Shows / CJ McClanahan

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CJ McClanahanWe All Have a Voice in Our Heads
Here’s how to shut down that nagging voice in your head. <> It’s full of opinions and talks to us incessantly, demanding that we pay attention…
CJ McClanahanA Good Life an an Uncontrollable World
When life gives zero guarantees, how do you ensure no regrets? <> Steve Jobs once said: “You can’t connect the dots looking forward; you can only connect…
CJ McClanahanWhich is Most Important: The Question or the Answer?
Which is more important in challenging us to live richer, fuller lives? <> The other day, I stumbled across this amazing quote: “Perhaps the secret of living…
CJ McClanahanWhat If You Just Said No?
Overachieving professionals tend to lean into any activity that keeps them busy. Here’s why. <> We assume others are impressed by how jammed we keep our…
CJ McClanahanHave I Accomplished Enough?
Overachievers can constantly wonder this simple question. Respond with these 3 truths. <> No matter how much professional success we’ve had in our careers…
CJ McClanahanThe Gifts You Might Be Missing
Your gifts aren’t the only ones that matter. <> My clients are very familiar with the acronym TANM. When they complain about a team member who’s…
CJ McClanahanPeople who seem certain make me nervous.
Sometimes peace of mind only comes from admitting we’re uncertain. <> You know the type. It’s the person who’s 100% convinced that their opinion about a…
CJ McClanahanGrateful… And Not Fine
What if we allowed uncertainty and gratitude to coexist? <> Sometimes it feels like I’m riding a giant pendulum, holding on for dear life as it swings wildly…
CJ McClanahanWhen Your Mind Leaves Today
Overachievers tend to let their minds drift from the present moment. There’s a problem with that. <> The human brain tends to drift out of the present…
CJ McClanahanIn Positively Ruthless Pursuit
What if you’re spending time fighting an emotion that won’t pass until it’s been fully felt? <> I like to think of myself as a relatively positive person. I do…
CJ McClanahanStuck in an endless repeat?
It might be time to consider a “pattern interrupt”. <> Recently, I had someone tell me that they were in a “rut”. They were working hard but…
CJ McClanahanI don’t have enough time.
A small change in wording can change how you view your day. <> This is, as most of you know, a lie. You have the same number of hours in the day as a teacher…
CJ McClanahanWho is most important to you?
The gift of looking back is simple: it reveals most clearly whether our time was spent on the people and things that mattered most. <> I spent this past…
CJ McClanahanThere is no silver bullet
Overachievers sometimes teach themselves that the real value is in a single giant change that dramatically changes their trajectory in one move. <> I just…
CJ McClanahanHow Much is Enough?
It’s the question every overachiever asks themselves but never finds an answer. <> Have you ever wondered, “How much is enough?” Most people obsess over…
CJ McClanahanAre You Overcommitted?
The problem for overachievers is not capacity. It’s an inability to allot enough mental energy to focus on what’s most important. <> Are you…
CJ McClanahanThe “I Can Fix This” Lie
Overachievers are obsessed with the idea that every problem in our lives can (and should) be fixed. Unfortunately, there's a problem with this approach.
CJ McClanahanThe Beliefs that Follow Us
It can be an overachiever's greatest challenge to name the beliefs that have mistakenly fueled their efforts... and the greatest opportunity to finally gain…
CJ McClanahanYou’ve Got Mail
Can you remember the last time you received a handwritten note from someone who wasn't a relative? Turns out, handwritten notes aren't just a relic of the past.
CJ McClanahanLet Go of Should Be
Overachievers often forget that we don't control life's outcomes. Here's a mental framework to make it through life's unexpected seasons.
CJ McClanahanCould Something So Small Change Our World?
It's tempting to think that big change will come from big actions. But what if the opposite is true?
CJ McClanahanThe Thoughts We Think
As overachievers, sometimes the biggest obstacle to our own development... is ourselves.
CJ McClanahanLessons of Mortality
It’s humbling to remember that we all die, yet some of life’s deepest joys become available when we have the courage to face that truth.
CJ McClanahanEmbrace Boredom
As an empty nester, I find myself feeling something I couldn't have imagined a few years ago... boredom.
CJ McClanahanBefore you say yes…
I spent a substantial portion of my professional life saying “yes” to just about every opportunity that crossed my path.
CJ McClanahanI Got Caught in the “Headline Trap”
Caught feeling fear after reading the headlines? Relax. It happens. Here's what to do next.
CJ McClanahanThe Hidden Power of Going Deep
Overachievers argue that learning more concepts is better — and math would agree. But, is it true?
CJ McClanahanThe Quiet Truth… That Won’t Trend
The world can feel angry and loud. However, there is a quiet truth that your feed won't show you. And, the truth is kinder than you think.
CJ McClanahanYour Brain Wants a Label. Don’t Give it One.
Overachievers are taught early to "grade" situations as either good or bad. Here's the problem with labeling impermanence.
CJ McClanahan3 Simple Tactics to Build Trust
What if we pretended that we believed gratitude unlocked hope and fulfillment in our lives? How would that change how we moved through this day?
CJ McClanahanDare to Hope
What if we pretended that we believed gratitude unlocked hope and fulfillment in our lives? How would that change how we moved through this day?