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Beautifully Complex
Parenting a neurodivergent kid is one of the hardest things you will ever do. If you are exhausted, overwhelmed, and wondering why nothing seems to work, this is the place for you.
I am Penny Williams, parenting coach, author, and mom who's in the trenches alongside you. Each week on Beautifully Complex, I bring you honest conversations and real strategies for raising kids with ADHD, autism, anxiety, and learning differences. Our kids aren't broken, just wired differently.
My work is grounded…
Episodes
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321: Your Kid’s Quality of Life Starts with You, with Nancy Gilette
Your child’s behavior isn’t the problem — it’s the clue. So often we’re handed behavior plans, sticker charts, and systems that totally ignore what our…
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320 Less Stress, More Success for Back-to-School
Is your back-to-school plan just a fresh stack of notebooks and high hopes? Let’s talk about what really makes or breaks a smooth transition for your…
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319: Using Music for Emotional Regulation, with Samantha Foote
What if the secret to helping your child regulate their emotions… is already playing on your speakers?In this episode, I’m joined by board-certified music…
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318: Neuroscience, Mental Health & Sleep Optimization, with Ariel Garten
What if just five minutes a day could lower your stress, help your child regulate, and even improve sleep? Sounds too good to be true, right? In this episode…
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317: Creating Neurodiverstiy-Affirming Schools, with Amanda Morin and Emily Kircher-Morris, LPC
What if schools didn’t just accommodate neurodivergent kids, but celebrated them? In this heartfelt and eye-opening conversation with Amanda Morin and Emily…
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316: Finding Your Kid’s Just Right Balance, with Chris Taylor, LCSW-C
Ever wonder how to push your child just enough without pushing them over the edge? In this episode of Beautifully Complex, I sit down with therapist Chris…
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315: Integrating Creativity and Play into Learning, with Kelsey Cook
What if a pom pom, a paper tube, and ten minutes a day could transform your child’s learning? In this joy-filled episode, I sit down with Kelsey Cook, mom of…
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314: Don’t Be “That Parent:” How to Advocate Effectively & Compassionately, with Scotti Weintraub
Walking into school meetings can feel like navigating a minefield while carrying the weight of your child’s future. You're not alone — and in this episode, I…
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313: Build Resilience and Joy with Awe and Wonder, with Deborah Farmer Kris
The antidote to stress and disconnection could be awe. In this heartwarming episode, I chat with child development expert Deborah Farmer Kris about the…
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312: Discovering the Right Career Path for Neurodivergent Kids, with Hannah Maruyama
Is college really the only path to success? Not even close. In this episode, I sit down with Hannah Maruyama, co-founder of Degree Free, to challenge the…
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311: Fostering Self-Discovery for Your Autistic Kid, with Sol Smith, MS, MFA, EDS
What if your child’s “overexplaining” isn’t defiance, but a deep need to be understood? In this powerful and eye-opening conversation, I sit down with Sol…
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310: Connecting Through Conversation: Rethinking Behavior Strategies for Schools, with Erika Bare & Tiffany Burns
What if we stopped calling kids “attention-seeking” and started calling them “connection-seeking?” In this heart-opening episode, I sit down with veteran…
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309: Coping Skills for Kids, Teens, and Adults, with Janine Halloran, MA, LMHC
What if the big feelings your child has aren’t a problem — but a clue? In this comforting conversation, I sit down with Janine Halloran, LMHC — therapist, mom…
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308: You Might Also Like Climbing the Walls from Understood.org
Wait, ADHD is more than attention issues? Yep — and this episode will blow your mind. In this special episode, I’m sharing the first episode of the must-listen…
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307: Valuing Personhood Over Productivity, with Shawna Rosenzweig
✨ What if your child’s “daydreaming” on the sidelines was actually self-regulation in action? In this episode of Beautifully Complex, I’m joined by Shawna…
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306: What Do You Do With the Mad that You Feel?
