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The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast
Nick and Amy are the creators and owners of the Ultimate Intimacy App and brand. They dive into all the tough topics regarding sexual and emotional intimacy, and discuss the things that most couples deal with regularly in marriage, that are seldom talked about on other podcasts. They are raw, unscripted, personal, and Nick will most likely say things he will regret ;)
They have been married over 22 years and have 4 kids, 3 dogs, and share their own life experiences and trials that have helped…
Episodes
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340. BRAND NEW app released, more features, stronger emotional and sexual intimacy!
We have been working on this project for nearly a year, pouring our hearts and souls into creating something truly special for married couples—and it’s finally…
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339. The Marriage Audit: What Would Your Spouse Say If They Were 100% Honest?
Regardless of whether your marriage is thriving, or just surviving, a Marriage Audit can greatly improve your relationship. It isn’t just a casual…
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338. Let's Talk About Sex Part 2 - 20 Things Husbands Wish Their Wive's Knew
In this episode, we continue our conversation about intimacy in marriage—this time from the husband’s perspective. In the previous episode, Amy shared the 20…
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337. Let's Talk About Sex! 20 Things Wive's Wish Their Husbands Knew
In this episode, we’re thrilled to welcome Nate Whitson as he and Amy announce the release of their brand-new book: 👉 Let’s Talk About Sex: 20 Things Christian…
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336. Do Husbands Need Romance Too? 3 Freebies You Need!
In this episode, we dive into a question that isn’t talked about enough—do husbands need romance in their marriage too? We ran a poll asking men if romance is…
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335. What Does Respect In Marriage Look Like? And The Ways To Show It!
We hear from so many spouses who tell us they don’t feel like their spouse respects them. Of course, what respect looks like can look very different for every…
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334. We Become What We Consume - 10 Hidden Poisons That May Be Hurting Your Marriage Without You Even Knowing!
There are so many hidden poisons out there that have profound negative impacts on our relationships, and for many of us, we don't even recognize that we are…
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333. Happy Couples Do These Things... Unhappy Couples Don't - It's Just That Simple
Have you ever wondered what makes some couples seem effortlessly happy while others struggle with constant dissatisfaction? The truth is, it often comes down…
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332. The 11 Things You DON'T NEED Before Being Intimate. Is The Bar Being Set Too High?
We hear from spouses all the time that the bar is set too high and that their spouse requires too much from them before being willing to be intimate. If you…
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331. Your Attitude Shapes Your Reality - Fix Your Attitude For A Better Sex Life And Marriage
If you find yourself constantly unhappy in your marriage or dissatisfied with your sex life, it might be time to take a hard look at your attitude. While…
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330. The Emotional Intimacy vs. Physical Intimacy Standoff... Is It Happening In Your Marriage?
We did a podcast like this a few years ago, but we felt is was such an important topic that we needed to do it again. In a video on social media for the men…
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329. Are You Intentionally (Or Unintentionally) Allowing Your Kids To Wreck Your Sex Life And Marriage?
We often do things in our marriages that have profound impacts without even recognizing we are doing them. Sometimes we do them unintentionally, and other…
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328. The Goals You Should Absolutely Set Together For More Passion, Fun And Connection
As the 2024 year wraps up, we decided that we were going to set some new goals to help our marriage thrive in 2025 and we think these goals can really help…
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327. The Valuable Lessons I Learned From My Divorced Parents - What Not To Do!
My parents got divorced when I was about 15 years old. As that happened over 30 years ago, I have been able to reflect and look back on the things I noticed…
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326. The Top Things You NEED To Do To Be Amazing In The Bedroom - For BOTH Of You!
If you want to have amazing sexual intimacy and connection in the bedroom, there are certain things you need to do not only in the bedroom, but outside of the…
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325. Do You Want To Know The Reason(s) Why There Is No Romance In Your Marriage? And The Simple Things To Turn It Around!
Many of us get stressed out and busy with life, and our intimacy takes a back seat to everything else going on in our lives. Soon, we realize there is no…
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324. The Ways To Make Your Husband Feel Like A Stud!
