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Six-month Dating Rule and Which Phase is Better - Single, Talking, or Together?, with Aulani
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Fireworks lit the sky, but what really sparked was a candid look at how culture, money, and boundaries shape love. We sit down with Aulani—a behavior-focused counselor and hula performer—to unpack the signals we miss and the standards that save us. From Hawaii’s New Year traditions to why the street is spotless on January 2, we trace how community norms carry into parenting, dating, and the choices we make when no one’s watching.
We get specific. Paper plates versus real dishes. Sneaker walls versus balanced budgets. A custom Hawaiian bracelet that doubles as a proposal and a…
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