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The Kink Consultant
Welcome to The Kink Consultant podcast, where we’re turning up the heat on all things kink in dating, relationships, and pop culture! Join Amanda each week as she dishes out the juiciest stories, expert advice, and shares a sneak peek behind the bedroom door with some amazing guests. Whether you're just a little kink-curious, ready to spice things up, or a seasoned pro, there's something here for you! Get ready to explore the wild world of intimacy, kink, and those oh-so-intriguing D/s…
Episodes
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How to Shame Proof Your Kink with Auntie Carmen
Auntie Carmen, the desire midwife, joins the podcast to discuss becoming shame proof, claiming your kinks, and having the kind of sex you actually want. Book A…
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What Happens If They Freak Out?? | How to Tell Your Partner You're Kinky Part 3
In the final installment of this special three-part solo series, I am breaking down what to do if your partner says no or freaks out when you share your kink…
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The Kink Conversation with Your Partner | How to Tell Your Partner You're Kinky Part 2
In part two of this special three-part solo series, I am breaking down exactly how to have the conversation with your partner about your kink. Book A Consult…
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How to Tell Your Partner You're Kinky - Part 1
In the first episode of a special three-part solo series, I am breaking down everything you need to know before you tell your partner you are kinky. Book A…
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How to Build a Sex Room That Works For You with Melanie Rose
Melanie Rose, star of Netflix's How to Build a Sex Room, joins the podcast to discuss sex room design, the history of sex toys, and how to create a pleasure…
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How to Evolve Your Dynamic Without Losing Each Other: A 24/7 D/S Dynamic Story with Saffer Master and Lady Petra
The hosts of The Kinky Cocktail Hour join the podcast to share their 24/7 D/S dynamic story, how they evolved their relationship over time, and why kink is the…
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What Working Out, Binge-Eating, and Kink Have In Common with Fitrix Carmilla Vess
Before you get into the episode this week, I wanted to let you know The Kink Bundle is BACK: https://kconsultant--domsubliving.thrivecart.com/kink-bundle/ 30+…
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Life-Changing Kink Stories: What Happens When You Finally Listen to Your Kink?
Four real people, four very different kink journeys, and a whole lot of proof that listening to your kink can actually change your life. Book A Consult Call…
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How to Talk to Your Partner About Your Deepest Fantasies with Dr. Stacy Friedman
Clinical sexologist Dr. Stacy Friedman joins the podcast to discuss how to talk to your partner about your deepest fantasies, navigate midlife desire, and…
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Psychedelics, Kink, and Coming Home to Your Body with Allana Pratt
Emotional intimacy coach Allana Pratt joins the podcast to discuss psychedelics, kink, and coming home to your body through healing trauma and somatic…
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Why Dismantling the Patriarchy Will Give You Better Sex with Samia Mounts
Samia Mounts returns for a deep conversation on dismantling the patriarchy, polyamory, and how we can all break free from the systems that hold us back. Book A…
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on Female Desire, Mental Load, and Mismatched Libido with Caroline Hood
Licensed clinician and author Caroline Hood joins the podcast to discuss the truth about female desire, the impact of mental load, and how to navigate…
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ADHD, Kink, and Neurodivergent Relationships with Catieosaurus
Cate Osborn aka Catieosaurus returns to discuss ADHD, kink, neurodivergent relationships, and how to build sustainable dynamics that work with your brain. Book…
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A Guide to Setting Boundaries in Kink with Melancholy Ghost
Melancholy Ghost, Missouri title holder and boundaries educator, joins the podcast to discuss how to set, communicate, and protect boundaries in kink. Book A…
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How to Navigate a 24/7 Dynamic: A Conversation on Boundaries and Communication with My Dom
Amanda and her dom sit down for an honest conversation about how they navigate boundaries, fear, and communication in their 24/7 dynamic. Book A Consult Call…
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Hot Girl Energy: How to Date Without Losing Yourself with Kristen Aut
Kristen Aut returns to discuss how to date without losing yourself, break free from obsessive patterns, and step into your Hot Girl Energy this summer. Sign-up…
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How to Tell Your Partner About Your Fetish with Miz Darling
Miz Darling returns to discuss how to tell your partner about your fetish, navigate shame and fear, and build healthy relationships around kink. Book A Consult…
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Kinky Cruises, Chastity Cages, and Social Media Bans with Larah Sky
Book A Consult Call with Amanda https://www.amandadames.com/book-a-consultLarah Sky is back for another unfiltered conversation covering social media…
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Relationship Advice for Kinky Couples with Simone Milasas
Kinky relationships and vanilla relationships might have more in common than you think. This week on The Kink Consultant Podcast, Amanda speaks with Simone…
