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To All the Men I've Tolerated Before
To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is your weekly look at everyday misogyny! Host Natalie Katona invites guests on the podcast to chat about their experiences living in a Patriarchal society. The podcast delves into different male tropes the world has had to endure like the sports guy, the toxic boss, or the needy boyfriend. It also allows the guests to delve into how men have affected their comfort levels in the communities they take up space in like the horror genre, professional wrestling…
Episodes
To All the Men I've Tolerated BeforeThe 7 Deady Sins
Pride. Greed. Lust. Envy. Gluttony. Wrath. Sloth. Are these sins deadly or are they the very things misogyny tries to keep women and other marginalized voices…
To All the Men I've Tolerated BeforeRaising a Son
Team Tolerator is celebrating Mother’s Day with two episodes about parenting. Julia Washington joins us to speak on what it is like to raise a son in a world…
To All the Men I've Tolerated BeforeRaising a Daughter
Team Tolerator is celebrating Mother’s Day with two episodes about parenting. Elizabeth Kyle joins us again to speak on what it is like to raise a daughter in…
To All the Men I've Tolerated BeforePatreon Teaser March 2024 The Feminist Icons and Lisa Frankenstein
The last Thursday of the month is always a teaser for our Patreon bonus episodes! You will be getting a sample of the episodes we did for March, where we…
To All the Men I've Tolerated BeforeHormonal Birth Control
Ellen Moore (The Slut Show With Ellen Moore) is sharing her experiences researching the effects of hormonal birth control and the aftermath of going off…
To All the Men I've Tolerated BeforeLove is Blind S6 (Part 2)
This is the conclusion of our Love is Blind Season 6 discussion that was started last week with Julia and Caitie.Make sure you have listened to last week’s…
To All the Men I've Tolerated BeforeLove is Blind S6 (Part 1)
The Love is Blind reunion has passed and the cast has started to take interviews to tell their side of the story. It is now our turn. We’re going to have a…
To All the Men I've Tolerated BeforePatreon Teaser Feb 2024 Romance, Candles, Bachelor Nation, and Creative Burnout
Its the end of the month so that means its time for a Patreon teaser! This week's episode contains snippets from February's The Misogyny Meltdown and a preview…
To All the Men I've Tolerated BeforeThe Royal Family
Sometimes, dreams really do come true and that’s what this episode is this week! Kristen Meinzer (The Daily Fail) joins us this week to talk about misogyny in…
To All the Men I've Tolerated BeforeI'm The Gaming Industry Expert Here!
Whitney is joining us to talk about a specific story about what it is like being a woman who works in the video game industry. She will walk us through a story…
To All the Men I've Tolerated BeforeDungeons and Dragons Lore
Natalie is joined by Shardae and Lyssa of The Slovenly Trulls podcast to talk about how the lore surrounding D&D also perpetuates misogyny within gaming…
To All the Men I've Tolerated BeforePatreon Teaser: Misogynist of the Year Awards
Hey Team Tolerator! This is your first look at our new series, The Misogyny Meltdown, only available on Patreon. This is just a small sampling of the fun we…
To All the Men I've Tolerated BeforeIncels
JD Ross (Weirdwide) did in-depth research for an episode on his podcast about incels and incel culture. After listening, Natalie knew this was a topic that…
To All the Men I've Tolerated BeforeDiversity in the Board Game Industry
Kervin of For Why Games joins Natalie to talk about his experiences advocating for diversity within board game development. He explains the steps and measures…
To All the Men I've Tolerated BeforeNutrition Education Gaps
Natalie is joined by Jenn Trepeck from the podcast, Salad with a Side of Fries. Jenn will be filling in some of the education gaps we as a society have about…
To All the Men I've Tolerated BeforeMaking Space for Our Voices
Jennifer Cooper (Jennifer Magazine) joins Natalie to talk about what it takes to carve space out for women’s media. They talk about the instances they felt…
To All the Men I've Tolerated BeforePatreon Teaser- January Intention Setting
Julia Washington is back to talk vision boards, intentions, and manifestations for the new year! Feel free to tell us your goals, theme word, or intentions for…
To All the Men I've Tolerated BeforeADHD and Sexuality
Ellen Moore (The Slut Show with Ellen Moore) joins Natalie for another fantastic conversation about sexuality. This time, the women will explore how ADHD…