Ever wish your kid would just stop yelling? This episode of Beautifully Complex will make you rethink that wish — in the best way. Inspired by the timeless…
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305: Building Parent Resilience, with Barb Fletcher
In this episode of Beautifully Complex, I am joined by resilience coach Barb Fletcher to explore empowering strategies for building parent resilience — an…
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304: How to Support Regulation with Play, with Polina Shkadron, MA/SLP, MSNE, CTP, ADHD-RSP
In this episode of Beautifully Complex, I sit down with expert Polina Shkadron to explore the incredible power of play in supporting emotional regulation…
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303: How to Prepare for a Successful School Meeting, with Penny Williams
School meetings can stir up a lot of emotions for parents — including overwhelm, confusion, anxiety, and uncertainty. You’re worried about your child's rights…
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302: Break the Parenting Norms for Kids with ADHD, with Penny Williams
In this episode of Beautifully Complex, I’m sharing some of the powerful insights gathered from the Unlocking ADHD Summit. You’ll discover the importance of…
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301: Helping Neurodivergent Kids Crack the Code of Thriving in a Neurotypical World, with Matt Zakreski, PsyD
In this episode of Beautifully Complex, I’m joined by Dr. Matt Zakreski, who shares compelling strategies from his new book, "Neurodiversity Playbook." We…
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300: 5 Myths That Hurt Neurodivergent Kids (And What to Do Instead!), with Penny Williams
In this milestone 300th episode of Beautifully Complex, I’m going deep into the misconceptions that many of us face raising neurodivergent kids and that…
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299: How to Create a Strengths-Based Culture of Learning, with Julia Black
What if you could ignite your child's inner spark and unlock their boundless potential? In this episode, Julia Black, founder of Lights on Learning, shares her…
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298: Why We Need to Stop Criminalizing Neurodivergent Behavior, with Sarah Templeton
In this episode of Beautifully Complex, I explore the critical issues surrounding neurodivergence and criminalization with ADHD author and activist Sarah…
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297: How to Talk to Neurodivergent Kids about Sexuality, with Amy Lang MA
LISTENER NOTE: We openly discuss body parts, sex, and sexuality in this episode. You likely want to listen where you child cannot hear it.Feel overwhelmed and…
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296: Supporting Executive Function: Strategies for Managing Daily Tasks, with Carrie Bonnett
Ever feel like you're fighting an uphill battle when it comes to helping your child manage everyday tasks? Do you worry that your neurodivergent child may not…
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295: Transforming Your Stream of Consciousness to Make Room for Joy in 2025
Do you find yourself asking, "Why is this happening to me? Why my kid?" It’s okay to feel this way, and I’m here to tell you that you have the power to…
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294: Introducing the Regulated Kids Project
Are you exhausted from navigating the emotional storms and meltdowns that come with raising a neurodivergent child? Do you sometimes feel like every…
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293: Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA), with Casey Ehrlich, Ph.D.
In this episode, I sit down with Casey Ehrlich, Ph.D. to discuss the unique challenges of Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA) and offer heartfelt guidance and…
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292: Representing Neurodivergence in Kid’s Media, with Deborah Farmer Kris
Do you worry that your neurodivergent child might not see themselves represented in the stories they love? If you’ve ever felt this way, this episode of…
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291: Teaching Your Kid to Harness Their Brain, with Anna Housley Juster, Ph.D., LICSW
Welcome to episode 291 of the Beautifully Complex podcast, where we’re discussing Teaching Your Kid to Harness Their Brain with early childhood education…
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290: Practical Strategies for Reducing School Stress, with Ann Dolin M.Ed.
Do you sometimes feel overwhelmed and worry that your neurodivergent kid isn’t getting the support they need? On this week's episode of Beautifully Complex…
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289: Balancing Act: Teen Independence & Parent Concerns, with Gabriele Nicolet, MA CCC-SLP
Are you feeling overwhelmed by the daily struggles and emotional rollercoaster of parenting a neurodivergent teen? Do you find yourself torn between nurturing…
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288: 5 Reasons Why You Should Stop Trying to Control Your Kid, with Penny Williams
Are you feeling overwhelmed by the constant need to control your child's behavior, only to find it leads to more frustration and distance? That it isn’t making…
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287: Stop Saying “It’s okay”, with Penny Williams
Are you exhausted from the constant emotional ups and downs, the frustration of trying to connect with your neurodivergent child, and the worry about saying…
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285: Creating an Environment that Works for Neurodivergent Kids, with Caroline Thor
Are you feeling overwhelmed by the endless clutter, frustrated by your child's attachment to their possessions, or worried about creating a clean, organized…
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286: When an Anxious, Empathetic Nervous System is Confronted with Natural Disaster, Penny Williams
Do you ever feel like you're caught in the eye of the storm? Trust me, you're not alone. Join Penny Williams in this profoundly personal episode of Beautifully…
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284: Motivation Myth Busters, with Wendy S. Grolnick, Ph.D.
