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The REALationship Method
The REALationship Method is a comedic podcast about dating, relationships, and advice, blending tips with plenty of tangents. With stories and experiences shared by the cast and guests, it offers cautionary tales to help you avoid making the same mistakes. So sit back, relax, and maybe learn a thing or ten!
Episodes
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Locked Bathrooms, Petty Energy & Zero F*cks with Ashley
Send us Fan Mail A lot of people talk about “healing” like it’s aesthetic. We talk about it like it’s Tuesday, you still have work tomorrow, and your nervous…
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Drug Addiction, Military Spouse Reality, and Authenticity w/ Yani
Send us Fan Mail A DM can change your life if you send it with respect and a real purpose. We link up with Yani, a military spouse, mom, and content creator…
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Standards, Situationships & Single Motherhood: Dating in 2026 with Kirsten
Send us Fan Mail Ghosting, double taps, bar banter, and “I know my worth” quotes can all sound harmless until you’re the one trying to date with real…
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Strong Bonds, Birthdays, Anniversaries and Marriage with Tiffany
Send us Fan Mail A marriage can be strong and still need a reset, and we prove it with a week that packs in everything: a Strong Bonds marriage retreat, Tiff’s…
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Behind the Crown: Dating, Love & The REAL You with Charieze
Send us Fan Mail What happens when you take off the crown, the makeup, the sash, and all the expectations—and just talk about being YOU? In this episode of The…
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Dating on God's Timing with Jes
Send us Fan Mail Dating advice gets weird fast when everyone assumes you must be “talking to someone” just because you’re seen with a man. So we brought Jess…
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More Than His Girlfriend: Fitness, Influence & Finding Your Own Identity with Maka
Send us Fan Mail People love to talk about “discipline” like it’s just willpower, but the truth is messier: schedules, stress, relationships, and social media…
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'Speak My Language', 10 Day Movement Mission, and Does Heartbreak Make Better Music?, with Kali Flower
Send us Fan Mail A song can be a postcard from home or it can be a line in the sand. Kali Flower joins us in person for a super real conversation about coming…
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Behind the Ink: Love, Life & Lowrider Culture with Kayla
Send us Fan Mail You can tell a lot about a person by what they choose to put on their body and why, but you learn even more when you hear the stories behind…
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Misused Labels, Fast Rebounds & Justifying Ghosting with Tyler
Send us Fan Mail Cutting someone off can feel like power and peace at the same time, but it can also be a way to dodge the conversation you’re scared to have…
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Love Frequency, Powerful Women Surrendering and Fake Lifestyles with Mzeye
Send us Fan Mail “I’ve never felt emotionally safe.” When Mzeye says that out loud, the whole conversation changes. We go from surface-level dating talk…
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Bathroom Breaks, Hormone Shifts, and COVID Divorces with Lola
Send us Fan Mail The scariest relationship problems aren’t always the loud ones. Sometimes it’s the quiet drift: two people doing everything for the family…
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Creepy Bosses, Red Flag Ignorance, and Long Distance Trust with Kacee
Send us Fan Mail A “good opportunity” can turn into a bad situation fast, especially when money, access, and attention get mixed together. Kacee comes back to…
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Modeling Scams, Hangin' Out with Baddies, and Picking up Poop with Amari
Send us Fan Mail Your dog can embarrass you in a coffee shop, your DMs can expose your boundaries, and your social media can either build your career or drain…
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Keeping Your Lashes On, Parental Cops, and Chris' Nair Experience with Lynn
Send us Fan Mail A tsunami alert hits your phone and half the neighborhood panics while the other half fires up a barbecue. That’s how this conversation…
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Love After Loss, Patience in New Relationships & Healing Outloud with King Katty
Send us Fan Mail You’ve probably met someone who looks “tough” and assumed they don’t feel much. This conversation flips that myth on its head. I sit down with…
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100!!! REAL Marriage Talk, Bad/Good Cop, and Brady Bunch Woes with Tiffany
Send us Fan Mail We hit a milestone and decided to make it personal: Chris brings on his wife, Tiffany Lomboy, for the 100th episode of The REALationship…
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Creating the Scene, Persistent with the Vision and Protecting Your Worth with Scoot and Mai
Send us Fan Mail Creative momentum doesn’t come from perfect conditions. It comes from saying yes early, learning when to say no, and mastering the details…
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Cheesecake Factory Isn't Trash, Fake Collabs, and Red Flags in Casual Dating with Zakaila
Send us Fan Mail A chance DM turned into a wide-open conversation with model, creator, and early childhood educator Zakaila—Seattle-born, Honolulu-rooted—about…
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Couch-Surfing, Owning Cringe, and Scriptless Scripts with Suavenohea
