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Most Sex Education is About Performance Not Feeling
In this episode, I explore how performance-based sex education trained women to place their attention outside of their bodies and why that’s where disorientation begins. Because....the distraction is real! 😮💨
We were taught how sex should look and how to do it “right,” but not how to stay connected to what we’re feeling while it’s happening.
I talk about what traditional sex education left out, how this disconnect impacts pleasure and intimacy, and why so many women feel something is missing even when everything appears fine.
This episode invites you to question the framework you were given…
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