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The Art of Charm
Explore social skills like charisma, confidence, body language and conversation. On The Art of Charm, co-founders AJ Harbinger and Johnny Dzubak break down the science of human behavior into practical skills, from owning a room and reading people to making a first impression and building real connection. Short Social Intelligence Briefings focus on one skill in about 15 minutes, and long-form interviews go deep with experts such as Joe Navarro, Chris Voss and Vanessa Van Edwards on body…
Episodes
The Art of Charm308: Susan RoAne | How to Work a Room
"If we listen, we always know what to say next." - Susan RoAne The Cheat Sheet: Your number one purpose at any event. Why drinks aren't really free at an open…
The Art of Charm307: Pat Flynn | Smart Passive Income
"We can't control what happens to us, but we can control how we feel, how we react and what we do." - Pat Flynn The Cheat Sheet: Why it's important to him to…
The Art of Charm306: Jon Vroman | Legacy is Greater than Currency
"A day of pain is worth a lifetime of pride." - Jon Vronman The Cheat Sheet: How he invested his last $4k and how it motivated him. The 53-mile double marathon…
The Art of Charm305: Art of Charm | The Tinder Toolbox
"When it comes to setting a date, just take the lead and guide the interaction. You'll have a lot better first dates and help yourself out with the Attraction…
The Art of Charm303: Michael Simmons | Top 30 Under 30
"A lot of the best stories are the ones you are most resistant to share." - Michael Simmons The Cheat Sheet: What are brokers and why are they uniquely…
The Art of Charm302: Arel Moodie | Art of Likeability
"The truth is no matter what we want in this life, every single thing is learnable." - Arel Moodie The Cheat Sheet: Shaq has a legitimate PhD: true or false?…
The Art of Charm301: AoC Toolbox | Long-Distance Relationships
"Part of trust is being secure, not just with you as a couple but also within yourself." - The Art of Charm The Cheat Sheet: How long-distance becomes…
The Art of Charm300: James Altucher | Choose Yourself & 50 Alternatives to College
"The best indicator of a successful tomorrow is having a successful day today, that's the only thing." - James Altucher The Cheat Sheet: Why starting a…
The Art of Charm299: Ted Ryce | Alpha Man Project
"I can't control what happens outside of me, but I can control what happens on the inside." -Ted Ryce The Cheat Sheet: What was it like to see his brother's…
The Art of Charm298: Jesse Elder | Wealth, Women & War
"It's never going to be perfect, I'm never going to have all the answers and I don't want all the answers because that would be boring!" - Jesse Elder The…
The Art of Charm296: Derek Coburn | Networking is Not Working
"The definition I use for networking is anything that increases the value of your network and/or the value you contribute to it. " - Derek Coburn The Cheat…
The Art of Charm294: John Ruhlin | Epic Gifting
"Most people feel under-appreciated so if you want to make huge jumps up the career ladder, start treating other people as if you own the company.. " - John…
The Art of Charm293: Michael Port | Book Yourself Solid
"When I started seeing myself as I actually am and allowing other people to see that too, I started feeling more powerful. " - Michael Port Can acting teach us…
The Art of Charm292: Tony Blauer | Mindsets for Survival
"The tools and skills you need to protect yourself are things you come equipped with." - Tony Blauer If it came down to it, could you defend yourself or a…
The Art of CharmBONUS: Tai Lopez | Read a Book Each Day
"What makes homo sapiens the dominant force on the planet for the last 150,000 years is the brain." - Tai Lopez What would you call a man who spent his teenage…
The Art of Charm290: Heidi Reeder | Commit to Win
"Anybody can accomplish amazing things if they reflect on what they value and then fully commit to it." -Dr. Heidi Reeder What does commitment really mean? Is…
The Art of Charm288: Nick Morgan | Power Cues
"Every communication is two conversations: the content and the body language. When the two are aligned, you can be successful." - Nick Morgan Did you ever do…
The Art of Charm287: Hunter Maats | Straight-A Conspiracy
"It is our emotional experience that makes the difference in how we're learning." - Hunter Maats Can intelligence and mastery be learned or are we all innately…
