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Emotional Intelligence Developer
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The Fake Rich Guru Exposed: Why We Love Watching Internet Millionaires Fall
"Do you actually own this mansion? Are those really your cars?" Imagine building an online reputation around financial freedom, luxury cars and an…
Emotional Intelligence DeveloperWhat Is Your Emotional Intelligence Score? Find Out In 20 Questions.
Someone told you that you're too sensitive. Someone else said you're cold. Both can't be true, so how do you really come across? Most of us have a feeling…
Emotional Intelligence DeveloperMental Game: Find 40 wellbeing words, learn what each one means and get a 7 day plan.
"What's wrong?" "Nothing." "I'm fine." But you're not fine. You just don't have the word for it. Most of us were never taught the words for what we feel…
Emotional Intelligence DeveloperA 15-Year-Old Javits Frimpong Was Walking to School. What Does His Death Teach Us About Bullying and Emotional Intelligence?
A fifteen-year-old leaves home in the morning, expecting to return that afternoon. His father expects to see him again. His classmates expect to meet him at…
Emotional Intelligence DeveloperThe Gender Reflection Tool. I'm Not Sure Where I Fit. Here's A Gentle Place To Start
I Am Not Sure Where I Fit. Here Is A Gentle Place To Start. Someone says, "Ladies on this side, gentlemen on that side," and for a second you don't move. Many…
Emotional Intelligence DeveloperTry The New & Improved Teens Glow-Up Mood Tracker & Growth Journal
You said "I'm fine" again today. But you weren't, and you couldn't say why. Most teens feel moods that rise and fall with no explanation. One day you feel…
Emotional Intelligence DeveloperA Free Game That Teaches All Ages About Feelings. It's called the Feelings Detective Course.
A door slams. You ask what's wrong, and the answer is nothing. Then you realize you said the same word yourself this week. If you only have a few words for…
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Are Your Values Good Or Harmful? Here Is How To Tell.
You hear a sentence come out of your mouth that you swore you'd never say, in the exact tone of someone who raised you. Where did that come from? Many of the…
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I Don't Know What I'm Good At Emotionally. Here's How To Find Out.
You're staring at a blank line that says list your strengths, and all you can think of is what's wrong with you. If you've spent years believing you're not…
Emotional Intelligence DeveloperFallon Sherrock: Woman Who Beat the Men’s World Number 1 at Darts. Her Lesson.
They Said She Did Not Belong On That Stage. Then She Beat Luke Littler. Here Is What Every Girl and Young Person Can Learn From Fallon Sherrock. Fourteen…
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I Am Scared Of Losing My Job To A.I. Here's How To Feel Less Alone.
Another headline. Another company saying a tool can now do what a whole team used to do. You put your phone face down, look at the work you've spent years…
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I Feel Like My Life Does Not Match Who I Am Inside. Here Is How To Check.
Everything looks fine from the outside, yet something inside quietly says, this is not me. If your life feels like clothes that almost fit, you are not broken…
Emotional Intelligence DeveloperHow old was I when I grew up?
My father died when I was 7 years old. Did my mental switch happen then? I remember hearing family members after the funeral tell me that I was now the man of…
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The Transgender Conversation We Are Afraid to Have: Fear and Hope
A mother stands at a kitchen counter at eleven at night, and her child says, "Please don't be angry." Across town, a grandfather puts down his fork and says…
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I Am Afraid, And I Want To Do It Anyway. Here Is Your Next Step.
It's been open on your screen for days. The form, the message, the page you keep coming back to. Your finger hovers over the button, your heart races, and you…
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I Keep Exploding Over Small Things. Here Is Why, And What To Do.
It was only a glass of water. Someone knocked it over, and you snapped, louder and sharper than the spill deserved. Then the room went quiet, and you wondered…
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I Need To Have A Hard Conversation With Someone And I'm Terrified. Here Is What To Say.
You've practised it in the shower. You've practised it in the car. You know exactly how it starts. Then the moment gets close, and every word disappears. If…
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I Cannot Say No To Anyone And I'm Exhausted. Here Is How To Start.
It's Sunday night. You open your calendar and look at the week ahead, searching for one thing on the page that you chose for yourself. You can't find it. If…
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I Am Panicking Right Now. Here Are The Next 3 Minutes.
Your heart is pounding. Your breath feels short. Your hands are tingling, and a voice in your head keeps saying something is terribly wrong. If you are…
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I Am Scared Of Gun Violence At School Or In My Area. Here Is What You Can Do.
