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It’s All Your Fault: High Conflict People
Hosted by Bill Eddy, LCSW, Esq. and Megan Hunter, MBA, It’s All Your Fault! High Conflict People explores the five types of people who can ruin your life—people with high conflict personalities and how they weave themselves into our lives in romance, at work, next door, at school, places of worship, and just about everywhere, causing chaos, exhaustion, and dread for everyone else. They are the most difficult of difficult people — some would say they’re toxic. Without them, tv shows, movies, and…
Episodes
It’s All Your Fault: High Conflict PeopleListener Q&A: Breaking Through High Conflict Patterns & Building Better Relationships
Listener Questions: Managing Self-Awareness and High Conflict Relationships In this episode of It's All Your Fault, Bill Eddy and Megan Hunter, co-founders of…
It’s All Your Fault: High Conflict PeopleFamily Q&A: Real Solutions for High Conflict Relationships
Navigating Complex Family Dynamics: Your Questions Answered In this listener-focused episode of It's All Your Fault, Bill Eddy and Megan Hunter address…
It’s All Your Fault: High Conflict PeopleDNA Surprises & Family Secrets: Managing Genetic Identity Discoveries with Kara Rubenstein Deyerin
DNA Surprises: Navigating Complex Family Discoveries and High Conflict Situations In this compelling episode, Bill and Megan welcome Kara Rubenstein Deyerin…
It’s All Your Fault: High Conflict PeopleNegotiation's Missing Peace: Finding Humanity in High Conflict with Michèle Huff
Negotiating with High Conflict Personalities: A Transformative Approach In this enlightening episode of It's All Your Fault, hosts Megan Hunter and Bill Eddy…
It’s All Your Fault: High Conflict PeopleBe Assertive, Not Aggressive: Winning in Family Court with Judge Bruce Cohen (ret.)
Assertiveness vs. Aggressiveness in Family Court: A Judge's Perspective In this enlightening episode, High Conflict Institute co-founders Bill Eddy and Megan…
It’s All Your Fault: High Conflict PeopleZero to Sixty: Understanding Why Some People Can't Control Their Anger
Understanding Anger and High Conflict Personalities Bill Eddy and Megan Hunter, co-founders of the High Conflict Institute, dive deep into the complex…
It’s All Your Fault: High Conflict PeopleBig Emotions Explained: Understanding Emotion Dysregulation and BPD
Understanding Emotion Dysregulation and BPD In this enlightening episode, Bill Eddy and Megan Hunter explore emotion dysregulation, particularly focusing on…
It’s All Your Fault: High Conflict PeopleCalm Before Think: Mastering Emotional Management in Professional Settings
Managing Workplace Emotions: From Reactivity to Resilience In this episode of It's All Your Fault, Megan Hunter is joined by Cherolyn Knapp, a workplace…
It’s All Your Fault: High Conflict PeopleWhen Home Hurts: Managing High Conflict's Impact on Your Career
When High Conflict at Home Impacts the Workplace In this powerful episode, Bill Eddy and Megan Hunter explore how personal conflicts and challenging situations…
It’s All Your Fault: High Conflict PeopleSeeds of Personality: Understanding Psychopathy's Origins and Impact (Part 2)
Understanding Psychopathy: Nature, Nurture, and Warning Signs In this enlightening continuation of their discussion on psychopathy, Bill Eddy and Megan Hunter…
It’s All Your Fault: High Conflict PeopleBeyond the Mask: Understanding Psychopathy in Modern Society (Part 1)
Understanding Psychopathy: Costs, Characteristics, and Social Impact (Part 1) In this first episode of a two-part series, Bill Eddy and Megan Hunter explore…
It’s All Your Fault: High Conflict PeopleMeet Judge Bruce R. Cohen (ret.): Family Court Success from Both Sides of the Bench
Welcome Judge Cohen: A Fresh Perspective on Family Court Join Bill Eddy and Megan Hunter as they welcome retired Judge Bruce R. Cohen to the High Conflict…
It’s All Your Fault: High Conflict PeopleREBROADCAST: The 5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life
Rebroadcast Alert: Our Most Popular Episode! Dive into the world of High Conflict Personalities (HCPs) and the five personality disorders that often fuel their…
It’s All Your Fault: High Conflict PeopleREBROADCAST: Co-Parenting by Design with Lawyers Annette Burns and Nicole Siqueiros-Stoutner
