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The REALationship Method
The REALationship Method is a comedic podcast about dating, relationships, and advice, blending tips with plenty of tangents. With stories and experiences shared by the cast and guests, it offers cautionary tales to help you avoid making the same mistakes. So sit back, relax, and maybe learn a thing or ten!
Episodes
The REALationship MethodFiguring sh!t out, Washington blues & catching up with Jay
Send us Fan Mail Our first ever online podcast episode, thanks to Riverside. I caught up with Jay and we talked about Pokemon, Washington woes, if he's coming…
The REALationship MethodHonesty vs Transparency, being a successful side piece, men BBLs, and social media's false reality
Send us Fan Mail After reaching like fifty times, I finally got content creator, influencer, comedian, car salesman, a jack of all trades, Von aka Estrelluh on…
The REALationship MethodAlmost EVERYTHING is a red flag, Do guys like getting gifts?, Tik Tok being banned, and the importance of Bro Code
Send us Fan Mail Youtuber and hooper, Captain Jamie, of JVLOGS, rolled through the set to chop it up. We talked about, posting on IG and Youtube (we are one…
The REALationship MethodTaking the taco, Respect in the relationship, and how to be cordial with exes family and friends after a breakup
Send us Fan Mail Sneaky Cheeky from Waikiki, Chloe, joins the podcast. We talked about being in the cancel culture, how Chloe ended up with her best friend…
The REALationship MethodSelf sufficient vs. Independent, Her place or yours, how much to spend on the first night, and crushin' on Jack Harlow
Send us Fan Mail We got radio personality, Becky Mits, on the set!! We talked about how she's being called 'auntie', who's paying on the date?, can a person be…
The REALationship MethodDating app fatigue, compliments gone wrong, and hollerin' at an unknown relative
Send us Fan Mail My boy, Allaijah Malik, of More Than a Uniform and Maid in a Minute, rolled through the set to chop it up like old times. We talked about how…
The REALationship MethodCareer changing, getting rid of a clingy person, and when did guys become princesses?
Send us Fan Mail 50th episode!! Guests Crystal, Allaijah, and Tiffany rolled through for this one. We talked about how is dating nowadays, boob/penis grazing…
The REALationship MethodWhy do guys lie?, Accepting being friendzoned, and Straight men/women being a commodity in gay culture
Send us Fan Mail One of my good friends, Alec, from the National Guard rolled through the podcast and we talked about fake adulthood, is college a scam…
The REALationship MethodMen's mental health, Body enhancement fails, and calling out Ernie Reyes, Jr.
Send us Fan Mail Thaddeus Park of Above the Bridge Podcast rolls through the set. We talked about Oculus porn watching, trusting our peoples when it comes to…
The REALationship MethodCringe hookups, quitting the dating apps, more red flags, and saying Bye Foolisha
Send us Fan Mail Songwriter and actress, Christie Brooke rolls through the podcast to chop it up. We talked about on filming with Mandy Moore, choosing her…
The REALationship MethodWhen enough is enough, ups and downs of being a grandparent, and facing the judge!
Send us Fan Mail On this episode, my special guest is.... my dad. We talked about how he survived the projects, the reason why he left Anita, raising kids, why…
The REALationship MethodBeing a pineapple in the big apple, Aggressive cat calling, Covid in NY, and Reinventing oneself
Send us Fan Mail Foodie, model, adventurer, mama bear, Ms. Jackie-of-all-trades, Mary Jane rolled through The REALationship Method podcast. We talked about her…
The REALationship MethodAsk and you shall receive, Situationships, and Knowing your role as a side piece
Send us Fan Mail Ya'll asked and I'm delivering. Anu came back on to answer more of your questions and to have an open conversation with your boy. We talked…
The REALationship MethodShe got that 'Halo Halo', the Hyphy movement, and how to handle life's L's and Wins with class
Send us Fan Mail Coming all the way from the Yay, Nump, rolls through studio to chop it up. Taking a break from visiting the dispensers and speaking at…
The REALationship MethodPersonality vs. Looks, Old school meets new school and radio love jams
Send us Fan Mail Jenn aka @chews_sandiego rolled through the podcast from San Diego! We talked about how she got into being a foodie on IG, reading old pager…
The REALationship MethodShe's throwing hands! Which is better, shooting your shot in person or through dms, and dad bod vs. gym bod
Send us Fan Mail Coming from a pageant walk practice, Hazel rolls through the podcast. We talked about how she got into MMA fighting, being in pageants…
The REALationship MethodHow to date with a social media following, Love language toxic traits, and teleprompter bloopers
Send us Fan Mail Model, Twitch streamer and Foodie, Sasha Emiri, rolls through the podcast while on vacation. We got into how Chris and Jay do their outreach…
The REALationship MethodDating in a place where everybody knows everybody, what a man's haircut tell a woman, and spotting clout chasers
Send us Fan Mail Lily rolled through the set and she spilled the tea. We discussed how she got her IG name, going from tequila to being sober, her main 'ick'…
The REALationship MethodYour single and now you’re taken, Learning life through the fly, and Couples blackmailing each other
Send us Fan Mail One-on-One with Lori and Chris! We talked about learning from past guests, Chris moving on from his baby mama, Lori's open relationship with…
The REALationship MethodYou just met, what to say?, Faking it for the opposite sex, and How to face rejection like a G!
