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Long Haul Marriage Roadcast
Brian and Jamie Hackney, founders of Long Haul Marriage, discuss all things marriage in this raw, real, casual, and fun podcast. Married for 35 years, and having coached over 3000 couples, they share what they've learned, mostly the hard way, hoping to encourage couples, giving them tools that will strengthen their relationship, so they can be in it for the long haul!
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Episodes
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We Don't Have Time! (Part 9 of 10) 10 Things That Can Make or Break Your Marriage
Time! There's never enough of it, huh!? We jam pack our lives with so many things, some more important than others...family, work, sports, school, friends…
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The Kids Are Taking Over (Part 8 of 10) 10 Things That Can Make or Break Your Marriage
Parenting! You started your family because you wanted children. Somewhere along the way, you accidentally built your entire life around them - and your…
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Can I Trust You Again? (Part 7 of 10) 10 Things That Can Make or Break Your Marriage
Trust, Betrayal & Infidelity Trust can take years to build and seconds to destroy. But what happens after it's broken? In our 7th episode of this series, we…
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Who's Carrying The Load? (Part 6 of 10) 10 Things That Can Make or Break Your Marriage
Nothing kills affection quite like feeling like you're carrying the entire marriage by yourself. It's not about "husbands do this, and wives do that." And the…
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Follow The Money (Part 5 of 10) 10 Things That Can Make or Break Your Marriage
Money doesn't always cause every marriage problem, but it has a remarkable ability to expose them. In today's episode (part 5 of 10 part series), we discuss…
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The Same Damn Argument (Part 4 of 10) 10 Things That Can Make or Break Your Marriage
Have you ever had an argument with your spouse and halfway through thought, "Wait, we've had this exact argument 100 times!"? In part 4 of our 10 part series…
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The Sex Conversation (Part 3 of 10) 10 Things that can Make or Break Your Marriage
In part 3 of our 10 part series, Brian and Jamie talk openly and candidly about sex - why so many couples who love each other very much can feel rejected…
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Roommates, Not Lovers (Part 2 of 10) 10 Things That Can Make or Break Your Marriage
Welcome to our 10 part series - 10 Things That Can Make or Break Your Marriage In part 2, Brian and Jamie continue talking about emotional disconnection in…
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We Don't Talk Anymore (Part 1 of 10 part series - 10 Things That Can Make or Break Your Marriage)
Welcome to our 10 part series - 10 Things That Can Make or Break Your Marriage In part 1, Jamie and Brian discuss why many couples begin to lose connection…
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Married and My Best Friend is Opposite Sex - Is That Cool?
Is checking your partner's phone ever ok? Should married couples share their location? Can you have a best friend of the opposite sex when you're married? When…
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Believe What You Will, But HOPE for the Best!
As we settle back in for another season, we wanted to talk about Belief, vs, Hope, specifically, how they differ, but more importantly, how to choose a life of…
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Can Troubled Marriages be Saved?
After hearing Tucker Carlson's recent reaction to the statement from Father Stephen De Young that marriages that have been blown up, and almost destroyed, can…
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Anxiety Keeping You Up at Night?
After several recent conversations with young couples about all the uncertainty in today's world, and the sometimes crippling anxiety it produces, Brian and…
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Celebrate The Ones You Love - Like, Now!
Happy belated Mother's Day to all you moms! (And Happy Birthday to Jamie!! 5/11) In today's abbreviated episode, Brian and Jamie discuss the value in…
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Building Margin in your Life - Start on Cinco de Mayo!!!
As a reminder in Small Business week, Long Haul Marriage is a donor supported 501c3, and is made possible by generous donations from people like you. If you…
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Batten Down the Hatches! Storm Season is Here!
It's definitely storm season in North Texas, but it's also potential storm season in your marriage, no matter what season you find yourself in. In today's…
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Phone a Friend!
In today's episode, Brian and Jamie share some thoughts about the value of friendship, and having couple friends. They talk about some very special friendships…
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The Tomb is Empty? So What?
