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Seeing Other People
Dating advice, real stories, and honest conversations about modern relationships. Seeing Other People with Ilana Dunn covers everything from first dates and situationships to long-term love, with expert guests, anonymous confessions, and unfiltered takes three times a week.
Whether you're swiping, healing, or somewhere in between...this is your show.
Episodes
Seeing Other People"Coworkers with Benefits"
I'm joined by an anonymous woman who opens up about her 2+ year long, on and off, friends with benefits situationship with her coworker. We hear how things…
Seeing Other PeopleDon't Let Anxiety Ruin your Dating Experiences with Lillian Rishty, LCSW
I'm joined by Lillian Rishty, LCSW and Therapist at NYC Therapy Group, to discuss how to navigate your dating anxiety at every step of the dating process. We…
Seeing Other People"Am I Too Independent to Find Love?"
I'm joined by an anonymous 31 year old woman who opens up about her journey to find self acceptance in her single hood. She shares how she felt more pressure…
Seeing Other PeopleHealing Your Heart & Learning to Love Yourself with Gabrielle Stone
Gabrielle stone, host of FML Talk podcast joins the show today. Gabrielle opens up about how getting cheated on by her ex husband and getting her heart broken…
Seeing Other People"Dating in NYC: The Good, The Bad, The Ugly"
UNFILTERED: I’m joined by Amanda, a New York City dater who has a myriad of dating horror stories to share. We commiserate about the good, the bad, the crazy…
Seeing Other PeopleThe Art to Having a Roster
Allana Blumberg, lifestyle and wellness creator and host of Morning Rae podcast, joins the show today. Allanna and I chat shifting your mindset from focusing…
Seeing Other PeopleDeciding to DTR, Moving in Together, Wedding +1s and more. Solo Q&A
I’m joined by…myself! On this solo episode, I’m answering a bunch of questions that you guys sent in! We’re chatting life & wedding planning updates, how to…
Seeing Other PeopleDealing with Rejection, Dating to Marry, and Sneaky Links with Carly Weinstein
I’m joined by Carly Weinstein, content creator and host of Hot Girl Talks, to chat all about the biggest pain-points in modern dating. We discuss whether not…
Seeing Other People"You Don't Need Alcohol to Have Fun on Dates"
I'm joined by Zoe Scurletis, host of Solace and the City, recent Sober queen, and soon-to-be therapist. Zoe opens up about making the decision to become sober…
Seeing Other PeopleAsk the Guys Anything with Sam & Joey
Our favorite guys, Sam Panitch and Joey Lane, are back for another round of “Ask the Guys Anything.” This time we’re talking about who should pay (and if he…
Seeing Other PeopleThe Jonas Brothers Episode
I can't believe I'm saying this...The Jonas Brothers are on today’s episode of Seeing Other People! I sit down with Nick, Joe, and Kevin Jonas to discuss their…
Seeing Other PeopleBuilding Confidence & Knowing your Worth with Gigi Robinson
Gigi Robinson, Chronic Illness Advocate, Creator Economy Speaker, and Author of A Kid’s Book About Chronic Illness, is back on the podcast a year and a half…
Seeing Other People"I Want to Be Known for Something Other than Who I'm Dating"
I'm joined by Bianca, a 31-year-old single mother, and career-focused psychiatric registered nurse. Bianca opens up about how her previous heartbreaks led her…
Seeing Other PeopleHow to Move On from Someone You Loved with Natalie Barbu
Natalie Barbu, Youtuber, Founder of Rella, and Host of The Real Reel, joins the show today to talk all about ending a four-year-long relationship. We hear why…
Seeing Other People"I Lost Myself in my Relationship"
This episode my be triggering to those with sensitivities around domestic violence and acts of physical and verbal abuse. I’m joined by a woman who opens up…
Seeing Other PeopleModern Dating Sucks – Here’s How We Fix It
We have a solo episode this week! I’m sharing what has been upsetting me about modern dating and what I would do to change it if I had a magic wand. Later, I…
Seeing Other People"Finding Love while Finding Yourself"
I’m joined by Taylor, a 24 year old woman living in Los Angeles who shares her experience dating with chronic health issues. Taylor’s life was turned upside…
Seeing Other PeopleWhat Do Men Really Want? + Q&A with The Guys
Sam Panitch and Joey Lane are here to provide the male perspective on your burning dating questions and confusing scenarios. Sam and Joey share what they wish…
Seeing Other People"How to Catch a Cheater"
Unfiltered: Anonymous joins the podcast to share her healing process from being cheated on, including what steps she took to recover and what finally led her…
Seeing Other PeopleThis is Seeing Other People
Seeing Other People and host Ilana Dunn are here to help you feel less alone in your dating struggles. <br> Real people, real stories, real life. Learn more…
Seeing Other PeopleWhat to Do if You Miss Your Ex
We kick off the episode with some of this week's dating wins and an update on my wedding venue search! Then I'm joined by Carly Silverman to answer your…
Seeing Other People"Stop Putting Pressure on Yourself"
I'm joined by a 28-year-old man who shares the story of a short-lived but very intense dating experience that lead him down a path of self-discovery and…
Seeing Other PeopleHow to Stay Positive when Modern Dating Sucks with Carly Silverman
Carly Silverman is back on the pod to help me answer listener questions! We talk about why we're so frustrated by influencers making grand statements about how…
Seeing Other People"He Was Sleeping with His Ex"
UNFILTERED: I'm joined by an anonymous woman who shares the story of a two year long situationship turned relationship filled with anxiety, manipulation, and…
Seeing Other People36 Questions that Lead to Love with Mady Maio
Mady Maio, founder of Camber app and host of Okay Sis, joins the show today. We answer some of the 36 Questions that Lead to Love in honor of Mady’s new video…
Seeing Other PeopleI'M ENGAGED!