Send us Fan Mail Chris tried the hottest gummy and almost died, Kayla's first time modeling, Lori's argument tips, debunking the first date list, worst thing…
The REALationship MethodAccepting a cheater back, women’s emotion/men’s physical betrayal, being a place holder, and battle of the ego's
Send us Fan Mail A first!! Chris is dominated by women in this episode. Nohea and Anu (with her babies) rolled through the set and we got into it! We spoke…
The REALationship MethodIs it important to post your gf/bf on social media? Could we ever be too selfish?, and is there someone better out there?
Send us Fan Mail Jay and Chris get into it! We got into Chris' new cat, Jay traveling to Washington, is it sus when you truly clean your asshole, do women like…
The REALationship MethodHow to handle insecure BF's at model photoshoots, Polyamorous relationships, and is Jay leaving theREAL??
Send us Fan Mail We did a live, spit-fire podcast for KAEO Studio's one-year opening anniversary. Jay announces that he is leaving the island of Hawaii (for…
The REALationship MethodLoving from afar, long-term lust vs. short-term love, and can long-distance work?
Send us Fan Mail Hawaiian R&B and hip-hop artist, Kalalea, rolled through the set and we popped his podcast cherry. We talked about Kal's first break in the…
The REALationship MethodExperiencing homophobia for the first time, being a hoe with standards, and secrets to not climaxing too early
Send us Fan Mail The infamous Franny rolled through and as you know, we got it in! We talked about what made Franny comfortable with his sexuality, how common…
The REALationship MethodHandling someone's relationship baggage, controlling your liquor, and aunties and uncles that do too much on social media
Send us Fan Mail In this episode, we have Youtube content creator, Dr. Okada! We talked about Tik tok trends, how hard it is to be original nowadays, getting…
The REALationship MethodHow men take every interaction with a woman as 'she wants to smash', being a good ex gf/bf, and is there ever a right age to cheat?
Send us Fan Mail SLAY TE HOUSE, BOOTS DOWN!! In this episode, Lori, Jay, and Chris talk about how they were in their past relationships and how they were once…
The REALationship MethodFalling for people we have no business in falling for, the art of letting a person go, and high school should stay high school
Send us Fan Mail Our first time going live on IG and it was...... We talked about how men are still men and women are still women, regardless of status, how to…
The REALationship Method'That noise, that glow', adding value to a persons life, and being careful on how much love you give people in your heart
Send us Fan Mail In this episode, we go into the REAL reason why Chris started the podcast, to talk about 'The REALationship Method' blog that he wrote 20-25…
The REALationship MethodCan women be aggressive flirters, the 'where my hug at' guys/girls, and the significance of ghosting
Send us Fan Mail YOUR FAVORITE TRIO IS BACK!!! Lori, Jay, and Chris gave updates on what has been happening the past couple of months. We talked about Jay…
The REALationship MethodIs there such thing as a genuine person, does someone's history matter, and correcting your partner in public
Send us Fan Mail We got Fashion Model and teacher, Sienna, rolled through the podcast!! We talked about her degree in Elementary Education, how Chris tried to…
The REALationship MethodHow to get it in with a small package, do women appreciate chivalrous acts, and good s3x making you say the dumbest things
Send us Fan Mail Unfortunately, our disk ran out and the last fifteen minutes of the podcast got cut off. Vid on youtube will be up soon. We got Gavin of…
The REALationship MethodLeast favorite form of foreplay, dealing with family that don't like your partner, and what to do when your partner is always on their phone
Send us Fan Mail We have digital creator and foodie, Cassie, on this episode of the REALationship Method podcast. We got into how Cassie got into digital…
The REALationship MethodIs head important, dealing with 'no condom' situations, and what to expect when you get tested for STDs
Send us Fan Mail Recording artist, Sophia Alfa , rolls through the podcast. We talked about producers shooting their shots, taking in the bad comments, whether…
The REALationship MethodSaying 'no' instead of giving excuses, is there truth to talking sh*t, and getting h*rny over petty arguments
Send us Fan Mail In this episode, we introduce Lori to the REALationship Method team, how Chris started podcasting, Lori breaks down statistical stats in…
The REALationship MethodBeing emotionally busy, should we be ashamed for liking IG baddies, and slangin' breast milk
Send us Fan Mail Jose Dynamite rolls through the set and we chopped it up about hating more and more things as we get older, our assholes looking like…
The REALationship MethodKickin' it with Pornstars with a size 18 shoe, opening for Dave Chappelle, and getting flown out!
