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The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast
Nick and Amy are the creators and owners of the Ultimate Intimacy App and brand. They dive into all the tough topics regarding sexual and emotional intimacy, and discuss the things that most couples deal with regularly in marriage, that are seldom talked about on other podcasts. They are raw, unscripted, personal, and Nick will most likely say things he will regret ;)
They have been married over 22 years and have 4 kids, 3 dogs, and share their own life experiences and trials that have helped…
Episodes
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400. Answering Your Questions About Intimacy Aids And Why We Believe They Can Be "Game Changing" For Your Marriage
In this episode, we dive into a topic that’s often whispered about but rarely discussed openly—sexual intimacy aids and the powerful role they can play in…
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399. The Libido Lowdown: 11 Facts That Might Surprise You
When most people think about sexual libido, the first thought often goes straight to the physical aspect of things such as “Why doesn’t my spouse have any sex…
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398. When Intimate Time Feels Like a Moving Target In Your Marriage
In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we (Nick and Amy) dive into a common concern we hear from many husbands: “Intimate Time Feels Like a Moving…
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397. "What We Feed Grows, And What We Starve Dies" - How Does This Apply To Your Marriage?
"What We Feed Grows, And What We Starve Dies" - This is one of our favorite quotes from our good friends Greg and Julie Gorman with Married For A Purpose. We…
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396. - Raw Talk About Mismatched Libidos & Sex Drive in Marriage - With Austin Ellis LMFT
This episode is intended for couples in a healthy relationship who are looking to create better sexual balance in their marriage. Sexual intimacy is a very…
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395. How To Flirt, Laugh, And Connect To Have A More Playful And Intimate Marriage” – With Elaine (LMFT) And Abe Romero
One of the most common things we hear from couples is that their marriage isn't fun, flirty or passionate anymore, and that they just feel like roommates…
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394. You Can Be BOTH Spiritual And Sexual - With Greg & Julie Gorman
Many of us grew up learning about sex through a worldly lens, leaving us with feelings of guilt, shame, or discomfort around sexual intimacy. But the truth is…
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393. The 6 Mistakes Couples Make After Being Intimate Together
Your first thought may be "what mistakes could happen after making love?" What happens after sexual intimacy can be just as important as the intimate moment…
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392. The 21 AMAZING Facts You Probably Didn't Know About Kissing That Will Make You Want To Kiss More!
Why dedicate an entire episode to kissing? Because this simple, sweet act is packed with incredible benefits for your relationship and your health! Did you…
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391. Marriage And Parenting Unfiltered... Funny Experiences! Tell Us We Aren't Alone :)
We were sitting on the couch the other night laughing about how much of our daily life as a married couple could sometimes be straight out of a sitcom. No one…
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390. How An Intimate-less Marriage Negatively Impacts A Wife
We often hear about how a lack of intimacy affects men, but what about the women? What happens when he’s the one with little to no sexual desire? Or if a wife…
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389. The Major Turn-Offs That You Don't Even Realize You Are Doing In Your Marriage
Let’s be real, marriage comes with a whole lot of love... and a few cringe-worthy things we didn’t sign up for. From open-mouth chewing to chronic nagging to…
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388. Women Need To "Feel" Loved To Make Love, And Men Need To Make Love To Feel Loved!
You've heard us talk about how different men and women are when it comes to sexual desires, and what puts a husband or wife in the mood. Men can be ready to go…
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387. The Best Conflict Resolution Advice For Married Couples We Have Ever Heard!
This might just be one of our most powerful and influential episodes we have ever done packed with insight, wisdom, and practical tools that apply to every…
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386. How To Make Your Date Night A "Great" Night!
Is Your Date Night Falling Flat? Or… are you skipping it altogether? In this fun episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Amy dive into how to turn…
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385. How To Shift From "Parent Mode" To "Lover Mode" And Why You Need To!
Balancing marriage and parenting can feel overwhelming at times. Between work, childcare, and household responsibilities, it’s easy for intimacy to take a…
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384. Spicy Game Night Ideas (normal games turned 🔥)
In this really fun episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we’re turning up the heat on your typical date night with some spicy game ideas for couples, and…
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383. Old-School Romance: How Chivalry Strengthens Marriage
In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we’re bringing back the charm, romance, and respect that make marriages thrive, starting with a deep dive…
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382. All The MANY Benefits Of Marriage... Survey answers!
