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Seeing Other People
Dating advice, real stories, and honest conversations about modern relationships. Seeing Other People with Ilana Dunn covers everything from first dates and situationships to long-term love, with expert guests, anonymous confessions, and unfiltered takes three times a week.
Whether you're swiping, healing, or somewhere in between...this is your show.
Episodes
Seeing Other PeopleUnfiltered: I Thought He Was The One
I sit down with my friend Sammy who shares her highest highs and lowest lows throughout her dating journey. We hear about a six-year relationship that ended…
Seeing Other PeopleBreaking Dating Rules, Our Biggest Challenges, The Honeymoon Phase + More with My Boyfriend Jake
Jake and I answer listener questions about our relationship and reflect on how we got to where we are now as a couple. We discuss what Jake thinks of dating…
Seeing Other PeopleUnfiltered: I Don't Want Kids
On this episode, I sit down with a woman who is navigating dating while knowing she doesn’t want kids. We hear when she decided this, why she stands by her…
Seeing Other PeopleHow Do You Know If They're The One? with Kate Steinberg
On this episode I’m joined by Kate Steinberg, the internet’s early 2000s queen who met her fiancé Chad on HBO Max’s “12 Dates of Christmas.” Kate shares how…
Seeing Other PeopleUnfiltered: Dating a Divorcee
On today's episode I talk to a woman who reached out to me after listening to the unfiltered episode called "Married at 25, Divorced at 26, Dating at 27". She…
Seeing Other PeopleThe Attachment Styles Episode with Rikki Cloos
On this episode, I’m joined by Rikki Cloos (@anxiousheartsguide) to discuss the basics of attachment theory. We learn how our attachment styles are shaped, if…
Seeing Other PeopleFirst Dates, Situationships, Friends with Exes & More. Solo Q&A
On this solo Q&A I answer listener questions about what makes a good date, rekindling an old situationship, being friends with an ex after ending on good…
Seeing Other PeopleDon't Let Your Anxiety Control Your Dating Life with @SitWithKelly
On this episode, I sit down with Kelly McKenna (@sitwithkelly), a therapist for anxious millennials. We discuss the difference between overthinking and…
Seeing Other PeopleUnfiltered: I Used Sex as a Coping Mechanism
On today’s episode I sit down with Kayla Moran, host of the Let’s Get Candid podcast. Kayla opens up about relationship and intimacy trauma, her relationship…
Seeing Other PeopleThe Guide to Getting Over Them with @yourbreakupbestie Kendra Allen
On this episode, I’m joined by @yourbreakupbestie Kendra Allen to discuss how to get through a breakup. Kendra walks us through the biggest mistakes people…
Seeing Other PeopleUnfiltered: I Was Blinded by Gaslighting & Manipulation
TW: Sexual assault. On this Unfiltered, I sit down with a woman who shares the story of the toxic relationship she didn’t realize she was in, despite all of…
Seeing Other PeopleAm I In a Toxic Relationship? (And How to Avoid Them) With Shrink Chicks
On this episode, I sit down with Emmalee Bierly, LMFT and Jennifer Chaiken, LMFT, owners and founders of the Therapy Group. We hear about early red flags you…
Seeing Other PeopleUnfiltered: Married at 25, Divorced at 26, Dating at 27
On today’s episode, I sit down with a 27-year-old woman who recently went through a divorce from her high school sweetheart who she had been with for nine…
Seeing Other PeopleThe Most Common Mistakes in Modern Dating with Talia Goldstein
On this episode I sit down with Talia Goldstein, Founder and CEO of Three Day Rule Matchmaking. We discuss the biggest flaws in dating apps and modern dating…
Seeing Other PeopleComparing Your Timeline, Taking Things Slow, Dating a Friend & More. Solo Q&A
In this solo episode, I answer listener questions about ghosting, unfollowing, and taking things slow. At 15 minutes in, I open up about the constant pressure…
Seeing Other PeopleCouples Therapy Isn’t Just for Crisis with Elizabeth Earnshaw
In today’s episode, I’m joined by Elizabeth Earnshaw (aka @lizlistens), Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist, owner of A Better Life Therapy, and author of “I…
Seeing Other PeopleUnfiltered: Inside the Brain of Someone who Cheated
On this Unfiltered episode, I sit down with a man whose infidelity and the guilt surrounding it led to him and his wife getting divorced. We hear what his life…
Seeing Other PeopleThe Love We Love with Fran Mariano
I kick off this Valentine’s Day special by sharing tips for making the most out of the holiday if you’re single. At 10 minutes, I’m joined by Fran Mariano from…
