given for something done wrong or after an argument, the same conflict keeps resurfacing again and again? The words are spoken, promises are made, and yet the hurt returns weeks later. Over time, “I’m sorry” can start to feel empty, leaving one or both partners feeling hopeless about whether real change is even possible.
In this Language of Love Session, I respond to Derek, a listener who feels stuck in this exact cycle. He and his partner apologize after fights, but nothing truly shifts, and the same emotional wounds keep reopening. Derek wants to…
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