My fiancé Jake (AH!) joins me to recap our proposal week! We answer your questions about when we knew we wanted to marry each other, if/when we talked about a…
Seeing Other PeopleHow to Express Your Needs
I’m joined by Ariella Azaraf, LCSW, to talk about expressing your needs, setting boundaries, and managing your dating anxiety. We discuss the language to use…
Seeing Other PeopleLosing my Job at Hinge, Starting Seeing Other People, and My Biggest Dating Tips
I’m sharing one of my favorite podcast interviews I’ve experienced to date! Elevation Nation’s Sam Pantich and Parker Yablon invited me onto their show to…
Seeing Other PeopleDating for Fun, Not for Love
I’m joined by Brianna Apple, a 23 year old Tiktoker navigating the NYC dating scene. We discuss the nuances of why she’s dating for fun and not for love right…
Seeing Other People"Getting Through A Blindsided Breakup"
UNFILTERED: I’m joined by a 40 year old woman who shares the story of how she developed a relationship with an old friend after he became her white knight…
Seeing Other PeopleHow to Stop Overthinking
I’m joined by Sabrina Bendory, Author of “You’re Overthinking It” and “10 Things Every Woman Needs to Know About Men.” Sabrina shares insight into what men…
Seeing Other People"Learning to Accept Myself"
UNFILTERED: I’m joined by Laurina Sachetti, host of Funny Girl Podcast to talk about her experience embracing her sexuality. We learned what led her to become…
Seeing Other PeopleHow to Be a Better Listener
I’m joined by Orly Israel, founder of Orly’s Listening Table, to discuss all things listening and communication. We hear about why he started Orly’s listening…
Seeing Other People"Can Relationships End on Good Terms?"
UNFILTERED: I’m joined by Julia Mazur, host of Pretty Much Done and former Tinder employee, to discuss her journey leaving a toxic relationship, learning to…
Seeing Other PeopleRecently Single Behavior, Missing an Ex, and How to Flirt
Erica Shea (previously on the episode “Do You Really Find Love When You Least Expect It?” is back to update us on what happened with the guy she met…when she…
Seeing Other People"Dating in Different Countires"
UNFILTERED: I'm joined by Kyla who shares her experiences dating people from all around the world during her solo travels. We hear what led her to start…
Seeing Other PeopleDon't Believe What You See on Social Media with Hilary Weinstein, LCSW
I’m joined by Hilary Weinstein, LCSW, founder of HLW therapy to discuss what she has learned while going through the most difficult time of her life. Hilary…
Seeing Other People"I Dated a Nazi"
UNFILTERED: I'm joined by a woman who tells the story of meeting a man from Bumble, developing a relationship with him, and then learning that he's a member of…
Seeing Other PeopleBlindsided Breakups, Dating App Tips & Meeting People IRL
I’m joined by Morgan Raum, Lox Club’s Head of Membership and creator of @tooomuchfoood. Morgan opens up about taking it slow at the start of a new…
Seeing Other People"I Was the Other Woman for a Year and Didn't Know It"
UNFILTERED: I'm joined by a woman who tells the story of how she accidentally ended up in a long distance relationship with a man she met on Bumble while he…
Seeing Other PeopleWhen to Call it Quits & How to Get Back Out There
I'm joined by Rudy A, TikToker and host of the Rude Advice podcast. We discuss how he went from being happily married to having an affair, why he and his…
Seeing Other People"My Ex-Wife Realized She's a Lesbian 14 Years into Marriage"
UNFILTERED: I’m joined by a man who tells the story of how his 14-year marriage ended because his wife realized she was a lesbian. We hear how he reacted to…
Seeing Other PeopleRelationship Timelines, Proposal Fails & Working With Your Partner with Olivia Landau
I’m joined by Olivia Landau, Founder & CEO of The Clear Cut, the insanely popular bespoke diamond and fine jewelry company. We hear Olivia she made the first…
