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The Art of Charm
Explore social skills like charisma, confidence, body language and conversation. On The Art of Charm, co-founders AJ Harbinger and Johnny Dzubak break down the science of human behavior into practical skills, from owning a room and reading people to making a first impression and building real connection. Short Social Intelligence Briefings focus on one skill in about 15 minutes, and long-form interviews go deep with experts such as Joe Navarro, Chris Voss and Vanessa Van Edwards on body…
Episodes
The Art of CharmFan Mail Friday #73 | Why Don't I Want to Hire You?
Time for Fan Mail Friday, where we'll be answering your questions and dropping some knowledge and feedback to help you kick the weekend off right. Let's cut to…
The Art of CharmHow to Negotiate | Chris Voss
Chris Voss (@VossNegotiation) is a former FBI hostage negotiator and author of Never Split the Difference: Negotiating as If Your Life Depended on It. He joins…
The Art of Charm533: Carmen Simon | Impossible to Ignore
Carmen Simon (@areyoumemorable) is a cognitive scientist specializing in neuroscience research and how we can use memory to have a positive impact on other…
The Art of CharmMinisode Monday #11 | How to Tell If Your Network Is Too Dense
Welcome to the 11th episode of Minisode Monday! We keep finding so many useful tactics and tips that we want to share with you, but they don't fit into the…
The Art of CharmFan Mail Friday #72 | Endocrine Disrupting Atheists
Time for Fan Mail Friday, where we'll be answering your questions and dropping some knowledge and feedback to help you kick the weekend off right. Let's cut to…
The Art of Charm532: David Burkus | Under New Management
David Burkus (@davidburkus) makes it easier for good ideas to leave the ivory tower of academia and get adopted by the people in the corner office who need it…
The Art of Charm531: Michael Shermer | Why We Believe Weird Things
Michael Shermer (@michaelshermer) is the founder of Skeptic magazine and several books on the nature of belief. He's the Director of The Skeptics Society, a…
The Art of CharmMinisode Monday #10 | Compassion for Cretins
Welcome to the 10th episode of Minisode Monday! We keep finding so many useful tactics and tips that we want to share with you, but they don't fit into the…
The Art of CharmFan Mail Friday #71 | Like a Neckbeard Champion
Time for Fan Mail Friday, where we'll be answering your questions and dropping some knowledge and feedback to help you kick the weekend off right. Let's cut to…
The Art of Charm530: Jo Marchant | Cure
Jo Marchant (@JoMarchant) is a science journalist and author -- her new book is Cure: A Journey into the Science of Mind over Body. The Cheat Sheet: Understand…
The Art of Charm529: Jonah Berger | Invisible Influence
Jonah Berger (@j1berger) has spent over 15 years studying how social influence works and how it drives products and ideas to catch on. He's a marketing…
The Art of CharmMinisode Monday #9 | Gut Decision Vs. Making up Your Mind
Welcome to the ninth episode of Minisode Monday! We keep finding so many useful tactics and tips that we want to share with you, but they don't fit into the…
The Art of CharmFan Mail Friday #70 | Reverse Culture Shock
Time for Fan Mail Friday, where we'll be answering your questions and dropping some knowledge and feedback to help you kick the weekend off right. Let's cut to…
The Art of Charm528: Michelle Lederman | Nail the Interview
Michelle Lederman (@mtlederman) rejoins the show to discuss her recent book Nail the Interview, Land the Job: A Step-by-Step Guide for What to Do Before…
The Art of CharmMinisode Monday #8 | Forthright with Faults
Welcome to the eighth episode of Minisode Monday! We keep finding so many useful tactics and tips that we want to share with you, but they don't fit into the…
The Art of CharmFan Mail Friday #69 | Are Schools for Fools?
