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Seeing Other People
Dating advice, real stories, and honest conversations about modern relationships. Seeing Other People with Ilana Dunn covers everything from first dates and situationships to long-term love, with expert guests, anonymous confessions, and unfiltered takes three times a week.
Whether you're swiping, healing, or somewhere in between...this is your show.
Episodes
- Seeing Other People
Saving Modern Dating with Dateable's Julie and Yue
I’m joined by Julie Krafchick & Yue Xu, hosts of Dateable podcast. We’re chatting all about why dating sucks and how we each can make it better. We discuss the…
Seeing Other People"Getting Ghosted Led Me to Meet the Love of My Life'"
UNFILTERED: I’m joined by a 29-year-old woman who tells us how got ghosted after dating someone for months whom she met through her parents. We talk about the…
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How to Tell if a Guy is Interested In You with Jake Tuff
I’m joined by my friend Jake Tuff who opens up about a breakup that he just went through. We hear what he’s learned from going through it, what his breakup…
Seeing Other People"Dating an Addict"
UNFILTERED: I’m joined by a 29 year old woman who opens up about her eight year relationship that ultimately ended because of her partner’s addiction to…
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Taking Breaks & Being Friends with Exes
I’m joined by Leslie Grant, host of Interstates and Heartbreak, to discuss taking breaks & staying in touch with exes. We chat about whether or not taking a…
Seeing Other PeopleIlana's Childhood BFF Spills the Tea About her Dating Life
My childhood best friend Cristina joins me to answer listener-submitted questions about my past dating experiences. We cover all of my firsts, from my first…
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What We Learned About Love from Taylor Swift with Michael Kaye
I’m joined by Michael Kaye, Global Head of Communications at OkCupid, to discuss all things dating apps, cuffing season, and Taylor Swift. Michael shares the…
Seeing Other PeopleIs Sexuality Really Fluid?
I’m joined by Sarah and Audrey, cohosts of the podcast Completely Fucking Clueless. Sarah and Audrey open up about when they knew they were queer, how they…
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Once an Fboy, Always an Fboy?
I'm joined by singer/songwriter Maryon King to chat all about fboys and situationships. We discuss fboy tendencies, how to spot an fboy, and whether or not…
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Do You Really Find Love When You Least Expect It? with Erica Shea
I’m joined by Erica Shea, San Diego radio star on The Geena the Latina And Frankie V. Morning Show, and host of the podcast “Oversharing with Erica Shea.”…
Seeing Other People"Choosing to be Childfree"
TW: Suicidal thoughts UNFILTERED: I’m joined by a man who opens up about the longterm relationship he was in where his partner knew she wanted a child and he…
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Setting Boundaries will Change Your Dating Life with Mariann Yip
I’m joined by Mariann Yip, host of the podcast The City Confessions and Author of “UN-HINGED what I Learned from Saying It’s You, It’s Not Me in the NYC Dating…
Seeing Other People"You Don’t Need to Lose Weight to Be Loved"
*This episode may be triggering to those with sensitivities around eating disorders. UNFILTERED; I’m joined by Jackie Shames, a woman who opens up about her…
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Freezing Your Eggs 101
I’m joined by Ali Jackson AKA Finding Mr. Height to chat all about her egg freezing experience. Ali walks us through what egg freezing is, what factors went…
Seeing Other People"When Your Relationship Has an End Date"
I'm joined by Livia, a 23-year-old who shares her story of starting a relationship while knowing there was an end date. We discuss what it's like to countdown…
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You're Worthy of Love with Kirstie Taylor
I’m joined by Kirstie Taylor, a dating, relationships, and self-love writer & author of “What I Wish I Knew About Love.” Kirstie and I chat about practicing…
Seeing Other PeopleQ&A: Exclusive Vs. Relationship, Bringing Up Moving In & Getting Engaged, Age Gaps and More
My best friend Sara Curwin and I sit down to answer your questions! We discuss what to do when he invites you to his party but his other hookup is there and…
Seeing Other PeopleWhat Makes a Marriage Last?