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Emotional Masculinity: Breaking Down Toxic Masculinity, the Manosphere, and Real Intimacy with Matt Salis
Why does the word "masculinity" feel so loaded? I went looking for answers, and found the perfect person to break it down. In this episode, I sit down with…
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Finding Your Kinky Match: A Conversation with Kink Matchmaker Shea Primus
Finding your perfect match is already hard enough. Now try finding one who also matches you in the kink department. In this episode, I sit down with Shea…
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How to Be Kinky as a Parent: Raising A Child Without Losing Your Dynamic with Athena Gale
Ever wondered what life looks like when you have a 24/7 kink dynamic, a career in the sex space, and a child to raise? Get seated because Athena Gale is giving…
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A Beginner’s Guide to Kink, Fetishes, and BDSM: An Interview with Dr. Bruce Chalmer and Judy Alexander
I was invited onto the podcast Couples Therapy in 7 Words with Dr. Bruce Chalmer and Judy Alexander, two proudly vanilla people who sat down with me to ask the…
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How to Bring Up Kink Without Sounding Creepy with Connell Barrett
Dating coach, Connell Barrett returns to the podcast and this time we’re diving into one of the biggest questions people struggle with in dating: how the hell…
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Dating Advice for Men & Women: Flirting, Confidence and Attraction with Connell Barrett
Flirting is supposed to be fun, not complicated. In this episode, I’m joined by dating coach and author Connell Barrett for a conversation about flirting…
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Answering Your Most Common Kink Questions
I have combined my most popular solo episodes to answer your most asked questions about kink, BDSM, dom/sub dynamics, and relationships. In this episode, we…
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The Life And Loves Of A Sex Writer with Gabrielle Cassel
You’d think being a sex writer would make dating easier, right? Apparently not. In this episode, I sit down with Gabrielle Cassel, a queer sex and wellness…
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Larah Sky’s Dating Preferences: Complicated, Specific, and Slightly Unhinged
Back for the third time, we’re joined by everybody’s favourite guest, Larah Sky. In this episode, we get into Larah’s very specific, slightly unhinged, and…
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How To Dom When You’re A Sub
How does one really become a Dom? In this episode, I answer one of the most frequently asked questions from my Ask Me Anything Mondays which is: how do I…
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I’m Rebuilding My Life…Again
Back by popular demand, my Biz Dom, Brenda joins me in this episode to talk about what the past year has actually looked like for me. We get into what it means…
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How A Kinky Throuple Relationship Actually Works with Carnivale Risque
Let’s be honest, most people hear “throuple” and immediately assume chaos, jealousy, or some kind of messy situation waiting to happen. In this episode, I’m…
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Dominatrix 101: Negotiation, Limits, and Creating a Safe BDSM Scene with Mistress Tash Mia
What if the “perfect Dom” isn’t dark, scary, and mean… but sarcastic, grounded, and deeply present? In this episode, I’m joined by Mistress Tash Mia, a…
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What Is Shibari? A Conversation On Rope Bondage with Julieta Chiara
She started as a sex blogger in Utah, flew to Japan to train under a Shibari master whose stare alone made her cry, and never looked back. In this episode, I…
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Behind The Scenes of Rouge: The Sexiest Show In Vegas with Zion and Poppy
The kinkiest show in Vegas is hosted by the most vanilla couple you'll ever meet. In this episode, I get to sit down with Zion and Poppy, the hosts of Rouge at…
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How To Use Hypnotherapy for Better Sex with Jordan Wolan
What if you could rewire how your brain stores pleasure in just one session? In this episode, I sit down with Jordan Wolan, a certified hypnotherapist who…
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Sex Magic, Sigils, and Masturbating to Your Manifestations: A Conversation on Sex Alchemy with Lucy Baldwin
Sex magic is real. And no, this isn't some Harry Potter stuff. This is actual ritual work that could change how you manifest, orgasm, and deal with your anger…
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Can Doms Be Brats? The Debate That Broke KinkTok. A Discussion On Kink Theory, BDSM and Power Exchange
Can doms be brats? Tripp Terrier says no, and the Internet lost its mind, and honestly he's not wrong. In this episode, I sit down with Tripp Terrier, power…
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How to Prepare for Your First Kinky Cruise with Concations and Carnivale Risque
Not sure what to expect on a kinky cruise? You're about to find out, and it's way more fun (and safe) than you think! In this episode, I’m not just going to…
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Performance Anxiety, Erectile Dysfunction, Getting Soft? How to have Better Sex: A Conversation with Promescent CEO, Jeff Abraham
Better sex isn't a luxury, it's accessible. And if you're not exploring what's out there to improve your intimacy, you're leaving pleasure on the table. In…
