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Seeing Other People
Dating advice, real stories, and honest conversations about modern relationships. Seeing Other People with Ilana Dunn covers everything from first dates and situationships to long-term love, with expert guests, anonymous confessions, and unfiltered takes three times a week.
Whether you're swiping, healing, or somewhere in between...this is your show.
Episodes
Seeing Other PeopleSee Them vs. See Other People with Tinah Ogalo
Tinah (with an H) Ogalo, host of the In Your Twentys podcast, joins us today for a deep dive into the most controversial and shocking poll results from the…
Seeing Other PeopleUnfiltered: How Body Image Insecurities Impact His Dating Life
TW: the following content may be sensitive for those with an eating disorder. On today’s episode, we hear from a 25 year old male who has struggled with body…
Seeing Other PeopleDon’t Let Past Relationships Impact Future Ones with Dr. Abby Medcalf
Today we’re joined by Dr. Abby Medcalf, psychologist, best-selling author of "Be Happily Married: Even If Your Partner Won't Do a Thing Kindle" and host of the…
Seeing Other People"His Parents Didn't Accept Me"
On today’s Unfiltered episode, Ilana sits down with Daniela, a 27 year old female living in Toronto, Canada. Daniela shares the story of the breakup she went…
Seeing Other PeopleLong Distance Survival Guide with Jamie and Max
LDR (Long Distance Relationship) survivors Jamie and Max walk us through the highs and lows of the four-year long distance span of their relationship. We…
Seeing Other People"Get Knocked Down 2 Times, Get Back Up 3"
Ilana sits down with a 28 heterosexual woman who currently lives in New York. She opens up about her first dating app experiences in 2019, which included…
Seeing Other PeopleEverything You’re Doing Wrong In Dating with Damona Hoffman
Damona Hoffman is the Host of the podcast Dates & Mates, the official Dating Coach for OkCupid, a Love Expert on The Drew Barrymore Show, an Advice Columnist…
Seeing Other People"I Called Off My Engagement"
Ilana sits down with a 32-year-old who called off her marriage just two months before the wedding. We hear what led to this decision, how she went about ending…
Seeing Other PeopleLet’s Get Confident with Serena Kerrigan
Serena Kerrigan, the Queen of Confidence and the creator of the show and card game Let’s F*cking Date and the new card game Let’s F*cking F*ck, joins us today…
Seeing Other People"Am I Into Women, Too?"
A 27-year-old woman takes over the Unfiltered mic to share her experience exploring her sexuality and coming out as bisexual. She explains what led to this…
Seeing Other PeopleSeeing Each Other with Ilana & Jake
Backed by popular demand, Ilana’s boyfriend Jake is joining the show for a tell-all about their relationship. Ilana and Jake open up about how everything…
Seeing Other People"It’s Not Your Fault You’re Single"
On this episode of Unfiltered I sit down with Austin (30M) who lives in Australia. When Austin was 15, he met someone who he ended up dating and marrying when…
Seeing Other PeopleDTR, Communication and Commitment with Shaun Galanos @TheLoveDrive
Love, Communication and Intimacy Coach Shaun Galanos aka @thelovedrive joins us on Seeing Other People to share his expertise on how to be a better…
Seeing Other People"He Gave Me an STI"
On this Unfiltered episode we’re joined by a 26 year old female who was diagnosed with herpes. She shares what it was like receiving her diagnosis…
Seeing Other PeopleConfessions of an Ex Fckboy
Ilana’s older brother Andrew (31) is joining us on the podcast today to reassure us that once a fckboy, not always a fckboy. After years of immersing himself…
Seeing Other People"Guys Get Anxiety, Too"
On this Unfiltered episode, we’re joined by a 26-year-old straight male in the New York City area to hear about his recent relationship that led him to…
Seeing Other PeopleWhat Grandma Thinks We're Doing Wrong with Excuse My Grandma
