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The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast
Nick and Amy are the creators and owners of the Ultimate Intimacy App and brand. They dive into all the tough topics regarding sexual and emotional intimacy, and discuss the things that most couples deal with regularly in marriage, that are seldom talked about on other podcasts. They are raw, unscripted, personal, and Nick will most likely say things he will regret ;)
They have been married over 22 years and have 4 kids, 3 dogs, and share their own life experiences and trials that have helped…
Episodes
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280. The 6 Types Of Wive's Who Don't Enjoy Being Sexually Intimate With Their Husband
Yes, we know this can go both ways and it's not always the wife, but in this episode, we tackle the 6 types of wives who don't enjoy being intimate with their…
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279. The Habits A Husband Should Stop Doing For A More Peaceful And Intimate Marriage
In Episode 277, we explored the habits wives should stop doing to foster a more peaceful and intimate marriage. Now, it's time to turn the spotlight on…
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278. 8 Questions You Should Ask Each Other When Your Marriage Is Struggling
Ever wondered how a simple query like "What do you need from me right now?" can revolutionize your marriage? In a heartfelt exchange, we unravel the…
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277. The Habits A Wife Should Stop Doing For A More Peaceful And Intimate Marriage
There are many habits that a wife can get into if they are not careful, that can cause disconnect and conflict in the marriage. Habits are things are being…
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276. Every High Libido Husband Needs To Know These Things About His Low Libido Wife
This is an episode that both the high desire and low desire spouse (every couple) is going to want to listen to. As many of you know, Nick is a high desire…
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275. Being A Good Provider Doesn't Make You A Good Husband... There's So Much More
The big myth that a hefty paycheck equals husband of the year. We get a ton of men telling us on our social media, "My wife should be intimate with me because…
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274. The 10 Mistakes You Might Be Making During Foreplay
Can you really mess up foreplay? Oh yes, you can! Are you focusing too much time on the wrong area? Are you communicating with your spouse about what they like…
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273. The Benefits Of Making Love In The Morning And Why It Could Be Very Beneficial For Your Marriage
We must admit that we are not morning people and typically don't make love very often in the morning, but after this podcast episode and understanding all the…
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272. The Ways To Be More Attractive To Your Husband... And We Are Not Talking About Physically
Your first thought is that this is a podcast on how to be more physically attractive to your spouse... right? Wrong! This podcast episode focuses on the…
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271. The Things You Don't Need To Apologize For When Your "Gettin It On"
In this fun and candid episode, we dive into the things no one wants to talk about or admit—the funny, awkward, and sometimes uncomfortable moments that happen…
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270. Don't Wait Until It's Too Late. Setting Boundaries With The Opposite Sex To Protect Your Marriage
People lock their cars to protect them from getting stolen. They lock their house to protect everything inside. We protect the things that are most important…
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269. This One Thing Is The "Make Or Break" Factor In Most Marriages And Will Determine What Kind Of Marriage And Intimacy You Have
If you really think about it, just about any argument, conflict, or issue in marriage can probably come back to this one thing... humility (or the lack of)…
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268. The Different "Attachment" Styles. Why They Are Important To Know, And How They Can Impact Your Relationship
Have you ever pondered how your childhood shapes the way you love and trust your spouse, forms your relationships, and how it impacts your own marriage? The…
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267. How To Make Your Sexual Intimacy More "Intimate"
Have you ever considered that true intimacy is about so much more than just the physical act? We've all had times when we get done having sex and we feel…
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266. 14 Signs Your Marriage Has Become Boring, And How It Can Be Impacting Your Intimacy
We've all had times in marriage where we get into a rut and feel like our marriage and life has become boring. We do the same things day after day, run the…
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265. How To "Seduce" Or Romance Your Husband.. Your Going To Love This One!
What does it mean to "seduce" your spouse (or romance your spouse)? Why should you seduce your spouse? In this fun episode we talk about the various fun ways…
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264. Red Flags To Look For When It Comes To Technology, And Boundaries To Set Together
Have you ever felt like your phone controls your life, or your spouses life, and takes priority over everything else? Your device is with you when you wake up…
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263. Have You Ever Just Wanted To Start Over In Marriage And Hit The "Reset" Button? You Can! How To "Reset" Your Marriage For A Fresh Beginning
Have you ever felt like your marriage has gotten to a place where you never imagined it would be? Maybe you've made some bad financial decisions that have hurt…
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262. The Importance And Benefits Of Passionate Kissing in Marriage.. Or Even Just Kissing For Many Of Us :)
Ok, we never thought about doing a podcast on the importance and benefits of kissing, but we must admit, this was one of the funnest episodes we have done…
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261. 13 Rules For Fighting Fair In Marriage That Really Work. Part 2 To Episode 111
Quite a while ago we did a game changing podcast on conflict resolution with a divorce attorney named Tamara Fackrell, who is trying to save marriages in…
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260. 20 Ways To Build Better Emotional Intimacy.. For Better Sexual Intimacy In Your Marriage
Have you ever felt like your marriage is missing the sexual intimacy you desire? Could it be because the emotional intimacy is lacking in your marriage? Good…
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259. Want Deeper Passion? 30 Very Intimate Questions To Ask Your Spouse And WHY You Should Ask Them!