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Behind The Scenes of A Non-Monogamouse Relationship (And Why It Actually Works)
Non-monogamy isn't actually that complicated…our fear of talking about it is. And that fear keeps way too many people stuck pretending they want something they…
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Intimacy Isn't A Feeling, It's A Skill: An Interview With The Somatica Founders
What if intimacy didn’t have to feel so hard, awkward, or overthought? In this episode, I sit down with Danielle Harel and Celeste Hirschman, the founders of…
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Sex Crimes Prosecutor Turned Women’s Intimacy Coach - A Conversation with Rena Martine
Let's talk about the thing no one wants to touch: DDLG, innocence play, and why "daddy" has become the internet's new favorite word. In today’s episode, I sit…
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Biohacking Your Orgasm with Susan Bratton
You heard it here first: sex gets better as you age. Don’t believe me? Listen to this episode. I sit down with Susan Bratton, intimacy expert and sex educator…
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Why Obsession Happens and Why Fighting It Makes It Worse with Kirsten Aut
Being obsessed with someone can be so embarrassing. Frankly, you barely even know this person but somehow your brain has decided that this person is now the…
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5 BDSM Scene Ideas You’ll Want To Try Tonight with Alesandra of Dom Sub Living
Who says you need a dungeon or hours of planning for a night you’ll never forget? In this episode we're sharing 5 simple and powerful BDSM scene ideas you can…
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Great Sex Start with a Good Conversation with Dr. Tara
Talking about sex should not be this hard, and yet for so many people, it still is. In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Tara, tenured professor of relational…
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The Only Dating App That Understands Kink with Pieter of BeeDee App
One thing about kinky dating: it should not be this hard to find your people. Thankfully, BeeDee App exists and yes, I brought Pieter back on the podcast…
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Q&A With My Dom Part 2: What Makes a Good Dom?
"The number one thing about being a Dom is you need to have the best interest of the other person in mind.You cannot take advantage of the other person because…
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Q&A With My Dom Part 1: Where Can I Find A Dom?
One of the questions I get constantly is, “Where can I find a Dom?” So in this episode, I sit down with my Dom to talk honestly about where real Doms come…
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Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Behind the Secret Sex Stories with Kathy Kay
Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers with Kathy Kay In this episode, I talk with Kathy Kay, host of the Strictly Anonymous…
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When Your ADHD Brain Meets Your Kinky Side with Cate Osborn
What happens when your ADHD brain meets your kink identity? Turns out, they have a lot more in common than you might think. In this episode, I sit down with…
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Why People Cheat and What It Really Takes to Heal with Lauren LaRusso
What really happens after betrayal, and how do you start to heal when trust has been broken? In this episode, I sit down with Lauren LaRusso, therapist and…
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Behind the Scenes of Kink, Creativity, and Control with Beau Delacroix
Episode 56 - For Beau Delacroix, kink isn’t just play. It’s art, storytelling, and self-expression. In this episode, I go behind the scenes with Beau to talk…
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What Your Kinks Say About You (According to Psychology) with Aubrey Aust
Ready to turn people on and change their lives? Get certified with Somatica at somaticainstitute.com and use code TKC25 for $750 off your enrollment. Episode…
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Everything You Need to Know Before Going Through the Back Door with Annette Benedetti
Ready to turn people on and change their lives? Get certified with Somatica at somaticainstitute.com and use code TKC25 for $750 off your enrollment. Episode…
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What Happens On Kinky Cruises? With Lee of ConCations
Ready to turn people on and change their lives? Get certified with Somatica at somaticainstitute.com and use code TKC25 for $750 off your enrollment. Episode…
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The Pleasure Protocol: BDSM, Coaching, and the Psychology of Power with Shelby Devlin
Ready to turn people on and change their lives? Get certified with Somatica at somaticainstitute.com and use code TKC25 for $750 off your enrollment. Episode…
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When Pain Meets Pleasure: Behind the Scenes at Ripped Digital with Lucas & Hazel
Get your kinky breakthrough in just 20 minutes. Book your call with The Kink Consultant here: https://www.amandadames.com/ Episode 52 - What happens when your…
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Temptation Cruises: What to Expect and Why You Should Experience It
Get your kinky breakthrough in just 20 minutes. Book your call with The Kink Consultant here: https://www.amandadames.com/ Episode 51 - Ever wondered what…
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From Sexless September to Locktober: Why All Men Should Be Caged with Larah Sky
Get your kinky breakthrough in just 20 minutes. Book your call with The Kink Consultant here: https://www.amandadames.com/ Episode 50 - Back on The Kink…