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Why "I Don't Need Anyone" Is Usually a Trauma Response, Not Strength
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"I don't need anyone" often sounds like strength — but it's frequently a trauma response, not a personality trait. In this video, Gary breaks down hyper-independence: why it develops (usually from learning early on that relying on others wasn't safe or reliable), how it quietly damages relationships by keeping partners, friends, and family at arm's length, and why the people who most need connection are often the ones most convinced they don't.
Gary trained under Thaddeus Birchard, founder of ATSAC (The…
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