Ok, let's be honest, it really isn't that difficult to make your man feel like a stud :) But.. we still wanted to share our poll answers from the husbands and…
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323. The Simple And Profound Ways To Make Your Wife Feel Beautiful, Sexy and Loved
In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we dive into what it truly means to make your wife feel beautiful—not just in how she looks, but in how she…
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322. How To Rebuild Your Marriage For The Intimacy And Relationship You've Dreamed Of (our story)
Rebuilding your marriage... what does that mean? About half way through our marriage, our marriage was broken and at rock bottom. We decided that our marriage…
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321. Words Matter! The Things You Say To Your Spouse Can Have Significant Consequences (Either Good Or Bad)
Words hold incredible power, especially in marriage. The things you say to your spouse can either build them up or tear them down. Every conversation has the…
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320. Thoughtful Gifts Your Spouse Will Love! Incorporating The 5 Love Languages
The Christmas season is an amazing time to focus on Christ, your family, and your spouse, to be grateful for all you have, and to give meaningful gifts that…
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319. What Prioritizing Intimacy Looks Like: Husbands vs. Wives
The holidays are just around the corner—a time filled with family, festivities, and endless to-do lists. But while the season brings joy and excitement, it can…
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318. The Most Common Things That Might Be Killing Your Spouses Sex Drive
We all know that sexual intimacy plays a vital role in a happy, healthy marriage. It’s a way to connect on a deeper level, to build trust, and to keep the…
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317. Foreplay 101: The Important Role Of Foreplay In Intimacy
In this episode, we’re talking all about foreplay—both the physical and emotional kinds—and why it’s such a game-changer in your marriage. Whether you’ve been…
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316. Are You A "Drifter" When It Comes To Your Relationship? Why This Mindset Could Ruin Your Marriage
In Outwitting the Devil, Napoleon Hill describes "drifters" as those who go through life (or marriage) without purpose, direction, or decisive action, often…
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315. Small Daily Emotional Intimacy Habits That Make A HUGE Impact On Your Marriage
It seems like we all get so busy with life that we forget to do the little things daily that greatly improve emotional intimacy... which also improves sexual…
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314. Which Is More Important, A "Need" Or A "Want" In Marriage? And How Do Couples Find Balance When Their "Needs" And "Want's" Are So Completely Different?
In the past few episodes, we have talked about what men need and what women need in marriage, and we also discussed how men and women are so different when it…
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313. Things You Should Do As A Couple At Least Once A Year That Will Really Make A Difference
It is amazing how many of us don't do the things that could drastically improve our relationships, that are pretty easy to do. Whether we get lazy, fall into…
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312. Understanding Why Sexual Intimacy To Your Wife Is Not A "Need" ... And For Many Wives, Not Even A "Want" In Your Marriage
Sexual intimacy for most women is not a need but a want, and let's be honest, for many women, it's not even a want. Their bodies are typically wired completely…
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311. Understanding Why Sexual Intimacy To Your Husband Is Absolutely A "Need" And Not Just A "Want" In Your Marriage
It drives us crazy when we hear wive's say "my husband just wants sex!" and they treat it as if it is something strictly physical for him. Nothing could be…
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310. Keeping It Simple - What Men "Need" And What Women "Need" In Marriage!
As you know, we cover just about EVERYTHING a married couple deals with in marriage in our podcast episodes. There are a lot of things to remember, and…
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309. Incorporating The 5 Senses Into Your Love Making For AMAZING Foreplay And Intimacy
Think about how powerful our five senses are. What we see, feel, hear, smell, and taste makes life so gratifying and amazing! Take away any one of those, and…
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308. Is It Healthy To Have Disagreements In Your Marriage? What The Experts Say
We had someone message us stating that we sounded like we were fighting in one of our previous podcast episodes, and they asked if we were okay in our marriage…
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307. Really Fun Ways To Initiate Sexual Intimacy With Your Spouse According To A Husband... What Does My Wife Think?
In this episode, we dive into playful and creative ways to initiate sexual intimacy with your spouse! Whether you're looking for fun ways to break the routine…
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306. Why Good Emotional Intimacy Keeps You From Having Bad Sexual Intimacy
We spend a lot of time talking about how, when a couple has a good emotional connection, they are much more likely to have a good sexual connection! Emotional…
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305. You're Panicking About Everything In Life You Can't Control, When You Should Be Panicking About The Things You Can Control... Like Your Marriage
There are so many crazy things going on in the world. We are facing wars, an invasion of our country, inflation, potential port strikes, division like we have…
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304. The Signs You Are In A "One Sided" Marriage... And What You Can Do About It
Ever felt like you're doing all the heavy lifting in your marriage? You're not alone. This episode discusses the signs you are in a "one sided" marriage, and…
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303. PART 2 - The Ways Men And Women Are Wired So Differently When It Comes To Sex, And Why It Is Important For Both Spouses To Know The Differences!
This is part 2 of the ways men and women are wired so differently when it comes to sex. In this episode we continue our discussion and offer insight as to why…
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302. The Ways Men And Women Are Wired So Differently When It Comes To Sex, And Why It Is Important For Both Spouses To Know The Differences!