To All the Men I've Tolerated BeforeMarginalized Joy
Julia Washington (Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous) is back this week to discuss how misogyny makes it incredibly hard for women and other marginalized groups to…
To All the Men I've Tolerated BeforeThe Real Housewives
Chris Derosa (Fixing Famous People) is a tv producer who has worked with some of your favorite housewives! Natalie dives back into the Bravo-verse to pick…
To All the Men I've Tolerated BeforeStill Comfy? The Parent Trap
To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on a holiday break untl January 2024! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with…
To All the Men I've Tolerated BeforeStill Comfy? Love, Actually
To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on a holiday break until January 2024! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration…
To All the Men I've Tolerated BeforeStill Comfy? Armageddon
To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on a holiday break until January 2024! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration…
To All the Men I've Tolerated BeforeStill Comfy A Knight's Tale
To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on a holiday break until January 2024! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration…
To All the Men I've Tolerated BeforeIntroducing Our Misogynist of the Year Nominees
Voting for To All the Men I've Tolerated Before's first ever Misogynist of the Year award is opened now! I will walk you through every nominee and the voting…
To All the Men I've Tolerated BeforePNW Haunts and Homicides: Richard Gilmore
This week's episode is a feed swap with our friends from PNW Haunts and Homicides! Support their show after listening to this full episode on our feed! Richard…
To All the Men I've Tolerated BeforePremiering DRAUMA DUMP
Happy Thursday everyone! To All the Men I've Tolerated Before is officially on holiday break. As a special treat, we are sharing one of the first episodes to a…
To All the Men I've Tolerated BeforeFemale Celebrity Memoirs
Chelsea Devantez (Glamorous Trash host and television writer) is joining Natalie to talk about the importance of female celebrities’ memoirs. Chelsea has…
To All the Men I've Tolerated BeforePurity Culture and Sex Ed
Natalie is joined by sex educator Erica Smith to talk about how our obsession with purity culture affects the quality of sex education we are given. Sex…
To All the Men I've Tolerated BeforePatreon Teaser: Round Two with Depp/Heard
Inspired by the new Netflix docuseries covering the trial, Natalie and Julia Washington decided to give some follow up reflections to their former episode…
To All the Men I've Tolerated BeforeIts Britney Spears, Babes!
What is this? An early episode of To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before? That’s right, Team Tolerator, we are bringing you our Britney Spears episode early to…
To All the Men I've Tolerated BeforeFinal Girls: The Strongest Women in Horror
It's Spooky Season, Ya’ll! To celebrate Halloween, Natalie gathered past guests, Elizabeth and Darcie, to talk about final girls and their favorite “good for…
To All the Men I've Tolerated BeforeBuilding Intentional Relationships
Gisselle Herrera (the Strong Sunflowers Podcast) and Natalie talk about the ins and outs of creating and maintaining intentional relationships. Gisselle’s…
To All the Men I've Tolerated BeforeADHD Diagnosing
Katie from the podcast The Bar is Ankle High is here to talk about her experiences with receiving an ADHD diagnosis and how life has changed after it. Natalie…
To All the Men I've Tolerated BeforePatreon Teaser: 2023 Check-in On Goals and Manifestations
Julia Washington is back for your Patreon teaser! We know we are about 2/3s done with the year 2023 but we wanted to do a check-in on those vision boards and…
To All the Men I've Tolerated BeforeFamily Court and Divorcing Your Abuser
Natalie is joined by Courtney Gilmartin for a conversation about Courtney’s experiences with family court during the divorce from her former husband. Courtney…
To All the Men I've Tolerated BeforeThe Four Fear Responses
Am I actually in danger or is this just new? Amy Green Smith, host of the Bold-Faced Truth podcast, is here to discuss the four fear responses. How does our…
To All the Men I've Tolerated BeforeWhen Women Uphold Misogyny
Natalie and guest Julia Washington let listeners in on one of their privately most talked about topics. This is an episode designed around the idea of what…
To All the Men I've Tolerated BeforePatreon Teaser: Vision Boards, Manifestations, and Goals