Kim Murstein and Grandma Gail from the Excuse My Grandma podcast join the show this week to discuss the generational differences of what dating is like now vs…
Seeing Other PeopleUnfiltered: Finding Love After Loss
On this episode of Unfiltered, I’m joined by Caroline, a 27 year old living in New York City who is navigating dating after losing her older brother. She…
Seeing Other PeopleDouble Dating with Fourplay Social
Ilana sits down with Julie and Danielle, the founders of Fourplay Social, a double dating app where friends team up and match with other pairs. We hear about…
Seeing Other PeopleUnfiltered: 27 Years Single
Twenty-seven year old NYC resident, listener and friend Helena joins the Unfiltered family today to discuss the challenges of dating when you’ve never been in…
Seeing Other PeopleThe Age of Loneliness with Smiley Poswolsky
Smiley Poswolsky, author of Friendship in the Age of Loneliness, joins Ilana on Seeing Other People to discuss human connection in today’s society and culture…
Seeing Other PeopleUnfiltered: I Left the Church to Save Myself
On this episode of Unfiltered, I’m joined by a 24-year-old female who has been grappling with religious sexual shame while trying to date. From a young age…
Seeing Other People50 Dates in 50 States with Matthew Wurnig
Ilana sits down with Matthew Wurnig, the creator and dater behind 50 Dates in 50 States. Matthew shares how he got the idea to do a date in every state during…
Seeing Other PeopleUnfiltered: Feeling Broken After a Breakup
Real people. Real stories. Real life. Anonymous listeners join the show to have vulnerable and open conversations about what they’ve struggled with in their…
Seeing Other PeopleLearning to Love Your Single Self with Sarah Sasson
On this episode of Seeing Other people, Ilana is joined by Sarah Sasson, her best friend and the co-host of the It’s Fine, I’m Fine podcast. Ilana and Sarah…
Seeing Other PeopleWe're Breaking Up
On this special episode of Seeing Other People, we’re parting ways with one of our beloved hosts. We’re bad at goodbyes, but we did our best. Plus, it’s not…
Seeing Other PeopleWhen Should You Start Being Vulnerable?
We’re diving into the ins and outs of being vulnerable in your dating life. When do you start opening up and being vulnerable? How can you be vulnerable…
Seeing Other PeopleDating Coworkers, Trying Again With Exes, Physical Attraction & More. Full Q&A Episode!
We’re back with another full Q&A episode! How can you close the door on someone once and for all? How many dates in should you delete your dating apps? How do…
Seeing Other PeopleShould a First Date be Drinks or Dinner? with Jeremy Jacobowitz
Jeremy Jacobowitz aka Brunch Boys chats with Jonah and Ilana about all things going out on dates. Who should pay? Should it be drinks or dinner? What food is…
Seeing Other PeopleMe in Search of You with Jenna Langbaum
Jenna Langbaum, author of “Me in Search of You,” joins us on this episode of Seeing Other People. Jenna’s writing beautifully dissects the nuances of modern…
Seeing Other PeopleIt's Complicated: Situationships with Finding Mr. Height
Situationships? More like situationshits. We’re diving into the ins and outs of situationships with Ali and Roark of Finding Mr. Height: The Podcast. What…
Seeing Other PeopleWhat Not to Talk About on a First Date with Alexis AKA NYC Date Nite
We go on a date with Alexis Wolfe AKA @nycdatenite to talk all about post-pandemic dating. From getting back out there and going on that first in-person date…
Seeing Other PeopleSo You Think You Can Date? with Sandro D'Abruzzo
We chat with Sandro D’Abruzzo, author of “So You Think You Can Date?” We hear what led Sandro to write about how to find success in dating and his experiences…
Seeing Other PeopleShould We Give Second Chances? Full Q&A Episode
We love when you ask us questions, so we're taking up a whole episode to answer as many of them as we can! We're answering questions including: Do people…
Seeing Other PeopleDating with Chronic Illness with Noa Porten
