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To All the Men I've Tolerated Before
To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is your weekly look at everyday misogyny! Host Natalie Katona invites guests on the podcast to chat about their experiences living in a Patriarchal society. The podcast delves into different male tropes the world has had to endure like the sports guy, the toxic boss, or the needy boyfriend. It also allows the guests to delve into how men have affected their comfort levels in the communities they take up space in like the horror genre, professional wrestling…
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- To All the Men I've Tolerated Before
October 2026 Patreon Preview
Hey everyone! Here is your look into all the fun we're having with our bonus material over on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written…
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Special Replay: Final Girls
It's Spooky Season, Ya’ll! To celebrate Halloween, Natalie gathered past guests, Elizabeth and Darcie, to talk about final girls and their favorite “good for…
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Embracing the Crone Era
Natalie is joined by her dear friend and witch mentor, Cate (Practically a Witch). Cate and Natalie will discuss the privilege to find yourself aging and…
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Forced Into Marriage at 17
Amanda and her husband are survivors of child marriage. She joins Natalie to tell her story of how she ended up forced into marriage at the age of 17…
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Practical Magic 2
Julia Washington (Prose and Glow) makes a stunning return to the podcast to review Practical Magic 2. Natalie and Julia will dig deep to discuss themes that…
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September 2026 Patreon Preview
Hey, Team Tolerator! Here are all the ways you can be apart of our community on Patreon and a little preview of the content you will find there for this month!…
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Desperate Housewives
Natalie rewatched all of Desperate Housewives, got super irritated with Tom Scavo, and immediately knew she needed Margaret from the Smash Hit podcast to come…
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Trust Economy and Our Media
Kat Steinberg (She Media) is helping us define the trust economy and how it fits into our current media landscape. Kat and Natalie will discuss what it feels…
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Fighting for Disability Aid
Ellen Moore returns to the podcast to talk about her advocacy for herself when it comes to getting the disability aid she needs to survive. Ellen gives Natalie…
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Team Tolerator is Back!
Team Tolerator, the podcast is officially coming back! I know the feed has been quiet and here is your explaination as to why. We will be returning with…
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Summer Replay: Toxic Masculinity and Male Dating Priviledge
Ellen Moore, host of The Slut Show with Ellen Moore, is back on the podcast! She opens up about a recent breakup that resulted in a nine page letter detailing…
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Summer Replay: Still Comdy? Freaky Friday
To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on summer vacay! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes Me…
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Summer Replay: Romantic Comedies
Natalie is joined by Rose and Courtney from Fiction Fixation to talk about a shared favorite topic, movies! The episode will revolve around the idea of…
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Summer Replay: America's Sweethearts and DCC
Natalie is joined by her friend Shanaz to get her thoughts straight on the Netflix docu-series, America’s Sweethearts Dallas Cowboy Cheerleaders. After a…
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June 2026 Reminders
How to Support TATMITB: Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the…
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Summer Replay: Still Comfy? The Parent Trap
Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at Julia Washington and Natalie's favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the…
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Summer Replay: Writing Sapphic Horror
Author Rae Wilde joins Natalie to have a conversation about her book I Do Not Apologize for My Position on Men and what drew her to writing stories surrounding…
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Summer Replay: Entering Your Rom Com Era
TATMITB is on summer break! And nothing screams summertime more than a little summer romance! Julia Washington (Prose and Glow) is back to talk to Natalie…
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May 2026 Reminders
Team Tolerator is on Summer Break! But don't fret, because if you want to have new content on everyday misogyny, the Patreon will still be active and releasing…
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The Movie Her
Ami Lum and Kana Felix got Natalie all fired up about the movie Her during one of their monthly script clubs. Ami, Kana, and Natalie will discuss the story of…
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Comedy
Lynn Harris is the owner and founder of Gold Comedy, the online comedy school, professional network, and content studio where women, non-binary creators, and…
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Secret Lives of Mormon Wives
Kristiana, former guest from our episode on the men of Grey’s Anatomy, is back! She is Natalie’s expert on the series The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives and is…
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April 2026 Reminders
Happy end of the month, Team Tolerator! This is your reminder to head over to our Patreon so you can see all the free bonus content and subscribe to our…
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Still Comfy? Thelma and Louise
Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected show, we then…
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The Geena Davis Institute
Natalie’s friend, Jessica Toukatly, is on the show today to talk about the important work started by The Geena Davis Institute for Gender and Media. Geena…
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Patriarchy Stress Disorder
The podcast’s guest for today’s episode is Dr. Valerie Rein, the author of the book Patriarchy Stress Disorder: The Invisible Inner Barrier to Women’s…
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Kesha
Friend of the pod, Darcie, is back this week to talk about the one and only Kesha. Natalie and Darcie have been waiting for the right time to talk about Kesha…
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March 2026 Reminders
Happy end of the month, Team Tolerator! This is your reminder to head over to our Patreon so you can see all the free bonus content and subscribe to our…
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The Godfather
Tara Jabbari (Who Was She Podcast) has come prepared to prove to Natalie and the entire Tolerator audience that the Godfather Trilogy is actually a chick…
