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The Mask of Performance: Escaping the Porn Script That Haunts Your Sex Life

This October, let’s talk about the scariest mask of all, the one you wear in bed! Not lace, not leather…but the mask of performance.

In this episode, I’m pulling back the sheets on one of the biggest illusions in the bedroom: the mask of performance...the biggest hinderance to connecting to our true pleasure!

So many of us have been taught to act instead of feel...faking the moans, rushing the rhythm, exaggerating desire that isn’t fully there...or faking angles that just aren't "giving" anything. But underneath all that performance lives the woman who actually wants to be felt, seen, and…

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