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The Art of Charm
Explore social skills like charisma, confidence, body language and conversation. On The Art of Charm, co-founders AJ Harbinger and Johnny Dzubak break down the science of human behavior into practical skills, from owning a room and reading people to making a first impression and building real connection. Short Social Intelligence Briefings focus on one skill in about 15 minutes, and long-form interviews go deep with experts such as Joe Navarro, Chris Voss and Vanessa Van Edwards on body…
Episodes
The Art of Charm461: Anese Cavanaugh | Contagious Culture
Anese Cavanaugh (@anesecavanaugh) knows what it takes to make "busy" beautiful. She helps people and companies unlock leadership potential, create meaningful…
The Art of CharmFan Mail Friday #36 | Fashion Plate Banquet at the Memory Palace
Welcome to Fan Mail Friday #36! No jibber-jabber, just a short show where we answer Art of Charm listener mail and give out mini-lessons for the weekend! In…
The Art of Charm460: Stephen Mansfield | Building a Band of Brothers
Stephen Mansfield (@MansfieldWrites) strives to inspire men to form a Band of Brothers around themselves to help them perfect noble manhood in their lives. The…
The Art of Charm459: Duana Welch | Science-Based Dating
Dr. Duana Welch (@duanawelch) is known for applying social science to real-life relationship issues and is the author of Love Factually: 10 Proven Steps from I…
The Art of CharmFan Mail Friday #35 | Just Say No to Drug Myths
Welcome to Fan Mail Friday #35! No jibber-jabber, just a short show where we answer Art of Charm listener mail and give out mini-lessons for the weekend! In…
The Art of Charm458: Bob Arno | Pickpocket King
Bob Arno (@bambivalent) is a professional pickpocket who uses his powers for good. How? Find out in this episode of The Art of Charm! The Cheat Sheet: How does…
The Art of Charm457: Hugh Culver | Hero Habits
Hugh Culver (@HughCulver) teaches us how we can think better, plan smarter, and act now on what really matters by developing Hero Habits. The Cheat Sheet: The…
The Art of CharmFan Mail Friday #34 | Alt Girls, Nice Guys, and Bad Friends
Welcome to Fan Mail Friday #34! No jibber-jabber, just a short show where we answer Art of Charm listener mail and give out mini-lessons for the weekend! In…
The Art of Charm456: Lewis Howes | The School of Greatness
Lewis Howes (@LewisHowes) discusses his new book, The School of Greatness, and its framework for achieving real, sustainable, and repeatable success. The Cheat…
The Art of CharmBONUS: Kimberly Seltzer | How to Find a Therapist
Kimberly Seltzer (@SeltzerKimberly) gives us her five-step process for finding a therapist who is right for you. The Cheat Sheet: We all need help from time to…
The Art of Charm455: Alex Kouts | Getting Hired at a Startup
Alex Kouts (@akouts) returns to The Art of Charm to talk about how to get hired at a startup (and if the startup life might -- or might not -- be a good fit…
The Art of CharmFan Mail Friday #33 | Contrariwise Bedroom Superheroes
Welcome to Fan Mail Friday #33! No jibber-jabber, just a short show where we answer Art of Charm listener mail and give out mini-lessons for the weekend! In…
The Art of Charm454: Mark Manson | Unconditional Communication
Mark Manson (@iammarkmanson) is the author of Models: Attract Women Through Honesty, and he blogs to an audience of millions about psychology and personal…
The Art of Charm453: Zachary Stockill | Retroactive Jealousy
Zachary Stockill (@zfstockill) shows us how overcoming retroactive jealousy and possessiveness is as easy as learning to let go. The Cheat Sheet: All jealousy…
The Art of CharmFan Mail Friday #32 | Advice for the 25-Year-Old Virgin
Welcome to Fan Mail Friday #32! No jibber-jabber, just a short show where we answer Art of Charm listener mail and give out mini-lessons for the weekend! In…
The Art of Charm452: Neil Strauss | The Truth
Neil Strauss tells The Truth about past transgressions in his latest book, but it's more than just a head-cleaning confession -- it's an exploration of options…
The Art of Charm451: Amy Port | Heroic Public Speaking
If you can learn to tell a good story, you can captivate any audience -- whether as a public speaker, while interviewing for a job, or when you're on a date…