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Sex and the City
Nicky Trendz and Manny Oso from the podcast Bubble Bath Stories are here to chat about Manny’s first official watch through of Sex and the City. Highlights of…
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Kat Sass
Kat Sass is a drag artist, makeup artist, costume designer, teacher, tv and film personality, event host, and their creativity knows no bounds. All of those…
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February 2026 End of Month Reminders
Thank you to all our Team Tolerator members over at Patreon! I hope you enjoy your bonus episode this month and I cannot wait to hear your thoughts on the…
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Heated Rivalry
We’re coming to the cottage! Kervin (For Why Games) joins Natalie on the pod to chat over the show that took the holiday season by storm, Heated Rivalry! The…
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Losing Interest in Men
Megan Metzger is a comedian from Chicago who has recently gone through a divorce. She joins Natalie on the show to walk through the misogyny she experienced…
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Sailor Moon
Natalie is joined by new friend Cetoria to get into the girl powered world that is Sailor Moon. They will talk about how the show represents the energy that is…
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End of Month Reminders
Thank you to all our Team Tolerator members over at Patreon! I hope you enjoy your bonus episode this month and I cannot wait to hear your thoughts on the…
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Revisiting Glinda
Julia Washington (Prose and Glow) is back to dive deep into her feelings about Glinda now that she has seen Wicked: For Good. Natalie and Julia will discuss…
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Dating tips from a Divorce Attorney
Sarah Intelligator is a family law attorney and author of the book Live, Laugh, Find True Love: A Step-By-Step Guide to Dating and Finding a Meaningful…
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What is a Woman? With Sara Caplan
Sara Caplan is an improv comedian, trans woman, and philosophy student who has spent her life thinking about the nature of womanhood. She brought her one woman…
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2026 Is the Year of The Patreon Lore Dumps
Happy New Year, Team Tolerator! I have the most exciting news! We have completely restructured and revamped our Patreon page to make it your one stop shop for…
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Still Comfy? The Hating Game
Please, enjoy our Still Comfy? review of the 2021 holiday romantic comedy, The Hating Game. The Hating Game stars Lucy Hale and Austen Stowell and is about two…
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Replay: The Real Housewives
Chris Derosa (Fixing Famous People) is a tv producer who has worked with some of your favorite housewives! Natalie dives back into the Bravo-verse to pick…
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Still Comfy? Love, Actually
To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on a holiday break! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes…
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Replay: The Royal Family
Sometimes, dreams really do come true and that’s what this episode is this week! Kristen Meinzer (The Daily Fail) joins us this week to talk about misogyny in…
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Holiday Break 2025 Announcement
Happy Holidays! We are officially on our holiday break and we will be back with new episodes in January 2026! Miss us already? Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod…
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The Olsen Twins
Margaret from the Smash Hit podcast is here to talk all things Mary-Kate and Ashley Olsen! Natalie and Margaret will dig into the nostalgic lore behind the…
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Office Politics
Amy Peters (Behind the Carnival Barkers) joins Natalie to discuss how misogyny gets misrepresented as simple “office politics” and holds us back in our…
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Legislating Our Bodies
Emma Laurent is on the podcast to discuss her work in protecting reproductive freedom in the state of Wyoming. Emma will give frank accounts of what it is like…
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Still Comfy? The Addams Family
Happy Halloween! IFor your spooky enjoyment, we will be reposting an episode of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous. Still Comfy? is…
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Parasocial Relationships
Tara Jabbari (Who Was She Podcast) is going to do Natalie a solid this episode and explain the information she studied about parasocial relationships during…
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Female Friendships
Natalie is joined by Lindsay from the podcast Literally Books to discuss the importance of female friendships and how empowering they can be. A large focus of…
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The Men of Grey's Anatomy
Natalie is joined by new friend Kristiana to do a bucket list topic! It is finally time to give the men of Grey’s Anatomy the Team Tolerator treatment! They…
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End of the Month Replay: Romantic Comedies
Our final episode of the month is always a replay of one of our favorite episodes! Enjoy this revisit to an earlier episode and we will see you next month with…
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Building Your Childfree Community
This week's guest, Angela Gentile, is a speaker, writer, educator, and host of the podcast The Empowered Millennials where you will hear real stories of…
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Expectations of Third-Culture Daughters
Urmi Hossain is the author of Discovering Your Identity: A Rebirth From Interracial Struggle. She is also a blogger, speaker, women’s mentor, and feminist…
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Prepping for Marriage Two
Samantha Bessudo Drucker is cohost of "Love & Design Project" and "Sexy is Timeless Talks." She is also the author of 90 Days To Husband No. 2, a dating system…
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Summer Break: Fair Play and Weaponized Incompetence Replay
Natalie had the pleasure to talk to Laura Danger after being a huge fan of her social media presence on the idea of “weaponized incompetence”. Laura will go…
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Summer Break: Still Comfy? Mamma Mia
Enjoy our Still Comfy? Review of Mamma Mia starring Amanda Seyfried and Meryl Streep. You can watch our entire Still Comfy? movie review series on our YouTube…
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Summer Break: Its Britney Spears, Babe! Replay
We are revisiting our Britney Spears episode we recorded to celebrate the release of her memoir, The Woman In Me. Julia Washington is here so we can all…
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Summer Break: Still Comfy? Now and Then
To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on a summer break! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes…