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The Kink Consultant
Welcome to The Kink Consultant podcast, where we’re turning up the heat on all things kink in dating, relationships, and pop culture! Join Amanda each week as she dishes out the juiciest stories, expert advice, and shares a sneak peek behind the bedroom door with some amazing guests. Whether you're just a little kink-curious, ready to spice things up, or a seasoned pro, there's something here for you! Get ready to explore the wild world of intimacy, kink, and those oh-so-intriguing D/s…
Episodes
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From Sexless September to Locktober: Why All Men Should Be Caged with Larah Sky
Episode 50 - Back on The Kink Consultant, Larah Sky shares what really goes down when you’re running chastity challenges like Sexless September and Locktober…
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Complicated Pleasures: Can Fetish, Kink, and Romance Coexist? with Miz Darling
Episode 49 - What makes something a kink, and what makes it a fetish? And can you find your life partner when you either? Book A Consult Call with Amanda…
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Dating Makeover: The Mistakes You Didn’t Know You Were Making with Lana Ricco
Episode 48 - If you’ve been on more first dates than you can count and you’re still single, chances are you’re making dating mistakes you didn’t even know…
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What It Takes to Be a Global Content Creator: From Australia to England with Koby Falks
This episode was recorded weeks before Koby passed. We’re sharing it with love and gratitude, in memory of him. It’s a chance to hear his voice, his story, and…
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Design Your Dreamgirl: From Phone Sex to Camming with Pepper Kat
Episode 46 - What does your dream girl look like? Book A Consult Call with Amanda http://www.amandadames.com/Coaching Join KOKO Club Today |…
The Kink ConsultantImpact Play Survival Guide: Skincare Tips from Flora
Episode 45 - Your butt cheeks also need some TLC… Book A Consult Call with Amanda http://www.amandadames.com/Coaching Join KOKO Club Today |…
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What It’s Really Like Working as a Professional Dom: Behind the Scenes with Mistress Verna Part 2
Episode 44 -Think you could handle working in a professional dungeon? In this episode of The Kink Consultant, I’m back with Mistress Verna for Part 2 of our…
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What It’s Really Like Working as a Professional Dom: Behind the Scenes with Mistress Verna Part 1
Episode 43 - What really goes on behind the velvet curtain of a New York City dungeon? In this episode of The Kink Consultant, I catch up with my longtime…
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Talking About Sex Is Hard But Squirm’s Tess and Kels Is Making It Sexy, Fun, and Shame-Free
Episode 42 -Why is it so hard to talk about sex, even with people we trust? In this episode of The Kink Consultant, I’m joined by Tess and Kels, co-founders of…
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What Allows Us to Feel Safe in Relationships? Exploring Power, Kink, and Connection with Aubrey Aust
Episode 41 -What actually allows us to feel safe in relationships? In this episode of The Kink Consultant, I’m joined by Aubrey Aust, a Master’s student at NYU…
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What's It Like to Be a Cover Model? Jose and Mama on Romance, Kink, and Being the Fantasy
Episode 40 -Ever wondered what it’s like to be the face and body on the cover of your favorite romance novel? In this episode of The Kink Consultant, I sit…
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Ep 39 - What It's Like to Hire a Pro Dom: Pleasure, Boundaries & Power Play with Sir Marvelous
What happens when a professional dom and pleasure coach sits down to unpack the psychology of kink, power, and pleasure? Book A Consult Call with Amanda…
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Ep 38 - Making Kink Music That Matters: Deore on Community, Consent, and Crowdfunding Tantrums
My favorite kink singer-songwriter needs our help. Deore, the incredible artist behind the Brat EP, is back and this time, she’s gearing up to release a…
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Ep 37 - The Parallels of My Dating Life and Ali Hazelwood's The Deep End: A Dating Update and a Book Review From the Lens of The Kink Consultant
What happens when a self-proclaimed vanilla romance lover brings a spicy book to The Kink Consultant for a breakdown? Book A Consult Call with Amanda…
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Ep 36 - When Spanking Is Core to Connection: Kai and Sarah on Building a Healthy Kink Relationship (Part 2)
Is it possible to find a partner that matches your freak? In Part 2 of my conversation with Kai and Sarah, we dig into what it really looks like to build a…
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Ep 35 – What It’s Really Like to Have a Spanking Fetish: Kai and Sarah’s Story of Suppression, Self-Acceptance, and Finding Each Other (Part 1)
What happens when two people spend years suppressing a core part of themselves only to realize that denying their identity comes at too high a cost? In this…
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Ep 34 - Chastity, Cages & Control: Larah Sky Talks About the Psychology Behind Power Play
What’s the deal with chastity and why are so many people obsessed with it? Book A Consult Call with Amanda…
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Ep 33: Dating Update: How I Went From a Kinky FWB Breakup to a Guy Who Can't Even Text Back (Am I Bridget Jones?)
