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Create Love Create Freedom
Create Love, Create Freedom is a podcast about psychology, mythology, identity, relationships, culture, and the interior life.
Hosted by Allison N. Fischer, the podcast explores the deeper questions that shape who we become: how identity is formed and transformed, how we develop self-trust and discernment, how relationships influence the stories we tell about ourselves, and what it means to live with greater sovereignty, responsibility, and depth.
Drawing from psychology, mythology, archetypal…
Episodes
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Avoidant Attachment and Relationships: Understanding Their Need for Disconnection and Behaviors of Non-Reciprocity
In this episode, we discuss people with avoidant attachment in relationships and seek to understand the avoidant's need for disconnection and their behaviors…
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The Mythology of Psyche & Eros: A Woman's Quest for Love and Personal Power
In this episode, we discuss the myth of Psyche & Eros, and what women can learn from Psyched about a woman's quest for love and personal power in a…
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Soul Mate Relationship or Trauma Bonding?
In this episode, we discuss the difference between soul mate relationships and trauma bonded relationships. We also discuss the signs of trauma bonding in…
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Avoidant Attachment and Relationships: Who They Date
In this episode we discuss avoidant attachment and who they date. We discuss avoidants pairing with other insecurely attached partners, avoidant partners with…
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Women Who Mother Men and the Men Who Let Them
In this episode we discuss why women mother their men and why certain men allow it. Create Love Create Freedom explores psychology, mythology, identity…
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Emotional Vampires: Their Effect on Empaths and Highly Sensitive People
In this episode we discuss how emotional vampire's effect empaths and highly sensitive people, and what to do if you have an emotional vampire in your life…
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Avoidant Attachment and Dating: False Beliefs about the Phantom Ex and the Perfect Partner
In this episode, we discuss avoidant attachment and dating, specifically an avoidant's proclivity towards creating unhealthy stories in their relationships…
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Power Imbalance in Relationships and the Importance of Letting Your Partner Influence You
In this episode we discuss power dynamics in intimate relationships, the importance of letting you partner influence you in order to create a healthy…
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Trauma: It's Impact on Your Relationships and How to Handle Past Trauma in Your Current Relationship
In this episode, we discuss how trauma impacts our relationships - with our intimate partners, our families, our children, our friends, and our work…
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How Your Attachment Style Influences Your Sex Life & How to Heal
In this episode, we discuss the connection and effect of attachment style on your sex life. We dive into each attachment style and how to create more sexual…
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Avoidant Attachment's Connection to Narcissism
In this episode, we discuss avoidant attachment and its connection to narcissism. We also discuss how the avoidant/narcissist behavior affects your…
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The Effects of Being Raised by a Borderline Parent & How to Heal
In this episode, we discuss what to expect from a borderline parent, effects of being raised by a parent with BPD - early childhood, adolescents and young…
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Breadcrumbing in Relationships - The Signs and What to Do About It
Breadcrumbing is a manipulative relational pattern where one person gives small, inconsistent, or vague signs of interest—just enough to keep the other person…
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Limerence: 5 Signs and How to Heal
In this episode, we discuss limerence in romantic relationships - what the signs are and how to heal. Create Love Create Freedom explores psychology…
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Signs You're Healing from a Codependent Relationship
In this episode we discuss what codependency is, how to heal from a codependency, and the signs that you are healing from a codependent relationship. Create…
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Love Bombing: A Cycle of Abuse and How to End It
In this episode we discuss the cycle of love bombing (idealization, devaluation, and discarding), who love bombers target, the early signs of love bombing, and…
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Why Avoidant Partners Pull Away
In this episode we discuss avoidant attachment, unavailable partners, and why they pull away from the relationship. We also discuss why a person might be…
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Preparing Yourself for a Healthy Relationship
In this episode, we discuss ways you can prepare yourself in your singleness for a healthy romantic partnership. Create Love Create Freedom explores…
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Trauma Bonding Vs Healthy Bonding in Your Relationships
In this episode we discuss trauma bonded relationships versus healthy relationships and how to heal. Create Love Create Freedom explores psychology, mythology…
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Your Shadow: Getting to Know the Dark Side of Your Psyche
In this episode, we discuss the shadow - the parts of ourselves that we deny and repress that hold us back in achieving the life we want and keep us sabotaging…
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The Wounded & Distorted Masculine and Feminine
In this episode we discuss the wounded and distorted feminine and the wounded and distorted masculine. We discuss how we can move from the wounded/distorted…
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When the Feminine Lowers Her Standards for a Man: How to Attract Respect and Exceptional Relationships
In this episode we discuss the feminine, lowering our standards, and attracting a high vibrational man. When a woman lowers her standards for a man, she…
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How Emotional Neglect Affects Us in Childhood and in Our Intimate Relationships
In this episode, we discuss how emotional neglect in childhood continues to affect us in our adult lives—especially in our intimate relationships. Emotional…
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The Madona/Whore Complex
In this episode, we discuss the Madona/Whore Complex. Originally introduced by Freud, we discuss this duality and split in the masculine psyche, as well as the…
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The Feminine and the Father Wound
In this episode we discuss the feminine and the father wound, how the father wound shows up in our lives, and how to heal. Create Love Create Freedom explores…
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The Connection Between Boarderline Personality Disorder (BPD) and Attachment Styles
In this episode we discuss the connection between the three insecure attachment styles (anxious, avoidant, and disorganized) and borderline personality…
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Walking on Eggshells: How to Recognize and Heal from Growing Up in a Volatile Environment
In this episode, we discuss indicators that we may have grown up in a home where we had to walk around on eggshells. This can be due to a parent with…
