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Seeing Other People
Dating advice, real stories, and honest conversations about modern relationships. Seeing Other People with Ilana Dunn covers everything from first dates and situationships to long-term love, with expert guests, anonymous confessions, and unfiltered takes three times a week.
Whether you're swiping, healing, or somewhere in between...this is your show.
Episodes
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The Secret to Meeting People IRL (Without It Being Awkward)
Tired of dating apps? Elle Wilson, founder of Met Through Friends shares how bringing a friend to a singles event can change your dating luck. We dive into why…
Seeing Other PeopleHerpes & Dating: The Truth Nobody Talks About
Allie Mazur, founder of Beyond Herpes discusses the importance of normalizing conversations about genital herpes, to overcome the associated shame and stigma…
Seeing Other PeopleDating App Mistakes You’re Making—And How to Fix Them with Devyn Simone
Devyn Simone, matchmaker, dating expert, and Tinder's in-house relationship expert, joins us to dive into the world of online dating. We discuss the biggest…
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The Truth About Divorce, Biological Clocks & The Fear of Uncertainty with Dr. Victoria Grinman
Today we welcome Dr. Victoria Grinman, a therapist and trauma-informed practitioner, to discuss her professional insights and personal journey through marriage…
Seeing Other PeopleOur 4-Year Anniversary: How We’ve Changed + Q&A
My husband Jake is back on the show to discuss our journey thus far as a married couple. We reflect on our four-years together and discuss how we've changed…
Seeing Other PeopleYour Partner Can't Read Your Mind with Dr. Tara & Brent
We sit down with Dr. Tara Suwinyattichaiporn, a sexologist and professor, and her husband Brent Estabrook, an artist, to explore their unique love story. The…
Seeing Other PeopleWhat Men Wish Women Knew with Ricky Liorti
Ricky Liorti joins us to discuss how he's made his single years some of the best years of his life, even while navigating the emotional impacts of a breakup…
Seeing Other People"From Married Life to Finding Myself"
Vanessa Gordon, CEO of East End Taste Magazine, shares her journey of reentering the dating world after her divorce. From being married for 17 years to…
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How to be Dateable
On today's episode, Julie Krafcik and Yue Xu of the Dateable Podcast return to discuss their new book, 'How to Be Dateable.' They delve into the importance of…
Seeing Other People"Small Town Breakups Are Not for The Faint of Heart"
I'm joined by a woman in her thirties living in a small mountain town, who opens up about her experiences navigating singlehood, repeated heartbreaks, and the…
Seeing Other PeopleExpectations vs Reality of Marriage and Parenthood
Renee Reina, founder of 'The Mom Room' and host of 'The Mom Room Podcast,' joins the show to discuss the expectations versus reality of marriage and the…
Seeing Other People"Being Single Isn't My Flaw"
A former anonymous Unfiltered guest is back to share her experiences with the importance of self-validation, solo traveling, and the nuances of modern…
Seeing Other PeopleIs My Gut Protecting Me or Is My Attachment Sabotaging Me?
In this episode, we sit down with Thais Gibson, an attachment style expert and founder of The Personal Development School. Thais shares her background and how…
Seeing Other PeopleCommunication in Early Stages & Making First Dates More Fun
Carli, a former Unfiltered guest, is back to share her recent experience dealing with "the shift" AKA a sudden communication change in the early stages of…
Seeing Other PeopleMaking Friends as Adults & Growing In Relationships with Nicole Pellegrino and Caroline Crawford Patterson
In today's episode, we welcome Nicole Pellegrino and Caroline Crawford Patterson, co-hosts of the podcast Honey, We're Home. The conversation covers everything…
Seeing Other PeopleAccomplish Your Dating Goals This Year with Coach Erika Ettin
We welcome back Erika Ettin to get her best dating coaching tips. Erika takes us through her journey from tracking her own online dating experiences to…
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Getting Real About My Job, Finances, Marriage, Boundaries & More (2024 EOY Ep)
We're getting deep for our annual EOY episode. Camila Vola (my fabulous editor and associate producer) interviews me as I reflect on one hell of a year. I open…
Seeing Other People"I Flew In To Take Her Out & Now We're Engaged" with Jenn and Robbie
Jenn and Robbie are here to inspire you with their incredible journey of long-distance love. They share how they met through an app across state lines…
Seeing Other PeoplePro Tips To Manage Your Dating & Relationship Anxiety with Mackinzie Rummell, LCSW