Time for Fan Mail Friday, where we'll be answering your questions and dropping some knowledge and feedback to help you kick the weekend off right. Let's cut to…
The Art of Charm526: Angela Duckworth | Grow Your Grit
Angela Duckworth (@angeladuckw) is a professor of psychology at the University of Pennsylvania, founder of the non-profit Character Lab, and author of Grit…
The Art of Charm525: Jason McCarthy | Charming the Snake
Jason McCarthy (@GORUCK) teaches lessons focused on problem solving and rapport building related to "Charming the Snake," a way of life for Green Berets that…
The Art of CharmMinisode Monday #7 | Kindness and Giving
Welcome to the seventh episode of Minisode Monday! If You're so Smart, Why Aren't You Happy? author and recent guest Raj Raghunathan joins us to talk about the…
The Art of CharmFan Mail Friday #68 | Don't Call Me a Solopreneur
Time for Fan Mail Friday, where we'll be answering your questions and dropping some knowledge and feedback to help you kick the weekend off right. Let's cut to…
The Art of Charm524: Amy Herman | Visual Intelligence
Amy Herman (@AmyHermanAOP) helps people from across the professional spectrum enhance their observation and perception skills by learning to look at works of…
The Art of Charm523: General Michael Hayden | Playing to the Edge
General Michael Hayden (@GenMhayden) is a retired United States Air Force general, former Director of the NSA and CIA, and author of Playing to the Edge…
The Art of CharmMinisode Monday #6 | You're Not Alone In Loneliness
Welcome to the sixth episode of Minisode Monday! We keep finding so many useful tactics and tips that we want to share with you, but they don't fit into the…
The Art of CharmFan Mail Friday #67 | A Face for Podcasting
Time for Fan Mail Friday, where we'll be answering your questions and dropping some knowledge and feedback to help you kick the weekend off right. Let's cut to…
The Art of Charm522: Tim Urban | Wait But Why
Tim Urban (@waitbutwhy) of Wait But Why tells us how to build good patterns for defeating chronic procrastination and gain control over our own lives. The…
The Art of Charm521: Jocko Willink | Extreme Ownership
Jocko Willink (@jockowillink), commander for the most highly decorated special operations unit of the Iraq War, joins the show to talk about taking…
The Art of CharmMinisode Monday #5 | Testing Our Assumptions
Welcome to the fifth episode of Minisode Monday, where we'll talk about testing our assumptions! We keep finding so many useful tactics and tips that we want…
The Art of CharmFan Mail Friday #66 | Unfriending In Real Life
Time for Fan Mail Friday, where we'll be answering your questions and dropping some knowledge and feedback to help you kick the weekend off right. Let's cut to…
The Art of Charm520: Hines Ward | Do the Dirty Work
Hines Ward (@mvp86hinesward) is a two-time Super Bowl champion and MVP of Super Bowl XL. He joins us to talk about how, in spite of just turning 40, he's just…
The Art of Charm519: Ryan Holiday | Ego Is the Enemy
Ryan Holiday (@ryanholiday), author of Ego Is the Enemy, talks about how learning to put our higher goals above a desire for recognition leads us to true…
The Art of CharmMinisode Monday #4 | Never Too Late to Be Grateful
Welcome to the fourth episode of Minisode Monday! We keep finding so many useful tactics and tips that we want to share with you, but they don't fit into the…
The Art of CharmFan Mail Friday #65 | Sex and the Single Superhero
Time for Fan Mail Friday, where we'll be answering your questions and dropping some knowledge and feedback to help you kick the weekend off right. Kimberly…
The Art of Charm518: Raj Raghunathan | If You're so Smart, Why Aren't You Happy?
Raj Raghunathan (@Rajadon), author of If You're so Smart, Why Aren't You Happy?, examines why happiness often eludes us in all walks of life -- no matter how…
The Art of Charm517: Adam Grant | Originals Move the World
Adam Grant (@AdamMGrant), author of Originals: How Non-Conformists Move the World, revisits the show to explain how defying conformity gives us the power to…
The Art of CharmMinisode Monday #3 | Nonverbal Communication for Travelers
Welcome to the third episode of Minisode Monday! We keep finding so many useful tactics and tips that we want to share with you, but they don't fit into the…
The Art of CharmFan Mail Friday #64 | Paralysis By Analysis
Time for Fan Mail Friday, where we'll be answering your questions and dropping some knowledge and feedback to help you kick the weekend off right. Let's cut to…
The Art of Charm516: Rob Norman | Improvising Now
Rob Norman (@robthenorman), co-host of The Backline podcast and author of Improvising Now, explains how we can use techniques from improvisational theater to…
The Art of Charm515: Cal Newport | Deep Work
Cal Newport revisits the show to talk about deep work and how focus can make you not only more productive and effective, but happier and more neurologically…
