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SECOND CLOCK™
After having fulfilled my obligations to my biological clock, it was then that I heard the ticking of my Second Clock. A clock I set and would accompany me as I walk away from the "All" society says I should seek. At 43 I separated from my content marriage and parted from a toxic job. I found my slate suddenly cleared. I then began questioning how I got "here” and pulled back the layers of societal expectations and acceptances to find my truth in it all. Join me as I explore dating with desire…
Episodes
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SEASON 4 | LESSONS LEARNED IN 2025
It has been 1 year since I started the Second Clock Podcast and I may not be able to answer the question "What Do I Want" but during this time I have learned…
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SEASON 4 | SEEN - The path to visibility
Sometimes all it takes is a compliment to realize your value does not rest with someone else's acknowledgement.
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SEASON 3 | RE-PARENTING - Steps to choosing you
The first steps to reclaiming your voice, your values and your true nature.
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SEASON 3 | MOMMING, finding ways to own the role
We never know what type of parent we will start off as and grow into. Here I explore what made me find my stride in Momming.
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SEASON 3 | LIES THEN TRUTH
When a person can no longer hide behind lies, what will it take for someone to tell the truth?
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SEASON 3 | LESSONS LEARNED, and the messy ways we learn them
We learn one lesson after another. Some we remember, some we will need to experience several times before we cannot forget.
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SEASON 3 | MISSING MESSAGES, when explaining isn't the issue
We enter into conversations and leave so much unsaid. We create mysteries by assuming, half listening and we form opinions from these missed messages. Here are…
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SEASON 3 | JUST FEEL - When logic and compassion are no longer enough.
What do you get when you spend decades suppressing feelings and relying on logic and compassion to accept other's truth and beliefs... Not a lot. Embracing my…
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SEASON 3 | SELFISH BUT FAIR
What if Having It All was not about having things at all? What if being Selfish but fair was the way?
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SEASON 3 | DETACHED - Creating space between emotions and yourself
I always thought that if I could understand someone's story then I could empathize with the reasons people do the things they do, or say the things they say…
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SEASON 3 | DEATH TO THE PEOPLE PLEASER - Adapting into and out of a people pleaser
Growing up we adapt to fit in with your family, friends, in school and at work. For some, the cost of fitting in means abandoning parts of ourselves, so we can…
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SEASON 3 | BEING FREE-ISH
People daydream about being free from the life as they know it, but what does that look like after marriage and having kids? Going from experiencing the…
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SEASON 3 | SINGLEDOM - The road to tuning out distractions and reclaiming the pieces
Little by little the distraction are no longer sought after, and as they fade away, it is just you. Here's to exploring parts of ourselves, in the quit.
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SEASON 3 | DISENTANGLING - Accepting and letting go of a marriage
When does a relationship end, is it a slow decline or an abrupt shift? For me it was neither. It came in an intuitive whisper and my acceptance that my former…
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SEASON 2 | HERE & NOW
Reflecting on where you came from and where you are at puts things into perspective.
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SEASON 2 | THE GOLDEN PIECE & MY GOLDEN PEACE - My Path to Inner Peace
My journey to inner peace took 22 years, several friends, books and time in reflection and then one day my peace was found.
