Hidden Assumptions That Are Hurting Your Marriage

Doing Marriage Well · Sep 29, 2026 · 2m · transcript

This episode explores common hidden assumptions that damage marriages—assuming agreement when a spouse is silent, expecting consistent feelings over time, judging based on mood, letting insecurity color perceptions, projecting your reactions onto your partner, and assuming intent behind hurtful actions.

Paul offers practical reminders to check assumptions by asking questions, opening communication, and recognizing that partners change and process things differently, encouraging couples to replace guessing with honest conversation.