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The Backdoor Podcast
The Backdoor Podcast with Steph & Kayls is where no question is off-limits. The viral duo behind TikTok’s hit “question series” take their raw, hilarious chemistry to the mic — diving deep into relationships, social media, and the realities of being viral creators, parents, and OnlyFans personalities. Expect unfiltered conversations, hot takes, and the kind of honesty everyone thinks but never says. Because sometimes, the real talk happens through the backdoor. NEW episodes Monday & Thusdays.
Episodes
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The Things That Make Us Jealous But We're Too Afraid To Admit | Ep 92
In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast, we’re getting honest about the things that make us jealous but that we’re often too afraid, embarrassed, or insecure…
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The Bedroom Confessions Couples Avoid | Ep 91
The Bedroom Confessions Couples Avoid Some conversations are easy to have in a relationship, and others feel way too awkward to bring up — especially when it…
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The Kinks That People Hide | Ep 90
The Kinks That People Hide We’re getting into the kinks people secretly have but might be too embarrassed, nervous, or afraid of being judged to admit. From…
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The Things We Secretly Compare Our Partner Too | Ep 89
The Things We Secretly Compare Our Partner To We’re getting into the comparisons we make about our partners that we don’t always want to admit out loud. From…
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The Bedroom Habits That Make Someone More Attractive | Ep 88
In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast, we’re talking about the bedroom habits that can make someone more attractive and why the little things behind closed…
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The Things We Pretend Don't Hurt... But Actually Do | Ep 87
In this episode, we have an honest conversation about the things we tell ourselves don’t hurt—but actually do. We talk about the emotions we tend to minimize…
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Silent Turn On's For Women | Ep. 86
What actually makes a man attractive to women? In this episode, we're breaking down the silent turn-ons women notice that have nothing to do with looks. From…
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The Things We Do When We're Feeling Unloved | Ep. 85
The Things We Do When We're Feeling Unloved What happens when you start feeling like your partner doesn’t love you the way they used to? In this episode of The…
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Things We Judge Our Partners For But Not Ourselves | Ep. 84
Things We Judge Our Partners For But Not Ourselves | Ep. 81 Are we actually holding our partners to the same standards we hold ourselves to? In this episode of…
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Are We Actually Sexually Compatible? | Ep. 83
In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast, we dive into one of the biggest questions couples ask themselves: Are we actually sexually compatible? We discuss: •…
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Things Men Secretly Need But Rarely Admit | Ep. 82
Things Men Secretly Need But Rarely Admit | Ep. 82 What do men actually need in a relationship that they rarely say out loud? In this episode, we’re getting…
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What Your Partner Wishes You Knew But Will Never Tell You | Ep. 81
What Your Partner Wishes You Knew But Will Never Tell You There are probably things your partner wishes you understood without having to ask—but for one reason…
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The Relationship Double Standards We All Have.. | Ep. 80
The Relationship Double Standards We All Have We all have relationship standards—but are we actually willing to follow the same rules we expect from our…
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The Habits That Make Someone Fall Out Of Love | Ep. 79
The Habits That Make Someone Fall Out Of Love Falling out of love doesn't always happen because of one huge mistake. Sometimes, it's the small habits that…
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The Green Flags We Ignore.. | Ep. 78
The Green Flags We Ignore Everyone talks about red flags, but what about the green flags? In this episode, we shift the focus to the positive qualities that…
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Awkward Questions We Don't Ask Our Partners | Ep. 77
Awkward Questions We Don't Ask Our Partners Every relationship has uncomfortable conversations that somehow never happen. Whether it's out of fear…
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What's Something You'd Never Tell Your Partner | Ep. 76
What's Something You'd Never Tell Your Partner? Is complete honesty always the best policy, or are there some thoughts that are better left unsaid? In this…
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The Biggest Myths From Social Media | Ep. 75
The Biggest Myths From Social Media Social media is packed with advice, trends, and opinions—but how much of it is actually true? In this episode, we break…
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The Lies Social Media Tells Us About Relationships | Ep. 74
The Lies Social Media Tells Us About Relationships Social media has changed the way we view love, dating, and long-term relationships—but is it setting…
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The Relationship Dealbreakers That Aren't Obvious | Ep. 73
The Relationship Dealbreakers That Aren't Obvious When people think of relationship dealbreakers, they usually picture cheating, lying, or abuse—but what about…
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The Things We Never Thought We'd Argue About... | Ep. 72
The Things We Never Thought We'd Argue About... Every couple has those moments where you stop mid-argument and think, "How did we end up fighting about this?"…
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The Truth About Modern Dating | Ep. 71
Has dating actually gotten harder... or have the rules completely changed? In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast, we're unpacking the realities of modern…
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The Most Attractive Thing Someone Can Do That Has Nothing To Do With Looks | Ep. 70
What if the most attractive thing about someone has nothing to do with their appearance? In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast, we're diving into the…
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Our Followers Told Us The Icks Men And Women Have | Ep. 69
What gives people the biggest "ick" in a relationship? We asked our followers... and the responses did not disappoint. In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast…
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Things We Pretend Don't Affect Us... But Do | Ep. 68
We all have things we say "don't bother us"... until they slowly start changing how we feel. In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast, we're diving into the…
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Kinks We're Curious About... But Too Nervous To Admit | Ep. 67
How do you bring up something you've always been curious about without making it awkward? In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast, we're having an honest…
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Things We Secretly Test Our Partners On | Ep. 66
Have you ever "tested" your partner without them even realizing it? In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast, we're exposing the subtle ways men and women…
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Relationship Conversations We Avoid Until It's Too Late | Ep. 65
The hardest conversations in a relationship are often the ones that matter the most. In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast, we're talking about the important…
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The Relationship Standards We Have For Others But Not Ourselves | Ep. 64
We keep it honest, unfiltered, and real — the kind of conversations people usually have behind closed doors. WHAT WE COVER IN THIS EPISODE,The Relationship…
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The Little Lies Couple's Tell Eachother | Ep. 63