Seeing Other PeopleUnfiltered: 37 and Single (and Happy)
On today's episode, I sit down with Diana, a 37-year-old woman who is happily single. Diana opens up about growing up as a Jehovah’s Witness, how her views on…
Seeing Other PeopleJealousy, Open Relationships and Intimacy with Candice Horbacz aka Eva Lovia
On this episode, I’m joined by Candice Horbacz aka Eva Lovia. We hear about Candice’s rise to fame in the adult film industry and what her career taught her…
Seeing Other PeopleUnfiltered: The 27 Year Old Virgin
In this episode, I'm joined by a 27-year-old woman who has never had sex before. We hear about why she’s never had sex, what it’s like to date as a virgin, how…
Seeing Other PeopleWhat Nobody Tells You About Moving In Together with Jen Lauren
On this episode I’m joined by Jen Lauren, host of Dare to Self Care. We discuss the importance of balancing your relationship and friendships, maintaining your…
Seeing Other PeopleUnfiltered: When Vaccines Destroy Love with Aliana Michals
On todays episode, I sit down with Aliana Michals who shares her story of how her happy and healthy relationship was directly affected by the national dialogue…
Seeing Other PeopleYou’re Not Dating a Mind Reader with The Latke Room Boys
On this episode, I’m joined by Jonny Lazarus and Justin Kapelmaster from The Latke Room. We discuss why your date or partner probably doesn’t know what you’re…
Seeing Other PeopleUnfiltered: Dating on the Spectrum
On today's episode I'm joined by a 25 year old man who recently went through a breakup when his ex-girlfriend's parents found out that he has Aspergers…
Seeing Other PeopleDating is Hard for Him, Too with Dating by Blaine
On today’s episode, I’m joined by Blaine Anderson, aka Dating by Blaine, who is a dating coach for men. We hear about the biggest challenges men face in modern…
Seeing Other PeopleUnfiltered: We Aren’t Born Knowing How to Date
On this episode of Unfiltered, I sit down with two individuals who recently took 'Date Smarter' – Logan Ury's six-week interactive bootcamp designed to…
Seeing Other PeopleDate Smarter with Logan Ury
On Today’s episode I’m joined by behavioral scientist, dating coach, author, and Hinge’s Director of Relationship Science, Logan Ury. We discuss how Logan…
Seeing Other PeopleUnfiltered: Your Trauma Makes You Stronger with Zoe Scurletis
On this Unfiltered episode, I sit down with Zoe Scurletis, host of the podcast Solace and the City, to talk about how our traumatic experiences impact who we…
Seeing Other PeopleBeing Better Daters & Partners in 2022 with Mia and Carleigh
In this episode, I sit down with Mia and Carleigh, hosts of Mostly Balanced. We discuss healthier dating habits we should develop, our predictions for dating…
Seeing Other PeopleUnfiltered (Ilana's Version)
On this year’s final episode, I sit down with my producer, Camila Vola, to celebrate Seeing Other People's 1st birthday by reflecting on everything that…
Seeing Other PeopleUnfiltered: A Hopeless but Hopeful Romantic
On todays episode I sit down with a 26 year old man from London. We hear about his recent transcontinental whirlwind romance, what it's been like dating during…
Seeing Other People2021: Looking Back and Moving Forward with Katie and Vic
I’m joined by the amazing Katie Dombrowski and Victoria Bruno, hosts of The Moral Hangover Podcast, to break down everything that happened in dating in 2021…
Seeing Other PeopleUnfiltered: Breakthroughs from a Breakup
This episode may be triggering for those who sensitive to suicidal thoughts. On today’s episode, I sit down with a man who shares his story of being blindsided…
Seeing Other PeopleWhat a Healthy Relationship Looks Like with Jamie & Taylor
Therapist Jamie Genatt, and boyfriend, Taylor Adwar, join us to talk about how they built a successful partnership and healthy relationship over the last six…
Seeing Other PeopleUnfiltered: The Psychological Impact of Getting Ghosted
On today's episode, I sat down with a woman who recently experienced being ghosted for the first time by a man who lived a few doors down from her. We hear how…
Seeing Other PeopleAnatomy of a Gentleman with Levon The Gent
This episode is for the boys who want to be gentlemen, and for the girls who want to get inside a gentleman’s brain. I chat with James (Levon The Gent) Nichols…
Seeing Other PeopleUnfiltered: Don't Blame The Other Woman
On today’s episode I sit down with a woman who shares her experiences being cheated on, later meeting the other women, and realizing they were not the ones to…
Seeing Other PeopleDoes "The One" Exist? Closure, Dealbreakers, and more with Erica & Molly