In this episode, relationship therapist Mackinzie Rummell returns to discuss crucial topics in dating and relationships. Mackenzie shares insights on dating…
Seeing Other PeopleHow Do You Know If They're The One? with Mackinzie Rummell, LCSW
I welcome Mackinzie Rummell, a relationship therapist based in California, to the podcast. Mackinzie shares her journey into therapy, spurred by personal…
Seeing Other PeopleHow to Make Dating Feel Magical Again with Magician Max Davidson
Today I'm joined by Max Davidson, an award-winning magician. Max shares his captivating journey into magic, inspired by a childhood experience, and discusses…
Seeing Other People"I'm 34 And I've Never Had a Boyfriend"
I'm joined by Paige Crutcher, host of Adultish Wines, to discuss modern relationships, dating apps, and personal growth. We kick the episode off with one of…
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The Current State & Future Fate of Modern Dating
Today I'm joined by Wren Woodson and Mabel Kabani, hosts of NEWSGIRLS. We discuss their journey from meeting at 60 Minutes to creating their own news podcast…
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"He Married Someone While We Were Dating"
I'm joined by Lizzie, a 28 year old who opens up about falling for a narcissistic sociopath and finding out he married someone else while they were dating. She…
Seeing Other PeopleNo BS Breakup Survival Guide with Dara Pollak
Dara Pollak, content creator, writer and former food blogger, returns to discuss her journey through a devastating breakup and her path to healing. Dara shares…
Seeing Other People"Combatting Loneliness, Reassessing Boundaries, and Enjoying Singlehood"
In this episode, a 30-year-old single veterinarian resident shares her challenges of dating while pursuing a demanding career in veterinary medicine. She…
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You're Not Too Busy For A Relationship with Noam Raiter
Today we're joined by Noam Raiter, a content creator, doctor, and host of You Are Not Too Busy podcast to discuss how she balances her demanding medical career…
Seeing Other PeopleListen Now: FML Talk - F%uck Abandonment
So you're probably wondering why I'm in your feed today. I wanted to share my new favorite podcast, FML Talk. If you’ve been royally f%cked over in life, this…
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Overcoming Feeling Behind & Surviving The Holidays Single SOLO EP
In this week's solo episode, I’m catching you up on my life and answering listener questions about navigating societal and family pressures. I share an…
Seeing Other PeopleDo You Have To Love Yourself First? with Ken Reid
Ken Reid returns to 'Seeing Other People' to discuss various pieces of dating advice. Together with we delve into the pros and cons of popular dating tips and…
Seeing Other People"What I Learned From Cheating On My Ex"
In this episode, Avi from California opens up about his experience with cheating and the profound self-reflection journey that followed. He delves into the…
Seeing Other PeopleBecoming Confident When You're Insecure with Jackie Shames
Jackie Shames, friend and co-host of Fill Your Cup is back to chat all things confidence, learning from past relationships, and staying true to who you are…
Seeing Other People"From Ghosting & Catfishing to Finding Each Other"
Bethany and Walter share their heartwarming real-life journey of meeting on an app and building a relationship over the past 1.5 years. They delve into their…
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Age Gaps, Playing Games, and Defining The Relationship with Felix Levine
Felix Levine, entrepreneur and host of Unlike Me, joins the show to discuss his journey in podcasting, the dynamics of his relationship with Serena Kerrigan…
Seeing Other People"How I Became Okay With Being Single"
Harry returns to the show after two years to discuss his life journey, highlighting the lessons learned from navigating singlehood, personal growth, and…
Seeing Other PeopleNomalize Calling Off An Engagment with Rebekah Lipsky, LMHC
In this episode, Rebekah Lipsky, a therapist specializing in major life transitions, joins us to share her personal experience of calling off her engagement…
Seeing Other People"If It's Not a Hell No, It's a Yes"
Adrian, a self-identified 27-year-old male nerd from Canberra, Australia, shares his experiences and insights on dating, offering a male perspective. He…
Seeing Other PeopleLearn Your Values To Find & Build The Right Relationship with Suzy Welch
The incredible Suzy Welch joins us today to discuss how uncovering your values can help you find and build lasting relationships. Suzy is a public speaker…
Seeing Other People"How to Not Lose Hope That Your Person Is Still Out There"
Brandon shares his story of how his marriage to the love of his life ended in divorce. He opens up about his growth and healing journey post-divorce, and what…