In this episode, I’m joined by world-renowned author, counselor, lecturer, and philosopher Rabbi Manis Friedman to discuss why people get married, what makes a…
Seeing Other People"The Craziest Dating Stories You Will Ever Hear"
Get ready for the most jaw dropping, hilarious, and heartwarming Unfiltered episode yet! This week’s guest shares three wild dating scenarios she found herself…
Seeing Other PeopleEarly Signs a Relationship Won’t Work Out with Hilary Weinstein, LCSW
I’m joined by Hilary Weinstein, LCSW and Founder of HLW Therapy, a therapy practice that is currently accepting new clients. We discuss the importance of…
Seeing Other People"Comparing Yourself & Staying Present"
UNFILTERED: I’m joined by Stella Stephanopolous, host of the Everyday Endorphins podcast to discuss dating intentionally. We chat about focusing on how the…
Seeing Other PeopleExpectations Vs. Reality of Marriage with Maya and Hunter
I’m joined by Maya and Hunter, high school sweethearts turned married couple who are breaking the internet by breaking gender norms. We discuss how Hunter…
Seeing Other People"Questioning Chemistry and Learning from Mistakes"
UNFILTERED: I’m joined by a 23-year-old man who shares his dating experiences over the past year. He opens up about putting too much pressure on himself to…
Seeing Other PeopleYou’re Only as Needy as your Unmet Needs with Dr. Elizabeth Fedrick
I’m joined by Dr. Elizabeth Fedrick, PhD, LPC to discuss how our upbringing impacts our relationships. Elizabeth teaches us all about relational programming…
Seeing Other People"A Cross-Border LDR"
UNFILTERED: I’m joined by a woman from Canada who shares the story of the LDR she was in during COVID while the America/Canada border was semi-closed. We…
Seeing Other PeopleBeing Friends with Exes, Dating After Addiction and Learning from Heartbreak with Emily Ruhl
I’m joined by writer, producer, actress & model, Emily Ruhl. We discuss sharing your fears and anxieties with the people you’re dating, learning from each…
Seeing Other People"When Religion is a Dealbreaker"
I'm joined by a 23 year old woman in NYC who shares her experience dating within the Jewish community. We discuss being raised Jewish, deciding to pursue…
Seeing Other PeopleIs Timing Everything? With Justin & Slavo
I’m joined by Justina and Slavo from the LA-based indie pop duo, Fly By Midnight. They share how they’ve supported each other through different stages of their…
Seeing Other People"Self Sabotaging & Post-Breakup Mistakes"
UNFILTERED: I’m joined by Mackenzie (24) who hosts the podcast Taste of Blonde. We discuss her breakup from a healthy long-term relationship, how she handled…
Seeing Other PeopleHelping My Ex Realize He’s Gay with Jordan Paul
On this episode, I'm joined by my ex Jordan who I dated for six months in the beginning of the pandemic until he ended things, seemingly out of the blue. After…
Seeing Other People"He Met My Dad, but Was Still Active on Bumble"
UNFILTERED: I’m joined by a woman who thought things were going well with the guy she was seeing until she when saw a Bumble notification pop up on his phone…
Seeing Other PeopleRomance Isn’t What We See on Instagram with Couples Confessional
I’m joined by the anonymous founder of @couplesconfessional, an online safe space for relationships, dating, and singles to share stories, ask questions and…
Seeing Other People"What Men Think Women Get Wrong About Dating"
UNFILTERED: In this episode, I'm joined by a male in his late twenties to discuss the differences in the dating advice that men and women get. We discuss mixed…
Seeing Other PeopleDos and Don’ts of Texting Someone You Want to Date with Erika Ettin
I’m joined by dating coach Erika Ettin aka @alittlenudge to break down everything you need to know about texting when it comes to dating. From messaging on the…
Seeing Other People"Starting Over After a Broken Engagement"
UNFILTERED: I’m joined by fitness entrepreneur Kyle Axman who shares the story of getting back out there and finding love after breaking up with his partner of…
Seeing Other PeopleThe Art of the One Night Stand with John Franklin
On this hilarious episode, I’m joined by John Franklin, comedian, musician, and star of Netflix’s “The Circle.” We hear how his time on The Circle changed his…
Seeing Other PeopleUnfiltered: Everyone's Getting Engaged and Married (Except Me)
On this Unfiltered, I’m joined by Jenna, a 26-year-old living in Austin, Texas. Jenna opens up about being one of the only single people in her friend group…
Seeing Other PeopleFrom Feeling Hopeless to Finding Love with Carly Silverman
On this episode, I’m joined by Carly Silverman, TikTok star and Lox Club’s Senior Growth Manager. We hear how she went from feeling lost and heartbroken while…
Seeing Other PeopleUnfiltered: The Abortion Episode
The majority of this episode was originally recorded with an anonymous guest in February, 2021. After hearing the devastating news of SCOTUS overturning Roe v…
Seeing Other PeopleNavigating Sex & Sexual Health in the Age of Hookup Culture with Alyssa Ljub
I'm joined by Alyssa Ljub, Sex & Relationship Coach and recent star on Netflix's 'The Circle.' Alyssa shares how and why she became a sex coach, tips for…
Seeing Other People"Overcoming the Pressure to Find 'The One'"
UNFILTERED: I'm joined by a 40 year old woman who shares the pressure she's felt over the last twenty years to find her person, get married, and settle down…
Seeing Other PeopleEmbracing Singlehood with Helena and Laurina
I’m joined by Helena Rosen (Former SOP Guest “27 Years Single”) and Laurina Sachetti, hosts of Funny Girls podcast. Helena reflects on being in her first…
Seeing Other PeopleUnfiltered: He Took Back the Relationship
I'm joined by a woman who tells us about her partner asking to remove the "boyfriend/girlfriend" label just weeks after he asked her to be his girlfriend. We…
Seeing Other PeopleStop Believing these Dating Myths with Jared & Jordana
I’m joined by Jared Freid and Jordana Abraham, hosts of Betches’ U Up? Podcast', or as I like to call them, the mom and dad of modern dating. We discuss…
Seeing Other PeopleUnfiltered: What I Learned from Working with a Matchmaker & Dating Coach
I’m joined by a 30-year-old man from Washington, D.C. who shares what his dating journey has been like since it began when around 27 years old. We hear about…
Seeing Other PeopleFinding Yourself and Prioritizing What Matters with Molly Fedick
I’m joined by Molly Fedick, my former Hinge colleague and the founder of Buzzkill Wines, an Alcohol-Removed Sauvignon Blanc. Molly shares sober dating tips and…
Seeing Other PeopleUnfiltered: I Was Raised Mormon & My Ex-Husband Was a Sex Addict
On this Unfiltered, I'm joined by a woman who was raised Mormon. She shares how she lived by the rules, was extremely obedient and felt promised that if she…
Seeing Other PeopleWhat Guys Think of Dating Rules with Sam and Parker
On this episode I’m joined by Sam Panitch and Parker Yablon, the men of Elevation Nation. We hear about what problems guys face in dating that women don’t…
Seeing Other PeopleUnfiltered: When Life & Death Get in the Way
On this Unfiltered episode, I'm joined by a 28-year-old man from Scotland who is dating for the first time in 12 years due to the chronic illness diagnosis he…
Seeing Other PeopleThe Dating App Episode with Finding Mr. Height
Ali AKA Finding Mr. Height is back on the show for the most requested episode yet. We’re giving you a Dating Apps 101 course covering everything you need to…
Seeing Other PeopleUnfiltered: The Nuances of Dating After 30
I'm joined by a 33-year-old woman who shares her dating experiences. We discuss her dating app profile and conversation pain points, how she's maintained a…
Seeing Other PeopleMy Anxieties, Can Guys & Girls Be Just Friends, Saying ILY, Maintaining Independence & More. Solo Ep
I kick off this solo episode by opening up about career growing pains, feeling sad about the dating world, and the pressure I put on myself to succeed. After…
Seeing Other PeopleUnfiltered: Dating with Cancer
I'm joined by a man who shares his experience fighting cancer throughout his 20s. He discusses how it's impacted his dating life and his social life, how he…
Seeing Other PeopleWho Should Pay? The Money Conversations You Should be Having with Katie Gatti
I’m Joined by Katie Gatti, AKA Money with Katie, to discuss the most common money issues that singles and couples face. We discuss who should get the check and…
Seeing Other PeopleUnfiltered: The Classy Fckboy
I'm joined by a girl who shares her experience with a "Classy Fckboy," someone who knows how to win you over with their words, but is a professional at making…
Seeing Other PeopleHow to Stop Going for the Wrong People with Therapy Jeff
I'm joined by Jeff Guenther, LPC, to discuss how we can overcome our dating anxiety, make better decisions, and approach the early stages of dating in a…
Seeing Other PeopleUnfiltered: What I Learned From Going on 300 Dates in One Year
I’m joined by a man who shares the the ups and downs he experienced in his hyper-active pursuit of love, which ultimately led him to meet his fiance. We hear…
Seeing Other PeopleWhy Am I Still Single? With Mariah Grippo
Mariah Grippo, TikTok’s dating queen and founding member of Little Words Project, joins the show to talk about the struggles she and many other women face in…
Seeing Other PeopleUnfiltered: Afraid to Fall For The Wrong Person (Again)
I’m joined by a listener who shares the story of the relationship and breakup that changed her and set her years back on the timeline she had imagined for…
Seeing Other PeopleIt’s Okay to Feel Sad About Your Dating Life with Whitney Goodman, LMFT
In this episode, I’m joined by Whitney Goodman, LMFT, author of Toxic Positivity, and the brains behind the popular account @sitwithwhit. We discuss how our…