Are you feeling overwhelmed by the daily challenges of raising a neurodivergent child? Do you worry about how to motivate your kid and help them succeed, or…
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283: We Need to Talk About Anxiety, with Penny Williams
Feeling overwhelmed and uncertain about how to support your child or teen through their anxiety? You’re not alone. As parents, we often face sleepless nights…
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282: Single Parenting with Neurodivergent Kids, with Dr. Gila
Are you navigating the challenging, yet rewarding journey of single parenting a neurodivergent child? Do you often find yourself overwhelmed by societal…
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281: Raising Healthy Gamers, with Dr. Alok Kanojia, MD MPH
Are you tired of battling your kid over screen time and gaming habits, only to see your relationship suffer and the issues persist? In this episode of…
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280: Fostering Resilience in the Age of Uncertainty, with Tovah Klein, Ph.D.
Are you struggling to help your child navigate the uncertainties of today's world? In this episode of Beautifully Complex, I’m chatting with Tovah Klein…
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279: You Might Also Like: In It: Raising Kids who Learn Differently, from Understood.org
This episode is a special collaboration with the "In It" podcast from Understood.org, dedicated to families with children facing challenges like ADHD and…
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278: Helping Kids on the Spectrum Transition to Adulthood, with Shannon Urquiola
Navigating the transition to adulthood with your neurodivergent child can be overwhelming and fraught with uncertainties. In this episode of Beautifully…
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277: Redefining ADHD for Neurodivergent Kids, with Elly Both
Are you struggling to talk to your child about their ADHD diagnosis or seeking ways to reframe it positively? In this episode of Beautifully Complex, I host an…
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276: Executive Function Rundown, with Seth Perler, M.Ed.
Feeling frustrated by your child's disorganization, falling grades, and struggles with time management? Tune in to this episode of Beautifully Complex, where…
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275: Starting Scared, with Chrysty Lockhart
Are you tired of letting fear hold you back? The key to moving beyond that is turning what you view as failure into stepping stones to success. And you can…
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274 Looking at Behavior Both Inside and Out, with Gabriele Nicolet, MA, CCC-SLP
Do you find it challenging to stay calm and mindful when your child is having a tough time in public? Gabriele Nicolet and I explore understanding kid’s…
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273: Getting Stuck in a Loop with Sarah Wayland, Ph.D.
Have you ever felt helpless as your child gets stuck in repetitive behaviors or meltdowns, leaving you wondering how to help them break free? In this episode…
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272: What Does Anger Tell Us?, with Dr. Lori Desautels
Do you often find yourself misinterpreting anger in your neurodivergent child, escalating situations unintentionally? Join me and Dr. Lori Desautels as we dive…
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271: ADHD and Dads: Creating the Fatherhood You Crave, Larry Hagner
Struggling to connect with your child who has ADHD can be incredibly challenging, leaving you feeling helpless and overwhelmed. In this insightful episode of…
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270: 3 Steps to Empower Confidence in Your Teen, with Kristi Simons
Feeling like your teen or young adult is struggling to find their confidence and navigate the ups and downs of life? In this episode of Beautifully Complex, I…
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269: Reclaiming Community: Climate, Parenting, and Social Connections, with Bill Weir
We’ve all but outright rejected the old adage, “It takes a village to raise a child,” in American culture. We’re more fragmented and lonely than ever. Yet…
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268: What to Do When Importance Doesn’t Create Motivation, with Penny Williams
In this episode of Beautifully Complex, we’re examining a topic that really hits close to home for many of us — what to do when importance doesn’t create…
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267: The Myth of Laziness, with Adam Price, Ph.D.
Today, I'm so excited to be talking with Dr. Adam Price, a nationally known clinical psychologist and best-selling author with over 30 years of experience…
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266: A Summertime Plan that Can Work for Everyone, with Penny Williams
In this episode of Beautifully Complex, we’re focusing on making summertime rewarding and manageable for neurodiverse families. I’ll guide you through a summer…
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265: Strategies for Young Autistic Learners, with Tara Phillips, SLP
In this episode, I’m joined by Tara Phillips, speech language pathologist and founder of Autism Little Learners. She shares some transformative tools and…
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264: Handling Behavior Struggles with Dignity, with Wendy Snyder
This time on Beautifully Complex, I'm exploring behavior struggles and conscious discipline with my guest, Wendy Snyder, a positive parenting educator and…
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263: Understood Explains IEPs from Understood.org
The terms IEP and 504 plan may come up a lot when you’re looking into special education for your child. These school supports do some of the same things, but…
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262: Emotional Support Animals, with Dan Maigler, LCSW
In this episode, I'm chatting with my guest Daniel Maigler, about the transformative roles of emotional support animals. Dan's insights as a social worker and…