The Art of CharmMinisode Monday #2 | Reading People Quickly
Welcome to the second episode of Minisode Monday! We keep finding so so many useful tactics and tips that we want to share with you, but they don't fit into…
The Art of CharmFan Mail Friday #63 | Lady Boner Killer
Time for Fan Mail Fridays, where we'll be answering your questions and dropping some knowledge and feedback to help you kick the weekend off right. In this…
The Art of Charm514: Sam Harris | The Anti-Trump
Sam Harris (@samharrisorg) is a neuroscientist, author, and philosopher; he's also a staunch critic of religion (while being an advocate of mindfulness) who…
The Art of Charm513: Dr. Anders Ericsson | Science of Expertise
Dr. Anders Ericsson (@PeakTheBook) is the expert in finding out what it takes to become an expert. Here, he discusses Peak: Secrets from the New Science of…
The Art of CharmMinisode Monday #1 | Taming Negative Emotional Biases
Welcome to the first episode of Minisode Monday! We keep finding so so many useful tactics and tips that we want to share with you, but they don't fit into the…
The Art of CharmFan Mail Friday #62 | Red Flag Dads and Fowl Obstructions
Time for Fan Mail Fridays, where we'll be answering your questions and dropping some knowledge and feedback to help you kick the weekend off right. In this…
The Art of Charm512: Linda Carroll | Lasting Love
Linda Carroll (@Lovecycleslinda), therapist and author of Love Cycles: The Five Essential Stages of Lasting Love, revisits the show to discuss how we can…
The Art of Charm511: Dr. Melanie Watkins | Your Mental Health First
Dr. Melanie Watkins (@MWatkinsMD) is a psychiatrist who emphasizes the importance of making mental health a priority by minimizing the mystery -- and sometimes…
The Art of CharmFan Mail Friday #61 | Shocked!
Time for Fan Mail Fridays, where we'll be answering your questions and dropping some knowledge and feedback to help you kick the weekend off right. In this…
The Art of Charm510: AmyK Hutchens | The Secrets Leaders Keep
AmyK Hutchens (@AmyKHutchens), author of The Secrets Leaders Keep: Insightful Stories And Provocative Questions That Unlock The Hidden Secrets To Winning Big…
The Art of Charm509: Duana Welch | The Evolution of Love
Dr. Duana Welch (@duanawelch), author of Love Factually: 10 Proven Steps from I Wish to I Do, rejoins us to discuss the evolution of love. The Cheat Sheet…
The Art of CharmFan Mail Friday #60 | Scent of Single
Time for Fan Mail Fridays, where we'll be answering your questions and dropping some knowledge and feedback to help you kick the weekend off right. In this…
The Art of Charm508: Dan Millman | The Four Purposes of Life
Dan Millman (@pwdan) revisits the show to talk about his newly updated book The Four Purposes of Life: Finding Meaning and Direction in a Changing World. The…
The Art of Charm507: Kimberly Seltzer | Body Image and Confidence
Kimberly Seltzer (@SeltzerKimberly) returns to the show to share her formula for creating and maintaining a confident body image based on the body we have over…
The Art of CharmFan Mail Friday #59 | The Peer Pressure of Wall Street and Drugs
Time for Fan Mail Fridays, where we'll be answering your questions and dropping some knowledge and feedback to help you kick the weekend off right. In this…
The Art of Charm506: Neil Pasricha | The Happiness Equation
Neil Pasricha (@1000Awesome), author of The Happiness Equation, shares counterintuitive and practical happiness hacks to help us elevate ourselves into greater…
The Art of Charm505: Karen Baetzel | BattleAxe Consulting
Karen Baetzel (@BattleAxe57) started BattleAxe Consulting to sharpen leaders -- for work and for life -- through experiential and multi-channel training using…
The Art of CharmFan Mail Friday #58 | Take a Chance on You
Time for Fan Mail Fridays, where we'll be answering your questions and dropping some knowledge and feedback to help you kick the weekend off right. In this…
The Art of Charm504: Kira Asatryan | Stop Being Lonely
Kira Asatryan (@KiraAsatryan) discusses the epidemic of loneliness felt by modern Americans -- millennials in particular -- and how it can be countered by…
The Art of Charm503: Kimberly Seltzer | Top 5 Mistakes Women Make When Trying to Attract a Man
Kimberly Seltzer (@SeltzerKimberly) is a dating and makeover expert who draws upon her experience as a therapist for an inside-out approach to helping people…
The Art of CharmFan Mail Friday #57 | Social Performance Anxiety
Time for Fan Mail Fridays, where we'll be answering your questions and dropping some knowledge and feedback to help you kick the weekend off right. In this…
The Art of Charm502: Bert Jacobs | Life is Good
Bert Jacobs (@Lifeisgood) is co-founder and CEO (Chief Executive Optimist) of The Life is Good Company, which spreads the power of optimism through inspiring…