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Taboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50
Karen Bigman, a Sexual Health Alliance Certified Sex Educator, Life, and Relationship Coach, tackles the often-taboo subject of sexuality with a straightforward and candid approach. We explore the intricacies of sex in midlife, offering insights and support for all those experiencing these transformative phases. We'll discuss dating and sex post-divorce, shedding light on the challenges and triumphs of rediscovering intimacy. Karen dives deep into the impact of hormonal changes on sexuality…
Episodes
- Taboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50
Prostate Cancer Screening, Surgery and Sex: A Urologist Explains with Dr. Mohit Khera | Ep. 214
In this episode, I’m answering the questions men are often too embarrassed to ask about sex after prostate cancer treatment. Can you still get an erection? Can…
- Taboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50
What Is Polyamory? Open Relationships vs. Swinging vs. Monogamish | Ep. 213
In this episode, I’m taking on the line I’ve heard more times than I can count: that non-monogamy is just cheating with permission. Polyamory, open…
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What Is Tantric Sex? It’s Not What You Think (Tantra for Beginners) | Ep. 211 (Part 2)
In this episode, I’m back with tantra teacher Deborah Kat for part two, and we pick up right where we left off: you’ve decided to slow down, so now what?…
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Sexless Marriage Effect on Husband: Rejection, Silence & What Helps | Ep. 212
If you feel more like roommates than partners, The Sexless Marriage Reset is my 12-week group program built for men in exactly this place. Limited spots are…
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What Is Tantric Sex? It’s Not What You Think (Tantra for Beginners) | Ep. 211 (Part 1)
In this episode, I’m talking about tantra with tantra teacher and intimacy coach Deborah "Kat", and I’ll admit she threw me off within the first five minutes…
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Can a Sexless Marriage Survive? 4 Patterns to Spot & Break | Ep. 210
In this episode, I’m taking on a sentence I hear constantly from men in a sexless marriage: “She just doesn’t want sex anymore. This is who she is now.” I want…
- Taboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50
Why Women Don’t Tell Men What They Want in Bed | Ep. 208 (Part 2)
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Do Men Need Emotional Connection to Want Sex? The Real Answer | Ep. 209
Do men need emotional connection to feel desire? The story we all learned says men just need a body and an opportunity, and women are the ones who need to feel…
- Taboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50
What Makes a Man Great in Bed? A Researcher Asked 1,067 Women | Ep. 208 (Part 1)
In this episode, I sit down with researcher and men’s relationship coach Melanie Curtin. She asked more than 1,000 women a question most men think they already…
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Could Your Penis Be Telling You Something? ED, Diabetes & Heart Health After 50 | Ep. 206
In this episode, I’m talking about what diabetes, high blood pressure, and heart health have to do with your sex life, and why a change in your erections…
- Taboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50
Sex after prostate cancer: what men need to know before surgery with Dr. Amy Pearlman | Ep. 205 (Part 2)
In this episode, I'm back with urologist Dr. Amy Pearlman for part two of our conversation. We start with a question I hear all the time: does ejaculating…
- Taboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50
Erectile Dysfunction After 50? Let’s Talk Penis Rings, Pumps & What Actually Works | Ep. 206
In this episode, I'm opening up the toolbox most men refuse to touch: penis rings, vacuum pumps, and prostate massagers. Men avoid these products for the same…
- Taboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50
What Really Happens At The Urologist (and why men avoid it) with Dr. Amy Pearlman | Ep. 205 (Part 1)
In this episode, I sit down with urologist Dr. Amy Pearlman to talk about what men actually need from their doctors and so rarely get. We start with the…
- Taboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50
Testosterone for Men vs. Women: The Truth About Libido, Energy & Orgasm | Ep. 204
In this episode, I'm talking about testosterone in midlife, menopause, low sex drive, and why so many women on hormone therapy are still missing the one…
- Taboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50
Inside a Sex Club and a Kink Club for the First Time: What I Learned | Ep. 203
In this episode, I'm sharing something completely different: a firsthand account of a weekend I had in Montreal. I was there for an Advanced SAR — a Sexual…
- Taboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50
The Male G-Spot 101: The Truth About Prostate Massage, Risk, and the Anus Myth | Ep. 202
The prostate, also called the male G-spot, is a walnut-sized gland most straight men never want to talk about, and this episode is exactly that conversation. I…
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How To Fix Performance Anxiety In The Bedroom, According To Sex Coach Alex Grendi | Ep. 201
In this episode, I'm talking with Alex Grendi, a men's intimacy and confidence coach who spent years quietly numbing his own performance anxiety before he…
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Why Your Marriage Went Sexless — And How to Talk About It Again | Ep. 200