What actually happens when you walk away from a BDSM dynamic that no longer works, and end up with someone who still can’t meet your needs, even after you’ve…
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Ep 32 - What Happens When a Married Couple Starts Swinging? This Couple Talks About Having Trust and Setting Boundaries Part 2
In this episode of The Kink Consultant, I’m back with Candace and Derek for Part 2 of our conversation, and trust me, it’s even juicier than the first. From…
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Ep 31 - What Really Happens at a Sex Party? This Couple Talks About Sex Parties, Kink and Porn Addiction Part 1
What actually happens when a long-term monogamous couple decides to explore the world of sex parties and kink for the very first time? In this episode of The…
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Ep 30 - The Reality of Being a Kink Educator: Moxie Rose on TikTok, Sex Ed & Community
What happens when a sex educator builds a half-million-strong following by telling the unfiltered truth about kink, consent, and community? Book A Consult Call…
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Ep 29 - How to Talk Dirty with Confidence: Expert Tips from Luna Matas
Ep 29 - How to Talk Dirty with Confidence: Expert Tips from Luna Matas Book A Consult Call with Amanda http://www.amandadames.com/Coaching…
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Ep 28 - Sharing Real Intimacy Online: Ben and Jas on Relationships, Sex, and Communication
What happens when a couple decides to put the real parts of their relationship online—the good, the bad, and the brutally honest? In this episode of The Kink…
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Ep 27 - Storytelling, Sex, and Safe Words: Exploring Kink and Intimacy with Nik the Forge Bear
What if erotic storytelling could teach you more about intimacy than a sex-ed class ever did? In this episode of The Kink Consultant, I’m joined by one of my…
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Ep 26 - Exploring Little Space: A Conversation with Dove on Kink, Relationships, and Self-Discovery
What if the parts of you you’ve been told to suppress are actually your most authentic self? In this episode of The Kink Consultant, I sit down with Dove from…
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Ep 25 - Exploring Kink and Role Play with Saturday Box: A Chat with Emma Xin Velicky
In this episode of The Kink Consultant, I’m joined by the brilliant Emma Xin Velicky, founder of Saturday Box—a company designing immersive kink and roleplay…
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Ep 24 - Redefining Real Intimacy: How Make Love Not Porn is Changing the Conversation
Porn is reshaping how we view intimacy, and Make Love Not Porn is leading the charge. In this episode of The Kink Consultant, I sit down with Saniyyah Lateef…
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Ep 23 - From Pec Popping to Daddy Dom: A Conversation on Creating Content and Kink Relationships with Dilly form The Life of Dillyyy
What do thirst traps, TikTok bans, and Daddy Dom dynamics have in common? In this episode of The Kink Consultant, I sit down with Dilly from @TheLifeofDillyy…
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Ep 22 - Kinky vs. Vanilla: Can Your Relationship Survive the Difference?
