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Desire Different Podcast
Hosted by Nikki, certified in Sacred Sexuality and Energy Healing, Desire Different is a sanctuary for women reclaiming pleasure literacy, orgasmic connection & emotional wholeness. For women ready to go a step further, Becoming Orgasmic: A Pleasure Literacy Blueprint is now live! This series is for women ready to step into understanding orgasm & pleasure more fully. Sex here, finally makes sense for women! We are no longer following the mans model of sex. I've walked enough of my own path to…
Episodes
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This Is What Happens When Women Stop Trying to Force Orgasm
What happens when women stop trying to make pleasure happen??! In this episode, I explore what shifts when pressure and performance fall away and why forcing…
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Why You Can Feel 'Turned On' But Still Disconnected
In this episode, we explore an important distinction many women were never taught: being physically aroused does not always mean being fully present or ready…
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Are You Only Experiencing Surface Pleasure?
Okay, in this one....I introduce a distinction most women were never given and once you see it, you’ll start noticing it everywhere in your sex life!…
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Why Wanting An Orgasm Makes It Harder to Have One
In this episode, we explore one of the most common and most misunderstood challenges women face: difficulty reaching orgasm!! Bruhhhhhhhhh… I share why wanting…
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The #1 Reason Women Can't Feel Pleasure & How to Start Rebuilding It
In this episode, I explore the number one reason so many women struggle to feel pleasure and why it has nothing to do with being broken. (Because girl, you are…
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You Don't Actually Hate Sex, Here's What's Happening
If you’ve ever thought “I hate sex,” this episode is for you. Many women don’t hate sex, they hate the pressure, expectation, and performance wrapped around…
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Pleasure Literacy: The Foundation of Top Tier Feminine Pleasure
This episode is a beautiful starting point for reconnecting to your orgasmic pleasure, as we continue our December Soft Reset Arc. I'll tell you all about…
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The Reset Women Actually Need Before the New Year
In this episode we are sitting inside the start of our December soft reset arc...a month designed to bring you back into alignment before the new year begins!…
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If Aliens Studied Human Sex, They'd Be More Confused Than Us
What if an alien asked you to explain human habits…and you realized none of it makes sense? In this episode, I dive into a wild thought experiment, how would…
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Your Sex Stories Are Missing One Important Detail
(EXPLICIT: Yeah if you’re new here, this one is spicy! 😜🤣) So have you ever bragged about sex but forgot to mention if it actually felt good?! Well....this…
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When You Just Need One Safe Hour
During this Sacred Sip, I’m inviting you to slow down and breathe again. When life feels heavy, it’s often just energy asking to be released, sorted or felt…
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How to Really Bark Like You Want It
In this Sacred Sip, I’m yappin’ about barking like you want it, not barking like a confused poodle in the rain! 😅 This is masculine clarity, not chaos. No…
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Subtle Dominance: The Real Secret to Masculine Attraction
In this episode, I heard you fellas!!!! Get in here.... I'm breaking down why women feel drawn to certain men instantly and why it comes down to masculine…
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Healing Your Mother Wound + The Unlearning That Sets You Free
In this sacred sip, I discuss the idea of every woman carrying echoes of her mother’s pain....it can be in the patterns she modeled, the love she withheld, the…
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How Women Lose Their Magic & How to Get It Back
In this one, I explore what it really means to reconnect with your authentic self....the part of you that existed before the noise, the pressure, and the…
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Healing Your Inner Teenager: The Part of You Still Trying to Be Enough
Inside this Sacred Sip: The idea of Inner Child healing doesn't stop in our teenage years....the teenage version of us was involved in our “trial & error”…
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How Heartbreak Transforms You: An Internal Reckoning You Needed
Okay, CONTENT WARNING...we're talking heartbreak today! I'm diving into the quiet alchemy that happens after heartbreak...the internal reckoning that rebuilds…
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Slow Sex & Why Fast Sex Isn't Better
Inside this Sacred Sip: Fast feeds the mind, slow feeds the body...and literally the proper orgasm! In another lil' sip episode explore how slowing down in…
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Monsters Under the Bed: Healing Fear Around Sex
A raw, grounded dive into intimacy, fear, nervous system safety and how creating your own rules for sex deepens connection, pleasure, and trust. In this…
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Digital Dopamine: The Creeping Addiction That Kills Your Sex Drive
Get in here! We're still keeping it "creepy-ish" this Halloween season!! I’m pulling back the curtain on one of our sneakiest addictions....that endless scroll…