With the recent release of "Co-Parenting by Design: The Definitive Guide for Divorced or Separated Parents," we're excited to revisit our enlightening…
It’s All Your Fault: High Conflict PeopleREBROADCAST: Holiday Harmony: Keeping The Peace at Family Celebrations
As we approach the holiday season, we thought it would be the perfect time to revisit one of our most popular episodes from last year. In the spirit of the…
It’s All Your Fault: High Conflict PeopleSafeguarding Seniors: Protecting the Elderly from High Conflict Personalities
Protecting the Elderly from High Conflict Personalities In this episode, Bill and Megan explore the challenges faced by the elderly population in dealing with…
It’s All Your Fault: High Conflict PeopleMore High Conflict Questions Answered: Self-Discovery, Court Battles & Family Dynamics
Navigating High Conflict Relationships: Your Questions Answered In this ask-and-answer episode of It's All Your Fault, hosts Bill Eddy and Megan Hunter from…
It’s All Your Fault: High Conflict PeopleFamily Court Q&A: Parental Alienation, Abuse Claims, and When to Stop Fighting
Tackling Listener Questions on High Conflict Personalities in Family Law In this episode of It's All Your Fault, Bill Eddy and Megan Hunter address questions…
It’s All Your Fault: High Conflict PeopleParanoid Personality Profiles: 5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life (Part 7)
Paranoid High Conflict Personalities: Navigating Mistrust and Suspicion In the final episode of their "Five Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life" series…
It’s All Your Fault: High Conflict PeopleHistrionics Unveiled: The 5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life (Part 6)
The 5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life Series: Histrionic High Conflict Personalities In this installment of "The 5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your…
It’s All Your Fault: High Conflict PeopleUnmasking the Narcissist: The 5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life (Part 5)
Navigating Narcissistic High Conflict Personalities In this revealing episode of "It's All Your Fault," part of the Five Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life…
It’s All Your Fault: High Conflict PeopleAsked and Answered: Your Questions on High Conflict Personalities, Relationships, and Self-Improvement
Megan Answers Your Questions About High Conflict Personalities In this special "Asked and Answered" episode of It's All Your Fault, Megan Hunter flies solo to…
It’s All Your Fault: High Conflict PeopleEmpowering Domestic Violence Victims: Law Enforcement Strategies for High Conflict Situations with Nick Hartbauer
Domestic Violence: A Closer Look from the Perspective of Law Enforcement In this episode of It's All Your Fault, Bill and Megan are joined by special guest…
It’s All Your Fault: High Conflict PeopleHigh Conflict and Intimate Partner Violence: The 5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life (Part 4)
The Intersection of High Conflict Personalities and Domestic Violence In this compelling episode, Bill Eddy and Megan Hunter dive into the complex relationship…
It’s All Your Fault: High Conflict PeopleThe High-Conflict Borderline Personality: The 5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life (Part 3)
The Love You Hate You Types - High Conflict Borderline Personalities In this episode of "It's All Your Fault," Bill Eddy and Megan Hunter explore the world of…
It’s All Your Fault: High Conflict PeopleThe Antisocial Personality: The 5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life (Part 2)
The 5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life Series: Unmasking the Cruel Con Artist In the second episode of the "5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life"…
It’s All Your Fault: High Conflict PeopleRecognizing High Conflict Patterns: The 5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life (Part 1)
Introducing the 5 Types of High Conflict Personalities: Who Can Ruin Your Life? (Part 1) In this thought-provoking first episode of a new series on It's All…
It’s All Your Fault: High Conflict PeopleThe High Conflict Personality Experience: Insights from Joe Rogan and Dr. Andrew Huberman
Joe Rogan and Dr. Andrew Huberman Discuss "5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life" In this episode of It's All Your Fault, Bill and Megan discuss a recent…