Send us Fan Mail A one-way ticket, a do-rag, and $200. That’s how Suave landed in Hawaii at 19, betting on instinct, island culture, and the kind of grind most…
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Finding Home Far From Home, Portland Protests, and Dating by Faith with Benny
Send us Fan Mail A rainy city can make you feel alone even when you know everyone. That’s where Benny found himself in Portland—craving real community, steady…
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Hurricane SLAP Shot, No Dating Customer Rule, and Handling BO with Hurricane Tee
Send us Fan Mail What happens when a bartender at a military-heavy honky-tonk goes viral for a slap and turns it into a professional path? We sit down with…
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Dirty Shoes, Fupa Jeans, And Why Your Do-Rag Isn’t A Crime with Rita
Send us Fan Mail What happens when sharp style meets sharper self-awareness? We sit down with Rita—EMT by training, quality officer in detox care, and a…
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Six-month Dating Rule and Which Phase is Better - Single, Talking, or Together?, with Aulani
Send us Fan Mail Fireworks lit the sky, but what really sparked was a candid look at how culture, money, and boundaries shape love. We sit down with Aulani—a…
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How Therapy, Family, And Hip-Hop Helped Me Rebuild After Losing My Wife with Christian
Send us Fan Mail First and foremost, excuse the poor sound quality of this episode. My mic malfunctioned and I had to resort to my trusty airpods. Enjoy this…
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Anu Finds Love, Liking 'Noods", and What NOT to Say to a Baby with Sydni
Send us Fan Mail Ever tried to love well while your brain is sprinting and your calendar won’t quit? We dive straight into the messy space where mental health…
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He Hit 485 Deadlift And Still Can’t Read Flirting, Send Help with Sage
Send us Fan Mail A first mic, a sandy shoreline, and a set of hard-won lessons about love and timing—Sage brings a full-life story that hits both the studio…
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Why Good Men Aren’t Gone, Labels, Lies & the Places We Find Ourselves with Kea
Send us Fan Mail What makes someone “from” a place, and what belongs to blood, lineage, and lived experience? We bring that question home with Kea, who grew up…
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Wing-Women Tactics and Friends with Benefits Pitfalls with Kace
Send us Fan Mail Ever wonder how a new model goes from posting beach shots to landing paid shoots and brand trips without losing herself? Kace joins us for a…
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How A Dishwasher Became a Headliner, Social Media Resets, & Boundaries with Clout-Chasers w/ KittyPine
Send us Fan Mail A single compliment in a dish pit changed everything. Kitty Pine walked us through the moment a chef called them the “best dishwasher” he’d…
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DM Etiquette, Modeling Politics, and What Does 'I'm Busy' Really Mean with Shyla Marie
Send us Fan Mail A model, mom, and photographer walks into our studio and refuses to give the safe, surface version of her story. Shyla takes us from beachside…
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Hoeflation, Sassy Men, and Zippy’s Mac Salad with Vicky
Send us Fan Mail A cool studio, a hotter island, and a conversation that doesn’t flinch. We kick off with jokes about heat and Spam musubi, then Vicky takes us…
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Comprehension vs. Communication & What it Means to be 'Alpha' with Alexis Renae
Send us Fan Mail What does it really mean to be the "alpha" in your relationships? Alexis Renae, CEO of Role Models 808, brings her unique perspective as both…
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Dating's Curious Double Standards, Masculine Vulnerability and Dating a Millennial with Karen
Send us Fan Mail What happens when old friends reconnect to discuss the messy, complicated world of modern relationships? In this raw and unfiltered…
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ChatGPT Dating Advice, the 'Talking Stage', and Blocking Exes with Hokulani
Send us Fan Mail Ever wondered what it's like to be a professional Tahitian dancer who's also navigating the modern dating scene? Hokulani joins Chris on the…
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Healthy Relationships turning Toxic, Spontaneous vs. Planned Partners & Pajama Talk with Kaylee Brooke
Send us Fan Mail Ever wonder what your partner is really doing when they're "with the boys"? Or how a healthy relationship can suddenly turn toxic? Singer…
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Failed Relationships, Triggering Self-Awareness, and Being On a Reality Show with Maelene
Send us Fan Mail What if your failed relationships were actually preparing you for your greatest transformation? Maelene joins Chris on The Realationship…
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Cultural Context Shaping Relationship Expectations and Never Turning Down an Audition with Stacey
Send us Fan Mail Actress, dancer, and bartender Stacey joins Chris for a captivating conversation about navigating creative careers and personal relationships…
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Making the Hard Choices and Breaking Up when Nothing's Wrong with Kamaka Dias
Send us Fan Mail What happens when you need to break up with someone you love, but nothing's wrong? How do you communicate effectively with a partner who…
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Difference Between GF and Wife Behavior, Advocating on Committed Partnerships, and the Evolution of Personal Love Languages w/ Tia Mailani