When you look at how men and women are wired so differently when it comes to sex, it is easy to understand why it is a source of contention in so many…
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301. 20 Things To Talk To Your Spouse About On Date Nights!
When we go on date night, it is astonishing to look around and see how many people are on their phones instead of talking to their spouse. Is it because they…
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300. Drawing the Line: How To Establish Healthy Boundaries With Extended Family And Friends
Establishing boundaries with extended families and friends is vital to a happy marriage. Most couples state that extended family and friends cause issues in…
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299. Why The Word "Help" Is So Triggering For So Many Couples
It is amazing how certain words can be so triggering for some spouses and the word "help" is one of these words that can have good intentions, but can also be…
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298. Why You Need To "Pursue" Your Spouse Both Sexually And Emotionally. And What Does That Look Like?
What does it mean to "pursue" your spouse emotionally and sexually? There are so many things in life that we pursue. We pursue better jobs, pursue our hobbies…
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297. When One Spouse Wants To Try New Things In The Bedroom, But The Other Spouse Doesn't
It is amazing how many people reach out to us, saying things like, "I want to do _________ in the bedroom, but my spouse isn't open to it or doesn't want to…
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296. How Toxic Masculinity And Feminism Could Be Dividing Your Marriage
In today’s fast-paced world, many couples face the challenge of balancing career demands and family life, often leading to a shift in traditional gender roles…
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295. "Get In The Fight" To Become A Better Husband With Nate Whitson
In this podcast episode, we talk with Nate Whitson, the founder and owner of Get In The Fight, an organization that helps men become better husbands and…
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294. Can Treating Sex Like A Hobby Vastly Improve Your Sex Life? Nick Thinks So.. But Does Amy?
You hear us talk about sex ALL the time on the podcast and the things couples can do to have an amazing sex life. So many couples look at sex completely…
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293. The 4 H's To A Passionate Intimate Life
We do podcasts on all sorts of subjects and issues that most couples face... and there are a ton of them. For many of us, it may seem overwhelming thinking of…
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292. Answering More Of Your Very Tough Questions on Intimacy
We got some emails back from our audience on our newsletter and podcast episode 282 where we answered many of your tough questions. Some of you didn't like the…
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291. Are Different Political Views Causing Conflict In Your Relationship?
Ever wondered how political differences can coexist within a loving relationship without causing constant conflict? Our latest episode promises to equip you…
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290. Why When A Husband Has The Low Sex Drive, It Negatively Impacts MANY More Things Than Just The Sex For A Wife
We talk quite often about the negative consequences of a wife having no sexual desire, but what about the negative impacts on a wife when the husband has no…
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289. How To Balance BOTH Your Work And Your Relationship When You Are Both Career Driven
We got this idea and topic from someone who emailed us about something they are struggling with. This is absolutely a topic we can discuss because we are both…
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288. If Your Wife Isn't Interested In Sex, Maybe You Should Look "Inward" Instead Of Blaming Her
Okay, before we jump into this episode, we do recognize that there are women out there who just don't want to have sex and do have AMAZING husbands. We totally…
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287. The Tools And Strategies That Work To Overcome Porn With LMFT Austin Ellis
Have you ever wondered how unresolved emotional pain can manifest into destructive habits like pornography addiction? Today, we welcome back Austin Ellis, a…
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286. Answering The Most Common Questions We Get From Couples With LMFT Austin Ellis
We get so many of you reaching out to us with questions and concerns or stating things that you are facing in your relationships. The 4-5 questions or…
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285. Morning And Evening Routines For Better Intimacy And Connection
In this episode, we explore how establishing thoughtful morning and evening routines can significantly enhance intimacy and connection in your relationship…
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284. 15 Ways To Become Irresistible To Your Spouse
In this episode we talk about the 15 ways to be more attractive to your spouse. Do we get ready for them and look good on date nights, or put forth and effort…
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283. Do We Make Marriage Harder Than It Needs To Be?
Do we make marriage harder than it needs to be? For most of us, the answer is a resounding yes. It's easy to fall into patterns and habits that complicate our…
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282. Ask Us Anything Part 2. We Answer More Of Your Tough Questions
Part 2 of ask us anything. We continue our conversation and answering questions that you as an audience submitted to us. Some of the questions we received and…
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281. Ask Us Anything - Your Tough Questions Answered.. Or At Least Try To Answer
In this episode, we dive deep into the questions you submitted on social media, and no topic was off-limits. We encouraged you to ask anything, and you…