In this episode, I'm kicking off season 7 — and marking 200 episodes of Taboo to Truth — with one of the topics that comes up in my practice more than almost…
- Taboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50
The Secret to Reconnecting in a Sexless Marriage with Coach Mike Elliott | Ep. 198 (Part 2)
In part two of my conversation with men's coach Mike Elliott, we get into how couples actually reconnect and rebuild intimacy after a sexless marriage, low…
- Taboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50
The Impact of Sexual Rejection: What It Does to Your Brain, Body & Relationship | Ep. 199
Chronic sexual rejection in a relationship doesn't just cause hurt feelings, it rewires how a person feels about themselves, their body, and their worth. In…
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The Secret to Reconnecting in a Sexless Marriage with Coach Mike Elliott | Ep. 198 (Part 1)
Every conversation about a sexless marriage gets pointed at the woman. Low desire, hormones, resentment, the mental load, she's the one who's supposed to…
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Dating After Divorce: What Nobody Tells You About Starting Over After 50
Dating after divorce isn't a downgrade. It's the first time you get to pick a partner with your eyes wide open, and that's exactly what I'm digging into this…
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"My First Threesome Went Viral": Ali Imperiale Tells All | Ep. 195 (Part 2)
Part two picks up right where we left off, and this time I get into the parts of ethical non-monogamy most people never actually see. Ali walks me through the…
- Taboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50
When She Wants It More: The Desire Gap Nobody Talks About | Ep. 196
Everyone pictures the same scene when they think about mismatched desire: he's reaching, she's pulling away. I want you to picture the opposite couple today…
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"My First Threesome Went Viral": Ali Imperiale Tells All | Ep. 195 (Part 1)
Open relationships get a bad reputation. People hear "ethical non-monogamy" and assume it's a free pass to cheat, or a fantasy dressed up with a fancier name…
- Taboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50
Is Male Menopause Real? The Truth About Testosterone After 40
If you're exhausted, your gut is expanding, your motivation is gone, and your sex drive has quietly disappeared, someone has probably told you it's male…
- Taboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50
Inside a 5-Year Open Relationship: What Nobody Tells You About Polyamory | Ep. 192 (Part 2)
In part two of my conversation with Susan Bratton and Karl Eberhardt, we go even deeper into what actually holds a non-monogamous relationship together. We…
- Taboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50
The Exact Words to Use When You Want More Sex | Ep. 193
I'm tackling one of the most avoided conversations in long-term relationships: how to actually bring up sex with your partner. In this episode, I break down…
- Taboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50
Inside a 5-Year Open Relationship: What Nobody Tells You About Polyamory | Ep. 192 (Part 1)
Non-monogamy is one of the topics I get asked about more than almost anything else, so in this episode I sit down with Susan Bratton and Karl Eberhardt to dig…
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The #1 Reason She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore
The reason your marriage is sexless has nothing to do with sex. If you think a lack of intimacy in your relationship is a sex problem, I need you to hear this…
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Premature Ejaculation Is More Common Than You Think — Here's What Actually Works | Ep. 190
Most men would rather suffer in silence than admit they have a problem in the bedroom —Let’s change that. On this episode of Taboo To Truth, I sat down with…
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Stop Feeling Guilty About Porn. Start Watching Better Porn. | Ep. 189
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Shockwave Therapy: Menopause, Trauma & the Truth About Kegels | Ep. 187 (Part 2)
In part two of my conversation with Stacey Roberts, PT, RN, MSN, we go even deeper into the world of shockwave therapy for pelvic pain and sexual health…
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Dating After 50: The 8 Rules Every Man Needs to Know | Ep. 188
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Shockwave Therapy: The Non-Surgical Fix for Pelvic Pain & ED | Ep. 187 (Part 1)
In this episode of Taboo To Truth, I sit down with Stacey Roberts, PT, RN, MSN — a physical therapist and holistic nurse with over 30 years of experience in…
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Why She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore (And What To Do About It) | Ep. 186
👉 Understand Menopause and save your sex life with the Man's Menopause Handbook: https://www.taboototruth.com/enroll/menmeetmenopause 🔥 Spice things up and get…
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The Truth No One Told You About Female Arousal, Menopause & Vaginal Health | Ep. 184 (Part 2)
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The Truth About Erectile Dysfunction: Every Treatment Option Explained | Ep. 185
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Female Viagra Is Finally Here — And It's Called Dare to Play | Ep. 184 (Part 1)
The antidote to a boring sex life isn't trying harder, it's trying something new together — Take the quiz at arya.fyi and use code: TRUTH15 for 15% off their…