Seeing Other PeopleWhat You Wear Impacts Who You Date with Gab Saper
In this episode Ilana chats with Gab Saper, a personal stylist who focuses on building confidence and body acceptance through fashion. They discuss the…
Seeing Other PeopleHow My Parents Met & Have Stayed Together 35 Years
In this warm and engaging episode, Ilana welcomes her parents, Barbara and Chuck, to share their charming courtship story, personal insights on love and…
Seeing Other PeopleTransforming Heartbreak into Personal Growth
In this insightful episode, relationship coach Lucy Price discusses navigating the emotional turbulence of breakups and finding empowerment. Lucy shares her…
Seeing Other PeopleFollowing The Dating Rules is Ruining Your Dating Life
Ilana catches you guys up on her travels, her personal wins, and what she took away from a recent experience. Then, Ilana and bff Carly Silverman dissect…
Seeing Other PeopleHow to Maintain Emotional and Physical Intimacy with Sex Therapist Lindsey Schafer
In today's episode, I'm thrilled to have Lindsey Schafer, a licensed couples and sex therapist, with us. Lindsey delves into the importance of normalizing…
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Don't Let Texting Ruin Dating | Solo Q&A
In this solo episode, answer listener questions covering the intricacies of dating, such as how to deal with texting anxieties, ending relationships…
Seeing Other PeopleAre They Avoidant or An Asshole? with Ken Reid
Counselor Ken Reid joins us for an insightful discussion on attachment styles, particularly focusing on avoidant attachment. Ken delves into the complexities…
Seeing Other PeopleAm I Too Busy To Date?
Ryan P. Hall joins the podcast to discuss his experiences dating and maintaining relationships as a busy 44-year-old single professional. He reflects on his…
Seeing Other PeopleMaintaining Confidence in Love and Work with Bradley Steven Perry
Bradley Steven Perry, known for his roles on Disney Channel's 'Good Luck Charlie' and 'Mighty Med' and cohost of The Sit and Chat podcast joins us to discuss…
Seeing Other People"I Like You, But I Don’t Like Labels"
In this Unfiltered, our anonymous guest shares her journey through a confusing relationship that began as a friendship and turned toxic. Despite emotional…
Seeing Other PeopleHow To Stop Getting Attached So Quickly with Sabrina Zohar
In this episode, we welcome special guest Sabrina Zohar, a dating coach and host of The Sabrina Zohar Show. Sabrina shares her intriguing journey from a…
Seeing Other People"I Don't Want To Have Sex"
On this Unfiltered, I'm joined by Sam, a man who opens up about his experience recognizing and accepting his asexuality. He shares what his early experiences…
Seeing Other PeopleFinding A Love That Lasts with Matchmaker Aleeza Ben Shalom
Aleeza Ben Shalom, Coach, Matchmaker, and Host of Netflix’s Jewish Matchmaking, joins us to talk about what goes into finding a love that will last. Aleeza…
Seeing Other People“I Quit My Toxic Ex & Toxic Job In The Same Day”
Danielle Farage joins us to share her experience leaving both a toxic relationship and a toxic work environment. We hear how all-consuming these situations…
Seeing Other PeopleHow to Overcome Your Dating Anxiety and Codependence
I’m joined by Dating & Relationship Anxiety Hypnotherapist Danielle Hatton to dive into rewiring you brain to feel calm and confident instead of anxious and…
Seeing Other People"I Finally Got Over Him...By Getting Under Someone Else"
I’m joined by a 30-year-old who opens up about the pain she went through when she and the person she thought she was meant to be with learned they had…
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Politics in Dating, Being Judged & Keeping Momentum | Solo Q&A
On this solo episode, I’m opening up about turning 30, figuring out what I want to do with my life, and a few exciting things that are happening in the next…
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"My 6 Year Relationship Ended at 31"
I'm joined by Maria, a 33 year old living in San Diego who opens up about ending her six year relationship and starting over at the age of 31. She shares how…
Seeing Other PeopleWhat I'd Tell My 25 Year Old Self As a 50 Year Old Divorcee with Christina Ford
Christina Ford, Author of, “In Search of Mr. Darcy” and writer of the popular blog A-Broad in London, joins us to share her life and thoughts as a divorced…
Seeing Other PeopleIt Takes 7 Attempts To Leave An Abusive Relationship
TW: This episode may be triggering to those with sensitivities around domestic violence or intimate partner abuse. I'm joined by Leor, a Licensed Clinical…
Seeing Other PeopleHitting Rock Bottom (& Bouncing Back) with Sydney Kaplan
Sydney Kapan, writer and content creator, joins the show to talk about her experiences coming back from rock bottom. We discuss how to find your own clarity…