A door slams. A car backfires. Something drops in the hallway. And for one second your whole body freezes and your eyes go looking for the nearest way out. If…
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Why Phone Sex Is Good for Your Relationship: 10 Benefits of Keeping the Fire Burning
A fire only burns when you feed it. In a relationship, passion needs attention, affection, and two people who still want to enjoy each other. Love can be…
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Someone I Love Was Killed By Violence. Here Is How To Get Through Today
The phone keeps ringing. People keep arriving with food you cannot eat. Someone asks if you are okay, and nothing comes out. When someone you love is killed by…
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I Do Not Want To Be Here Anymore. Here Is What Can Help Right Now
You smiled at work today. You told people you were fine. Then you got home, everything went quiet, and the thought came back again. I do not want to be here…
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I Am Being Hit By The Person Who Says They Love Me. It Is Not Your Fault. Here Is What You Can Do Next
They said sorry again. They cried. They promised it would never happen again. And you wanted to believe them. If you are being hit by someone who says they…
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I'm Being Sexually Abused and It's Not My Fault. Here Is What I Can Do Next
I Am Being Sexually Abused. It Is Not My Fault. Here Is What I Can Do Next. You keep asking yourself what you did wrong. Why you froze. Why you stayed. Why you…
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They Cheated. Do You Stay or Leave?
You see a message on your partner's phone, and suddenly every memory, every promise, and every quiet moment in your relationship feels different. You want…
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Empty Nest: Your Children Grew Up. Who Are You Now?
The house is quiet. The cooking is finished. Nobody is asking where their shoes are, what is for dinner, or whether you can help them with something. You…
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I Lost My Marriage. How Do I Start My Life Again?
You reach for two cups, and then you put one back. That is the moment it becomes real. Divorce does not only end a marriage. It takes the Sunday plans, the…
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Everyone Thinks You Have Money Because You Have a Job
Your salary has barely arrived, and somebody is already asking for a share. You have bills to pay, debts to manage, and your own plans to think about. But to…
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They Bullied Me For My Parents. Here's How to Face the Shame That Was Never Yours
"Your dad doesn't even live with you, does he?" Sometimes, one question in a school corridor is enough to make a child wish their family were different. A joke…
Emotional Intelligence DeveloperWhile Rich Countries Panic About AI, Africa Gets a Second Chance. Here's What Africa Should Do With It
Imagine spending decades building a career, only to discover that artificial intelligence is changing the job you believed would keep you secure. Now imagine…
Emotional Intelligence DeveloperHalle Berry, a Photo, and a Teen Caught in the Middle. Here's What Every Family Should Know
A teenager takes a photograph of his mother. Soon, that image is being discussed in court while his parents fight over custody. But behind the headlines is a…
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Academic Pressure: Everyone Thinks You're Doing Fine. You're Actually Falling Apart. Here's What You Can Do
You tell your parents that your studies are going well. You tell your friends that you are keeping up. You walk into lectures, smile at your classmates, and…
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They Mock Your Shoes Because You're Poor. Here's How to Face Them Without Losing Yourself
It starts with a small hole in a shoe and a laugh nobody was supposed to hear. Then it becomes a nickname, a photo in the class group chat, and a question…
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They're Making Your Job Miserable. Is It Time to Speak Up?
The worst part of your job may no longer be the work itself. It is the email you read four times, the meeting where people laugh at you, the kitchen that goes…
Emotional Intelligence DeveloperThe Blesser, The Sugar Daddy And The Gift With Strings In Africa: What Nobody Tells You Until You Owe Them. Here's How To Walk Away Safely.
The phone arrives as a surprise. The money comes when she needs it most. Her friends tell her she is lucky, and for a while, she believes them. But when she…
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The African Scammers' Trap: Why Smart People Lose Money and How to Protect Yourself
You get a message. It looks real. The person sounds desperate. The opportunity promises exactly what you have been hoping for. And before you have had time to…
Emotional Intelligence DeveloperThe African Betting App Trap: Why Young Men Gamble Their Future for a Chance at Money
The Betting App Is Not A Side Hustle: Why It Feels Like Hope For Young African Men And Costs Everything. 3 FREE EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE TOOLS 1. A free…
Emotional Intelligence DeveloperThe Degree On The Wall And No Job: Why Sitting At Home Is Not Your Identity
The degree is on the wall. The visitor is on the couch. And the question you have learned to dread is already on its way. So, what are you doing now? If you…
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Why the African Mind Is in Shambles and Will Become Worse Because of Artificial Intelligence. Here's What You Should Do
What happens when an African asks artificial intelligence to explain their culture, their faith, their relationships and their future, only to discover that…
Emotional Intelligence DeveloperWhy a 'f*ck you' is completely warranted in certain encounters: Is it okay to care less about a specific person, situation, or outcome?
