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Desire Different Podcast
Hosted by Nikki, certified in Sacred Sexuality and Energy Healing, Desire Different is a sanctuary for women reclaiming pleasure literacy, orgasmic connection & emotional wholeness. For women ready to go a step further, Becoming Orgasmic: A Pleasure Literacy Blueprint is now live! This series is for women ready to step into understanding orgasm & pleasure more fully. Sex here, finally makes sense for women! We are no longer following the mans model of sex. I've walked enough of my own path to…
Episodes
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Being Turned On: It’s About Way More Than Being Wet
Being turned on isn’t just about getting wet and getting ready for penetration. Arousal is supposed to be part of the entire sexual experience, not something…
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Why Are Women Still Pretending We Don't Want Good Sex?
Girl, when did “it wasn’t bad” become the standard for good sex? There’s a BIG difference between wanting more sex and wanting more FROM sex! We’re talking…
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Your Vagina Explained: The Anatomy Nobody Taught You
Girl, how much do we REALLY know about our vaginas? From the infamous “popped cherry” to the internal clitoral network, G-spot pleasure, we’re unpacking the…
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You Shouldn't Have to Abandon Yourself to Keep the Connection
Baby, if keeping the peace means constantly silencing yourself… what exactly are we keeping? Sometimes self-abandonment isn’t dramatic. It’s the things you…
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Why Your Body Stays Attached to Him When You Know You Need to Let Him Go
Majority of us have all felt this!! You can know a relationship isn’t right for you and still feel deeply attached to the person. That doesn’t always mean you…
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The Sexual Agenda That Is Destroying Both Men & Women
Content Warning: This episode includes discussion of sexual addiction, harmful sexual behavior. If you are not comfortable with discussion like this, feel free…
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Make Your Body A Slut for Orgasm
If sex has mostly been a level-three experience for your body, your body remembers that! And your body will likely not be a slut for Orgasm 🤭 But you are not…
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Men Don't Make Women Cum: Why Your Orgasm Starts With You
You know that moment during sex when something starts to feel really good… There’s a spark. A glimmer. Maybe even that little “oh shit, something is happening”…
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You Don't Have To Love Sex: Getting More From Your Sexual Connection
You don’t have to be a woman who “loves sex.” But you deserve to know what your body is capable of feeling inside of it. This is what we do here!! 😝 In this…
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Why Are Men Obsessed With Sex While Women Feel Disconnected From It?
Have you ever stopped to consider how strange our relationship with sex actually is? 🤔 Men are often conditioned to obsess over it, while women are encouraged…
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Women and Men Do Not Cum the Same Way
(Women have a wayyy better systemmmm) Women were handed a sexual map designed around the male body, then taught to believe something was wrong when their…
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How to Get from Turned On to Orgasm
Being turned on does not automatically mean your body is prepared to become orgasmic. In this episode, I’m breaking down the missing piece between arousal and…
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G-Spot Orgasm: How to Become Internally Orgasmic
I didn’t learn internal orgasm from a textbook. I taught my own body how to move from limited internal sensation into consistent, reliable internal orgasm, and…
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Are Men Programmed to Chase Sex that Women Don't Know How to Have?
Guyssss this one is random and raw 🥴😩….because what trickery is this?? There is something about the way men and women are taught to experience sexuality that…
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Saying F*ck the Clitoris & Using the G-Spot Instead
There was a moment during sex when I thought, Wait… why am I relying on external stimulation during an internal experience? That question changed everything…
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Who is Nikki? My Orgasm Story, My Birth Story, and Why Desire Different Exists
A fun, much needed, who is Nikki episode, again!! 😝💃🏽 And how the power of giving birth changed my orgasm story forever! In this fun re-introduction episode…
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Why Relying on Sex Toys Can Disconnect You From Deeper Orgasm
What if your deeper orgasm was never missing? In this episode I’m talking about sex toy reliance, pleasure dependency, and why some women feel disconnected…
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The Decline of Casual Sex: Why One Night Stands Are Losing Their Appeal
In this episode, I’m talking about the decline of casual sex and why one-night stands are starting to lose their appeal. This is not about shaming desire. It…
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Conscious Edging: Why People Are Slowing Down Pleasure Instead of Chasing the Finish
In this one, I’m talking about conscious edging, the practice of slowing pleasure down instead of rushing straight toward orgasm. But this is not just about…
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The Missing Piece in Online Dating: Why the Algorithm Can't Read Attraction
Online dating can show me what someone looks like, but real life shows me how someone feels. And babe… those are not always the same thing! In this episode…
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Intimacy Outside the Bedroom: Why Better Sex Starts Before the Lights Go Off
Better sex does not start when the lights go off. In this episode, I’m exploring why deeper intimacy, stronger sexual connection, and more satisfying pleasure…
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What Actually Makes Women Good in Bed?