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SEASON 2 | DISCONNECTING-ISH The Relationship with the Phone
You hear people talk about going "off-line" and "disconnecting" so I tried it. One, because I wanted to go back to a time when I owned my time rather than my…
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SEASON 2 | THE US WE LEAVE BEHIND Starting over and finding a new way
In every journey you come to a crossroad and things can get easier or harder. In my life's journey I have found myself confronted with new beginnings and…
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SEASON 2 | LOYAL TO ILLUSION: Love Bombers & Fantasy Dwellers
Love Bombers and Fantasy-Dwellers enjoy bringing you into their world of Illusion. At first you can be flattered, as you are showered with attention and the…
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SEASON 2 | HOPE'S FANTASY: Releasing Hope from False Compliments in Relationships
Sometimes the hardest thing is to let go of a dream, a wish, a desire and hope. The fantasy of an outcome can make us hold on far longer than our logical mind…
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SEASON 2 | FUTURE FAKE PLANNING : Dating and Why Men Fake Plan
When I started dating I found myself caught up in guys future plans for us. Little by little I came to find that most of it was just talk. But why would they…
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SEASON 2 | MESSY DATING : 101 of Toxic Dating Behaviors (Catfish, Flakes, Breadcrumbers, Love Bombers & Ghosting)
One year in and I have learned a lot. There have been fun bits, bad bits and the messy bits in between. Here I explore the messy side of dating. From the…
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SEASON 2 | EMOTIONALLY UN-AH-WHAT? Attracting Emotionally Unavailable Partners
You hear buzz words all the time and they start to blend together, so what does it take to get a term to stand out and be owned? Well, in my case it would take…
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SEASON 2 | FIRST IMPRESSIONS: Dating Apps and the layers of First Impressions
When you date in the "Wild" a first impression is based on how someone looks, their body language, and the way they interact with you. You can decide then and…
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SEASON 2 | DREAMING : Making Choices that Support your Dreams
After a Life Leap, like mine, you can find yourself Dreaming again. It is a time for childhood wonder. Reset your clock and dream a little dream with me.
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SEASON 2 | WHAT DO YOU WANT?
Over the last year and a half I have made a flurry of changes and discoveries, but one question remains unanswered, "What Do You Want?" This seemingly simple…
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SPARKLE : Finding My Inner Light
Sometimes it takes a stranger to show you, YOU. Once I saw myself through these men’s eyes I could not unsee it. Following these experiences, I questioned what…
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TOXIC AWAKENING: Navigating a Toxic Work Relationship
After being jolted awake by a toxic person, who had perfectly played the role of my friend, he couldn’t hide his true nature for long. When his façade washed…
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ATYPICAL DATE : Learning by Listening
When I started dating again my world opened up. I was meeting new people, learning about them and more about myself. Sometimes the dates workout well and you…
SECOND CLOCK™DATING AGAIN : The 101 on On-Line Dating After Marriage & Getting Back Out There
When I was married and would go out with my single friends, I saw endless possibilities for them and I saw fun, but when I would look at them, they would be…
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"SHAME BOX" : Society and Shame
I spent a lot of time trying to be who other people wanted me to be. Scared to change or let people know that I had changed. I tucked a lot away and labeled…
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WHAT WAS
We are all molded by where we came from, and who we were surrounded by. Little by little we take shape. I learned to adapt and play by the rules that others…
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PART 3 - TELLING MY SON : Telling your Teen that you are ending your marriage
When you take steps to end your marriage, there is a brief sense of freedom, followed by the sad awareness that your children will need to know and eventually…
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PART 2 - COMING CLEAN & SEPARATING : Being Honest and the Tough Conversation that would undo my Marriage
It was not easy to undo a 20 year relationship, it was not easy to figure out what to say and pick the "right" time to say it, but I found it harder to live in…
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PART 1 - CHEATING TO AWAKEN : Cheating is destructive, but by bringing it all down, I could begin to see life clearly
At 43 I found myself caught between societal expectations and what felt right, for me. It was the act of cheating that would lead me to question everything I…
SECOND CLOCK™MIND
To rediscover who I am and what I truly stand for, appreciate and will accept, I first had to evaluate who I currently am, how I got here and what I needed to…
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BODY
To rediscover who I am and what I truly stand for, appreciate and will accept, I first had to evaluate who I currently am, how I got here and what I needed to…
SECOND CLOCK™SOUL
To rediscover who I am and what I truly stand for, appreciate and will accept, I first had to evaluate who I currently am, how I got here and what I needed to…
SECOND CLOCK™SECOND CLOCK™ - An Intro
At 43 I was happily married, with two kids, a successful business and found myself lost in societal expectations and having fulfilled my obligations to my…