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Queering the Field
Coming to you from West Hollywood California, welcome to Queering the Field, a show where a very queer and a very much in love married couple answer your questions about love, sex, queerness, kink, polyamory/non-monogamy, and why choosing to find joy at this moment in time is more than just a good time, it's life saving. Nālani Santiago (they/them) has been an enthusiast of, advocate for, and an educator of healthy, fulfilling, and shame-free sex and sexual expression since 1995. Erin (she/her)…
Episodes
Queering the FieldStealth Mode, Slap Happens & Finding Your Poly-People
This week on Queering the Field, we're getting into the complicated, the kinky, and the delightfully non-monogamous! Erin and Nālani tackle three listener…
Queering the FieldSoft Doms, Poly Problems, & Not All Queers Spaces are Safe
Soft Doms, Dating Droughts & Drag Show Drama What happens when dating apps are full of mysterious Doms, your partner finds love while you're stuck in a dating…
Queering the FieldGood Doms, Fabulous Tits & Questionable Relationships
This week on Queering the Field, Erin and Nālani are serving up BDSM aftercare, gender euphoria, and a little polyamorous relationship drama—with a side of hot…
Queering the FieldDecoding Doms, Baby Queers and Deathbed Polycalypse
Queerly in Love — Episode 16 This week on Queerly in Love, Erin and Nālani tackle three questions involving kinky first dates, queer identity, and the…
Queering the FieldTestosterone, Temptation & Trouble
This week on Queerly in Love, Erin and Nālani dive into kink compromises, hormonal hijinks, and polyamorous plot twists. In other words: just another perfectly…
Queering the FieldKinky Bottoms, Tiny Thongs & Big Relationship Problems
Domming, Tucking & Relationship Nuclear Options 💥 This week on Queerly in Love, Erin and Nālani tackle tops, tucks, and troublesome twosomes. We’ve got a kinky…
Queering the FieldPaddles, Praise, & Poly Power Struggles
This week on Queerly in Love, Erin and Nālani tackle three very different questions about sex, relationships, and navigating the wonderfully complicated world…
Queering the FieldDon’t Lie, Don’t Out, Don’t Collar!
Queerly in Love — Episode 12 💕🏳️🌈 Lies, Allies & Collars, Oh My! 😈 This week on Queerly in Love, Erin and Nālani tackle three questions that prove once again…
Queering the FieldTrans Validation, Total Domination & Third-Wheel Drama
💕 Queerly in Love — Episode 11 Show Notes 😷 Masc Appeal, 🔥 Total Power Exchange & 💔 When the Third Wheel Goes Off the Rails This week on Queerly in Love, Erin…
Queering the FieldPenis Atrophy, Pondering Partners and a Subpar Sir
Queerly in Love — Episode 10 Penis atrophy, polyamory, and BDSM as a path toward healing? Oh my! This week on *Queerly in Love*, Erin and Nalani tackle three…
Queering the FieldOrgy Approved Gaming Console, Gender Affirming Masturbation and DIY Dungeon
Queerly in Love — Episode 9 Show Notes Episode Overview This week on Queerly in Love, Erin Mohr and Nalani Santiago tackle questions about making kink work in…
Queering the FieldRelationships Are Weird as Hell
Queerly in Love — Episode 8 Episode Overview This week on Queerly in Love, Erin and Nālani tackle jealousy, kink, virginity, forever fantasies, friendship, and…
Queering the FieldKinky Asexuals, Pretransition Dysphoria and Sub Drop
Is BDSM all about sex? Would it be weird or intrusive of me to go to a BDSM dungeon looking to be tied up in a non-sexual way, just to see how it felt? BDSM is…
Queering the FieldWhat's Your Poly Preferance and Am I Transgender?
Erin Mohr and Nālani Santiago help a listener decide their polyamory style and answer the question "Am I Trans?" Why do people choose ENM? It’s different for…
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Gatekeeping in the Queer Community and Sex Work as a Fetish
This week we've got a queer confused community and examine a sex work obsession. Coming to you from West Hollywood California, welcome to Queerly in Love, a…
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Mommy Doms, Why Date Men and the Ethics of Ethical Non-Monogamy
This week we're talking about mommy vs daddy doms, the ethics of ethical non-monogomy and we answer the age old question "why date men?" Coming to you from…
Queering the FieldThrouple Trouble, Badmouthing Bi Boys and An Analysis of Anilingus
This week we're theorizing throuples, dissecting bi boys and analyzing analingus. First up, the trouble with throuples.Coming to you from West Hollywood…
Queering the FieldTrans Chasers, Distance Domination and Poly Pandering Partners
This week we're chatting trans chasers and a poly pandering partner. But our first question is about domination from a distance. Coming to you from West…
Queering the FieldBrats, Crying During Sex and Comparing Partners in Poly Relationships
This week we're discussing the dynamics of bratty behavior, crying during sex and comparing partners in poly relationships. Coming to you from West Hollywood…