When You’re 64: Building the Marriage You’ll Want in Retirement

Doing Marriage Well · Mar 5, 2026 · 2m · transcript

This episode explores how to build the marriage you want in retirement by investing in your relationship now. Using The Beatles' "When I'm 64" as a prompt, Paul explains why coasting in busy midlife years can leave couples feeling like roommates and offers a clear call to stay connected, prioritise intimacy, and keep talking. Practical suggestions include cultivating shared interests, planning simple joint activities, saving for shared dreams, and making everyday togetherness a priority so your marriage feels alive when you’re older. When I’m Sixty-Four