It’s All Your Fault: High Conflict PeopleNavigating High Conflict Loved Ones: Answering Listener Questions
Navigating High Conflict Relationships In this episode of It's All Your Fault, Bill and Megan from the High Conflict Institute tackle two listeners' questions…
It’s All Your Fault: High Conflict PeopleTransforming High Conflict Co-Parenting: Raising Thriving Teens with Kevin Chafin
In this insightful episode of "It's All Your Fault", Megan is joined by special guest Kevin Chafin, a licensed professional counselor from Kansas City…
It’s All Your Fault: High Conflict PeopleCo-Parenting by Design with Lawyers Annette Burns and Nicole Siqueiros-Stoutner
Navigating the Challenges of Co-Parenting: Insights from Annette Burns and Nicole Siqueiros-Stoutner In this episode of "It's All Your Fault," Megan is joined…
It’s All Your Fault: High Conflict PeopleAsked and Answered: Navigating High Conflict Personalities with Practical Strategies
In this solo episode, Megan Hunter dives into the world of high conflict personalities. With co-host Bill Eddy away, Megan takes the opportunity to answer…
It’s All Your Fault: High Conflict PeopleREBROADCAST: Red Flags in Adult Relationships: Understanding Relationship Violence, Part 1
This is a rebroadcast. This episode originally aired February 8, 2024. Visit our site to hear part two, or find it on your podcatcher. Bill and Megan explore…
It’s All Your Fault: High Conflict PeopleREBROADCAST: Setting Limits Without Going Over the Line
This is a rebroadcast. This episode originally aired February 1, 2024. Bill Eddy and Megan Hunter tackle an important but tricky topic in this episode - how to…
It’s All Your Fault: High Conflict PeopleREBROADCAST: Walking Away
This is a rebroadcast. This episode originally aired August 3, 2023. Some relationships with high conflict people reach a point where the only one getting…
It’s All Your Fault: High Conflict PeopleREBROADCAST: Let a Win Be a Win in High Conflict
This is a rebroadcast. This episode originally aired May 11, 2023. The definition of a “win” is different in high conflict situations as opposed to ordinary…
It’s All Your Fault: High Conflict PeopleWorld of Bullies #5: Strategies for Dealing with Bully Neighbors
Dealing with Bully Neighbors: Strategies for Resolving Conflicts In this episode of It's All Your Fault, Bill Eddy and Megan Hunter dive into the world of…
It’s All Your Fault: High Conflict PeopleWorld of Bullies #4: Recognizing and Confronting Bullying Behavior in Leaders
Bullies as Leaders in Organizations In this episode, Bill Eddy and Megan Hunter explore the topic of bullies as leaders in organizations. They discuss the…
It’s All Your Fault: High Conflict PeopleWorld of Bullies #3: Unveiling the Invisible Enemy - Confronting Family Bullies
Bullying in Families: How to Spot It and What to Do In this episode of It's All Your Fault, Bill and Megan dive deep into the hidden world of family bullies…
It’s All Your Fault: High Conflict PeopleWorld of Bullies #2: Unmasking Bullies in the Workplace and Mediation with Michael Lomax
Confronting Bullies in the Workplace and Mediation with Bill Eddy and Michael Lomax In the second episode of the World of Bullies series, Bill and Megan…
It’s All Your Fault: High Conflict PeopleWorld of Bullies #1: Navigating the New World of Adult Bullying
World of Bullies: Bill Eddy's Groundbreaking New Book In this first episode of our new "World of Bullies" series, based on Bill Eddy's new book, Our New World…
It’s All Your Fault: High Conflict PeopleBringing It to Life #6: Understanding Borderline Personality Disorder Part Two with Guest Amanda Smith
In the second part of their conversation with Amanda Smith, Bill and Megan explore the challenges faced by families of individuals with Borderline Personality…
It’s All Your Fault: High Conflict PeopleBringing It to Life #6: Understanding Borderline Personality Disorder Part One with Guest Amanda Smith
In this episode of It's All Your Fault, Megan Hunter and Bill Eddy are joined by special guest Amanda Smith to discuss Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD)…
It’s All Your Fault: High Conflict PeopleBringing It to Life #5: Navigating Money and Corporate Complexities in High Conflict Divorces with Guest Kate Merrill