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How To Be Useful In Your Relationship
Inside this Sacred Sip: Usefulness in love isn’t about performance, it’s about awareness! Learn how emotional steadiness, practical contribution, and spiritual…
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Why Men Lose Interest After Sex
What the actual F**K!! Why do men pull away after intimacy?! In this tiny sip episode, we explore the biology, attachment styles, and cultural conditioning…
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Curse of the Camera: Why Porn Distorts Feminine Pleasure
Still having FUN this spooky, October/Halloween season...in this episode we explore what happens when we mistake performance for pleasure, both in sex and in…
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The Lost Art of Listening + Feminine Energy in a Loud World
Come with me in this Sacred Sip, while I explore the art of listening…the most feminine form of presence. To listen is not to shrink, but to open…to receive…
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The One Habit That Builds Instant Chemistry
Inside this Sacred Sip discover how to build instant chemistry through presence in a short bite sized episode! Simple practices like eye contact and a teasing…
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Stirring the Witches Brew: Adding Embodiment + Confidence
In this October/Halloween themed episode, I’m breaking down one of the sneakiest poisons to feminine confidence: comparison! Too often we measure ourselves…
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The Mask of Performance: Escaping the Porn Script That Haunts Your Sex Life
This October, let’s talk about the scariest mask of all, the one you wear in bed! Not lace, not leather…but the mask of performance. In this episode, I’m…
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Breaking the Healing Loop: Living Beyond the Wounds of Your Past
Scholars say "the best way to heal a wound is to stop touching it". In this episode, I get real about healing, not as a destination, but as a doorway! At some…
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Who Do You Want To Be Inside Your Relationship?
Literally....this is the feminine force behind irresistible synergy!! We are throwing away the list of your ideal man and stepping into becoming an ideal…
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The Conditions of Feminine Submission Every Man Must Know
UGHHHHH!!!! 😮💨 My mic wasn't working for this episode, I sound grainy ya'll...maybe a bit, voicemail recording from the 90's-ish! 🤭😜 Okay so...in this…
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Feminine Energy VS Survival Mode: Do Circumstances Steal Our Softness?
Wow….the divine timing of this being aired on my fathers birthday 🧚🏽♀️🥰🤩 9/9 Do women choose femininity…or do our circumstances decide for us? In this…
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How Much of the Pleasure Experience Have You Been Ignoring?
What are you using your pleasure for? Is it sport? Simply something to do? Non-existent? Is it medicine? Does your body use it properly? Ok this is a somewhat…
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Why Pleasure Feels Different For Women: Some Truth Behind The Orgasm Gap
What it do babyyyyyyyyyyy!!! Im back...and we are officially back to business...in spreading awareness around pleasure, sex, orgasm & femininity! So in the…
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A Sacred Pause & What's Next
This one’s tender. After 67 episodes of pouring my heart into this podcast, sharing stories, teachings, and raw truths that have moved so many of you...I’m…
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Beyond the Bedroom: The Power of Non-Sexual Intimacy
What if the deepest intimacy had nothing to do with sex? In this episode we explore the often overlooked power of non-sexual intimacy: the emotional…
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Men Lead in Life, Women Lead in Sex
Yes, I SAID IT!!! This is without a doubt the time WOMEN TAKE THE STAGE! For SO MANY reasons, we need our men to enter into our depths when it comes to…
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Sex That Burns You Out VS Sex That Builds You Up
Are you "thrill fucking" or are you REALLY turned on? Let’s talk about the kind of sex that grabs you by the throat VS the kind that whispers you open, and…
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Why We Have Sex: And How I Manifested a Broken G-Spot
(Content Warning: There is discussion of revisiting our first encounter with sex. If you are not comfortable with this, please skip this episode) And who else?…
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Start Here: Reclaiming Your Body, Rewriting the Rules
Most of us never got real sex education…just fear, shame, and silence. The whole "just don't get pregnant bit"! Well, I created a breakdown, a cheat sheet, if…
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Soft Girl Era: Pornographic Sex is Not Sustainable for Women
Instead try SPIRIT LED!! Here's why... Having a sex practice as women, where we are being used as a tool is not going to sustain longterm happiness. Period…
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It Felt Like A Lie…That’s Why I Changed My Pleasure Story
My pleasure/orgasm story changed completely when I told the world, "I DON'T BELIEVE YOU". I stopped being willing to accept lies like: "the g-spot is a myth" -…
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Some Motivation to Stop Having Subconscious Matrix Sex (That's Not Your Sex)
As we close out this season, I want to give you something super important to ponder... Whose design of sex are you having? How much are you paying attention to…
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His Pleasure: What Type of Sex Does Your Husband Crave?