Send us Fan Mail What happens when a driven Hawaiian model with dreams of becoming a pediatric oncologist opens up about love, cultural identity, and finding…
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Indonesia to Hawaii, Anti-aging, and Meeting a Man from Church with Lovina
Send us Fan Mail What happens when science and relationships collide? Lovina, a PhD student specializing in anti-aging biology, joins Chris to explore this…
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Tequila, TikTok, and Finding One's Voice with Brev
Send us Fan Mail Meet Brev, the Filipino-Chinese content creator who's mastered the delicate art of balancing a 9-to-5 corporate job with a thriving social…
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How Grief Led to Comedy and Filipino Family Dynamics with Mia
Send us Fan Mail When content creator Mia first received an invitation to appear on the Relationship Method podcast, she thought it might be a scam. Having…
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From Influencer to Playboy, Wedding Bells, Being a Homebody and Socially Awkward with Faith
Send us Fan Mail Delve into the fascinating world of social media influence through the eyes of Faith, an entrepreneur who defies expectations at every turn…
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Swiping Left on Dating Apps and Right on Authenticity with Lex
Send us Fan Mail What happens when airline industry insights collide with modern dating adventures? In this candid conversation, Chris welcomes Lex from the…
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Jocelyn Enriquez: Filipino Music Pioneer Returns
Send us Fan Mail Thirty years after breaking barriers as one of the first Filipino-Americans to chart on Billboard, freestyle music icon Jocelyn Enriquez sits…
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Finding Rhythm in Life's Unexpected Steps, Waking Up with One Sock, & Comfort Food with Aggie
Send us Fan Mail The beauty of unexpected connections reveals itself in this conversation with dancer and instructor Aggie, where cultural touchpoints create…
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Dealing with Online Hating, Red and Green flags for a Cancer, Hairless Men and Side Pieces with Ashley
Send us Fan Mail A creative soul finds her voice through adversity. That's the story of Ashley Abbott, model, singer, and mother who joins us for an intimate…
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Beyond the Algorithm, Discovering Unknown Siblings, and Breaking Niche's
Send us Fan Mail Mekel Kasanova isn't just a voice actor, streamer, podcaster, and content creator – he's a testament to forging your own path when you don't…
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From Tomboy to Center Stage, Finding Balance, & Dating app disasters with Acari
Send us Fan Mail What happens when musical talent meets motherhood and cultural heritage? Bay Area vocalist Acari joins us for a captivating conversation that…
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The Art of Flow: DJ Q-Bert on Scratching, Spirituality, and Creative Evolution
Send us Fan Mail Ever wondered what goes on in the mind of a turntable virtuoso? DJ Q-Bert, one of the most influential scratch DJs in history, pulls back the…
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Pimping out friends, Pretty vs Hot/Sexy, Supportive Exes & Coming Out w/ Rancelyn
Send us Fan Mail When TikTok star Rancelyn Lucero steps into the studio, what unfolds is far more than just another interview. Her natural charisma and…
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Introducing Children to a New Partner, Celibate Green Flags & Getting 86'd w/ Anu
Send us Fan Mail What happens when the right person comes along after you've given up on dating apps? Anu returns to the Relationship Method podcast with a…
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From Hawaii to Texas: A Singer's Journey Through Life's Seasons with Kali
Send us Fan Mail Hawaiian-born R&B artist Kali talks about her musical journey from military kid to creating the "Fuck Girl Season" concept for her work as she…
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The Value of Patience and Self-Discovery Before Finding Your Person with Lucy
Send us Fan Mail Chris and Lucy explore the complexities of modern relationships and the value of self-improvement before diving into dating. They share…
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Hidden gems in attraction, Humor in unexpected situations, and Human instincts vs Societal norms with Christian
Send us Fan Mail On this episode, I popped my online podcasting cherry (pause) with @christianhasasthma We talked about, cultural connections and upbringing…
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Women love seeing men soft, living with two mothers, and premature gay labeling with Jhun-Buggy
Send us Fan Mail My girl, Jhun, rolled through the set as surprise popup and we got down to business. We talked about her secretly loving church, cell phone…
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Unlocking the Dreamworld: A Guide to Lucid Dreaming with Matt
Send us Fan Mail Matt @Lucid_explorers rolled through the set and we got into it. We talked about lucid dreaming, being conscious in them, dream journaling and…
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Is sleeping next to someone healthy?, When sex isn't important, and Valuing connections with Jenny
Send us Fan Mail Sorry for the recording, we had microphone problems! Still enjoy the episode! Model and Fitness coach, Jenny, rolled through the set to chop…
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Do women take it as an insult if an ugly man hits on them?, & backhanded compliments with Tanaiah
Send us Fan Mail Back from a mini vacay! On this episode, model and pageant winner, Tanaiah, rolled through the podcast. We talked about her odd modeling shoot…