High Conflict Cases and Money: Navigating the Complexities In this episode of It's All Your Fault, Bill and Megan are joined by special guest Kate Merrill, a…
It’s All Your Fault: High Conflict PeopleBringing It to Life #4: Dealing with High Conflict Personalities in Academia
Surviving Academia: Navigating High Conflict Personalities in Higher Education In this episode of "It's All Your Fault," the fourth installment of the Bringing…
It’s All Your Fault: High Conflict PeopleBringing It to Life #3: Dealing with Parental Alienation
Parental Alienation: What It Is and How to Handle It In this episode of It's All Your Fault, Bill and Megan dive into the complex topic of parental alienation…
It’s All Your Fault: High Conflict PeopleBringing It to Life #2: Dealing with High Conflict Personalities in the Workplace
Bill and Megan continue their “Bringing It to Life” series, discussing how to identify and manage high conflict personalities in the workplace. They provide…
It’s All Your Fault: High Conflict PeopleBringing It to Life #1: Navigating High Conflict Mediation Part Two
In this episode of It's All Your Fault, Bill and Megan continue their "Bringing It to Life" series with special guest Elaine Richardson, a solicitor and…
It’s All Your Fault: High Conflict PeopleBringing It to Life #1: Navigating High Conflict Mediation & Poll Results
Poll Results, Case Studies, and Strategies: Navigating High Conflict Mediation In this episode of It's All Your Fault, Bill and Megan kick off a new periodic…
It’s All Your Fault: High Conflict PeopleExploring the Path to Mediation: A Conversation with Sonja Wood
Welcome to another insightful discussion with Bill Eddy and Megan Hunter as they welcome mediator Sonja Wood. Bill and Megan chat with Sonja about her…
It’s All Your Fault: High Conflict PeopleDefusing Workplace Drama: Expert Advice for Managing High Conflict Personalities
Navigating High Conflict Personalities in the Workplace In this episode of "It's All Your Fault", Megan Hunter and Bill Eddy are joined by special guest…
It’s All Your Fault: High Conflict PeopleThe Great Custody Debate: Sole vs. Joint in High Conflict Divorces
Is Sole Custody Ever Warranted Over Joint Custody? In this episode, Bill and Megan dive into the controversial topic of sole custody versus joint custody in…
It’s All Your Fault: High Conflict PeopleMarried or Divorced? Examining Women's Happiness in Relationships
Are Women Happier Married or Divorced? In this thought-provoking episode of It's All Your Fault, Bill Eddy and Megan Hunter dive into the complex topic of…
It’s All Your Fault: High Conflict PeopleNavigating Concerns of Factitious Disorder: When High Conflict Distorts Perceptions
Navigating Factitious Disorder and Child Custody Disputes In this informative episode, Bill and Megan explore the complicated intersection of factitious…
It’s All Your Fault: High Conflict PeopleDrawing the Line: Setting Boundaries for External Conflicts at Work
Keeping the Peace: Managing High Conflict Issues at Work On this episode of It's All Your Fault, Bill and Megan tackle how employers and managers can set…
It’s All Your Fault: High Conflict PeopleRed Flags in Teen Relationships: Understanding Relationship Violence, Part 2
Navigating the Storm of Teen Relationships In this eye-opening episode of 'It's All Your Fault', hosts Megan Hunter and Bill Eddy from the High Conflict…
It’s All Your Fault: High Conflict PeopleRed Flags in Adult Relationships: Understanding Relationship Violence, Part 1
Bill and Megan explore the complex issue of relationship violence, focusing on factors that may predict aggressive behaviors and how to identify potentially…
It’s All Your Fault: High Conflict PeopleSetting Limits Without Going Over the Line
Bill Eddy and Megan Hunter tackle an important but tricky topic in this episode - how to set healthy boundaries with others when tensions run high. Whether…
It’s All Your Fault: High Conflict PeopleHoliday Harmony: Keeping The Peace at Family Celebrations
Keeping the Peace This Holiday Season Bill and Megan share tips for avoiding and defusing conflict at holiday gatherings. They offer insights from their work…
It’s All Your Fault: High Conflict PeoplePulling the Plug on a Hostile Conversation
Ending Hostile Conversations Bill and Megan share strategies for defusing tense conversations and exiting hostile interactions. They provide insights from the…