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Flakey Gays: Why is Follow-Through So Hard?

The guy who constantly cancels plans, keeps things vague, or disappears when something better comes along — that’s flakiness: a pattern of not following through.

In a culture of endless options and shifting feelings, has unreliability quietly become normal? And what does that actually say about us?

In this off-the-cuff episode, we talk about:

What flakiness actually is — and what it isn’t

The difference between boundaries and excuses

Common avoidance patterns in dating and friendships

Why keeping your word is about more than just social plans

What it really means to be a reliable man

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