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To All the Men I've Tolerated Before
To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is your weekly look at everyday misogyny! Host Natalie Katona invites guests on the podcast to chat about their experiences living in a Patriarchal society. The podcast delves into different male tropes the world has had to endure like the sports guy, the toxic boss, or the needy boyfriend. It also allows the guests to delve into how men have affected their comfort levels in the communities they take up space in like the horror genre, professional wrestling…
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- To All the Men I've Tolerated Before
Summer Break: The Woman in Me Patreon Drop
A released episode from our Patreon where Julia Washington and I reviewed Britney's Spears's memoir, The Woman in Me. Support the Show: Follow us at…
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Summer Break: Still Comfy? The Sandlot
To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on a summer vacay! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes…
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Summer Break: Sex and Love Addiction
For this episode, Natalie is joined by the host of the podcast Secret Life, Brianne Davis. Brianne has over 12 years of recovery experience with sex and love…
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Summer Break: Still Comfy? A League of Their Own
To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on a summer vacay! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes…
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Summer Break: 100 First Online Dates
Natalie is joined by voice actress Maria Pendolino to talk about her 97 first online dates and how it speaks to our current culture. The women discuss dating…
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Summer Break: Still Comfy? Armageddon
Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected movie, we discuss…
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Summer Break: Purity Culture and Sex Ed
Natalie is joined by sex educator Erica Smith to talk about how our obsession with purity culture affects the quality of sex education we are given. Sex…
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Summer Break: The Parent Trap
Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected movie, we discuss…
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Summer Break: Taylor Swift
This Summer Break Replay is in honor of Taylor Swift owning her entire music catalogue. f you haven’t heard, Natalie went to the Eras Tour. That means she has…
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Summer Break: Diversity in the Boardgame Industry
We have a Summer Break Flashback this week! This felt important given all the information I've been seeing on how tariffs will affect indie boardgame…
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Summer Break: Women in Historical Film
Hey Team Tolerator! We are officially on our summer break for 2025 and will be returning with new episodes in the fall. This week, we are giving you a sneak…
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Southern Charm
This year marked ten years of Bravo’s Southern Charm, where we get a glimpse at the lives of southern gentlemen and their ever present Peter Pan Syndrome…
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Anora
Julia Washington (Prose and Glow) and Natalie are dissecting their complicated feelings on Best Picture winner, Anora. Anora is written and directed by Sean…
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Classical Music
Toni Powell is a music composer who just released her classical music composition, The Mourning After. She and Natalie will discuss misogyny’s effect on the…
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Flashback: The Barbie Movie
Hi Barbie!This week Natalie and Julia Washington are combining their forces to talk about The Barbie movie. Each woman delves into their special relationship…
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Queerness in a Religiously Devout Household
Hassan Khan joins Natalie on the show to talk about growing up as a queer person in a Muslim household. Natalie and Hassan will share experiences of growing up…
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Writing Sapphic Horror
Author Rae Wilde joins Natalie to have a conversation about her book I Do Not Apologize for My Position on Men and what drew her to writing stories surrounding…
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Eldest Daughter Capricorns
Alrinthea Carter and Natalie have two huge things in common, they are both eldest daughters in their families and capricorns. Eldest daughters are known for…
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Flashback: Learning Your Truth and Trusting Yourself
Natalie is joined this week by Shohreh Davoodi, author of the weekly newsletter The Queer Agenda, self-trust coach, and host of Conjuring Up Courage. The women…
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Playboy
Shanaz from our Dallas Cowboy Cheerleaders episode is back to talk about the world of Playboy. Natalie and Shanaz will continue their discussion about…
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Owning a Small Business
Julia Washington is back on the pod to talk about her small business, Prose and Glow. This episode gives insight on what urged Natalie and Julia into looking…
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It Ends with Us
Chris DeRosa (Fixing Famous People) is on the podcast answering for himself because he made Natalie upgrade her Netflix account to watch It Ends with Us. It…
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Flashback Marginalized Joy
Julia Washington (Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous) is back this week to discuss how misogyny makes it incredibly hard for women and other marginalized groups to…
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Intergenerational Trauma, Grief, and Impossible Beauty Standards
Natalie is joined by Susan Lieu to discuss what led her to writing her book, The Manicurist’s Daughter, and creating her one woman show, 140 LBS: How Beauty…
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Chaotic Bi Joy
Noelle Cope (Sapphic Representation In Media ep) is back to talk to Natalie about the abundant joy of being a bi-sexual woman. Natalie and Noelle will talk on…
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Cowboy Carter
Beyonce won album of the year for 2025! Alrinthea Carter and Julia Washington joined Natalie back in December to do a deep dive on country music, Beyonce’s…
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Another Check-In on the Four Fear Responses
We will be replaying our episode on the Four Fear Responses this week! I am hoping that this episode will make you feel less alone if you are currently…
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Witchcraft
Erin Bagwell (Under the Moon Gate) is on this week to talk about her experiences practicing witchcraft. Her and Natalie will get into what drew them to…
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Glinda the Good?