The Art of Charm286: Shawn Stevenson | Hack Your Sleep
"When your sleep is on point, everything you're doing is going to get better." -Shawn Stevenson Sleep: It's commonly accepted that we should sleep 8 hours a…
The Art of Charm284: Isaiah Hankel | Black Hole Focus
"Paradoxes are powerful. The main paradox when it comes to being charismatic that you want to create, is to create the paradox of strength & warmth ." -Isaiah…
The Art of Charm283: Ari Meisel | Less Doing, More Living
"Have things come to you at the time that you can best deal with them." Ari Meisel What would you do if you were given a diagnosis and put on 16 pills a day?…
The Art of Charm282: Dr. Sara Gottfried | Decoding Female Hormones
When you understand these hormonal changes, it creates grace in a relationship. - Dr. Sara Gottfried Are you tired of not knowing how to cope with your woman's…
The Art of CharmHow to Read People Like a Book | Vanessa Van Edwards
Imagine what you could do if you could always know what someone else was really thinking - no matter what they were saying to you. How would that change your…
The Art of Charm277: Charlie Tips | Raising Young Millionaires
"Nobody ever got rich working for a living." -Grandpa Tips If the 'World's Most Interesting Man' were a dad, he'd be Charlie Tips. Charlie gives parenting and…
The Art of Charm275: James Swanwick | Fake It 'til You Make It on ESPN
"If you don't like the way the world is, you change it. You have an obligation to change it. You just do it one step at a time." -Marian Wright Edelman James…
The Art of Charm271: Steven Kotler | The Rise of Superman
“You cannot run away from weakness; you must some time fight it out or perish; and if that be so, why not now, and where you stand?”—Robert Louis Stevenson…
The Art of Charm270: Hal Elrod | Your Miracle Morning
"Where you are is a result of who you were, but where you go depends entirely on who you choose to be." Hal Elrod died and came back to life. But, he didn't…
The Art of Charm269: Noah Kagan | Building an Empire from the Ashes
“To be in the 1% you have to do what the 99% won’t.” -Unknown Noah Kagan got fired from Facebook...and proceeded to kick ass, again and again. Noah Kagan of…
The Art of Charm268: Jordan Gray | Keep Her Captivated
"Either you run the day or the the day runs you." - Jim Rohn This one starts off a little scattered but gets fun and goes deep quick. Jordan and Jordan (yes…
The Art of Charm267: Mike Hrostoski | The H is Kinda Silent
“The greatest fear in the world is of the opinions of others. And the moment you are unafraid of the crowd you are no longer a sheep, you become a lion. A…
The Art of Charm266: Josh Shipp | Wishful Thinking is NOT a Strategy
"Wishful thinking is NOT a strategy." -Josh Shipp Josh Shipp is a motivational speaker and author with an awesome story (in both the good and the bad way)…
The Art of Charm265: Daniel Duane | Do Men Suck at Friendship?
"Friendship... is not something you learn in school. But if you haven't learned the meaning of friendship, you really haven't learned anything." -Muhammad Ali…
The Art of Charm263: Robin Dreeke | Spy Catcher
"I know not every mom is a secret KGB spy, but every mom has this whole other life. Every dad and every person has this whole other life." -Keri Russell Robin…
The Art of Charm260: Tucker Max | I Used to Be an A-Hole
"I'm just starting to scratch the surface of what really makes me happy and it's taken me a while to admit that acting like a little child and being a jerk and…
The Art of Charm259: Ben Greenfield | Become Superhuman
“The cost of being wrong is less than the cost of doing nothing.” - Seth Godin Ben Greenfield is kinda crazy, but in a good way. You'll see what we mean when…
The Art of Charm258: AoC Toolbox | Where to Meet High-Quality Women
"Love is the expression of one's values, the greatest reward you can earn for the moral qualities you have achieved in your character and person, the emotional…
The Art of Charm257: James Clear | Transform Your Habits
"One can have no smaller or greater mastery than mastery of oneself." —Leonardo Da Vinci Habit-Change maestro James Clear knows about habits, the good, the…
The Art of Charm256: Elliott Hulse | Strength Camp
"Every action is measured by the sentiment from which it proceeds." -Emerson Mild-mannered yet Super-Human, Elliott Hulse both terrifies and delights small…
The Art of Charm255: Susan Winter | Is she crazy or is this normal?
