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The Sex, Porn & Love Addiction Podcast
Gary McFarlane helps you understand Sex, Porn & Love Addiction. This podcast dives into the neuroscience behind these issues, guiding you on the path to recovery. For more resources, visit: www.kairos-centre.com.
Helping you better understand the neuroscience of the brain and sharing what we now better understand about the brain's involvement, from childhood development. To help you effect change; find the real authentic you (whose truth self went off at a tangent in childhood); so that as you…
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The Sex, Porn & Love Addiction PodcastWould the real you please stand up
Send us Fan Mail On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centre Avoidant Attachment style Here are the statements which are likely to…
The Sex, Porn & Love Addiction PodcastHow Your Attachment Style Shapes Your Sex Life — And Why It Goes Wrong (Part 2)
Send us Fan Mail On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centre In an article by Christina Stefanou, BA (Hons) Marita P. McCabe, PhD…
The Sex, Porn & Love Addiction PodcastWhy Insecure Attachment is Silently Ruining Your Sex Life
Send us Fan Mail On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centre How Your Attachment Style Shapes Your Sex Life — And Why It Goes…
The Sex, Porn & Love Addiction PodcastWhy You Panic When Someone Pulls Away (Attachment Expert Explains)
Send us Fan Mail On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centre If you cling when someone pulls away, panic when a text goes…
The Sex, Porn & Love Addiction PodcastWhy "I Don't Need Anyone" Is Usually a Trauma Response, Not Strength
Send us Fan Mail On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centre "I don't need anyone" often sounds like strength — but it's…
The Sex, Porn & Love Addiction PodcastWhich of the 4 Attachment Styles Are You? (Secure vs. Insecure)
Send us Fan Mail On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centre Most relationship patterns — the ones you keep repeating without…
The Sex, Porn & Love Addiction PodcastWhy "Attachment" Is Actually Detachment (The Hidden Psychology)
Send us Fan Mail On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centre The Attachment That's Really Avoidance — Why Closeness Can Feel Like…
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"What's Wrong With Me?" — The Question Every Sex Addict Asks
Send us Fan Mail On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centre Shame and self-criticism are often the real barrier to recovery — not…
The Sex, Porn & Love Addiction PodcastRelapsed Again? Here's How to Get Back Up (Sex Addiction Expert Explains)
Send us Fan Mail On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centre Let's look at Episode 189 recording from another perspective…
The Sex, Porn & Love Addiction PodcastSex addict - learn to get up, dust off & get back in
Send us Fan Mail On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centre When you do Therapy/Counselling with The Kairos Centre, there are…
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Sex Addiction damage to the Couple needs proactive Repair
Send us Fan Mail On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centre Sex Addiction prevalence in the couple's relationship is likely to…
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Got to, got to start to like myself; even to Love myself
Send us Fan Mail On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centre Negative thinking is also a form of meditation - meditation on the…
The Sex, Porn & Love Addiction PodcastSex Addict - You really are not as bad as you think you are
Send us Fan Mail On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centre You really are not as bad as yo think you are. Honestly! Your sense…
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Sex Addict - Does life keep changing you!
Send us Fan Mail On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centre Consider these Life Stages by Dr Thomas Armstrong, Ph.D…
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Sex Addict....more of this thing called Life Stage Changes
Send us Fan Mail On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centre Life Stages (not Midlife Crises!) is about how Human Development is…
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Sex Addict - Self soothing through Life Stage changes?
Send us Fan Mail On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centre Human beings have a life cycle. Each stage is marked by subtle…
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"No way - I would never trash my own 'Values' over trivial conflicts - would I?"
Send us Fan Mail On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centre Let's check that we are on the same page as we have a discussion…
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Sex Addict - "I am not a Passive-Aggressive by my behaviours!" - Part 2
Send us Fan Mail On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centre It is worth listening again to the first part of this topic (in a…
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Enjoy this bonus episode from an interview about my life's journey!
Send us Fan Mail On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centre Grab your popcorn, peanuts and a drink, this is a long episode. It is…
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Sex Addict - "I am not a Passive-Aggressive by my behaviours!"
Send us Fan Mail On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centre What is passive-aggressive behaviour? Do you fight like this?…
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Sex Addiction may mean the true YOU never fully evolved and got ambushed
Send us Fan Mail On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centre Let's talk about how well you really know yourself. Remember that the…
The Sex, Porn & Love Addiction PodcastAs a sex addict - do you really know you?
Send us Fan Mail On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centre “I’m the author of my own life story. Unfortunately, I’m writing in…
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The world's finest Apple - who me?
Send us Fan Mail On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centre The Law of Sustainment refers to the principle that your ability to…
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Sex addicts - say it all in poetry!
Send us Fan Mail On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centre In this episode, let's say it all in poetry. My Brain And Heart…
The Sex, Porn & Love Addiction Podcast"Cheeky Brain - What do you mean you were offline when I did...."
Send us Fan Mail On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centre Many people think that pornography consumption is harmless. Studies…
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NARCISSISM versus EMPATHY
Send us Fan Mail On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centre The antidote to Narcissism is Empathy. (Sympathy and Empathy are very…
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Sex Addict - you're so Narcissistic!
Send us Fan Mail On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centre Here is my mathematical formula - as we look at Narcissism: SHAME +…
The Sex, Porn & Love Addiction PodcastSex Addict - are you genuinely at 'ACTION' - on the 'STAGES OF CHANGE'?