The Art of CharmFan Mail Friday #31 | Homemakers of the World Unite and Take Over
Welcome to Fan Mail Friday #31! No jibber-jabber, just a short show where we answer Art of Charm listener mail and give out mini-lessons for the weekend! In…
The Art of Charm450: Michael Port | Steal the Show
Every interaction is a performance -- whether you're speaking up in a meeting, pitching a client, negotiating a raise, or walking into a job interview. Michael…
The Art of Charm449: Amy Morin | Mentally Stronger
By recognizing in our own behavior what keeps us from being resilient against life's obstacles, we're empowered to stop the cycle and focus on what it takes to…
The Art of CharmFan Mail Friday #30 | Social Chops for Covert Ops
Welcome to Fan Mail Friday #30! No jibber-jabber, just a short show where we answer Art of Charm listener mail and give out mini-lessons for the weekend! In…
The Art of Charm448: Gary Vaynerchuk | Climbing the Ladder
Do you think of people who pursue their passions and make good money doing it as lucky? Chances are that Gary Vaynerchuk works a lot harder than you. "Let me…
The Art of CharmBONUS: Robert Richman | The Culture Blueprint
Corporate culture is only as boring and stagnant -- or exciting and thriving -- as the people who create it. "You can never really create culture...but you can…
The Art of Charm447: Austin Kleon | Steal Like an Artist
Stop worrying so much about where your inspiration is coming from and just create. "People think that authors are writing exactly what they know, but I think a…
The Art of CharmFan Mail Friday #29 | Thanks for That Challenging Viewpoint
"What men and women did to each other was beyond comprehension." -Charles Bukowski Welcome to Fan Mail Friday #29! No jibber-jabber, just a short show where we…
The Art of Charm446: Tony Stubblebine | Ruthless Meditation
Meditation is for doers who seek personal top performance -- from entrepreneurs to professional athletes like Kobe Bryant. "If you hand a top performer a…
The Art of Charm445: Dr. Carol Dweck | The Motivated Mindset
Your talents, abilities, and intelligence aren't fixed traits -- they can be expanded and improved at any age with a mindset motivated toward growth. "It's…
The Art of CharmFan Mail Friday #28 | Stop Aiming Below Your Dating League
Welcome to Fan Mail Friday #28! No jibber-jabber, just a short show where we answer Art of Charm listener mail and give out mini-lessons for the weekend! In…
The Art of Charm444: Jason Connell | Ignited Leadership
Even if it seems like you've got the world figured out and you should be loving life, you might be among a surprising number of high-performing people who find…
The Art of CharmFan Mail Friday #27 | Why Does Profit Make Me Feel Guilty?
Welcome to Fan Mail Friday #27! No jibber-jabber, just a short show where we answer Art of Charm listener mail and give out mini-lessons for the weekend! In…
The Art of Charm442: Jeffrey Hayzlett | Think Big, Act Bigger
Thinking big and acting bigger means doing hard work and owning your role -- leading by example while keeping your ego in check. But the rewards make it all…
The Art of Charm441: Ben Kovacs | Everyone is an Entrepreneur
You don't have to quit your day job in order to follow your entrepreneurial aspirations. "I live in a state of constant retirement." -Ben Kovacs The Cheat…
The Art of CharmFan Mail Friday #26 | Receding Confidence and Short-Term Ethics
Welcome to Fan Mail Friday #26! No jibber-jabber, just a short show where we answer Art of Charm listener mail and give out mini-lessons for the weekend! In…
The Art of Charm440: Barbara Oakley | Learning How to Learn
You don't have to be afraid of math (or anything) when you adapt techniques that make you excel at other things. "You can do way more than you think you can…
The Art of Charm439: Robert Patrick Lewis | Green Beret MBA
Discover how lessons learned by a special forces veteran can be applied to the worlds of business, finance, strategy, and marketing. "It's not survival of the…
The Art of CharmBONUS: Hal Elrod | Beyond the Bestseller
If you want to write a book that creates a movement, earns you a fortune, and changes the world, you need to think beyond the bestseller. "The best time to…
The Art of CharmFan Mail Friday #25 | Why the Frat Hate, Bro?