Ladies, have you ever asked yourself what actually determines whether you are skilled at sex? Most of us have had that thought before. “If I learn how to do…
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Soft Life Intimacy: Why Women Want Sex That Feels Safe, Slow & Connected
If intimacy has ever felt like one more thing on your to-do list, this episode is for you! What if the reason your body isn’t responding the way you want it to…
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Emotional Foreplay: The Real Turn-On Women Are Finally Naming
Emotional foreplay is not “being needy.” It is your body asking, “Do we feel safe enough to open, or are we just pretending again?” In this episode, I’m…
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Why Sexual Wellness Is Becoming the New Self-Care
In this episode, I’m talking about why sexual wellness is becoming the new self-care .... and why women’s pleasure, body connection, desire, and intimacy…
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Sex Education for Adults: The Pleasure Education Women Were Never Given
In this episode, I’m talking about why so many women are seeking sex education as adults.... not because they’re broken, but because they were never taught how…
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Why Your Body Stops Responding During Sex
In this episode, I’m covering why your body may stop responding during intimacy... even when desire is there. This may not be low libido! It may be body…
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The G-Spot & Women’s Orgasm: A Conspiracy Theory?
Is it a conspiracy theory… or is it just a little too convenient that most women were taught to focus only on external stimulation, while internal pleasure…
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Hot Take: He Doesn't Have to Be Skilled at Sex for You to Have Multiple Orgasms
Hot Take: Your orgasm might not be waiting on the man to become a master in bed! In this episode, I’m lovingly stirring the pot and unpacking why a man’s skill…
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The Clitoral Network (2026): What Science Just Confirmed About Women’s Bodies
Scientists just mapped the full clitoral nerve network for the first time in early 2026 and what they found challenges everything we’ve been taught about the…
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What Sex Therapists Get Wrong About Low Libido
In this episode, I invite you to gently question something many women have been told about themselves… that they have low libido. Because what if that…
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If You Had Sex Last Night and Didn't Orgasm... Listen to This
In this episode, I’m speaking directly to the woman who had sex last night… and still didn’t feel what she knows is possible. I break down why so many women…
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Fixing Intimacy in Your Relationship Without Changing Your Partner
In this episode, I share a truth most women were never taught—your pleasure and connection don’t come from your partner… they come from you. When you…
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Why You Feel Like You're Losing Attraction to Him (But You're Not)
Most women misinterpret changing desire as losing attraction—when it’s often about reconnecting with their body and evolving intimacy needs. If your connection…
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The Hidden Reason Sex Isn't Orgasmic for Women
Many women aren’t struggling with pleasure… they’ve been conditioned into performance sex. In this episode, I break down how rushing, goal-oriented sex…
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The Pleasure Wiring You Built That's Stopping Your Orgasm
If your body only responds one way… or you feel like pleasure is inconsistent, muted, or hard to access… this episode is going to give you language for why…
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Feeling Used in Sex Disrupts Your Orgasmic Pathways
Feeling used — even slightly — during sex is something many women have experienced… but rarely fully understand. And when that subtle misalignment is present……
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Orgasm Journey: Why Slow Sex is Better Than Horny Sex
For the beautiful ladies on the journey to the sometimes challenging internal orgasm. This episode discusses the difference in impulsive, horny sex and…
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Women's Orgasm Doesn't Come From Luck
Many women believe orgasm is something that either happens naturally… or doesn’t. But the truth is much simpler. Orgasm isn’t luck. It’s literacy in how your…
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Women's Day: A Moment for Women Everywhere
Ugh I cried ladies! This year has had some heavy pieces….Recording this was beautiful…. HAPPY INTERNATIONAL WOMEN'S DAY!! 💃🏽🌹🪻🌸🌺🌷🌻🌼💐 This bonus episode is a…
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For the Woman Ready to Fix Her Orgasm Problem