In this week's episode, Jamie and Brian Good Wedding Friday, Jammin Saturday, Easter Sunday, and Excellent Monday. They talk about their love for family time…
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The Ten Commandments of Marriage
When's the last time you read the Ten Commandments? (Have you seen the movie 100 times like Brian?) Are you keeping the commandments? When's the last time you…
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RE-RELEASE: Zoe Penzes - Twenty-two, Single, and No Longer On-Line Dating!
In today's episode, Jamie and Brian sit down with Zoe Penzes, a dear friend of the family (and girlfriend of another dear friend of the family), and discuss…
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My Husband Needs A Friend!!
Yes, we all know we're addicted to our phones, to social media, and all of the crap that comes along with that! Not to minimize the truly tragic implications…
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Advice From My 60 Year Old Self to My 30 Year Old Self
If you could go back to your young adult self, and give them your best nuggets of wisdom that life has taught you, what would you say? Join us today as we talk…
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When your Brooding Teenager Becomes Your Best Friend
Thanks for hanging out with us! Listen in as we talk about one of our greatest accomplishments - building and maintaining a healthy, lasting relationship with…
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Married, but... Could There Be Someone Better Out There??
Hi Listener! We're glad you're here. Today, Jamie is still on a high, coming off of her recent Evergreen women's event in Broken Bow, and Brian asks her to hit…
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*(Re-Release) Crashes, Detours, and Pit Stops On the Journey
In this reprised episode, the inaugural episode of the Roadcast, Brian and Jamie chronicle the beginning of their journey, discussing the hard and painful…
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You are NOT Alone! (Even if you'd rather your spouse leave you that way sometime)
In this week's episode of the Roadcast, Brian and Jamie discuss the heaviness of the state of the world right now, and how we are prone to want to process this…
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Are you a Saint or a Sinner? (Or Both?)
Saint or sinner? Which one are you? Which one are we? Is it possible we could be both? In today's episode, Brian and Jamie discuss simultaneity (the property…
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Winterizing Your Marriage
In today's "snowed in" episode, Brian and Jamie talk a little about being snowed in together, how to avoid cabin fever, how to avoid slipping on ice, and how…
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Mad at God, but Afraid to Admit It?
In this week's episode, Jamie brings up the topic of being hurt, disappointed, disallusioned, or being downright angry with God, but somehow, unable or…
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2026 Living Our Best Life!!
2026 is here, and we want it to be our best year yet - no hyperbole. Can we truly make that happen? Do we have any control over our lives, especially when we…
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2025 from The Rear View Mirror
In this final episode of the year, Brian and Jamie take a look back over 2025, the beginning of Long Haul Marriage, dealing with the grief of their less than…
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(Parenting) Lessons from the Hot Tub
In today's episode, Brian and Jamie discuss the always daunting, and tricky task of parenting - especially in today's culture where social media, and…
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Men are Better Movers Than Women - There, I Said It! (Brian)
Today is Giving Tuesday (12/2/25)!! Looking for a good cause and a year end tax deduction? We would be honored if you would consider supporting Long Haul…
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Happy Thanksgiving!! Or is it?
Next Week is Giving Tuesday! Looking for a good cause and a year end tax deduction? We would be honored if you would consider supporting Long Haul Marriage. A…
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Does Real, Passionate Love Truly Exist, and Does It Ever Last?
Looking for a good cause and a year end tax deduction? We would be honored if you would consider supporting Long Haul Marriage. A huge thank you to our…
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Does My Marriage Need An Overhaul??
In today's episode, Brian and Jamie discuss their "Overhaul" package - the Marriage Intensive, and what all that entails. They discuss how much they personally…
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A Testament To My Wife
Brian and Jamie are pumped in today's episode, as they passionately share about Brian's new book, A Testament To My Wife, A Light for the Lost, Confused Soul…
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My Spouse Cheated On Me - Now What!?
In today's episode, Brian and Jamie talk about infidelity in marriage, and the destruction, and devastation it causes, and the challenges couples face when…
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Disruptions, Detours, and Debacles - What's an Addict to Do?
In today's episode, Brian and Jamie discuss their recent internet and phone outage, and how INCONVENIENCE it was for their lives, from business to…
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HAPPY BIRTHDAY to Long Haul Marriage!!
