Testosterone, Temptation & Trouble

Queering the Field · Oct 1, 2026 · 26m

This week on Queerly in Love, Erin and Nālani dive into kink compromises, hormonal hijinks, and polyamorous plot twists. In other words: just another perfectly normal day in queer relationships. 😈

First, they tackle a listener whose partner wants a vanilla relationship while they still have a serious hankering for kink. Can you keep the love while finding a way to keep the kinky? And if your partner doesn't want to participate, is there a way to get your needs met without opening the relationship?

Then, a 24-year-old trans man wonders whether starting testosterone might change his kinky…