For open messages visit the community This is a no under 18 podcast message. We’re about to talk grown folks’ business... something young people haven’t truly…
Emotional Intelligence DeveloperRJ Mitte: Why pain shouldn’t be silent but loud
RJ Mitte on Why We Need to Make Our Pain Loud. RJ Mitte died on October 12, 2026, at age 34. His reps confirmed his death by suicide in Texas. Wikipedia. The…
Emotional Intelligence DeveloperOur Community, We Need You. Help Us Keep the Lights On
You can become a community member for just five or fifteen dollars, or make a donation through our website. Visit the links on our profile to get started. You…
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If Soldiers Can Get PTSD From War, What Happens to the People Who Never Leave the War Zone?
A soldier drops to the floor when a plate breaks at the dinner table. Far away, a mother carries her child down the stairs in the dark for the ninth night in a…
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What America Teaches the World When an Execution Is Streamed Live
What happens when a country that tells the world to stand against violence decides to broadcast an execution? And what does the rest of the world learn when…
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The Shame People Cannot See Inside You. Here's How to Start Healing It.
A man laughs the loudest at a family gathering. Everyone sees the jokes, the smile, the person who seems completely fine. But later, sitting alone in his car…
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The Benefits of One Parent Having Full Custody When You're Coparenting. Here's How It Protects the Kids
The school form needs a signature. The phone isn't being answered. One parent is frustrated, the other feels disrespected, and somewhere nearby, a child is…
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Don't Stop Being You Because Someone Wants You to Be Something Else. Here's How to Tell Growth From Pleasing Someone
You are telling a story, laughing, talking with your hands, and being completely yourself when someone quietly says, "You sound aggressive." So you lower your…
Emotional Intelligence DeveloperWhy are you allowing AI to take my job?
What happens when the human capital that AI is disrupting cannot pay bills, mortgages, and rent that governments need from us to survive? You’re listening to…
Emotional Intelligence DeveloperWhy don’t you just quit right now? A message from Clive.
Here’s a message that’s going to rock your mind and make you think twice about things. Don’t ever give a writer a pen or a keyboard when he’s angry, because…
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The Group Chat Left Me Out On Purpose. What To Do When Your Friends Exclude You Online And Make You Feel Like You Don't Belong
Her phone is quiet. Too quiet. Then she notices everyone else's phones lighting up. Someone asks, "Did you see what Jordan sent last night?" She asks, "Sent…
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My Accent Is Not A Joke: Why Being Mocked For The Way You Speak Should Never Make You Ashamed Of Your Voice
She knows the answer. Her hand almost goes up. Then someone copies the way she speaks, the class laughs, and suddenly she would rather stay quiet than risk…
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Has Anyone Gotten Facebook to Take Down Bad Content After Filing an Appeal?
Last night, while I was doom scrolling, a video popped up showing a man eating a burnt monkey that had been thrown into a flame, with a charred body and…
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New Kid, New Target. Why Being The Outsider Isn't Your Fault, and How To Find Your Place At A New School
You walk into the cafeteria holding a tray, and every table already seems to have a place for everyone except you. You find an empty seat. "Sorry, that's…
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They Called Me Slow. Why Learning Differently Doesn't Mean You're Not Smart, and What To Do When School Makes You Feel Stupid
Somebody says "slow" from the back of the room, just loud enough for you to hear. A girl takes the pen out of your hand because "you're too slow." The teacher…
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Are You Too Tall, Too Short, or Too Loud? Understanding Why You Don't Need to Make Yourself Smaller
Somebody says, "Giraffe," from the back of the room. Somebody else asks, "Did you forget your booster seat?" And a boy who only answered a question in class…
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The Boy or Girl With The So-called Weird Lunch: Why Cultural Food Shaming Says More About The Bully Than The Food
It starts with a container opening at a lunch table. A smell. A face scrunched up. "OMG, what's that?" Then somebody laughs, somebody else joins in, and…
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Why I Love My Braces On My Teeth and Why Your Words Don't Bully Me
Why I Love My Braces On My Teeth and Why Your Words Don't Bully Me. Metal mouth. Brace face. Tin grin. Three shouts in a hallway, and by the time the last…
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Girl, You're Not Nice! You're Just Acting.
Girl, You're Not Nice! You're Acting. "Sure." You didn't even think about it. Someone asks you for a favour, asks you to take something on, or asks whether…
Emotional Intelligence DeveloperWhy I Believe in You.
Me, Clive, the founder of emotional intelligence developer, I believe in you. Regardless of others out there telling you something else, I, the founder of…