Here is your monthly Patreon Teaser! Tolerators got an inside look in Natalie and Julia's heads on what it takes for them to feel they've set up a year for…
To All the Men I've Tolerated BeforeThe Writers Strike
Natalie is joined today by Alrinthea Carter, Emmy-nominated writer for Max’s A Black Lady Sketch show. She is here to talk about her experiences as a…
To All the Men I've Tolerated BeforeThe Barbie Movie
Hi Barbie! We’re back from summer vacation. This week Natalie and Julia Washington are combining their forces to talk about The Barbie movie. Each woman delves…
To All the Men I've Tolerated BeforeStill Comfy? How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days
To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on a summer vacay! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes…
To All the Men I've Tolerated BeforeStill Comfy? The Sandlot
To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on a summer vacay! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes…
To All the Men I've Tolerated BeforeStill Comfy? A League of Their Own
To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on a summer vacay! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes…
To All the Men I've Tolerated BeforeStill Comfy? Clueless
To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on a summer vacay! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes…
To All the Men I've Tolerated BeforeStill Comfy? Titanic
To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on a summer vacay! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes…
To All the Men I've Tolerated BeforePatreon Teaser: Just Having Fun About Taylor Swift
This is a teaser on our bonus content with Elizabeth after we discussed Taylor Swift for all our listeners! We went hard on the misogyny that has been…
To All the Men I've Tolerated BeforeDemisexuality
Demisexuality is when someone’s attraction to another person is reliant on an emotional connection and a demisexual individual does not experience attraction…
To All the Men I've Tolerated BeforeScandoval
Natalie and Annie have been long standing fans of Bravo’s Vanderpump Rules and the rollercoaster of breakups, girl fights, drunken mistakes, and lies they were…
To All the Men I've Tolerated BeforeWhy Isn't 30 More Flirty?
Clarissa and Kourtney from the podcast 30, Dirty, and Dying are on the podcast this week to talk about entering your 30s and the mindshift that happens between…
To All the Men I've Tolerated BeforeToxic Masculinity and Male Dating Privilege
Ellen Moore, host of The Slut Show with Ellen Moore, is back on the podcast! She opens up about a recent breakup that resulted in a nine page letter detailing…
To All the Men I've Tolerated BeforeTaylor Swift
If you haven’t heard, Natalie is going to the Eras Tour. That means she has been doing a deep dive on her favorite songs from Taylor Swift. Which means that…
To All the Men I've Tolerated BeforePatreon Teaser: Vanderpump Scandals, Red Flags, and Annie!
Hey Team Tolerator, it is time for another Patreon teaser! This is a sneak peek of Annie Sieg's second time on our Patreon exclusive episodes. We got together…
To All the Men I've Tolerated BeforeGetting Your Sexy Back
Kim Coffin, host of the podcast Get Your Sexy Back, is joining Natalie to talk about all things healing the connection you have to your sexuality and your…
To All the Men I've Tolerated BeforeDomestic Violence Reporting and Advocacy
Amanda Kippert, co-host of the podcast Toxic and editor-in-chief of the non-profit Domesticshelters.org, is joining Natalie today to talk about her work with…
To All the Men I've Tolerated BeforeMindset Surrounding Divorce
Natalie is joined by divorce recovery coach, Leah Marie Mazur, to talk about how we have been conditioned to feel about divorce. Throughout the discussion on…
To All the Men I've Tolerated BeforePatreon Teaser: Nerding Out with JD
It is our monthly Patreon Teaser episode! This week, you will get a sneak peek at a nerdy conversation between JD Ross and Nat! JD has been on the podcast…
To All the Men I've Tolerated BeforeThe Audacity is High and My Tolerance is Low
Dionna Goley is on the show this week and she has inspired this episode through her support of Natalie. Often, Natalie and Dionna get together for lunch to…
To All the Men I've Tolerated BeforeWomen in STEM
Natalie is getting back to her science teacher roots this week with guest Paige Folkers! Paige is the host of the podcast For Folk’s Sake, where you never say…
To All the Men I've Tolerated BeforeJoining The Imposter Syndrome Club
Are you looking for a group of people who never feel like they know what it is they’re doing in life? This episode features Jessamy and Alice from The Imposter…