Happy Birthday to Us!!! Long Haul Marriage turns 1 on October 16th!! Can you believe it's been a year? It seems like just yesterday we were filing our 501c3…
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Encore Episode (RE-RELEASE) - "I Do??" Yikes, Have I Made a HUGE Mistake?
In our second most listened to episode, we share the "bad and the ugly" of the first few years of our marriage, talking about how our basic differences, plus…
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Hey ChatGPT! Why Is My Husband So Angry?
In today's episode, Brian and Jamie take a minute at the top to thank their faithful donors, to talk about the value in giving, even when one might think the…
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60 Year Old Fossil Found In North Texas
What will your life look like when you're 60? It will sneak up on you WAY FASTER than you could ever imagine! (Can I get a witness from all the old farts out…
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State of the Union Address
Mostly at a loss for words, Jamie and Brian share their heavy hearts regarding their personal grief over the state of the world right now...yes, in regards to…
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Are You Cheating On Your Spouse...with your Hobbies?
Made you look!! Ok, so you may not be having an affair, or cheating on your spouse, but are you prioritizing your golf game, or your girl's night above your…
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Live to Work, or Work to Live?? Hi ho, hi ho, it's off to work we go!
Welcome back - and thank you for being here!! We missed you all. We're looking forward to Season 3, where we'll be sharing some more guest interviews, as well…
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Vivez la diffe'rence!
We might sound like a broken record, but when it comes to issues that are problematic in marriage, none is more conspicuously at the top of the list these days…
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The Second Wife (It's Not What You Think)
This week, Jamie, is inspired by a Ben Rector post, talking about a chance encounter with the owners of a newish restaurant in San Jose, CA, called The Second…
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Prayers for South Texas Flooding Victims
In the wake of the tragic loss of life, property, homes, and loved ones, Brian and Jamie dedicate this episode to the victims and families of the…
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Laughter for the Long Haul
Have you ever had one of the cringiest, most embarrassing moments of your life, only to turn around a few minutes later to recall the event with your spouse…
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Meet Kay Smith - Cactus Canyon GM, Chef, Adventurer, and Unreasonably Hospitable Person
You are in for a treat!!! In today's episode, you will be blown away by our new friend, Kay Smith. Jamie and I met Kay recently at one of our favorite Mexican…
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Meet Zoe Penzes - What Life is Like for a Single, 22 yr old Female
In today's episode, Jamie and Brian sit down with Zoe Penzes, a dear friend of the family (and girlfriend of another dear friend of the family), and discuss…
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How to Love and Support your Kids When You Disagree with Their Life Choices
In today's episode, Brian and Jamie answer a couple of questions from listeners, talk about parenting, and a few things they discussed on their online…
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Happy Anniversary to Brian and Jamie - From Honey Moon Hell to Happily Ever After
In today's special anniversay edition, Brian and Jamie talk about celebrating 36 years of marriage on June 3rd! They talk about how they met, the great, but…
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How Satisfied Are You in your Marriage?
Parenting Workshop Link (This Thursday night, the 29th, at 8 pm CST) https://calendly.com/longhaulmarriage/new-meeting John Gottman, 7 Principles for Making…
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Road Trip with Family - Vacation or Nightmare?
Parenting Workshop Link https://calendly.com/longhaulmarriage/new-meeting After a week off to celebrate Mother's Day and Jamie's birthday in beautiful Santa…
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Hosting a Wedding in Our Own Backyard!! Would We Dare Do It Again?
Brian and Jamie hosted a wedding for family friends in their OWN BACKYARD! In this episode, they talk about that experience, their extra busy weekend, and then…
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UGH!! You Make Me So Mad!!
We've all had them - rip roarin' fights where we want to strangle our spouses (boyfriends, girlfriends, fiance's) - not really, but really. We get so…
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"Finding" vs Making Love
In this episode, fresh off of a walk listening to one of his favorite podcasts, The Telepathy Tapes, Brian engages Jamie in a conversation about the concept of…
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Attachment Styles and So, What Now?
Fresh off her women's retreat with sister non-profit, Beautiful Ashes Ministries (Beth Shuey), Jamie shares about attachment styles, and how, no matter what…