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Why Wanting An Orgasm Makes It Harder to Have One
In this episode, we explore one of the most common and most misunderstood challenges women face: difficulty reaching orgasm!! Bruhhhhhhhhh…
I share why wanting orgasm is natural, not a sign that something is wrong with you, and how pressure, effort, and performance can actually shut down the body’s natural pleasure response. We talk about why pleasure unfolds more easily when you shift from trying to allowing, and why safety and relaxation are essential for deeper sensation.
I also share how I went through my own journey of relearning pleasure without effort or performance and how it actually…
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