I’m joined by the hilarious Erica Spera and Molly DeMellier, hosts of Shooters Gotta Shoot. We’re diving into the results of the Instagram polls you’ve voted…
Seeing Other PeopleDating While Grieving with Krista St. Germain
Krista St-Germain is a mom, grief expert and life coach for widowed moms and host of the Widowed Moms Podcast. She joins the show today to discuss sex, dating…
Seeing Other PeopleOCDating with Lindsay and Emily Stetzer
Lindsay and Emily Stetzer are sisters living with obsessive-compulsive disorder and anxiety, which led them to create Presently, a mindfulness jewelry company…
Seeing Other PeopleLearn About Divorce Before Getting Married with Kate Anthony
Kate Anthony, certified divorce coach and host of The Divorce Survival Guide Podcast, joins the show. We discuss how to decide if you should stay or leave your…
Seeing Other PeopleUnfiltered: Even Therapists Get Their Hearts Broken
On Unfiltered, I sit down with a 26 year old social worker and therapist who practices in New York City. We hear about her dating experience in her late teens…
Seeing Other PeopleBridesmaid for Hire & Surviving Weddings Single with Jen Glantz
On today’s episode I’m joined by Jen Glantz, founder of Bridesmaid For Hire, 3x author, and host of You’re Not Getting Younger. Jen and I discuss how to cope…
Seeing Other PeopleUnfiltered: Stop Lying to Yourself
On today's episode of Unfiltered, I sit down with a woman who shares what she went through when she caught her boyfriend hooking up with a stripper. She tells…
Seeing Other PeopleOwning Your Timeline with Laura Behnke
Laura Behnke joins the Seeing Other People family today to explain why you need to throw out your timeline. After 16 years of success as an award-winning…
Seeing Other PeopleUnfiltered: On Again, Off Again
On today’s episode of Unfiltered, I sit down with Romeo, who shares the story about his on again, off again relationship that began in college. We hear about…
Seeing Other PeopleOvercoming Dating Anxiety with Kevin Nahai
On today's episode, I sit down with Kevin Nahai, a personal coach who focuses on helping people with anxiety, low self esteem, and finding a healthy…
Seeing Other PeopleUnfiltered: I Flew to NY for a First Date
On this episode of unfiltered I sit down with a woman from Canada who shares her story of booking a flight to New York City to meet somebody who she matched…
Seeing Other PeopleWork Hard, Sleep Hard, Date Hard with Zac and Jordan Stenmark
On this episode I’m joined by Jordan and Zac Stenmark, twins, international models and entrepreneurs. We discuss their dating and relationship experiences as…
Seeing Other PeopleUnfiltered: Little People Big Hearts
On today’s episode of Unfiltered, I talk to Jillian about dating as a little person. She shares what it’s like to live and date in a world that’s not designed…
Seeing Other PeopleHealthy Communication 101 with David Sauvage
David Sauvage is an empath, an expert on empathy, and a teacher of empathy and emotional intelligence. He joins us today to help us learn how to communicate…
Seeing Other PeopleUnfiltered: Dating with an Eating Disorder
TW: Eating disorder thoughts and behaviors. On today’s episode I sit down with Sam, a woman who is in recovery from her eating disorder. She shares how her…
Seeing Other PeopleCareer & Love: You Can Have Both with Sami Wunder
Sami Wunder is a leading international relationship and dating expert who specializes in working with ambitious, high-achieving women, helping them attract…
Seeing Other People"Right Person, Wrong Time"
On today's Unfiltered episode, I sit down with a 28-year-old guy from New York City named Sam. Sam walks us through his complicated relationship with Taylor…
Seeing Other PeopleChronically Single with Gigi Robinson
Gigi Robinson, Gen Z thought leader, chronic illness and mental health advocate, and the host of Spotify Greenroom's "Everything You Need Is Within" joins the…
Seeing Other PeopleWhat The F*ck’s Up With Cheating? with Caitlin Kelley
Caitlin Kelley, host of What The Fuck’s Up podcast, joins us for a deep dive into all things cheating. We analyze your responses to a series of…
Seeing Other People'My Vagina Says, 'Do Not Enter'"
UNFILTERED: In this episode, I sit down with a woman who shares a story about being diagnosed with vaginismus. Vaginismus is a condition in which the vaginal…
Seeing Other Peopleabcdefu with Gayle
Artist and songwriter Gayle joins the show today to talk about what it’s like transforming her dating experiences into music and lyrics. We talk about the…
Seeing Other People"My Nonconsensual Sexual Experience"
TW: the following content may be sensitive for those who have experienced any form of sexual assault. On today’s episode, I’m joined by a woman who had a…