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Why You're Attracted to Emotionally Unavailable Partners and How to Heal
In this episode we discuss our attraction to unavailable partners and ways to heal so that we are able to attract healthy, emotionally available relationships…
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Raising Children to Have Secure Attachment
In this episode, we discuss five ways to raise children to have secure attachment. Create Love Create Freedom explores psychology, mythology, identity…
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Socially Reinforced Trauma Responses, the Feminine, and Healing from Urgency Culture
In this episode we discuss socially reinforced trauma responses and how this impacts women and how to heal from the cycle of urgency culture. Create Love…
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How We Develop Our Attachment Styles
In this episode, we dig deeper into attachment styles by looking at how we develop secure attachment or insecure attachment (anxious, avoidant, and…
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Going No-Contact or Low-Contact with a Narcissistic or Borderline Parent
In this episode we talk about what to expect and how to go low-contact or no-contact with a narcissistic parent or a parent with borderline personality…
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Feminine Psychology - Understanding the Seven Feminine Archetypes
In this episode, we discuss the seven feminine archetypes - the lover, the mother, the maiden, the queen, the huntress, the sage and the mystic. We discuss how…
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How Unhealed Trauma Shows Up in Relationships
In this episode, we’re diving into how unhealed trauma shows up in our relationships. The truth is trauma doesn’t just stay in the past. Even when we don’t…
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Toxic Attachment - Why You Keep Going Back
In this episode we discuss toxic attachment to abusive, avoidant, or unavailable partners and why you keep going back. We discuss how to stop chasing in…
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Parentified Daughter's as Adults: Find Freedom Through Mothering Yourself
In this episode, we discuss daughters who were parentified as children, causing wounds and trauma that follow them into adulthood as women. We discuss finding…
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Children Raised by Narcissistic Parents
In this episode, we look at the signs of being raised by a narcissistic parent and how this affects our intimate relationships and our lives as adults. Create…
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The Four Archetypes of the Feminine Cycle
In this episode we discuss the four archetypes of the feminine cycle - the maiden, the mother, the wild woman and the wise woman. We discuss each cycle and how…
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How the Avoidantly Attached Sabotage Their Relationships
In this episode we discuss Avoidant Attachment, how avoidant attachment occurs in childhood, the limiting beliefs that lead to sabotaging intimate…
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The Dark Feminine and How to Use Her Delicious Energy
In archetypal psychology, the dark feminine is the gatekeeper between worlds—the only part of the psyche that can descend into the unconscious, retrieve lost…
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Feminine Testing : A Polarity Dance with the Masculine
In this episode, we discuss the feminine testing the masculine, the difference between feminine testing from a place of love versus the feminine testing from a…
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The Three Levels of Feminine Energy
In this episode, we discuss the three levels of feminine energy: the Divine Feminine, the Mature Feminine, and the Wounded/Immature/Superficial Feminine…
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Three Insecure Relationship Styles & the Difference Between Settling and Accepting
In this episode, we discuss the three insecure relationship styles: the anxious avoidant trap, the be loud to be heard, and the avoid conflict at any cost. We…
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Staying Open In Your Feminine After a Breakup
Ending a relationship can be difficult. It often causes us as women to close down instead of staying open to our feminine nature and our lives. In this episode…
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Sexual Polarity, Desire and Intimacy
In this episode, we discuss sexual polarity, desire, and intimacy. Create Love Create Freedom explores psychology, mythology, identity, sovereignty, and the…
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Healing Avoidant & Anxious Attachment and How to Cultivate Secure Attachment
In this episode, Allison discusses attachment style, how to heal avoidant and anxious attachment wounds, and how to cultivate secure attachment as an adult…
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Signs You Were Raised by a Mother or Father Who Had Unresolved Trauma
In this episode, I discuss the signs of a father or mother with unresolved trauma and ways we can heal from having parents who had unresolved trauma. Create…
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How Emotional Childhood Neglect Affects Adult Relationships
In this episode, we discuss Emotional Childhood Neglect, how it can show up in our adult relationships, and how emotional childhood neglect affects us…
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Mother's with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) and Their Impact on Their Daughters
In this episode, I discuss the impact a mother with Borderline Personality Disorder has on her daughter, both in childhood and as an adult. There are several…
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Unhealthy Family Obligations and Ways to Honor Yourself
On today's episode, we discuss unhealthy family obligations, parental expectations in childhood and adulthood, and how to deal with unhealthy family…
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How an Avoidant Partner's Love Feels to a Recovering Anxious Partner
In this episode, I discuss a recent relationship I had with an Avoidant partner from the perspective as a previously anxious, but recovering, partner who has…
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How To Know if You Are Healing
On today's episode, we discuss how we know that we are healing. Create Love Create Freedom explores psychology, mythology, identity, sovereignty, and the…
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How the Stories We Tell Ourselves Hold Us Back
In this episode, we discuss how the stories we tell ourselves hold us back. We also discuss ways we can overcome our old stories and create new stories that…
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Healing The Mother Wound
In today's episode, we discuss the mother wound and ways to heal the mother wound. Create Love Create Freedom explores psychology, mythology, identity…
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Attraction to the Dark, Brooding, Mysterious Man
In this episode, we discuss a woman's attraction to the dark, brooding, mysterious man. We dive into the shadow and light qualities of both the masculine and…
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The Feminine Quest for Wholeness
In today's episode, I discuss Maureen Murdock's book, The Heroine's Journey and how women can use this journey on their own path to self-healing and personal…
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Will Smith on Relationship Priorities, Healing, and the Feminine
In this episode, I discuss my observations on relationship priorities, self-healing, and the feminine from Will Smith's book, Will. Create Love Create Freedom…