THIS IS HELLA IMPORTANT!!! The less feeling or reason he attaches to sex, the less boundaries he will have when it comes to choosing to have sex. This makes…
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Valentine's Day Edition: Why Does Your Man Have Sex with You?!
What do the feminine women do for VALENTINES DAY? We find out what sex means to our man…we find out what motivates our guy to want to slide inside of us! We…
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Using Our Imagination as a Tool for Better Sex
If we can beautifully use our imagination to visualize and fantasize, creating our desire for our ideal husband and our ideal wedding day……why are we not using…
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Profound Sex Education for Unmatched Confidence & Finally Understanding Your Sexual Body
Why are we still walking around in bodies we don't understand? How does this add to us showing up strong for ourselves, our lovers and our mission? How can you…
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Is Being "Horny" Destroying Your Sex Life?
What does "horny" mean to you? Do you feel like you have a connection to understanding what it is that makes you "horny"? Could your understanding of this be…
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In 2025 Stop "False Arousal" from Crippling Your Sex Drive & Your Orgasmic Connection
MY FRIENDS!!! In 2025......Indulge in SELF CARE (sex care) on a SEXY, NECESSARY level.... In 2025...Theres more than just FOUR BASES, please!! In 2025, we need…
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"Dead Bedroom", Gatekeeping & Sexless Relationships
Why is it that "DEAD BEDROOM" seems to be at an all time high? And how learning to be properly orgasmic as a woman can put a stop to all this "dead bedroom"…
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Healthy Arguments, Active Listening, Accountability: You Both Deserve it!
Are we taking accountability or just licking wounds?! Okay, okay, okay…I used to be ferocious, a little bit this decade but alotta bit in my 20s. So I…
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Our Confidence: Are we Finding our Energetic Signature or Creating it?
A wee bit nineteen year old sweetie pie asked me, "Miss Nikki, how do I connect to my Energetic signature, what even is it?" So, here's the rundown! Because…
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Sex with Orgasm Conscious Women
No, this isn't an audio clip of me having sex..............although that would kinda be fire! LOL This is an exclusive scoop, 411, rundown, on what the…
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Finally: The Well F*cked Man
And, just like that, we're back!!! And instead of me, society and us, always talking about and checking in with the women...it is time to check in with the…
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The Better Sex Movement Thus Far...
It's "giving" curious food for thought.....while I go away for my hiatus for the end of this segment at Desire Different. Get caught up! And Desire Different…
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Bypass the Gender War, Ask Her This!
Let's drop this GENDER WAR CRAP!!! And use this list!!! We’ve graduated when it comes to getting to know women, so ask her these questions!! Fellas, get some…
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We Don't Actually Have Sex, We Join Sex!
Allow the Sacred Sex Educator to explain, come hither! And no, this isn't about threesomes LOL Are you ready to level your sex up from "just intercourse"? Are…
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Okay! You Healed Your Inner Child, Now Heal Your Inner Teenager
When we go in and connect with and attempt to heal our inner child, that inner child tends to be the version of us our parents controlled....hence the reason…
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Masculine Women, Are Ya'll Operating from a Place of Wetness? Because the Feminine Women Are
This newly in, per BlueCentric on Instagram on The Mamas Den Podcast (I need to connect with them!), we should be operating from a SPACE OF WETNESS!!!! LOVE…
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The Divine Masculine: Being Loved by Power, Creates Power
Consider this a BONUS episode, because this is literally just in!! So, the Divine Masculine....YUM, YUM and more YUM! I have some emojis in mind to use, but…
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I'm Breaking Girl Code: The Dark Feminine & Manipulation Vampires
ALL WOMEN HAVE THE ABILITY TO BE MANIPULATION VAMPIRES-----THERE I SAID IT! Breaking Girl Code and telling the secrets andddddd........it's MAN CRUSH MONDAY…