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6 Signs You're Dating a Narcissist (And Why You Keep Missing Them) | Ep. 183
The antidote to a boring sex life isn't trying harder, it's trying something new together — Take the quiz at arya.fyi and use code: TRUTH15 for 15% off their…
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Inside the World of Cuckolding with Adreena Winters: Trust, Power, and Desire | Ep. 182
The antidote to a boring sex life isn't trying harder, it's trying something new together — that's what ARYA delivers, a monthly intimacy membership curated by…
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Cheating Isn't About Sex — Here's What It's Really About | Ep. 181
The antidote to a boring sex life isn't trying harder, it's trying something new together — that's what ARYA delivers, a monthly intimacy membership curated by…
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She Helped Thousands Find Love After 40 — Here's What Actually Works | Ep. 179 (Part 2)
💋 Hotter, Wilder, Wiser | You’ve mastered everything else in life — now master pleasure! https://www.taboototruth.com/hotter-wilder-wiser In this episode, I'm…
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I Tested 3 Clitoral Vibrators Designed for Menopausal Bodies — Here's What I Found | Ep. 180
🍋 Use code TABOO25 at hellonancy.com for 25% off Lem, Avo, and Berry. 🔗 https://hellonancy.com/discount/TABOO25 In this episode, I review three clitoral…
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The #1 Reason Your Relationship Isn't Working (It's Not What You Think) | EP. 179
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Does Size Matter? What Women Actually Want (And What the Data Says) | Ep. 178
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When Sex Dies in a Long-Term Relationship — And How to Bring It Back | Ep. 176 Part 2
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Why Your Nervous System Is Secretly Ruining Your Sex Life (And What to Do About It) | Ep. 177
In this episode, I'm diving into something most men have never been taught but desperately need to hear — how your nervous system is directly controlling your…
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Why Your Partner Keeps Saying No to Sex — And What to Do About It | Ep. 176 (Part 1)
In this episode, I sit down with two powerhouse sex therapists — Dr. Jenni Skyler and Daniel Lebowitz — to dig into one of the most common and least…
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Why Sex Hurts After 50 — And What to Actually Do About It | Ep. 175
In this episode, I'm talking about one of the most common and least discussed experiences in midlife: painful sex. Whether it's dryness, tightness…
- Taboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50
Is Hormone Therapy Safe After 60? Dr. Sameena Rahman Sets the Record Straight | Ep. 173 (Part 2)
In this episode, I'm back with Dr. Sameena Rahman for Part 2 — and we go places most medical appointments never do. We open with PCOS, GLP-1s, peptides, and…
- Taboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50
AI Just Entered the Bedroom — And It's Smarter Than You Think | EP. 174
In this episode, I'm pulling back the curtain on something that is already inside your world whether you're ready for it or not — artificial intelligence and…
- Taboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50
The Pink Pill, Testosterone & More: Dr. Sameena Rahman Reveals Your Options | Ep. 173 (Part 1)
In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Sameena Rahman — board-certified OBGYN, sex medicine Gynecologist, and menopause specialist — to have the conversation…
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How Long Should You Actually Last in Bed? The Answer Will Surprise You | Ep. 172
In this episode, I'm going straight at the myth that has quietly wrecked the confidence of more men than I can count: how long you're supposed to last in bed…
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The Honest Truth About Being Married and Dating Other People | Ep. 171
In this episode, I'm talking with Natalie Davis — former DOJ trial lawyer, polyamory advocate, and author of Saying Yes: My Adventures in Polyamory — about…
- Taboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50
10 Dating Behaviors That Are Messing With Your Head (And What to Call Them) | Ep. 170
In this episode, I'm handing you the dating dictionary I wish I'd had years ago. If you've ever felt confused, blindsided, or just plain crazy after a date or…
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How to Stop Hating Yourself and Finally Let Love In ft. Allana Pratt | Ep. 168 (Part 2)
In this episode, I'm back with emotional intimacy expert Allana Pratt for Part 2 of a conversation that went places I never expected. We pick up where we left…
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Sex Snacks: The Midlife Intimacy Hack Nobody Talks About | Ep. 169
In this episode, I'm introducing one of my favorite concepts for couples who feel like the spark has quietly gone out: sex snacks. Not whipped cream, not grand…
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The 3 Relationship Mistakes You Don't Know You're Making ft. Allana Pratt | Ep. 168 (Part 1)
In this episode, I sit down with emotional intimacy expert and certified master coach Allana Pratt to expose the relationship mistakes most of us are making —…
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We Tested Every Sex Toy So You Don't Have To | Ep. 167
In this episode, I'm joined by certified sexologist and Love Lab Podcast host Kevin Anthony for the most thorough — and most honest — sex toy review I've ever…