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Are You a People Pleaser? Or Were You Taught to Be Overly Considerate? | Thinking Out Loud
EP32: Are You Really a People Pleaser?
What if you’re not “naturally” a people pleaser at all—just someone who was trained to be overly considerate at your own expense? In this episode of Thinking Out Loud, Kimberly explores how compliance, self-erasure, and hyper-consideration often get mislabeled as kindness or “being a good person,” when they’re actually unfinished development and survival strategies.
She unpacks how many of us learned that being easy, agreeable, and low-maintenance was the safest way to be loved—and how that blurs the line between genuine kindness and disappearing inside…
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