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I Hate You. What's For Dinner?
On I Hate You. What's For Dinner? we explore whether childhood explains everything. We'll ask our biggest questions about love and hate, rage and fear, and the awesome and mundane that all get smushed together when we're growing up. Tune in to make better sense of childhood, parenthood, and life in general.
Episodes
- I Hate You. What's For Dinner?
Ep 22 - How to Listen to Get Your Family Unstuck: Rev. Susan Nason on Practical Empathy in Parenting
If you don’t want to be an old-school style parent, but you also don’t want to be overly permissive and raise kids who lack resilience, it can be hard to…
- I Hate You. What's For Dinner?
Ep 21 - Centering Actual Humans in Education: Rhiannon Kim on Helping Schools Evolve
What was your school like? How similar or different is it from how your kids’ school functions now? Like pretty much everything, the way we experienced school…
- I Hate You. What's For Dinner?
Ep 20 - We’re on A New Planet: Letting Kids Go, Letting Them Grow
There are many points in the course of our relationships with our kids when the dynamics will shift. That’s how it’s supposed to happen. But as parents, we…
- I Hate You. What's For Dinner?
Ep 19 - Unconditional Love and Identity Theft: Jamie Beth Cohen on Her Dad
A lot of us end up spending a significant part of our adult lives unpacking our childhoods. We obviously do a lot of that in therapy, for ourselves and the…
- I Hate You. What's For Dinner?
Ep 18 - Dad's Performance Review: Teddy Galligan on What Worked and What Didn't
Every parent has moments when they look at their kid and wonder, “Are they gonna be okay when they head out into the world?” In the day to day struggles that…
- I Hate You. What's For Dinner?
Ep 17 - Healthy Disappointment: What It Is and Why It Matters
At its most distilled, disappointment is just noticing a negative difference between what we expected and what actually happened. It’s a moment for…
- I Hate You. What's For Dinner?
Ep 16 - Healing in Real Time: Lucy Bichsel on Bringing Parents Into the Room
There are deep biases embedded in the literature and therapist training for how therapy is supposed to be done. Some of those norms have evolved and some of…
- I Hate You. What's For Dinner?
Ep 15 - Grief, Relief, and Time to Reflect: The Gift of Endings
June is a time of transition for a lot of families. The end of the school year, graduations from one phase of schooling to the next –– endings and beginnings…
- I Hate You. What's For Dinner?
Ep 14 - The Suicide Shroud: Dr. Alexis Tomarken on Silence, Blame, and Survival
In our society, we’re not good at openly talking about death. We’re even worse at speaking openly about death by suicide. The silence that so often accompanies…
- I Hate You. What's For Dinner?
Ep 13 - As Always, Start with Yourself: Kirk Martin on Calmer Parenting
Everyone struggles sometimes when their kids have strong opinions or feelings and they need them to just do the thing already. And when frustrations are high…
- I Hate You. What's For Dinner?
Ep 12 - The Body Says NO: Casey Ehrlich on PDA (Pervasive Drive for Autonomy)
All of us have some level of innate desire for autonomy and equality. But for some, the need for autonomy and equality tangles with Survival Brain in ways that…
- I Hate You. What's For Dinner?
Ep 11 - Toward What Matters: Sarah Markowitz on CBT, Values, and Choice
There are many ways to do therapy, and many reasons why people gravitate to certain modalities, both as patients and practitioners. And while there are some…
- I Hate You. What's For Dinner?
Ep 10 - A Theory of Everything: The Primary Colors of Emotional Experience
It might sound silly, or even impossible, to have a theory of everything that might show up in our clinical work. And yet, when we’re sitting with people who…
- I Hate You. What's For Dinner?
Ep 09 - Fear, Resistance, and Flow: Paula Tursi on Letting Parenting Happen
Fear has a way of obstructing our development as people, as parents, and partners and friends. Our anxieties make us grasp for control when what we really need…
- I Hate You. What's For Dinner?
Ep 08 - Keeping it Authentic (and Surprising): Dr. Matt Morrison on Raising Kids and Therapists
Establishing safety and trust is how we create connections and personal change, in therapy and in life. If we aren’t open to new experiences or perspectives…
- I Hate You. What's For Dinner?
Ep 07 - Getting the Grown Ups to Listen: Bradley Tusk on What Really Matters in Parenting and Politics
Ask any activist or philanthropist why they do what they do, and they’ll likely have a story about why they care so deeply about their causes. Sometimes those…
- I Hate You. What's For Dinner?
Ep 06 - Trickle Up! Ron Williams on Purpose, Legacy, and Spreading Abundance
Survival brain impacts the way we parent, and in many ways, it’s the bedrock of our cultural myths. A survival mindset frames the world as a zero-sum game…
- I Hate You. What's For Dinner?
Ep 05 - Connection Is Survival: Parenting for the Loneliness Epidemic with James Ellis
Human beings need connection. We’re social creatures. But we are increasingly isolated, lonely, and dissatisfied. Today, we’re joined by our friend and…
- I Hate You. What's For Dinner?
Ep 04 - There's a Place for Everyone: Lauren Hough Williams on Inclusion for all Neurotypes, Family, and Dignified Risk
How do you raise kids who approach the world with curiosity, compassion, and the drive to make their communities more supportive and inclusive? Today, we’re…
- I Hate You. What's For Dinner?
Ep 03 - “I’m Doing the Song!” Ash Diggs on Cat’s in the Cradle, Comedy, and Family
Most parents set out with the best of intentions to prepare their children for the world. Of course, our actions and behaviors don’t always have the intended…
- I Hate You. What's For Dinner?
Ep 02 - Help! My Survival Brain is Parenting My Kid
Survival brain is a universal feature of parenting. When our inner cave person is activated, fear dominates, as we worry about our kid’s ability to survive a…
- I Hate You. What's For Dinner?
Ep 01 - Evolving Every Day: How Parenting Transforms Us
If you came into our therapy rooms, we definitely would be asking you about your family of origin. It’s where it all starts. As psychologists who work with…
- I Hate You. What's For Dinner?
Introducing I Hate You. What's For Dinner?
Your kid slams his bedroom door in your face, and five minutes later, he's giving you puppy eyes asking for a snack. Why is he like that? On I Hate You. What's…