If you’re ready to fix your orgasm issues or confusion, this is where to begin. In this short episode, I’m guiding you to the starting point inside the…
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Start Inviting Sex, Not Just Accommodating It
Most women were taught that wetness means they’re ready for sex. But lubrication is only the first layer of arousal. And truly not enough to sustain…
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Why Good Sex Isn't the Full Experience
If you’ve ever had moments where you felt like you were in the sexual experience… but not fully immersed in it, this episode will shed a lot of light for you…
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Women's Arousal & Turn On: What No One Taught Us
Have you ever wondered if there was more science… more biology… behind the way you get turned on and how your body actually prepares for sex? In this episode…
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Why Sex Feels Better Alone
In this episode, I’m talking about one of the most quietly carried experiences women have .... feeling more orgasmically responsive alone than during partnered…
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Valentine's Day Edition: The Sensation Shift That Changes Sex Overnight
Of course for Valentine's Day, this one is juicy, in the most embodied, sexy way....and it's a take home one (like for tomorrow 😏) Inside this episode, I give…
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Supporting Your Orgasm Creates More Responsiveness
In this episode I explore the transformative power of understanding how our bodies actually work from natural responses like sneezing, fever, and digestion……
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This Conversation Is For All Women
A gentle conversation for women who are moving through life carrying more than they realize. In this episode, I hold space for the quiet emotional weight many…
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The G-Spot is Not A Myth
Okay, so these myths?! Come on mayneeee....somebody is lying! I break down the myths about women’s pleasure and the misconceptions surrounding the woman's body…
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No Tricks, No Extremes: Just Sex That Finally Makes Sense
Quick Clarity Episode: I care so deeply about the work inside Becoming Orgasmic: A Pleasure Literacy Blueprint, I have to be very clear with all the questions…
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Understanding Men and Women’s Different Pleasure Experiences
Men and women don’t experience pleasure the same way and that difference matters more than most people realize!! Like ACTUALLY!!!! In this episode, I break…
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What If Women's Pleasure Intelligence Was Honored Again
In this one, I explore the controversy in why even simple chats about the truth of women's pleasure and orgasm aren't more common....and how that disconnect…
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Why I Created the Pleasure Literacy Blueprint for Women
In this episode, I share why I created this work and why so many women feel confused, disconnected, or pressured when it comes to pleasure. This is "my deal"…
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Numbness Is Not A Sexual Failure
In this episode, I’m talking about something many women experience during sex but rarely feel safe naming: numbness. If you’ve ever wondered why you know…
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The One-and-Done Orgasm Myth (And What Actually Works)
Society taught women that pleasure comes from harsh, aggressive conditions....that intensity equals success. That belief wasn’t chosen. It was inherited from a…
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Why You Can't Just Think Your Way to Orgasm
Trying harder won’t bring you closer to orgasm. Thinking your way into pleasure doesn’t work either. In this one, I explain why willpower is the wrong access…
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My Pleasure Story: What Helped Me Become Multi-Orgasmic
In this episode, I share my personal pleasure story and the moment I realized I didn’t want anyone else telling me what kind of pleasure I was capable of. I…
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Sex Education Was Never Designed for Women's Pleasure
Okay, THIS is where the initial error lives...in this episode I talk about the first structural error most women learn in their sex education....the assumption…
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Most Sex Education is About Performance Not Feeling
In this episode, I explore how performance-based sex education trained women to place their attention outside of their bodies and why that’s where…
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100th Episode: What I Know Now That I Didn't at Episode One
EEEEKKKKKKKKK!!!!! 😆 This is episode 100 of Desire Different Podcast!!!!....which feels honestly a little WILD to say out loud! Okay, so Happy New Year! Happy…