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Feeling Used in Sex Disrupts Your Orgasmic Pathways
Feeling used — even slightly — during sex is something many women have experienced…
but rarely fully understand.
And when that subtle misalignment is present…
when there isn’t a deep sense of connection, safety, or genuine desire…
the body notices.
In this episode, I’m breaking down how those moments impact your nervous system —
and why that directly affects your ability to feel arousal, sensation, and orgasm.
Because for a woman, pleasure isn’t just physical.
It requires what I call nervous system collaboration —
a state where the body feels safe enough to open, receive, and expand…
The skinny
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