Send us Fan Mail On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centre Sex - Addict, maybe you really are not yet at the 'ACTION' stage, as…
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What's love got to do with it - Sex Addict?
Send us Fan Mail - On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centre Love me in five ways: (See my Book - The Art of Loving) Most of us…
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Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT): What's that!
Send us Fan Mail - On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centre Tools for repairing The Sex Addiction impacted couples relationship…
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Sex Addiction partner, you are so childish!
Send us Fan Mail On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centre In the 1950's Eric Berne began to develop his theories of…
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Sex Addict - I said "I do", but you didn't...
Send us Fan Mail More on unconscious Couples collusive fit dynamics of attraction By ROSIE IFOULD, 1 August 2011…
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So partner - is that really how I chose you?
Send us Fan Mail - On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centre Unconscious Couples Collusive fit - of attraction to each other…
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Partner - "How come I chose you as my Partner?"
Send us Fan Mail - On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centre Mate/Partner selection, Collusive/Couple fit and all that: Why did…
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Sex Ed from 'Peers, Banter & Porn' is very common and normative
Send us Fan Mail - On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centre From where did you get your Sex Ed knowledge back there during the…
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Sex Addicts - women do it too - and maybe with increased SHAME!
Send us Fan Mail - On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centre Part 5 of 5 of an interview with Caroline Brown of - This Crazy…
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Men & porn - tut, tut, tut. Women & romantic novels - what's the problem!
Send us Fan Mail - On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centre Part 4 of 5 of an interview with Caroline Brown of - This Crazy…
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Sex Addict - you determine Sobriety perimeters
Send us Fan Mail - On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centre What is 'Manly'? A conversation with Damian Andrews of SHAIR.Care…
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Sex Addict - fight right battles or plead 'Conscientious Objector'
Send us Fan Mail - On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centre What is 'Manly'? A conversation with Damian Andrews of SHAIR.Care…
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Sex Addict - Asian "Shame" is different to European "Shame"
Send us Fan Mail - On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centre What is 'Manly'? A conversation with Damian Andrews of SHAIR.Care…
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Sex addicts have low self esteem & self worth
Send us Fan Mail - On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centre What is 'Manly'? A conversation with Damian Andrews of SHAIR.Care…
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Sex addiction beckons for some men who can't fit the version of 'Man-liness'
Send us Fan Mail - On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centre What is 'Manly'? A conversation with Damian Andrews of SHAIR.Care…
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Sex Addict - has society straight jacketed you - so you turn to self-soothing
Send us Fan Mail - On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centre What is 'Manly'? A conversation with Damian Andrews of SHAIR.Care…
The Sex, Porn & Love Addiction PodcastSex Addict - stand up the real authentic you!
Send us Fan Mail - On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centre What is 'Manly'? A conversation with Damian Andrews of SHAIR.Care…
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Sex Addicts - Big up the women
Send us Fan Mail - On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centre What is 'Manly'? A conversation with Damian Andrews of SHAIR.Care…
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Sex Addicts - What does it mean to be a man?: Conversations (2)
Send us Fan Mail - On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centre What is 'Manly'?: A conversation with Damian Andrews of SHAIR.Care…
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Sex Addicts - What does it mean to be a man?: Conversations (1)
Send us Fan Mail - On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centre What is 'Manly'?: A conversation with Damian Andrews of SHAIR.Care…
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Sex Addiction does not make me a Narcissist!
Send us Fan Mail - On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centre "Narcissism because of Sex Addiction - Yuk! That's not me". Many…
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Sex Addiction before you even gave permission!
Send us Fan Mail - On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centre Developmental history from childhood The phase of childhood from…
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Childhood stuff of Sex Addiction
Send us Fan Mail - On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centre Sex Addiction is different to Porn Addiction. Sex & Porn Addiction…
The Sex, Porn & Love Addiction PodcastChildren and Sex Addiction - Surely not! (Part 3)
Send us Fan Mail - On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centre The report found that 58% of respondents had seen violent…
The Sex, Porn & Love Addiction PodcastChildren and Sex Addiction - Surely not! (Part 2)
Send us Fan Mail - On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centre "It was aged....and I came across my [parents] stash of porn. I…
The Sex, Porn & Love Addiction PodcastChildren and Sex Addiction - Surely not! (Part 1)
Send us Fan Mail - On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centre Newspaper headline: "Joe is 10 years old and he is on The Sex…
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Sex Addict and effective Communication - do you know these truths?
Send us Fan Mail - On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centre Put these tools into your armoury of resources to help you…
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Sex Addict - The Body tells the truth, more than the trained Brain
Send us Fan Mail - On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centre Sex addict, your body demeanour is going to give you away. Know the…
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Compromised brain communication filtering in Sex Addicts
Send us Fan Mail - On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centre When we are communicating, the information is passing through the…
The Sex, Porn & Love Addiction PodcastNot about the nail in my head - men in the dog house!
Send us Fan Mail - On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centre "A friend asks, "Tell me one word which is significant in any kinds…
The Sex, Porn & Love Addiction PodcastSex Addict - 'Communication' is like a tandem bicycle wheel
Send us Fan Mail - On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centre Remember our foundational question: 'Do you enter a conversation to…
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Effective Communication with you is broken - Sex Addict
Send us Fan Mail - On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centre "Being heard is so close to being loved that for the average…
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Help me see what I cannot yet see
Send us Fan Mail - On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centre We are continuing to look at Couples Counselling to 'Repair' the…