In today’s episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we dive into the amazing benefits of being married, and we’re not just talking about tax breaks and shared…
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381. Top 10 Foreplay Tips From Our Wives Poll
In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we’re diving headfirst into one of the most requested topics from our community: Foreplay! We asked thousands…
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380. The 7 Stages Of Marriage... And How To Find Passion During Each Of Them
When Amy and I got married, we were head-over-heels in love with each other… but also totally clueless and unprepared for what marriage would actually throw at…
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379. Ask Yourself These VITAL Questions Before Going To A Marriage Therapist
Are you thinking about going to a marriage therapist? Or maybe you're just listening to podcasts (like ours), reading books, or getting advice from influencers…
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378. How To Avoid The "Death By Comparison" Trap In Marriage
We live in a world that constantly invites us to compare. From curated highlight reels on social media to romanticized portrayals in movies, it’s easy to look…
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377. Is Your Marriage Intimate Enough?? Take This Quiz To Find Out
Is Your Marriage Truly Intimate? It’s Not About Frequency—It’s About Fulfillment. Intimacy isn’t a scoreboard. It’s not about how often you’re having sex…
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376. If You Were To Ask Your Kids What "They" Think About Your Marriage... What Would They Say?
If you sat your kids down and asked them what they think about your marriage, what would they say? Would they describe a relationship filled with love…
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375. Why A Good Spouse Doesn't Deserve To Be In A "Non Intimate" Marriage
In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we share our thoughts on why a good spouse doesn't deserve to be in a "non intimate" marriage. We are not…
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374. 5 Steps To Rebuilding Trust In Your Marriage - We Share Our Personal Story
Trust is the foundation of every strong marriage—but when it’s broken, it can feel impossible to get back. In this powerful episode of the Ultimate Intimacy…
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373. Survey Answers: What Is The Best Marriage Advice You Have Ever Been Given That Actually Works In Your Marriage?
We asked our audience: "What is the BEST marriage advice you've ever been given that actually works in your marriage?" And you delivered—big time! In this…
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372. My Husband Says "Why Do I Need To Keep Dating You? We're Married"
We had a listener reach out after one of our episodes and share something her husband said that really stuck with us: “Why do I need to keep dating you? We’re…
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371. Why Men Get Married vs. Why Women Get Married - Do You Agree?
We (Amy and I) were having a discussion the other day about why we felt men get married and why women get married. I gave my reasons and of course she gave…
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370. How Can I Make My Husband Feel Like He's My #1
We had a wife reach out to us and ask how she could make her husband feel like he is #1 in their marriage. We thought it was great that she was asking that…
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369. What Are The Things A Wife Expects Of A "Good Husband" - And Is It Good To Have Expectations In Marriage? - Poll Answers
In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Amy dive into a hot topic: What should be expected from a good husband? We didn’t just guess — we…
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368. How Finances Can Impact The Intimacy In Your Marriage
In this can't-miss episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we're diving into one of the biggest sources of stress—and connection—in marriage: finances…
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367. The Secrets To Unlocking Female Orgasm - With Cindy Scharkey
Have you ever wondered what it really takes to unlock female pleasure and orgasm? Let’s be honest—most men don’t fully understand the female body, and what…
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366. Is Perimenopause Or Menopause Wrecking Your Intimate Life In Your Marriage? It Doesn't Need To - With Cindy Scharkey
In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we’re joined by one of our favorite guests, Cindy Sharkey—a nurse and expert on the female body. Cindy dives…
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365. How To Not Just Initiate, But "Successfully" Initiate Sex With Your Spouse
Have you ever initiated with your spouse only to be denied time and time again? In this fun lighthearted episode, we share the ways to "successfully" initiate…
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364. What Attributes Make A Good Husband? - With Nate Whitson
In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we’re joined by Nate Whitson, the founder of Get in the Fight—an impactful organization dedicated to helping…
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363. Why A Successful Marriage Often Produces Financial Success In Life
Can a strong marriage actually lead to greater financial success? In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we explore how a thriving relationship can…
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362. What Are The Impacts Of Pornography - With Nate Whitson
In this episode with Nate Whitson, we dive into the harmful effects of pornography and why it can be so damaging to marriages—often leading to deeper and even…
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361. How To Increase Your Sexual Desire And Libido To Enjoy Being Intimate More
Do you wish you wanted sex more often—or actually looked forward to it? In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we’re talking all about how to…
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360. The Ground Rules For Better Sexual Intimacy In Your Marriage
In this episode of The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we’re diving into the essential ground rules that every married couple should follow to experience deeper…
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359. Barriers To Intimacy According To The Marriage Experts
We talk quite a bit about all the barriers that keep couples from having the intimacy and connection they desire. These include, kids, technology, busyness…
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358. Game-Changing Marriage Advice From Greg & Julie
We recently wrapped up our Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat, and it was truly an incredible experience! A couple of weeks later, we’re still reflecting…
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357. Is There A Lack Of Love And Affection In Your Marriage?