Welcome to Fan Mail Friday #25! No jibber-jabber, just a short show where we answer Art of Charm listener mail and give out mini-lessons for the weekend! In…
The Art of Charm438: Chester Santos | International Man of Memory
Think you have a lousy time remembering things? You're probably not giving your brain enough credit. According to this expert, it's never too late to expand…
The Art of Charm437: Rick Hanson | Taking in the Good
Self-doubt is normal, but it can be overwritten. Harness the innate ability of the confident brain to grow and learn over time to change your life for the…
The Art of CharmFan Mail Friday #24 | An Unappealing Invitation
Welcome to Fan Mail Friday #24! No jibber-jabber, just a short show where we answer Art of Charm listener mail and give out mini-lessons for the weekend! In…
The Art of Charm436: Chris Yeh | Entrepreneurial Alliance
Don't let "success" get in the way of living a life that maximizes your impact and happiness. "Do you really want to devote your life to the single-minded…
The Art of CharmBONUS: Steli Efti | The Art of Hustle
Accomplish more of the things you want to do with the power of the hustle. "When I arrived here, I was so painfully clueless; I arrived at San Francisco…
The Art of Charm435: Eldonna Lewis Fernandez | Don't Negotiate with Crazy
Think like a negotiator in all aspects of life and create win-win results by understanding the pitfalls to avoid. "That's all negotiation is -- basically a…
The Art of CharmFan Mail Friday #23 | Caveman Biology Lessons
Welcome to Fan Mail Friday #23 In this episode: You can give her enough space to fly a rocketship, but she's already moved on. You should, too. Another…
The Art of Charm434: Aaron Walker | Steps to a Productive Day
If you want to get, you've got to give. And if you want to give, you're already ahead in the game of true success. "I didn't know what I wanted to do, but I…
The Art of Charm433: Dan Martell | Hustle to Help
Entrepreneur or not, when it comes to seeking a path in life, ignoring the power of your own potential is downright criminal. "Entrepreneurs and founders are…
The Art of CharmFan Mail Friday #22 | Twice as Bright, Half as Long
Welcome to Fan Mail Friday #22 In this episode: How do you know when your own red flags are a problem? Why are so many people content with the 9-to-5? How do…
The Art of CharmBONUS: Steven Kotler | From Sci-Fi to Sci-Fact
Technology is progressing so quickly that science fact is catching up with what was recently only imaginable as science fiction. Welcome to the 21st century…
The Art of Charm432: Patrick Van Horne | Left Of Bang
Using techniques developed by the Marines makes reading nonverbal cues to identify potential threats very straightforward. "Somewhere between 60-90 percent of…
The Art of Charm431: Nir Eyal | Hooked on Technology
Technology can save you a lot of time -- when it's not helping you waste it. Break tech addiction by learning how it gets you hooked in the first place. "I…
The Art of CharmFan Mail Friday #21 | Complaining About Ridiculous Terrible Things
Welcome to Fan Mail Friday #21 In this episode: Anonymous commenter about the Chris Edwards show. Workplace harassment in the kitchen. How to handle a…
The Art of Charm430: Dan Griffin | Man Rules
You don't have to be shackled to your programming. Learn to identify and move beyond the Man Rules for genuine relationships and a more emotionally fulfilling…
The Art of Charm429: Chris Edwards | The Balls to Rebrand
Hesitant to make important life changes based on what other people might think of you? Take control of how you're perceived and rebrand yourself -- on your own…
The Art of CharmFan Mail Friday #20
Welcome to Fan Mail Friday #20 In this episode: How to let go of negative people in your social circle. Why the AoC programs are based in LA. Where are all the…
The Art of Charm427: Ian Altman | Grow My Revenue
Conduct your business with integrity and people will know you as a problem solver instead of just another charlatan trying to sell them stuff. "Trust is more…
The Art of CharmFan Mail Friday #19
Welcome to Fan Mail Friday #19 In this episode: Don't let insecurities and low self-esteem torpedo your relationships. Are communications with your…
The Art of Charm426: Marni Kinrys | Your Wing Girl
Having a baby is a stressful, transformative experience for even the most prepared couples. Here, we talk about how to survive the ordeals -- and enjoy the…
The Art of Charm425: Coach Burt | Becoming a Person of Interest
Most of us are taught to chase opportunity, but a Person of Interest gets opportunity to chase them. "'Person of Interest' is how you flip the script and…
The Art of CharmFan Mail Friday #18
In this one: Getting job recommendations. Dealing with non-reciprocating friends. Conquer the fear of flying. And more. More at…
The Art of Charm424: Rory Vaden | Procrastinate on Purpose
When you learn to think like the top one percent of people who get things done, procrastination is a virtue on par with patience -- and an essential part of…