Send us Fan Mail We got James Mane rollin' through the set to speak his shiiiiit about kickin' it with pornstars, how he started comedy, coming back from…
The REALationship MethodStarted in the FRIENDzone now we're here, would you say happy bday to an ex, and Jay's bike accident!
Send us Fan Mail UH Women's Hooper, Kelsie, came on the set to speak her shit! We answered your ex questions; could wishing a an ex happy birthday open a door…
The REALationship MethodWhen to listen to the vagina, would you let someone in the friendzone hit?, and searching public records before a meet up
Send us Fan Mail 94 Blocc foreva!! Crystal, jackie of all trades, came through and just killed it. We talked about making fast money, hookin' up during the…
The REALationship MethodThey're 'not it' in bed, PTSD from bad oral, and strawberry booty eating
Send us Fan Mail Allow me to introduce her ass, her name's Lori! We have Sati rollin' through the podcast and we talked about being sexually free, lower…
The REALationship MethodPageant spills, running into bullies, and being an ABG back in the day?
Send us Fan Mail We got Bey-sia from Music.ly folks!!! Shout out to Asianna for choppin' it up with us on this episode. We talked about her being a mental…
The REALationship MethodLosing a top muncher, not knowing you're being a flirt, and living in the pre screenshot era
Send us Fan Mail Missed five minutes because my dumb ass forgot to push record. Watch it on Youtube! J is back from his one month hiatus, WELCOME BACK! We have…
The REALationship MethodWould you date you?, going back with an ex, and who's going through a mid-life crisis'
Send us Fan Mail Ya'll kept on askin' on when I'll get my wife on the podcast, this is the episode. Tiff and her homegirl, Ammo, rolled through the podcast and…
The REALationship MethodGym stalkers, does family matters, and BBL in stock!
Send us Fan Mail Back at it again with the tangents! We have Lori coming back to give us an update on her dating situation and Irin giving advice to potential…
The REALationship MethodWho's fighting the fight, male or female?, digging deeper with Friends with Benefits, and moving on
Send us Fan Mail HAPPY FREAKIN' NEW YEAR!! CHEE-HOO!!!! In this episode, we talk about what's expected in a relationship, what's expected in being an uncle…
The REALationship MethodDating apps vs social media, nude modeling shoots, and becoming a 'yes man'
Send us Fan Mail We got Camille joining us on the podcast. We talked about what jump started her modeling career, creepy dm's and selfies, our first times…
The REALationship MethodWhat do men do in the bathroom, trusting women's intuition, and the secret to the 'eye contact'
Send us Fan Mail Ho, ho, ho!! Happy holidays and Merry Christmas! Janique rolled through the podcast to educate us on what and what not to say at a job…
The REALationship MethodKnow your role as a side dude, men liking their assholes ate, and upgrading the sex ed curriculum
Send us Fan Mail From Soundcloud to Sonic 2, Allaijah Malik came through the podcast to talk about being on anti-depressants, not overdoing it as a side dude…
The REALationship MethodTrusting ones privacy, ups and downs of open relationships, and new opposite sex friends!
Send us Fan Mail Brooklyn comes on and speaks about setting boundaries at work with her spouse and dealing with guys AND gals flirting with her wife. Is there…
The REALationship MethodEcuadorian and Filipino delights, coming out after marriage, and dream cheating
Send us Fan Mail LES-be all friends!!! From Ecuador, Lucy talked about her culture's guinea pig carnival, being professional at work when your buds with the…
The REALationship MethodIs it okay to be best friends with your ex, should dating apps have credit scores, and being a nasty girl
Send us Fan Mail Ya'll asked and we delivered, we got a woman's perspective on things! We jumped on how being single in our 30's is different nowadays…
The REALationship MethodThe 'N' word in the hood, men sacrificing their happiness for relationships, and what's the worth of putting a ring on it.
Send us Fan Mail A little hometown flavor on this episode, Keith rolled through and talked about saying the 'N' word in the hood, men sacrificing their…
The REALationship MethodAre arguments easier back then or now?, 'dating' and 'talking', the revenge clap back
Send us Fan Mail Driee went missing! How far does the pettiness go during an argument, is dating better with 'the apps', our getting played stories in high…
The REALationship Method'Healthy' toxic relationships, are mutual friends necessary, and chivalrous acts. Also, answering more of your q's.
Send us Fan Mail Is Chris a chauvinist?, J's rave-bey's, are toxic relationships, healthy?, is it possible to be together and live separatley, and more. We…
The REALationship MethodBeing friendzoned, career switching and is the internet messing up gen-z and a's game?
Send us Fan Mail Welcome to episode 1 of The REALationship Method. We're going in on your asked questions ie. simps, being friendzoned, career switching as…