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Love, Happiness and Success with Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby
Ready to work on yourself, supercharge your life and create the love, happiness, and success you truly deserve? Join me, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby, your trusty guide on this transformative journey! In every episode, you'll discover the secrets to incredible relationships, authentic happiness, life-changing personal growth, the dream career you've been longing for, and how to create all the good stuff life has to offer. As a psychologist, marriage and family therapist, board-certified coach, and the…
Episodes
Love, Happiness and Success with Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby#358 - Communication Skills: Reacting Versus Responding
We've all been there: Your partner says something that just inflames you, and you say something you regret later. Or you instinctively defend yourself and…
Love, Happiness and Success with Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby#357 - Are You In an Emotionally Enmeshed Relationship?
If you feel like you have to walk on eggshells around your partner, or work WAY harder than you should to make sure they're comfy (often at the expense of your…
Love, Happiness and Success with Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby#356 - Power Struggles In Relationships
Do you feel like you and your partner get stuck in a power struggle where you feel one way, they feel another, and you just cannot compromise? Today's episode…
Love, Happiness and Success with Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby#355 - Betrayal Trauma Recovery
When someone we love, trust, and rely on betrays us, it creates a deep, painful wound that doesn’t always heal on its own. As a couples therapist who often…
Love, Happiness and Success with Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby#354 - How to Make a Career Transition
Making a career transition can be a daunting task, especially if you’ve spent years building your expertise in a particular field only to discover you don’t…
Love, Happiness and Success with Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby#353 - 7 Things that Will Sabotage Couples Counseling
Getting into couples counseling is a fantastic idea... but you have to know how to engage with the process in order to have a good experience. Unfortunately…
Love, Happiness and Success with Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby#352 - How to Help Someone Get Help
Wondering how you can help someone get help? You have the power to have a positive impact on the lives of the people you care about, and this episode will show…
Love, Happiness and Success with Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby#351 - Why You Need a Professional Development Plan
Many people who are unhappy with their working lives are looking for answers. They see other people getting ahead and loving their work, and they wonder why…
Love, Happiness and Success with Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby#350 - How to Deal with Regret
Knowing how to deal with regret helps you build a life that is authentic, ethical, and meaningful. Without regret, you wouldn’t have good information about who…
Love, Happiness and Success with Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby#349 - Signs Your Relationship Is Failing
Was that just a nasty fight? Or a sign that your relationship is failing? As a longtime marriage counselor, I know that it can be hard to spot the difference…
Love, Happiness and Success with Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby#348 - How to Love Yourself
We all hear “you have to love yourself first.” But what if you don't know how to love yourself? This episode is all about authentic self love: What it really…
Love, Happiness and Success with Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby#347 - How to Get Closure
Any kind of loss hurts, but the pain is prolonged when you don't know how to get closure and move forward. Unfortunately, closure isn’t something that anyone…
Love, Happiness and Success with Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby#346 - How to Deal with a Defensive Partner
There are few things more frustrating than trying to figure out how to deal with a defensive partner. You just want them to understand how you feel and what…
Love, Happiness and Success with Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby#345 - Gretchen Rubin On How to Be More Present
If you’re like most people, you're so often in your head that you feel disconnected from your life. When our minds are racing, or we're constantly distracted…
Love, Happiness and Success with Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby#344 - How to Stop Caring what People Think
Wouldn’t it be cool if you could just stop caring what people think? Imagine how confident you would feel if criticism bounced off your psyche like pebbles off…
Love, Happiness and Success with Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby#343 - When Anxious Meets Avoidant
Why are people with anxious attachment styles and avoidant attachment styles drawn to each other? Can anxious-avoidant relationships work, and most…
Love, Happiness and Success with Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby#342 - How to Be More Resilient
Do you ever wonder why some people bounce back quickly from anything life throws at them, while others struggle mightily to get back to baseline, even after…
Love, Happiness and Success with Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby#341 - Cultivating Emotionally Healthy Spirituality
Many people find meaning, comfort, and connection through religion or a spiritual practice. But it’s also not uncommon to have negative religious experiences…
Love, Happiness and Success with Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby#340 - Turn Conflict Avoidance Into Courageous Conversations
Do you feel like your partner shuts you down or tells you whatever you want to hear in order to stop a conversation that makes them feel [anxious / tense /…
Love, Happiness and Success with Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby#339 - Am I Ready For a Baby?