What happens when one partner is kinky and the other is strictly vanilla? Is it possible to find common ground, or are you setting yourself up for long-term…
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Ep 21 - Dominance & Submission 101: Communication, Boundaries & Building the Right Dynamic
Most people think a Dom/sub relationship is all about power and control—but the reality is, it lives and dies by communication. A strong D/s dynamic isn’t…
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Ep 20: How to Find Your Kink Community: Safety, Red Flags & Building Real Connections
Finding your kink community can be a game-changer, but where do you even start? Finding the right community is about more than just showing up; it’s about…
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Ep 19 - Kink, Non-Monogamy & Redefining Relationships with CJ from No Shame with CJ
In this episode, I sit down with CJ from No Shame with CJ to dive into the complexities of kink, non-monogamy, and redefining relationship norms. As a fellow…
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Ep 18 - Dating Life Updates: Spanking Parties, Dating Drama & Unexpected Feelings
In this episode, I catch up with my biz dom, Brenda, for a deep dive into my latest dating escapades—from navigating kinky dating apps to almost getting stood…
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Ep 17 - Answering Kink Questions and Discovering Dominance with Zach Moore
In this episode ofThe Kink Consultant, I sit down with my former personal trainer and newly single friend, Zach Moore, as he navigates dating after nearly 15…
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Ep 16 - Dirty Daddies Do Vegas: Creating Space for Every Story with Rayanna Jamison
In this episode of The Kink Consultant, I’m joined by the incredible Rayanna Jamison, USA Today bestselling author, co-founder of GTB Publishing, and organizer…
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Ep 15 – Sex-Ed, Kinks, and Being Open-Minded: A Conversation with My Vanilla Mom
In this episode, I sit down with my mother, Angela, to explore her journey from growing up in 1960s Ireland to becoming an open-minded, supportive parent. She…
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Ep 14 – Exploring the Power of Music and Kink with Deore
In this episode, I sit down with musician and kinky creator Deore to explore the fascinating intersection of music and kink. Known for her bratty sub energy…
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Ep 13 – Dating Life Update: Age Gaps, First Kisses, and Some Reflections
Once again, I’m joined by my Business Manager and close friend, Brenda, as we dive into a whirlwind week of my dating life. From navigating an unexpected age…
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Ep 12 – A Sneak Peek Of My Dating Life: Meeting Target Guy
In this episode, I sit down with my Business Manager and friend, Brenda, to unpack my dating life—and trust me, there’s plenty to talk about! We dive into my…
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Ep 11 – Paws and Play: Understanding Puppy Play with Pup Locrian
In this episode, I had an absolute blast chatting with the amazing Pup Locrian. We dove into all things puppy play, its rich history and how it's different…
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Ep 10 - Pleasure and Purpose: Catherine Drysdale's Journey Through Sex and Relationship Coaching
This week, I’m thrilled to have a candid and insightful conversation with my dear friend, Catherine Drysdale, a dedicated sex and relationship coach whose…
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Ep 09 – Locktober, Chastity Cages, and Other Kinks with Larah Sky
In this episode, I’m sitting down with the fierce andfabulous Larah Sky where we dive deep into her journey from viral videos to becoming a trusted voice in…
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Ep 08 – A Conversation on Kink, Connection, and Community with Brad Jones of Meet Kinksters
In this episode, I'm sitting down with the incredible BradJones, the mastermind behind my all-time favorite dating app, Meet Kinksters! Book A Consult Call…
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Ep 07 - Spooky, Sexy, Spectacular: Bringing 'Abandon' to Life with Jana Wimer & Robert Bullwinkel
In this episode, I get to dive into the fascinating world of Jana Wimer and Robert Bullwinkel, the creative minds behind the spectacular theater production…
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Ep 06 - [VIDEO] Building Better Kink Connections: All About the BeeDee App with Founders Pieter and Paul
I’m beyond excited to have Pieter and Paul, the brilliant minds behind the groundbreaking BDSM dating app, BeeDee. We'll dive deep into how the app uses your…
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Ep 05 - BDSM 101: The Do's and Don'ts with Jim and Veronica
Buckle up for a wild ride as I sit down with Veronica and Jim, the power couple of the Las Vegas kink scene. Veronica and Jim spill the beans on their…
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Ep 04 - Spanking 101: Balancing Kink, Consent, and Boundaries with AGS
In this episode, I’m joined by AGoodSpankin as we dive into one of the most common yet misunderstood fetishes—spanking. AGS shares his personal journey, from…
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Ep 03 - Answering Your Questions: From Rates to Rules in the Dungeon
In this episode, I answer your burning questions from the first two episodes! Book A Consult Call with Amanda…
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Ep 02 - Into the Dungeon: My First Day as a Dominatrix
In this episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on how I went from a Wall Street Journal desk job to stepping into a dominatrix role I never saw coming. I’ll…
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Ep 01 - How I Became the Kink Consultant
Welcome to the first episode of The Kink Consultant! I’m excited to take you on a journey into the world of kink, BDSM, and sex positivity. Book A Consult Call…