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Unsolicited Advice from a Nobody
Unsolicited life advice from a certified nobody. I’m Sonia Viteri – Ecuadorian-born, world-lived, multilingual mother of two with zero official qualifications in psychology and way too much experience in real life. If you’re tired, overloaded, questioning your choices and secretly hoping someone will say the thing everyone else avoids, you’re in the right place. No gurus. No five-step systems. Just honest, slightly sarcastic reflections on relationships, motherhood, living abroad, self-worth…
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Till Death…
Two little words we usually associate with love and promises. But what if they have absolutely nothing to do with that… and everything to do with it? It all…
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No! Please don't take it personally.
Two letters. One syllable. Almost fifty years to figure out how to use it. NO. For most of my life, I’ve been the person who says yes. Yes, I’ll help. Yes…
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The Nobody Who Just Wanted to Dance
What happens when something you love doing quietly becomes a much bigger part of your life? For me, it started long before Zumba. It started with a…
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Excuse Me, Where Did I Go?
Have you ever looked at your life and thought… wait, where the hell did I go? I started writing this episode in the middle of the night in Corfu, surrounded by…
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The Beautiful Art of Rejection
What if rejection isn’t something to fear… but something to understand? In this episode, I look back at the moments in my life that began with a simple “no.” A…
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Love: I Don’t Believe in “The One”
Do I believe in soulmates? Not exactly. In this deeply personal episode of Unsolicited Advice from a Nobody (UAFAN), I share my journey through first kisses…
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The Friends Who Built Me
Friendship means something different to everyone, but when I look back at my life, I realize I remember it through people more than anything else. In this…
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Permission to Feel
This episode wasn’t planned. It was necessary. In this deeply personal episode, I talk about the emotional cost of constantly trying to become “something”…
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That One Night in Jail
I’ve never told this story before. Not to friends. Not publicly. But today, someone used that moment against me… and I realized it was time to finally say it…
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The Art of Traveling: Finding Myself in Every Place
Every time I travel, I discover something about myself…sometimes something new, and sometimes something I didn’t even realize I had forgotten. In this episode…
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Where Am I From? It’s Not That Simple
Where are you from?Sounds like a simple question… until it’s not.In this episode of Unsolicited Advice from a Nobody, I take you through my journey from…
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Motherhood: I Waited 39 Years for This… Nobody Mentioned This Part
I waited 39 years to become a mother, so by the time my first baby arrived I thought I was prepared.I had done the research, listened to everyone’s advice, and…
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When You’re Not the First, You Learn to Be Different
In this episode of Unsolicited Advice from a Nobody, I go back before moving forward. Before the independence. Before the questionable decisions. Before the…
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From Mamacita to Mommy (that sometimes looks more like a Mummie)
There was a time I left my house at 11pm in high heels. Now I wake up at 6am in sneakers packing snack boxes. In this deeply personal episode of Unsolicited…
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So… What Do I Do, Exactly? | Career Detours, Impostor Syndrome & Becoming
Every time someone asks me “So… what do you do?” I pause.Not because I haven’t worked — but because the answer depends on which version of me you’re asking…
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From Nobody to Somebody to Nobody Again: Moving Countries & Rebuilding Myself
Have you ever changed countries, jobs, or lives… and suddenly felt like you had to start over as a completely different version of yourself? In this episode, I…
Unsolicited Advice from a NobodyThe Hall of Shame: Pool Chaos, Bad Wipes & Sauna Confusion
Ever get hit with a random memory and instantly want to relocate? Same. In this episode, I’m taking you through my personal Cringe Chronicles: a very public…
Unsolicited Advice from a NobodyThe Art of Messy First Times
If you still cringe about something you did 20 years ago, this one’s for you. In this episode, I talk about some of my most unforgettable “first times”: my…
Unsolicited Advice from a NobodyWho Gave This Nobody a Microphone?
In this very first episode of Unnecessary Advice from a Nobody, I finally answer the question:Who am I, and why on earth am I giving advice? I’m Sonia – a…