As we often discuss, many couples find it challenging to openly communicate their feelings, desires, fears, and life goals to each other. In this episode, we…
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258. Why It Is The Lower Desire Spouses Responsibility To Fix The "I Don't Want/Like To Have Sex" Problem... Or Is It?
Disclaimer: This topic and episode are for couples in loving, respectful, and healthy relationships, but where the lower desire spouse isn't interested in…
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257. What Does It Really Mean To "Submit" To Your Husband (Or Wife) In Marriage
What does it truly mean to submit in marriage? We often address the significance of sexual intimacy in marriage through our videos, and we frequently encounter…
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256. Rejection Really Hurts! A High Desire Wife Speaks Out About How Rejection Negatively Impacts Marriage
Have you ever felt the cold sting of sexual rejection from the one person who's supposed to desire you the most? It's a pain that many married individuals know…
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255. This Might Be One Of Our Most Simple, Yet Important Episodes Ever... Say These 3 Very Simple Things
Words and phrases are VERY powerful and can often have life changing effects both good and bad depending on how we are using them. But can saying these 3…
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254. Building A Comprehensive Plan And Blueprint For A Successful Marriage
For many couples, they can envision what a "successful" marriage looks like for them, but they often don't know how to get there, or what tools or plans they…
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253. These 8 Things Will Revolutionize Your Sexual Intimacy
99% of couples (both men and women) from our social media poll stated that sex is a need (and important) in marriage. If 99% believe sex is a "need" and…
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252. What Happens When You Try To Change Your Spouse? And How Does That Impact Intimacy?
Ok so your first reaction from our title is probably something like "what is wrong with trying to help your spouse make some positive changes?" Well.. nothing…
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251. 8 Signs You Are In A "Transactional" Marriage
Now if you have heard our previous podcasts, you know we have talked about how sometimes it is ok to have transactions in marriage. After all, everything you…
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250. The Negatives And Positives About Adding Sex Toys To Your Intimate Life
All throughout life and up to a few years ago, we thought sex toys were for couples or individuals who were into crazy things in the bedroom. We had a very…
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249. Intimacy And Adventure Retreat Recap - Tips We Heard To Elevate Your Love And Connection
Ever wondered how to elevate the love and connection in your marriage to amazing new heights? That's precisely what we unpacked after returning from an…
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248. Is Your Marriage Different Than What You Thought You Were Signing Up For?
When we walk down the aisle and say “I do,” we often have a picture perfect image of what we expect marriage to be like, thinking ours will be just like we…
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247. Let's Talk About Choreplay.. And Is It Ok To Do Something Because You Want Something In Return?
What the heck is chore play? Is it ok to do things because you want something in return? Does chore play really work? Also, hear great insight and responses…
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246. The Difference Between "Making Love" And Just "Having Sex".. And Why It Matters
Sexual intimacy is an essential part of any healthy relationship. But, there is a big difference between just having sex and making love. While sex is a…
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245. 11 Clear Signs That You Are Madly In Love With Your Spouse
Have you ever wanted to know if you are truly madly in love with your spouse? What characteristics do couples that are madly in love have and how are they…
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244. How Running Or Hiding From Your Marital Issues Only Compounds Them And Makes Things Worse
Have you been guilty of running from, or hiding your issues in your marriage because they are just too hard to talk about and you don't want it to cause an…
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243. The Negative Impact Purity Culture Can Have On Marital Intimacy - And Our Surprising Poll Responses
"Purity Culture" wields an immense influence over numerous marriages, affecting not only women but also their husbands. From a young age, many of us were…
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242. What Putting Your Marriage First Before Your Kids Really Looks Like.. To Keep The Intimacy Strong!
We often do videos and talk about how important it is to put your marriage before your kids.. and we get destroyed! People think we mean you have to spend more…
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241. What To Do When Your Intimate Life Is A Wreck And Your Spouse Won't Talk About it?