It is good to see us doing another Wicked themed episode, isn’t it? Julia Washington (Prose and Glow) is back to give special focus to the character Galinda in…
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Wicked
Today, we are holding space for the 2024 film starring Cynthia Erivo and Ariana Grande, Wicked. Chris Derosa (Fixing Famous People) is back on the podcast to…
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Still Comfy? The Hating Game
To All the Men I've Tolerated Before is on holiday break until 2025. Please, enjoy our Still Comfy? review of the 2021 holiday romantic comedy, The Hating…
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Still Comfy? Love, Actually
To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on a holiday break until 2025! This week, we are re-releasing our Still Comfy? review of Love, Actually for some…
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Patreon Release: More Reality TV with Annie Sieg
As a special holiday break treat, I am releasing this Patreon-exclusive episode to the public! You may remember we did a free episode with Annie about Reality…
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Still Comfy? Practical Magic
We are on our holiday break and will not be releasing new episodes until 2025! Please enjoy this re-release of our Still Comfy? Practical Magic review with…
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Entering Your Rom Com Era
Julia Washington (Prose and Glow) is back to talk to Natalie about entering her Rom Com Era. Julia has been creating content about dating herself and doing…
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America's Sweethearts: The Dallas Cowboy Cheerleaders
Natalie is joined by her friend Shanaz to get her thoughts straight on the Netflix docu-series, America’s Sweethearts Dallas Cowboy Cheerleaders. After a…
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Tell Me Lies
Rose from Fiction Fixation is back with Natalie today to discuss Tell Me Lies. Tell Me Lies is Hulu television series following a group of college friends…
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Patreon Release: Lisa Frankenstein
Happy Spooky Season, Team Tolerator! As a special Halloween treat, I am releasing our full review of Diablo Cody's Lisa Frankenstein. This review with Darcie…
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Filmmakers and the Female Gaze
We have a very special guest who was kind enough to help Natalie determine her definition for “the female gaze” once and for all. Morgan is the host of the…
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Red Flags
This week’s guest is Brianna McCabe, author of the book The Red Flags I've (Repeatedly) Ignored. Natalie and Brianna will share some instances from their past…
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Gender Expression
BJ Colangelo (This Ends At Prom) joins Natalie on the pod to talk about misogyny’s effects on gender expression. The women will discuss their experiences…
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Patreon Teaser: Mid Year Check-in with Julia Washington
This episode is a preview of our mid-year follow-up to the goals and manifestations Julia Washington and I set in January. You will hear Julia and I discuss…
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Romantic Comedies
Natalie is joined by Rose and Courtney from Fiction Fixation to talk about a shared favorite topic, movies! The episode will revolve around the idea of…
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The Tortured Poets Department (Part 2)
“Taylor Swift and I hurt the feelings of men we’ll never meet.” Natalie is joined by favorite guests Elizabeth and Darcie to discuss the latest Taylor Swift…
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The Tortured Poets Department (Part 1)
“Taylor Swift and I hurt the feelings of men we’ll never meet.” Natalie is joined by favorite guests Elizabeth and Darcie to discuss the latest Taylor Swift…
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Still Comfy? Mermaids
To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on summer vacay! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes Me…
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Still Comfy? Jurassic Park
To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on summer vacay! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes Me…
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Still Comfy? Sleepless in Seattle
To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on summer vacay! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes Me…
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Still Comfy? Mrs. Doubtfire
To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on summer vacay! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes Me…
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Still Comfy? Return to Me
To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on summer vacay! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes Me…
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Guest Spot: Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous and the Hunchback of Notre Dame
To All the Men I've Tolerated Before is officially on its summer break! You'll be seeing posted on our feed bonus content like guest spots I've had on other…
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Still Comfy? Addams Family
To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on summer vacay! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes Me…
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Still Comfy? Ever After
To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on summer vacay! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes Me…
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Still Comfy? Freaky Friday
To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on summer vacay! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes Me…
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Guest Spot: Fixing Famous People Shannon Doherty and Alyssa Milano
To All the Men I've Tolerated Before is officially on its summer break! You'll be seeing posted on our feed bonus content like guest spots I've had on other…
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Vanderpump Rules S11
Our reality tv historian, Annie Sieg, joins the show today to talk about the flop that was Vanderpump Rules season 11. It didn’t take us long to realize that…
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Young Adult Literature
How did we fall for men who don’t like us? How often did I wake up and realize I was in a love triangle? Natalie is joined by the hosts of the podcast To All…
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Representing Sapphic Romance in Media
Natalie is joined by actor, screenwriter, and poet Noelle Cope to discuss sapphic romantic relationships and how they are represented (or underrepresented) in…
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Patreon Teaser May 2024: Misogynistic Foolery
Hey Team Tolerator! It is the last Thursday of the month and that means it is Patreon trailer time! This week you are getting a sneak peek of April's Misogyny…
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Thicc B* Punk Rock
Natalie is joined by Genevieve and Beatrice (Soul Meets Body) to talk about how their band Soul Meets Body and the music they are creating fights against…