Seeing Other People"When You 'Do Everything Right' & It Still Doesn't Work Out"
UNFILTERED: I'm joined by a man who went through a painful breakup in Mid-August. We hear how the situation spawned a lot of self-discovery and growth in the…
Seeing Other PeopleTalk About Sex Before Having It
I’m joined by Tatiana Fogt, sexuality educator and host of Bedside, a podcast series & activist platform, where she explores sexual health & wellness in the…
Seeing Other People"Surviving and Thriving After a Toxic Relationship"
I'm joined by a 30 year old woman who shares the story of her two year long toxic relationship involving cheating, manipulation, and emotional abuse. She…
Seeing Other PeopleAdulting 101: Dating Mistakes, Losing Dream Jobs, and Friendship Breakups
On this episode, I’m joined by Carly Silverman and Dani Katowitz, two of my good friends who I met via social media in 2022. We discuss all things navigating…
Seeing Other PeopleIlana's 2022: Highs & Lows, Lessons Learned, My Struggles & More
I’m joined by my associate producer, Camila Vola, to reflect back on 2022 and look ahead to 2023. We discuss my highs and lows, what lessons I learned, who had…
Seeing Other PeoplePressure & Expectations from Family & Culture
I'm joined by South Asian Therapist Fatema Jivanjee-Shakir, LMSW, to discuss the nuances of South Asian dating culture and how much emphasis our society places…
Seeing Other People"I Caught Him Cheating and Took Him Back"
UNFILTERED: An anonymous listener shares the story of the relationship she was in over the last year where she caught her boyfriend cheating on her. We hear…
Seeing Other PeopleThe Biggest Challenges that Couples are Facing + Listener Q’s
I'm joined by Zac Stern, Founder, and CEO of Official, the app for enhancing your relationships. We discuss why dating apps aren’t setting us up for…
Seeing Other PeopleSo You Have a Crush on Your Coworker? with Kristen and Sam
I'm joined by Kristen and Sam, my friends who are getting married in 2023 who – you guessed it – met at work. We hear how Kristen was crushing on Sam from afar…
Seeing Other PeopleAvoiding, Leaving, and Recovering From Narcissistic Relationships with Dr. Jaime Zuckerman
I'm joined by narcissism expert and licensed clinical psychologist Dr. Jaime Zuckerman. We discuss the difference between a toxic relationship and a…
Seeing Other People"Neurodiversity in Modern Dating"
UNFILTERED: I’m joined by Hannah, a 28-year-old woman who shares her experience living and dating with ADHD. We hear when and how she got her diagnosis and in…
Seeing Other PeopleChemistry vs. Compatibility with Matchmaker Maria
I'm joined by Maria Avgitidis, aka Matchmaker Maria, founder of Agape Match to chat all things chemistry and compatibility. We discuss if singles are looking…
Seeing Other PeopleHow Losing Loved Ones Impacts Your Love Life with Jamie Stone
I’m joined by Jamie Stone, blogger at honestlyjamie.com and host of the “A Little Too Much” podcast. Jamie opens up about losing her younger sister in 2016 and…
Seeing Other PeopleWhat Men Wish Women Did Differently in Dating with Tripp Kramer
I’m joined by Tripp Kramer, world-renowned dating men’s dating coach and host of the “How to Talk to Girls” podcast. Tripp and I discuss the biggest…
Seeing Other PeopleSituationships, Approaching Someone IRL & First Date Anxiety
Happy Thanksgiving! In this episode I answer listener questions about how to enjoy the holidays when you're single, how to get over a situationship when you're…
Seeing Other PeopleMake Your Own Dating Rules with Eli Rallo
I’m joined by Eli Rallo, writer, content creator, host of the podcast Miss Congeniality, and Author of “I Didn’t Know I Needed This” coming out next Fall…
Seeing Other People"How to Make a Relationship Last"
UNFILTERED: I’m joined by my college professor, Keith Giglio, and his wife, Juliet Giglio, a husband-wife screenwriting duo who met cute in an elevator while…