There are so many couples living in marriages where there is little to no sexual intimacy happening. Rejection is constant, and many times they are so hurt by…
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240. The Top 10 Complaints From Both Husbands And Wives: Poll Answers
We wanted to find out what the top 10 most common complaints from spouses are when it comes to marriage, so of course, we polled our audience. The results were…
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239. How To Master The Art Of Having Intimate Conversations. This Episode Could Be A Game Changer For You
For most couple's, talking about sex is a very difficult thing to do. It often times turns into an argument and can cause even more of a disconnect in the…
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238. Low Libido? Or Is That Just An Excuse?
In this episode and discussion, we (Nick and Amy talk) about if there is really such thing as low libido, or if that is just an excuse. We also share the poll…
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237. The "Right Way" To Reject Your Spouse Sexually... And What Healthy Rejection Looks Like
There is nothing more deflating for a high desire spouse than being rejected sexually by the one they love. It really sucks! Feeling like you are so un…
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236. The Truth About Sex, And Why You Need To Ignore These Common Myths
Many couples wonder why their sex life isn’t like what they expected, or what they see on tv, or in the movies, and they compare their marriage to things that…
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235. Should There Be Emotional Intimacy Prerequisites To Sexual Intimacy? Survey Answers
We always talk about emotional intimacy needing to be strong before sexual intimacy, but we also say that sometimes sexual intimacy needs to be prioritized…
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234. MUST LISTEN TO EPISODE - Living With An Expansive Mind In A Distracted World With Author Nate Klemp PhD
Have you ever considered how destructive our devices can be to our marriages and relationships? You've heard many of the social media polls we have done that…
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233. Do You Want To Be Right.. Or Do You Want To Be Happy? Plus Our Crazy Poll Results
It’s human nature to want to be right. We all crave validation. However in relationships, striving to be right at all costs can lead to conflicts and strain in…
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232. The 7 Stages Of Marriage And How To Keep Intimacy Strong Through Each Of Them
Have you ever wondered what the different stages of marriages are, and why some seasons seem to be so much more difficult than others? Why does intimacy change…
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231. Men Can Only Get Their Sexual Needs Met In Their Marriage... But Women Can Get Their Emotional Needs Met Outside Of The Marriage. What Are The Consequences Of This?
We always talk about the importance of both emotional intimacy and sexual intimacy in a marriage. Both go hand in hand and are VITAL to a happy and successful…
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230. How To Manage Libido Discrepancy And Differences In Sexual Desire
In about 90% of marriages, there is a high-desire spouse and a low-desire spouse, meaning there are typically differences in libido or sexual desire in the…
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229. What Is The Temperature Of Your Marriage Right Now? The Relationship Checkup
Are you wondering what the temperature of your marriage is, or how your spouse feels about certain things? Does your spouse feel the same way about your…
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228. Enough With The "Duty" Sex. How To Start Wanting To Make Love Again
For most couples, during the early years of marriage things are passionate and sex seems to happen often. But as time passes on, sex in the relationship…
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227. Valentine's Love Language Gift Ideas That Are Sure To Make Your Spouse Happy!
Valentines Day is approaching, and if you are like many couples, it is difficult to find that perfect gift for your spouse. Many couples often struggle with…
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226. Is Infatuation And Love The Same Thing? Understanding The Infatuation Stage Of Marriage And How To Get It Back
For many couples, they think that once the excitement of the relationship (or the infatuation stage) wears off, they are falling out of love, or the…
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225. Depression And Anxiety: How It Destroys Intimacy, And What You Can Do About It - With Dr Wyatt Fisher
It is staggering how prevalent anxiety and depression are, affecting individuals at varying levels and profoundly impacting marriage, including emotional and…
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224. Are Unrealistic Expectations You Have In Marriage Hurting Your Relationship?
We all have expectations when we go into marriage. Some expectations are realistic and others are very unrealistic. When we have unrealistic expectations, we…
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223. The Simple Game Changing Goals You Should Implement In Your Marriage For 2024!
Most of us totally suck at keeping goals that we set for ourselves and for our marriages, but in this podcast episode, we share the 5 simple game changing…
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222. Games To Play Naked.. The Benefits Of Implementing "Naked Game Night" Into Your Relationship
You've all heard of our NMN (Naked movie night), but what about naked game night? What are the various legit benefits to naked game night? How can naked game…
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221. How You Or Your Spouses Struggles Negatively Impact Both Of You
How often do we feel our own issues are "are own" issues and we don't stop to think how our issues or struggles impact our spouse. For example, If you are a…