We keep it honest, unfiltered, and real. The kind of conversations people usually have behind closed doors. WHAT WE COVER IN THIS EPISODE ,The Little Lies…
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The Relationship Red Flags We Ignore Because We're Attracted | Ep. 62
We keep it honest, unfiltered, and real. the kind of conversations people usually have behind closed doors. WHAT WE COVER IN THIS EPISODE Red flags for men…
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The Truth About Why People Cheat | Ep. 61
In this episode of the backdoor podcast we talk about cheating. We dive into our opinion on cheating, the reason people do it and if a relationship can recover…
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Being Creators Together: The Relationship Side No One Sees | Ep. 60
What happens when your relationship becomes part of your business? In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast, we’re pulling back the curtain on what it’s really…
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The Things Couples Notice... But Pretend Don't Matter | Ep. 59
Every couple notices the little things… they just don’t always admit how much they actually matter. In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast, we’re talking…
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Watching Porn: Harmless or a Relationship Killer? | Ep. 58
In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast, we dive into one of the most debated topics in modern relationships: is watching porn harmless entertainment, or can…
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Why Couple Slowly Stop Sharing With Each Other | Ep. 57
In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast, we’re diving into the quiet shift that happens in many relationships — when couples slowly stop opening up, sharing…
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The Small Habits That Quietly Kill Attraction | Ep. 56
Attraction doesn’t disappear overnight… it fades through small habits most couples don’t even notice. In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast, we’re breaking…
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Would You Stay or Leave? Real Relationship Scenarios That Get Messy | Ep. 55
In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast, we react to messy real-life relationship scenarios and debate the ultimate question: would you stay or leave? From…
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How Money Affects Your Relationship and Lifestyle | Ep. 54
Money changes more than your bank account — it changes relationships, priorities, attraction, pressure, and the way people move through life. In this episode…
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What Women Feel... But Don't Know How To Explain | Ep. 53
Sometimes it’s not that women aren’t communicating… it’s that they don’t have the words for what they’re feeling yet. In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast…
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The Things That Make You Insecure... No One Admits | Ep. 52
Everyone has insecurities… they just don’t say them out loud. In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast, we’re getting real about the things that quietly make…
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Do We Ever Get Jealous? The Truth About Our Relationship | Ep. 51
Do we actually get jealous… or have we just learned how to handle it? In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast, we’re getting real about jealousy in our…
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What Onlyfans Actually Does to a Relationship | Ep. 50
What does being on OnlyFans really do to a relationship — beyond what people see online? In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast, we’re getting honest about…
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What Happens When You’re Not On The Same Level in The Bedroom | Ep. 49
What happens when you and your partner aren’t on the same page in the bedroom? In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast, we’re diving into the reality of…
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From Parents to Onlyfans: The Reality No One Talks About | Ep. 48
What’s it really like balancing parenthood… and a life most people don’t openly talk about? In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast, we’re getting honest about…
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Spicy vs Intimate: Why Most Couples Lose One Over Time | Ep. 47
Why does the passion fade… or the emotional connection start to feel distant? In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast, we’re breaking down the difference…
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The Things We'd NEVER Admit... But All Couples Do | Ep. 46
Every couple has things they do… but would never openly admit. In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast, we’re getting real about the habits, thoughts, and…
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The Truth About How Men Really Think | Ep. 45
How do men actually think in relationships… and why does it feel so different from women? In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast, we’re breaking down the real…
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When Love Is Still There… But Something Changed | Ep. 44
Every relationship has a moment where something shifts… and nothing feels the same after. In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast, we’re talking about the…
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The Effort Gap.. When 1 Person Cares More | Ep. 43
What happens when it starts to feel like you’re the only one trying? In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast, we’re diving into the effort gap — that…
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The Biggest Relationship Issue That No One Talks About... | Ep.42
It’s not cheating. It’s not constant fighting. It’s something quieter… and way more common. In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast, we’re unpacking the…
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The Unspoken Expectations In A Relationship... | Ep. 41
Most relationship problems don’t start with what was said… they start with what was never said at all. In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast, we’re breaking…
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Are We Fighting… Or Just Misunderstanding Each Other? | Ep. 40
Are most relationship fights actually about the problem… or about misunderstanding each other? In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast, we’re breaking down why…
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Things Men Notice… But Never Say | Ep. 39
**Audio got distorted, work with us ️ In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast, we’re pulling back the curtain on the subtle things men pay attention to in…
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The Silent Scoreboard Men Keep In Relationships | Ep. 38
Ever feel like you’re doing more in the relationship… but no one’s saying it out loud? In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast, we’re talking about the “silent…
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The Things That Slowly Turn Us Off | Ep. 37
Attraction rarely disappears overnight — it fades through small habits most couples don’t even realize they’re doing. In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast…
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Why Men Pull Away | Ep. 36
Why do men suddenly become distant — even when the relationship seems good? In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast, we’re breaking down the real reasons men…
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Things Women Wish Men Knew | Ep.35
What do women constantly try to explain… but feel like men still don’t fully understand? In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast, we’re breaking down the…
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Guys Bedroom Secrets Exposed | Ep. 34
What are men really thinking in the bedroom… but rarely say out loud? In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast, we’re exposing the unfiltered truths about male…
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What Men Wish Women Knew | Ep. 33
What do men really wish women understood about them — but rarely say out loud? In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast, we’re breaking down the honest truths…