Having a child is one of the coolest, most meaningful experiences a human being can have. It’s also a mind-blowingly huge responsibility. How can you decide if…
Love, Happiness and Success with Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby#338 - How to Get Through to Your Partner
“My husband doesn’t listen to me. He just tells me whatever he thinks I want to hear so that I’ll go away and leave him alone.” “I’m sick of not being heard in…
Love, Happiness and Success with Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby#337 - Cold Feet Before the Wedding? Here’s How to Deal
You’ve hired the caterer, booked the venue, and spent hours curating a playlist that is danceable and family friendly, while also conveying the story of your…
Love, Happiness and Success with Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby#336 - Addicted to a Toxic Relationship
Toxic relationships are more than unhealthy. They can be an addiction. During the early stages of romantic love, our brains light up with flashes of ecstasy…
Love, Happiness and Success with Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby#335 - How to Be Single and Happy
Do you believe being single is a bad thing? Or that it’s a problem that needs to be resolved as quickly as possible? I hope your reflexive answer to these…
Love, Happiness and Success with Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby#334 - Megan Hyatt Miller on Changing Your Mindset
What is the greatest obstacle standing between you and the things you want in life? It’s easy to believe it’s bad luck, or some personal failing, or simply the…
Love, Happiness and Success with Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby#333 - Becoming Emotionally Mature
Your body has changed radically since the day you were born, and your mind is continually growing and changing based on your experiences. But what about your…
Love, Happiness and Success with Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby#332 - How Do People See You
Have you ever been told that “It’s not what you say, it’s how you say it?” As maddening as this can be to hear (especially if it’s lobbed at you in the middle…
Love, Happiness and Success with Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby#331 - How to Stop Emotional Invalidation
Feeling invalidated is at the core of communication issues. When couples fight, they're usually fighting to be heard. Feeling shut down, or bulldozed by your…
Love, Happiness and Success with Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby#330 - Achieving Your Couple Goals
What goals do you have for your relationship? If an answer immediately sprang to your mind, that’s fantastic. You already know what you’d like to work on with…
Love, Happiness and Success with Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby#329 - Cultivating Contentment
Wouldn't it be amazing if you just felt genuinely happy with yourself, and your life, and like things were just the way they should be? Contentment is more…
Love, Happiness and Success with Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby#328 - How to Feel Your Feelings
You know that it's important to stay in touch with your self by tuning into your feelings, but how? And, which ones? Knowing how to tap into your emotions in…
Love, Happiness and Success with Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby#327 - How to Make a Hard Decision
How can you make a hard decision when you have no idea what the future holds? Should you quit your job? Cut off contact with your difficult friend? Buy the…
Love, Happiness and Success with Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby#326 - How to Be a Good Boss
If you’re a hardworking, talented, and career-driven person, you probably aspire to be a leader some day. It’s easy to understand why. “Being a boss” can feel…
Love, Happiness and Success with Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby#325 - Teaching Empathy to Kids
What hopes and dreams do you have for your kids? Do you want them to do well in school? Have good friends who love and support them? Build a successful career…
Love, Happiness and Success with Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby#324 - How to Deal When Your Ex Moves On
We have all been there… witnessing our Ex move on without us. As both a therapist and breakup recovery coach who has walked with many people through the…
Love, Happiness and Success with Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby#323 - How to Stop a Divorce and Save Your Marriage
“I want a divorce.” It’s one of the most alarming sentences a married person can hear. And — in one way or another — it means that your marriage is about to…
Love, Happiness and Success with Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby#322 - ADHD in Relationships
Is untreated ADHD causing trouble in your relationship? “My partner doesn’t listen to me. He agrees to do something, and then he ‘forgets.’ I feel like he just…
Love, Happiness and Success with Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby#321 - Warding Off Emotional Vampires
Are there emotional vampires lurking all around you? Unfortunately, this isn’t a problem you can solve with a garlic necklace or some holy water. An “emotional…
Love, Happiness and Success with Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby#320 - Facing Your Fears
Learning how to face your fears productively can give you clarity, direction, and — ironically — peace of mind. No one likes to feel afraid, but fear can be a…
Love, Happiness and Success with Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby#319 - Red Flags in Relationships
Red flags in relationships aren’t always easy to spot. Even when we do pick up on them, they can be easy to dismiss. If you’re a hopeful, optimistic, generous…
Love, Happiness and Success with Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby#318 - Equality in Relationships
Over the past few decades, we’ve made some huge strides toward building equality in our relationships. It’s no longer rare for a woman to be her family’s…
Love, Happiness and Success with Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby#317 - Dos and Don’ts of Step Parenting
When you become a step-parent, you’re walking into a tricky situation. You may have the warmest feelings for your step-kids and a heartfelt desire to be a…
Love, Happiness and Success with Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby#316 - The Apology Languages
What is your apology language? And, more importantly… what’s your partner’s? As an experienced marriage counselor and couples therapist, I know that…
Love, Happiness and Success with Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby#315 - Military Relationships
On today’s episode of the podcast, we’re covering a topic that doesn’t get nearly the attention it deserves: the unique challenges of maintaining a…
Love, Happiness and Success with Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby#313 - What Makes a Good Life Partner?