“Here's all you have to know about men and women: women are crazy, men are stupid. And the main reason women are crazy is that men are stupid.” -George Carlin…
The Art of Charm254: John Corcoran | Systemize your Network
John Corcoran of Smart Business Revolution tells us how to systemize our networking and relationship-building process, including: Why it’s all about who you…
The Art of Charm253: Jordan Harbinger on TheLip.Tv
Jordan Harbinger of the Art of Charm chats with Gabe Mizrahi of TheLip.tv about social confidence, removing social anxiety, and what we do here at AoC! We…
The Art of Charm206: Justin Jensen | Top Excuses for Not Coming to AoC
Since the foundation of The Art of Charm, thousands of students have come through our doors, graduated and left as the type of man they've always wanted to be…
The Art of Charm251: AoC Toolbox | How to Break Up with Someone
"I'm thankful for my struggle, for without it I wouldn't have stumbled across my strength." - Alex Elle Breaking up is hard to do. AJ & Jordan Harbinger of The…
The Art of Charm250: Robert Greene | 7th Anniversary Special
Jordan's Note: this is the 7-year anniversary episode of The Art of Charm Podcast. Since we couldn't and wouldn't have ever done this without your support…
The Art of CharmHow to Read Body Language to Tell If She's Interested
"Your actions speak so loudly, I can not hear what you are saying." - Ralph Waldo Emerson In the latest installment of The Art of Charm Toolbox, Justin Jensen…
The Art of Charm236: AoC Toolbox | Vocal Tonality
In this long-awaited edition of The Art of Charm Toolbox, AJ & Jordan Harbinger outline some of the basics of solid vocal tonality, including drills and…
The Art of Charm230: AoC Toolbox | Red Flags
So you've found someone new and you're love-struck? That's great! Watch out for these red flags that tend to signal crazy, high-maintenance (or worse) from a…
The Art of Charm228: AoC Alumni Spotlight: Daniel
Daniel, an AoC alum, went from homeless to successful entrepreneur and philanthropist. In this episode, we explore how he used his AoC skill set to grow…
The Art of Charm225: AoC Toolbox | Relationship Foundations
When things go right an you’ve met someone who piques as much interest and curiosity in you as you have in them relationships bloom. AJ, Johnny and Justin go…
The Art of Charm221: AoC Toolbox | Guide to First Dates
Now that you've met and garnered some interest from the opposite sex AJ, Johnny and Justin go through some tried & tested ideas and tips to help you out on…
The Art of Charm218: AoC Toolbox | Nightlife Dos and Don'ts
In episode 218 we talked to club builder, production manager, and friend of the show Derek W on the ins and outs of the nightlife industry. We covered…
The Art of Charm215: AoC Toolbox | Getting over a Breakup
When it comes to dating and relationships, we’ve spent a lot of our toolbox episodes on getting things started. One phase we haven’t talked too much about is…
The Art of Charm208: AoC Toolbox | Escaping the Friend Zone
AJ Harbinger, Johnny Dzubak, and Justin Jensen of The Art of Charm Crew get together to discuss the dreaded Friend Zone: Why you're in it How to get out of it…
The Art of Charm204: AoC Toolbox | Signs of Attraction
AJ, Johnny and Justin from The Art of Charm Crew get together to discuss signs of attraction in the latest addition to The Art of Charm toolbox! Enjoy! How to…
The Art of Charm105: AoC Toolbox | Value Revisited Part 3
Who decides what you're socially worth? People make assumptions about you just by seeing the way you interact with and react to others. We just re-made the The…
The Art of Charm104: AoC Toolbox | Value Revisited Part 2
Who decides what you're socially worth? People make assumptions about you just by seeing the way you interact with and react to others. We just re-made the The…
The Art of Charm103: AoC Toolbox | Value Revisited Part 1
Who decides what you're socially worth? People make assumptions about you just by seeing the way you interact with and react to others. We just re-made the The…
The Art of Charm0: Welcome to The Art of Charm!
This short episode is for those of you wondering where all the previous shows have gone or are new to The Art of Charm Podcast. You can find all of our…