Today's guest is Noa Porten who hosts the Spooning with Spoonies podcast where she chats about dating and relationships with experts, singles, and couples from…
Seeing Other PeopleHow To Be a Good Texter
The episode you probably knew you needed is finally here. Are your texting habits holding you back from finding what you’re looking for? Are they not into you…
Seeing Other PeopleWedding Szn Survival Guide with Nicole Pellegrino
Nicole Pellegrino, cohost of the Betches Brides podcast joins us to prep you all for this year’s wedding season. Nicole spills the secrets to what has kept her…
Seeing Other PeopleIs Every App a Dating App? & Friends with Benefits
Not having the best luck meeting people on dating apps? This episode is all about other ways you can put yourself out there and find love. Whether it be the…
Seeing Other PeopleShould All Dates End with a Rose Ceremony? with Ed Waisbrot
We’re kicking off our Thursday episode series by catching up with Bachelor Nation’s Ed Weisbrot. We hear about Ed’s dating life since his time on…
Seeing Other PeopleBooty Call to Bride with Rishi Mathur
We're joined by comedian Rishi Mather who kicks off the episode by sharing how he’s been navigating his parents’ disapproval of his engagement. We discuss how…
Seeing Other PeopleComing Out at Twenty Seven
New Yorker and friend of the show, Derek Lindsey, joins us today to share his experience coming out in his late twenties. Derek opens up about his fears about…
Seeing Other PeopleDefining Dating with Jared Freid
We’re hanging (socially distanced…of course) with Jared Freid on this episode of Seeing Other People! We kick things off with a friendly reminder that social…
Seeing Other PeopleDon't Bring Work Home with You
We’re sitting down (virtually) with Jon and Rene Shapiro, husband and wife and founders Mixology and Mindset Wellness CBD. The Shapiros open up about the highs…
Seeing Other PeopleWe Have History with Francesca Beauman
We're traveling back in time with Francesca Beauman, writer, historian, and the world’s leading expert in Personal Ads, to learn about how people “dated”…
Seeing Other PeopleAn Unplanned Pregnancy
"Get an abortion" was not on her college bucket list. She never thought she would have to call her parents and say, "I'm pregnant." Our guest opens up about…
Seeing Other PeopleHow To Get Over Someone feat. Amy Chan of Renew Breakup Bootcamp
We’re joined by Amy Chan, Founder of Renew Breakup Bootcamp and author of Breakup Bootcamp -The Science of Rewiring Your Heart. In this episode, we learn how…
Seeing Other PeopleV****tine's Day Survival Guide
Happy almost February 14th! AKA, the day that comes after February 13th and before February 15th. If this day makes you anxious, nervous, or sad, have no fear…
Seeing Other PeopleDisagreeing with We Met at Acme
We’re going head to head with Lindsey Metselaar, host of We Met at Acme, to debate some of the most common "rules" of dating, including girls shouldn't text…
Seeing Other PeopleThirty, Flirty and Dating with Zahra Sahebzada
Repeat after us: being thirty and single is OKAY. We're joined by Zahra Sahebzada who is here to discuss her experiences dating in New York City as an Afghan…
Seeing Other PeopleThe Dating App Episode
Why am I not getting any matches? Why are my conversations not turning into dates? What is the deal with all of the fish photos? If you've ever asked yourself…
Seeing Other PeopleWhat Guys Wish Girls Knew & What Girls Wish Guys Knew
On this week's episode, we're sharing our listener's responses to what they wish the people they were dating knew. It's the tell-all that you didn't know you…
Seeing Other PeopleAnatomy of a F***boy with Dylan Farella
We're breaking down what it really means to be a f**kperson with the help of @dfarella, everyone’s favorite internet boyfriend. What are a f******y's true…
Seeing Other PeopleWe're Getting Back Together
New year, new podcast! Hey guys, it’s Ilana and Jonah and we are back and better than ever! Today is Dating Sunday, the busiest online dating day of the year…