We took a poll with our audience, and the results were shocking—so many spouses feel like they aren't receiving the love and affection they desire in their…
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356. Why Your Marriage Won't Likely Be Successful If Your Priorities Aren’t Aligned
In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we're talking about one of the biggest challenges couples face — misaligned priorities. For many marriages…
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355. How To Manage Stress And Stay Connected As A Couple
Stress is inevitable, but it doesn’t have to drive a wedge between you and your spouse. In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we dive into how…
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354. Connected Conversations vs Disconnected Conversations And Why It Matters For Your Marriage
In this episode of The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we’re diving into the difference between connected and disconnected conversations in marriage—and why it…
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353. What Is The Difference Between Sex And Sexual Intimacy?
When people hear the word "intimacy," they often think of sex — but there's a big difference between the two. In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast…
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352. All The Amazing Health And Marriage Benefits From Having Frequent Satisfying Sexual Intimacy
Did you know that regular sexual intimacy isn’t just good for your relationship — it’s great for your health too? In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy…
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351. The 5 S's A Wife Needs: Can You Guess What They Are?
Last episode we talked about the 5 C's your husband needs from you. In this weeks episode we slip the script and talk about the S's your wife needs from you!…
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350. The Five C’s Your Husband Craves in Marriage - What He Want's You To Know
In this episode of The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we (Nick and Amy) dive into the five essential things every husband needs from his wife. Men and women may…
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349. Let's Talk About The Mental Load That Happens In Almost EVERY Marriage
Ever feel like you're carrying the weight of everything in your marriage — from managing the kids' schedules to remembering what’s running low in the pantry?…
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348. Why Your Husband "Wants" And "Needs" To See You Naked.. The Many Benefits For The Both Of You!
In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we're talking about something that can feel uncomfortable for many wives — letting your husband see you…
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347. Turning Your Trials Into Opportunities In Marriage
Every marriage faces challenges, but those hard moments can become powerful opportunities to grow closer if you choose to approach them with the right mindset…
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346. The Red Flags That Could Be Happening In The "Conflict Situations" In Your Marriage
In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we dive into the red flags that can show up during conflict in marriage and how to prevent them before they…
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345. Men Need To Control Their Sexual Energy While Women Need To Awaken It - How To Find A Good Balance
In today’s episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we're diving deep into a topic that many couples struggle with but rarely talk about openly—the difference…
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344. How Social Media Is Intentionally Trying To Target And Destroy Your Marriage... So What Are You Going To Do About It?
Did you know that social media algorithms might be intentionally targeting and sabotaging your marriage? It’s true—while men are being bombarded with…
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343. Knowing The Different Sex Languages: Because Saying "Are You in the Mood?" Doesn't Work
In this episode of The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we dive into the fascinating topic of sex languages and explore how understanding them can transform your…
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342. Why We Often See Or Hear ONLY What We "Want" To See Or Hear— How Confirmation Bias Affects Marriage
In our videos, podcasts, and other things that we do, we sometimes get feedback from people that make comments that leave us wondering "how in the world did…
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341. The Emotional Costs Of Being In A Sexless Marriage
If you’ve been a longtime listener of our podcast, you know that we always emphasize the deep connection between emotional intimacy and sexual intimacy. The…