When you’re crushing on somebody, you’re not dreaming about how supportive they’d be if your mother was in the hospital, or how adept they’ll be at receiving…
Love, Happiness and Success with Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby#312 - Couples Communication For Stressful Times
It’s no secret that good communication is the key ingredient to a healthy relationship. But, as we all know, couples communication can be challenging —…
Love, Happiness and Success with Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby#311 - Six Signs Your Relationship is In Trouble
All couples have differences, and having “spirited conversations” (aka, “conflict”) as you work towards resolving them is a normal part of every healthy…
Love, Happiness and Success with Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby#310 - How to Deal With Trust Issues
Is it hard for you to trust your partner, or feel secure with them? If you've ever caught yourself double checking them (and then wondering to yourself, "Do I…
Love, Happiness and Success with Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby#309 - How to Stop Being Codependent
Are you in a codependent relationship? If so you're probably feeling anxious, frustrated, and exhausted from trying to create positive change in your…
Love, Happiness and Success with Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby#308 - Managing Up for Career Success
Managing Up for Career Success Have you ever worked in a truly terrible environment? Think back to that job now. What made it so bad? If you’re like most…
Love, Happiness and Success with Dr. Lisa Marie BobbyHow to Transform Your Relationship With Money | LHS Classic
Your relationship with money runs deeper than your bank account. Most of us were never taught how to manage money well — and the beliefs we picked up along the…
Love, Happiness and Success with Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby#307 - Feeling Sexually Rejected By Your Partner? Here’s What to Do…
No matter how secure your relationship is otherwise, it hurts when you feel sexually rejected by your partner. That’s because sexuality is vulnerable and often…
Love, Happiness and Success with Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby#306 - Is Jealousy Healthy in a Relationship?
People often wonder, “Is jealousy healthy in a relationship?” Here’s the short answer: It depends. Jealousy can be healthy when it signals that it’s time to…
Love, Happiness and Success with Dr. Lisa Marie BobbyHow to Let Go of Your Ex for Good | LHS Classic
Can't stop thinking about your ex, even when you know the relationship is over? You're not broken. You're human. Most people don't just "get over" a breakup…
Love, Happiness and Success with Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby#305 - The Power of Believing In Yourself
“Believe in yourself” is more than a soundbite. It’s a necessary ingredient in a happy, self-directed life. It’s also easier said than done. If you (like…
Love, Happiness and Success with Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby#304 - Shifting From Emotional To Intuitive Eating
Eating is one of the most basic ways we care for ourselves every day. But having an unhealthy relationship with food can leave you feeling stressed…
Love, Happiness and Success with Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby#303 - Personality Type Compatibility in Relationships
Are we a good fit? Do we have enough in common? Is my partner really “The One?” Personality type compatibility in relationships isn’t about being alike or…
Love, Happiness and Success with Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby#302 - Feeling Lonely In a Relationship? How to Reconnect.
We all dream of having a close, connected relationship that fulfills us on every level. If you're feeling lonely in a relationship, it hurts. It can be hard to…
Love, Happiness and Success with Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby#301 - Dealing With Control Freaks
Dealing with control freaks is aggravating, but when you know what’s behind it, it’s easier to have understanding and empathy for them — and also create…
Love, Happiness and Success with Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby#300 - Us: Getting Past You and Me
Our relationships are priceless. They can’t be bought, they can only be built. Without them, our lives would be empty. But all of that is easy to forget when…